₦airaland Forum

Drella:
In this era of currency devaluation, only the unwise hold assets in liquid form(cash-at-hand or cash-at-bank).

Wait till you hear how many people have stocks, shares, bonds, pension funds, cryptocurrency, landed properties, etc running into multi-millions.

I suggest you expose yourself to quality people and not those that cannot afford 3-square-meals a day.

So you have gone another route? I thought you will bring a fact to support your own position since I have set the pace already don't you think so?

Drella:
You’re not informed and also unexposed.
1 million is just 100k in 10 places.
Even my neighbour’s kids who do crypto have more than that.

Any random bank graduate trainee will save up 1 million in a year or less.

Just don’t repeat this in public again.

You are the one who is a novice to stats from NBS and other reputable stats organization. I don't do hear say or beer palour gist but facts



https://www.google.com/amp/s/nairametrics.com/2024/02/24/only-about-5-of-nigerians-have-over-n500000-in-their-bank-accounts-wale-edun/%3famp=1

yarimo:
To peter obi stampede in anambra state is okay, but stampede in Ibadan, Abuja or outside south east states is not okay. Very unfortunate division man claiming patriotic citizen

U don old ooo, na this thing dey come out from old man head because of stipend?

Temitunz:
Wow, just going through all the comment and I can see that nobody wants to win a woman heart over again

Can you win a man's heart just as you advised?

Temitunz:
well, what if the lady is actually single and interested but wants to focus on her career and ambitions before getting into a relationship.

That is the main reason why the man should walk away, when she is ready she should look for a man.

Reverse the scenario, will you advise women to hang on for a man till he is ready to date them? Your answer should tell you the kind of mindset you ladies have, you want men to do what you will never do for men.

The reason why men should never take dating advice from women is right here. W woman who doesn't show interest in you is showing interest in another take a walk and look for the one who shows interest in you,, this is one of the reasons divorce rate is going higher.

No man should prove love to any woman by waiting the whole year it's not worth it, you will play second fiddle for life.

Drella:
That’s for those without money.

How many percentage of Nigerians have 1 million in their account? Less than 5% meaning you are looking for the 5% of the 100% of Nigerian ladies living with SS , good luck to you

Zooposki:
She was just waiting for the right moment to take her freedom. I bet Assad oppressed her in Syria. Probably would have killed her if she had asked for a divorce in Syria.

Why do you women never believe a woman is ever at fault when it comes to women men relationship? It must be the man that is at fault in your head. Delusional being

rinzaugustine:
James Ibori was one of the best governors of his set. It was just that Obasanjo set him up to be imprisoned in London over the presidency issue. Obasanjo wanted a northerner in 2006 while Ibori, Odili and Alamiesigha wanted a Niger deltan since most of Nigerian revenue comes from Niger Delta

Is he guilty or not? If yes then the set up is a good one. Don't defend thieves , we will be happy that fellow thieves set up themselves to be jailed so the country is less of a thieves so leave this narrative.

This has nothing to do with us in the ND, criminals belong to jail and should be kept there .

eazzzy1:
If after school they both go their own way, what is the benefit of the arrangement to the girl? Should she not start schooling while the guy pays half of her tuition too?

She should have exposed the scam to the home office before they told her to leave the country. They both would have been sent home.

You think such deal is usually signed? You are a novice, they went to UK as common law partner. If you can't do something don't take part, the guy would necessarily be the one to sponsor everything and then she just pays her flight ticket. Can she use flight ticket of 700 pounds to travel to UK if she has to do it all by herself? A lot of people are so greedy, you see someone who has made things easier for you but you want to be smart .

correctyourself:
The guy did not do well because at a point the lady wants them to be together and the guy refused! I think rhe story is more than what you wrote here.

