₦airaland Forum

PantShifter:
I understand the point she's making

That time of understanding has past, in the 50s,60s, 70s, until the 90s we will understand her but not anymore.

Women always say men are cheats but whenever DNA is mentioned they start blowing hot, what does that tell you?

DNA testing is going to that point where it will be done before a man signs on the birth certificate of the child.. If thesame DNA testing is required for traveling she will oblige without questioning the issue of trust to the embassy. When a lady tells me her blood group is AA i should take it hook line and sinker and not do w confirmatory test because o trust her. Those days are gone, there is more on the line for hik to loose than to just trust a woman and assume alll is well even when there may be signs of cracks

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

You think you are in USA or UK? This is Nigeria and nothing of such can happen unless the man doesn't want the child. You did be joking to think you can just elope without consequences. Understand, most of the men who don't go the extra mile to ensure a woman is held accountable for joint custody is because they just want their peace of mind, in Africa especially Nigeria any man who wants custody of the child has it whether through legal means or through the means the lady wants to use.

Trust and you are having Paternity fraudsters everywhere. All those paternity fraudsters weren't they trusted? Dey play, no go close yiur legs ipen am wide for all dick and harry and then talk about trust.

Meridain:
Probably bad angles on her photo 😂

That's not her pic...

UltraSolid:
You people should stop lying to yourselves saying "Nigerian girls". Those who know Ghana, and have integrity, will admit the specific ethnic group of the ladies who are engaged in prostitution in Ghana. Call a spade a spade please.

Good morning Bigot Nairaland chapter

Karleb:
All these predetermined Red pill answers.

Top 1 percent? Already 30+. Like say we don't have lots of ladies below 30 doing well financially.


We find it easy to blame women but truth is, majority of men in Nigeria are so poor the only thing they have to offer in a relationship is money and when the woman has it, she's not appealing to him.

No be for this Nigeria men dey pay monthly salary inside relationships.

If we as men cannot sit down, introspect and change our ways. Then no wahala.

Keep blaming hypergamy. Like say na only Nigeria hypergamy dey.

Who is talking of redpill? Have you ever seen me commenting on issues about redpil Black pill or a orange pill? I don't do herd mentality whatsoever i deem fit is what i apply..

Yiu are s bit delusional not to know that a large chunk if women doing well for themselves are 30+ of years, check out the data around you, you can even lookup to millionaires around your family, community, universities alumni and confirm this. Only a small percentage if women in their 20s ate actually doing so well especially in the environments we find ourselves

You are talking of majority if men been so poor and the last time i check men are still way more wealthier than women in Nigeria so what are you talking about?

Go and have that check on yourself, a society where you aren't rated by your personality but by how you can raise someone out of poverty is bound to have so many issues.

Eteka1:
Wike is a good man

What makes him good? Collecting ricers state land and building hyperciity? Or digging deep into rivers state treasury? Abeg shift Mr. Psychophant.

oz4real83:
Despite the high level of inflation, no telecom operator is declaring end of year losses, all of them are still declaring extra high profit margins, this shows that this increase is not justified, just another way to instill more sufferings on Nigerians

Their subscriber base is increasing exponentially that's why

Karleb:
The truth is, some men have phobia for women who are financial okay.

It's not that they are afraid of talking to them or dating them, the thing is like tribalism but for financially independent women.

We can deny it all we want but it's true.

I wasn't 100 percent sure of this until like 2 weeks ago.

Financially stable women not independent because these women will beg atge hell out of you when you start dating them. All these ladies dating you think they ain't working, they do but still pester their boyfriends for money so i ask what are they independent of?


The teal story behind financially stable women is that they make their own dating pool smaller by still remaining hypergamous even with their financial stability,no man is afraid of them. Those men are eliminated by same ladies while they seek top 1% of men who actually don't seek them because in most situations men look out for youthfulness, naiveness, chastity, fertility making these ladies who are already 30+ out of the radar of top tier men. The only people they can date is usually those they are more economically stable than but they won't.

