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EASYGURU:
Alas I went for tokumbo. Bought four tokumbo already. Thanks alot guys, I really appreciate the kind efforts and time out together in sharing your experience and advise.

Onuahia:
Hello guys! Please I will need your advice on this.

I just finished my Nysc and have some money on me which I saved during this time and want to invest it properly.

I’m thinking of going into transport and sienna 2003 model is what my budget can get.

Please advise me. Is there hope in this business and would I be able to recover my money and make gains? Then how long.

What are the challenges in this business?

I don’t know how to drive so I will find somebody that will run it.

Please advise me on this if you have experience in this business. Thanks.

obembet:
Most men don't understand that A woman's need for tender moments goes beyond the actual lovemaking.

Some men don't even know how to care for woman after having quality time. A friend of also complain that her man falls asleep immediately after the act. I know that when a man is having sex, his endorphin level is very high. But what Man need to understand what woman need after love making.

To me, I see it as wickedness.

Romanoff:
One of the things I hate in a lady is the beezz that they just put outside for the whole world to see.

Unless you're breastfeeding in public, this is distasteful.

APC2:
Greetings nairalanders,
I need your advice regarding this issue:
I set up a new business that cost me millions of naira and I told my wife to write application letter and submit to me so that I can employ her to manage the business, she refused. She said she will not write any application letter and will not collect any appointment letter from me to work in my establishment. She just want to be in charge of the business without any formal documents.

I have told her that I will employ another person if she did not want to pass through the process of formal employment. My wife is not working and she is in 300 Level in a Federal university. She is not serious with her studies, having carry overs every semester. I'm the one sponsoring her education.

I am thinking of informing her brother that if her sister did not write application letter and pass through formal employment procedures, I will employ another lady and will not be responsible for the social needs of my wife. I will only give her money for transportation to school and not for birthdays of her friends and the unnecessary visitations she always do to relatives houses.

I can't trust my wife with any of my businesses without formal documents. She may one day claim she is the owner.

What do you think?

irunoko:
Lol.

On'pe

What were they all expecting before? Tobi beauty queen wey dey fight like street babe while Ashley chattered accountant wey dey lousy

They all deserve the mad house.ooni don carry agberos enter palace, let the music begin

God save naomi say she japa on time.them for gather beat am to death or high blood pressure for kill am

I even heard from an ifa scholar that the king is entitled to four hundred and something wives.i cant remember in particular so ooni never even start to dey marry.at least them never reach 50


He go touch all the 36 states and 774 Local governments

DamnnNiggarr:
My wife says– No family planning, No sex.
for the past four months, my wife has been mounting series of pressures on me concerning family planning and I kept on ignoring her, but these past weeks, she has shown me what shege really looks like.

Up to three weeks, my wife has denied me access to her sacred part, insisting on her "No family planning, No sex" rule, anytime a tried to make love to her.

I've Three(3) beautiful Angels with her and my last child clocked 4 Years old. She said, she's not ready for another child despite our last child who's our only daughter being 4yrs old and my second son is 6, while my eldest child is 10years( that's 4 years gap). she said she's done with giving birth.

I got the shock of my life this night, that she asked me to go and get c*ndoms, if I want to have my way to her sacred part or otherwise we visit the doctor for counseling or do the family planning, reason why I picked up my phone to write this. I'm fed up because I don't subscribe to this idea of family planning or anything related to it, due to it's several after effects.

But it seems like she's winning, but either ways, I would sincerely like to see some opinions from here before going to see the doctor whether to give in to her request or not.

Please assist me for wider audience.

Wizywiz:
you have limited options bro....that girl can even stab you or burn down your property and you inside....I use to have an ex like that years back....I had to change location and number even refused disclosing my location to family members so she won't pass through them.... initially I felt good and happy with it..but with time my brother na serious wahala....she once broke bottle on a girl just because she saw the girl standing and gisting with me...funny enough she was financially boyant than me than...but the obsession is not something you play with...pls handle diplomatically..and mind you...no bother about if she go kill herself...save urs first

TheOldGods:
About 7 months ago, I made a post about this same girl, I'm surprised I'm asking a post after 7 months about the same person. You can read the previous here https://www.nairaland.com/7055144/today-very-strict-girlfriend-she#111512808

Here is the new story.

We have been dating for up to 10 months now, within these months I've not been myself, at first I thought it was love, then insecurities, and obsession. The problem is the girl is very supportive and very manipulative too. She always dares me that she will kill herself if she wants to see me and I don't show up. Infact, about
Some weeks ago, she came to my house by 12am midnight, she is fond of coming very late at night to my house and will start crying that she will get robbed for me to open the gate and let her in. This is a dangerous thing, and the way I'm hiding my life sef, it could also be a disaster for me. I warned her upto 3 times before I took my decision.

That very day she called me by 12 am as usual that she was outside my gate. I told her to go back home. She refused and stood there till 1am. This girl came to my WhatsApp and told me she will kill herself if I don't come outside that she is with sniper. I told her fine, she can do that. When she saw how serious I was, she gave out my number to the bolt guy, who kept calling me. All I know was I closed my eyes and it was morning. I'm sure she called the bolt guy back to pick her up.

The other day which was some months ago, I told her I was having a meeting with a friend. On getting there she started calling me, and asking me to do video call, I told her young lady I'm in a meeting. After series of calls from her and me rejection it, or getting my phone on silent, she chatted on WhatsApp. Started acting all nice and asked me where I was in particular, with clear mind I told her. But that was a mistake, it was about 10 am then, and getting a taxi was hard, did you know this girl drove to the place I was having meeting, then hide under my car, my car was packed near a bush, this girl stood there, snake or even scorpions could have gotten to her. She waited untill I came out, I was shocked, when she discovered I was with a guy and two girls, she didn't know what to say. I felt so angry that I almost left her there. It's crazy now, cause I don't think this is love anymore, I have tried to discharge myself from her, but this girl is a devil. She begs my mum, my sister, my cousin, gives my number to everyone to beg me. Now everyone always begs me. How can move out from this girl without hurting her. Last time I told her it was over, after 1 week she called and said she is changed, Infact she is the sweetest woman I can have now etc. Very manipulative, shedding crocodile tears but hurting me deeply. Infact I used to earn over 3000$ a month, but after I started dating this girl I can hardly see 1000$ if not struggle, and my clients suddenly started ghosting me. Lost a contract of over 50k$. I just keep having this spirit that she has a very negative impact in my life, but I don't want to believe another human being can be a cause of someone's misfortune.

Guys I need help. How can I leave this girl without making her wanting to kill herself, although I want to believe it's all mouth, but I don't want to gamble it too.

kingreign:
Sheep urine, heifer dung, raw egg, cover it with an air tight cloth or shower cap for 3 days, it stimulate the hair follicles to grow faster and the hair to grow thicker and healthier

aidameoryou:
All these oyibo companies that use their big trolley ships to fish has finished the crab.
If na naija now, some brainwashed individual here on nairaland will begin to exclaim how we kill everything for food.

One catch with those their big ships will cover wetin local fishermen don fish for 10years

Badguy77:
Can you imagine what a spokesman is saying? This fo.ol just shot athifku in the leg

OgaDeyVex:
Oga Dey Vex, Is Tired Of Publishing Bad News

Robinmido:
How can someone acquire 50,000 hectares of land without paying any dime? The story no clear

ipobarecriminals:
nor be dis man Guyman AlexR scammed that election period


RIP mama