The guy was not mature in handling this issue because students in UK also work while schooling the authority encouraged them to do so, lazy guy waiting for the Lady to pay all that money, contract can be amended base on situations. Black man's mentality of entitlement

People like you is the reason why most women aren't accountable, frotge story you can't see that the lady didn't do her own part of the bargain and you are using the issue of the woman wanting to date him as an escuse for her not doing her own bargain. Make una dey slget sense small , why not remove your prejudices and look at story from what it is and not what is in your head?

A man must enter into a relationship because a woman is wooing him?what sought of thought process is this? What happened to fulfilling her contract without wooing him? Did the contract say they will date? You think every man is like you that will jettison his goal just to please a woman? You better learn.

PressMyButton:
But some mumu bitter people says the refinery has shut down. Just tell those Obirodents anything negative about Nigeria, they'd throw away their brains and believe it.


After God, na Tinubu 💪 God bless Nigeria.

U don old, u supposed ddon get sense by now. NNPC dey receive their product from dangote....

Samantha125:
Like I said, if you want someone who dresses like Deeper Life sisters, then go to Deeper Life church.

No one is forcing you to like her.

Why do u ladies call people who just put panties on that the person is confident in her skin? Is that what confidence is? and those who don't show their butt to the world are not confident in their skin I'm out.

Some guys are really pathetic in match making their friends,they don't care that dude will like the girl or not what they are interested is just match making.

A friend based in UK called me about a lady in the UK he wants to introduce to me that she is a good girl and I should build life with her and marry her and I said where is this lady? Give me her social media profile let me make an informed assessment of her looks , her thought process etc. This dude refused and just sent me a half pics of her. I told him to blow up up the pics by giving me the full picture, it then dawned on me why he is refusing to let me in into the lady's world. She is very fat and isn't appealing to the eyes and in addition her age is even aged of mine because she looks older than me.

Dudes should always endeavor to let their guys in as regards to ladies they are introducing to them and always ensure to tell their gees what's up let him either reject or accept the offer before meeting the person.

It's easier for a lady to accept a guy that is in her shoes than for a guy in her shoes especially when the guy doesn't care about how good she is doing well financially. I still wonder why guys hide pictures of ladies they are matching with their friends. That's very bad.

Fortruth:
Is it River State or Rivers State…?

A very lazy name of an area I guess without identity like Kano State, Oyo State, etc…. LOL…


No wonder the governors and leaders from there like to backstab..

U don old for this kind comment, use ur head for once.

JovialJune:
And so what? Do you know why she divorced her husband in the first place? The married men dating them why are they not the bone of contention? They repeat the same circle of their own wives getting a divorce from them for cheating, yet the focus is not on the cheater but the woman that is not cheating on anyone, una go rest real soon.

Accountability is alien to most women you just proved it.

Okiton:


Divorce women are very experienced in bedmatics
I love them.

Not demanding like these empty stomach, hungry Gen-Zs

How do u expect someone whose value has plummeted to demand?

Feldie:
Dating is different from marrying. She will not be expected to perform wifely duties. She gets sex from the married man and also get money. Doesn't have to wash his clothes, cook for him, carry his baby inside her womb, feed it with her breast, get scolded for not returning early from the market to come and cook. If you are a married woman and your husband is irresponsible and useless, divorce him and look for a rich married man to date

Hahaha husband is irresponsible? Women don't use responsible when referring to themselves because they are incapable to be responsible for themselves that's why they look for another that will take their liabilities and responsibilities from them, pathetic. Be responsible you will find a responsible partner

Mexyz:
So if FG was not paying 50% of the fee, gigm from Lagos to Abuja will be up to 130k??

That fee is not subsidized, they didn't pay nothing. You are paying 100%

richmond500:
childbirth and taking care of children when they are small is such a task, if she doesn't want to, u can't force her into it.
You don't know her dreams so don't compare her to Ngozi Iweala who rose to fame politically

If she doesn't want to you can't force her , who is forcing her? No one, if she thinks child birth will hinder it's good she never gets married at all.