BaddieFreak:
Real men who are understanding will understand that a woman with standards isn't a threat but an equal. Being opinionated doesn’t mean being a habitual critic it means having a voice and using it. And if that makes some men uncomfortable, it’s simply a matter of the man’s fragile ego, low self esteem or mismatched expectations, not a fault in the woman herself.

There is no such thing as real men, that term is usually used by women to massage the ego of fuulish men into doing their bidding. A man is a man, you don't expect every to think alike.

BaddieFreak:
I hear you. It’s not about shaming men, everyone starts somewhere. But if I’m building my life towards a certain vision, I need a partner with that same energy. You don’t expect me to settle for less especially considering the fact that I worked so hard to get to where I am today. Strong, independent women set their standards, and yes, that includes choosing who they build with.

Someone who is strong and independent shouldn't need another, independent means been on your pwn without someone coming in between.

When you hear strong and independent, its independent of who? Men of course, such persons need no man ro cohabit with her. Everyone who needs a partner depends on the partner in one way or the other, in other words interdependent.

Imagine w man saying he is independent and strong and coming to woo you , most of you should make life easier by just been on your own as you so say independent so no one disturbs your state of being but no you are independent and still need a man what a contradiction.

You are complaining about men not liking opinionated women and at thesame time you are talking of standards men should respect when you are not respecting men having the right to detest the personality you exude, how do we reconcile that.

Beuberry:
You work as keke driver and earn in 3 digits. Poverty boy.

Who is poor the one begging to be taken care of or the one taking care of himself?

Thunderfayamods:
These are one of the people that cannot read, reason and ask questions.

You just exuded your low critical thinking skills in public glare, your benefactors may have gotten it wrong somewhere.

Nigerianization:
You really don't not have to explain your worth to a lowlife slut bro. She belongs to the streets, just like the woman on this thread.

U are right

Beuberry:
Men are assumed to be the head so take up ya responsibilities and spare me stories.
Na broke boys dey do like you dey do.

Typical of women to broke shame who makes more money than her. The mistake you ladies make is thinking every one with
money is a fool, I'm not one. What do i stand to gain for me to invest in you as a partner its symbiotic and if you say sex u ain't different from the olosho on the streets.

Don't go and work be expecting another adult to come take you out of poverty as if relationship is a poverty eradication scheme. Get a job and get a life, you are an adult.

Orion2603:
I guess she means 8 5hrs payment per day after deduction.

Yeah

Beuberry:
Yenyenyen. What stopped you from being a nice man and helping without demanding from women?

Helping, is it meant for men alone? I thought having ladies in same class as guys in the university means everyone has the potential to blossom? So helping and being nice is for men alone? This is why o do this to eliminate people like you who think its a mans duty to die for a woman and not the duty of both of them to look out for each other. The dating pool is messed up sincerely.

Beuberry:
men like you deserve women that will chop ya money

I do reverse scenario testing to unveil the hidden truth in women while conversing, this has never failed me for once. You aren't comfortable if the victim is your son but comfortable if you are the one dishing (putting yourself in same shoes) out to your victim. Now you resort to emotional tantrum because you know the center can no longer hold.

If you ate smart enough you should know i am not the kind of guy who use my millions to woo liability kie you, you could confirm my reciprocity during our conversation. A girl who can't do for me what i do for her can't benefit nothing from me, this is how i keep women
like you whose goals is to chop mens money at bay.

Beuberry:
My son will marry a wife that will respect me as a mother-in-law.

I hope respecting you includes opening legs for other men to birth your gradn children?

helinues:
Go and get money first and see how easy girls are lately

That's of you are looking for love peddlers, they are everywhere..

Then you remove the money how many woll come around? Those ones who stay are the potential girlfriends this is what the op is talking about and not throwing money to women who then flock around you.

arthurwillia:
Lol just typing rubbish with calmness han han feeding people with lies.

I am a physiotherapist, I got a job in UK directly from Nigeria in 2022 and I moved there and I work with NHS, I only applied for a license to work as a physiotherapist in UK. That is all I did.

I have met so many doctors that studied in Nigeria, working as doctors here, they didn’t have to go to any more school, they just wrote the licensing exams to practice which is standard.

I have countless number of nurses who got job directly from Nigeria.

Stop spreading misinformation

Leave that dude, ignorance Is his problem.

Beuberry:
Let love determine

Pray that When your son's wife comes with another man's child you should be bold enough to tell him him let love lead

ChangedMan1999:


Should Tinubu be blamed

Or poverty

Or pressure to make it at all cost

Poverty is never the reason for oloshoism, anyone eho says that is not truthful. Just as you can't say armed robbery is the result if joblessness that's how it is for oloshoism if not we would have had 30% of our population as armed robbers and prostitutes.

Laziness, greed and not contented with legal work is the reason for oloshoism just as armed robbery , very pathetic situation.

Racoon:
You mean less than £100? Nawa o.

For qn 8.5 hour shift

2special:
If I was the other guy dating the girl, I will run o

How can a guy even hear such story and stay with the girl? Only a full will stay.

I once had a talking stage with a girl who told me about a guy who trained her in school and proposed marriage but she declined that she doesn't love him that was the last time.

Clairvoyancy:
Sad... But suicide is s never an option.... Doing it over a lady makes it looks annoying rather than being sympathetic... why will you unalive yourself cos of a woman

The society will come out to talk down on those who tell men to invest in themselves that it's not their responsibility to take women out of poverty. When foolish men behave like this what do you all expect? It's pathetic to see romance scam go on in the society in the name of dating, people are deceived into thinking spending on a woman means you love her and not spending on a woman means you don't love her and I ask don't women love men to also spend on a man?

Only a foolish man whether single or married won't demand a woman to do for him what he does for a woman, when will men understand that it's only the one who spends his hard money tries to protect his or her relationship because he or she stands to loose if the relationship ends.

The only way to stop this nonsense is for men to guard their resources jealousy and use it to improve themselves so they can remain hypergamous in the eyes of the women around them and not upgrade their women while staying stagnant making the women look up to another man. It's a pathetic situation where only the naive fall victim to.

TheNiceGuy:
Why's the establishment of Shariah Court in Oyo Town attracting so much noise?

Is anybody forced to accept it or why the fuse?

This is how busybodies were ranting about using hijab by Muslim women, what concerns you all about this?

Those Making noise the most are even Osus from cannibal land.

Do you even know what laws are? If you know you won't spill this beans.

Educationalserv:
very stupid of you .Oyo and osun are majority Muslim and are guide by Sharia law to govern there life's how is it your business.

Let's assume you are not stupid just as you called another , what happens to the minority who isn't Muslims? They should also obey sharia law?


Old men talking like children.

Ayomide11111:
That sentence "no se)( b4 marriage" dey drive me cræzy. Inside this life wey we dey na hin one girl go dey tell that trash. It won't work bro

I had this experience last 4 month and she told me no se)( b4 marriage, I thought she was joking at first untill proof it to me. She visited me in the morning on Saturday and after eating, drinking and from there to another I told her I'm in the mood and she said never that she has already told me and she meant it. Na so I left her, I no wan rape person pikin.

In the evening of that Saturday when she got home na so she call me for phone oo say she needs 18K to make hair so that she can look nice to work on Monday morning.....

Hmmm, I laff in Bala-Bluu... Maybe when the pig flys I will send the money

Na u go pay to make her hair for job wey dem dey pay her salary, scammers

Why you no tell her to her face no money before marriage? You lost an opportunity to educate her for life. Any non virgin who says that is a big scammer, they do this to naive men to extort money from them with the men hoping to have sex when marriage comes. The worst part is sex doesn't even come after marriage because it's no longer sweet since it has turned to a duty.

Thundafireseun:
Seconded

Wike is working and showing workings …. Fubara Dey do Cho Cho cho

Come Rivers state and see projects Fubara is doing, you think it's by using media up and down?