Some women are in her shoes but won't open up and tell their spouses about their intentions not to get pregnant or give birth but will go ahead to take birth control pills unknown to the man, that's fraud and should never be tolerated. If I can bear my responsibilities in marriage what stops you from bearing yours? I repeat no man in his senses including you will let his wife continue pursuing her career without giving him a child until she passes the time of birth.

what age do you even think a woman with this mindset can reach before getting married? Probably she is between the ages of 25 and 32 after graduation and NYSC , what years will she chase her dreams before thinking of childbirth? You want the husband to wait until she enters menopause? Some women experience this from age of 30s .

Career woman keep careering . Check around you, majority of the successful women the world over are married, gave birth and did their career alongside. If anyone thinks otherwise she better not deceive anyone by staying single so she can do whatever she likes.

richmond500:
u just need to have a man that have big dream as u do, it is easier when u have a guy who is supportive and understands u.
Tell him children should come later as u want to focus on ur career for now

Children will come later , Nkonjo iweala was having children in addition to her career and blossomed. Millions of ladies have done this and became successful. No man who has his senses on will ever agree to this views of yours but majority Wil agree she gives birth to fewer children and then squarely face her dreams.

Child birthing won't hold you down, even for those who work in big corporations there are opportunities for women to birth children without any consequences so what is the fuse about child birth hindering your goals. If she thinks it will it's better not to get married or tell the man she is involved with about her intentions not to get pregnant so he makes his decisions appropriately.

Paraman:
If Okpehbolo is in the LP, obidients will be supporting his action

U don old for this type of comment..

vanbonattel:
Did the story say they agreed to marry?

Then prove it.

He who alleges must prove.

If not, the guy should getaway.

The story did not make that assertion whether it was agreed or not, I only gave you two conditions to all of this don't know why you aren't comprehending. There is a condition for both scenarios I depicted in my earlier comment so there is nothing to prove because the story isn't complete.

vanbonattel:
Which refund? Did they sign agreement?

If she had agreed to marry him as a basis to footing her bills then he is entitled to a refund, he can do that in court if she refuses. But if there was no promise to marry him and he spends his money, it's is gone forever.

michigang:
but you patronise them

From my words you should detect my loathe for them, it's very loud and clear and unambiguous.

You aren't asking a question but making a conclusion...If you had asked I would have answered with a yes or No

Exousiang01:
Nobody earns N20k in 2024
Secondly, No one can survive on N20k in 2024

Millions of Nigerians earn 20k monthly , you are living outside of the reality

TheFreshVanilla:
So as a man, what are you bringing to the table?

Men bring to the table what women desire, ask 1 million women what they want in men 99% of them will say "a man that can take care of me"

They don't care about men only money, so men bring what women dread to bring in relationships. Accountability and responsibilities is alien to most women that is why the thought of taking financial responsibilities and accountability becomes a nightmare to them.

PulaPower:
Lol..

Swears no be lie..

The lady is good sha. He plays more than some male footballers self..

Guardiola better sign both Asisat & Malta to help Mancity 😃

You are very wrong. Take that her team, an U17 boys will win them talk more of pros. All these elite female players of you put them in a men's team they will disappear. There are lots of instances this occured.

Sonnobax15:

Marta has always been a good baller..

But make she try retire abeg . That banny has been on the field even before most of us here started ejaculating the white fluid

The female game doesn't have good replacement for ageing players like the men's sports does. It's common to see an average lady playing into her late thirties unlike the dudes

Ouchbabe:
When will the world know peace?

Yemen...any time I come across this country, I remember that Abdul Mutallab, the Christmas day attempted bomber.
Who knows where he is now

He is in jail for life, no one will release him.

iLoveYouToo:
What are you saying? Smh

Unfortunately I don't have the time available to explain.....Just know the love amongst demography of blacks in those areas have been whittle down as a result of centuries of cultural influence by the Caucasians and Arabs to the extent where the aborigines even now believe they are better than other blacks leading to them harbouring xenophobic tendencies when they come across them.

Tjra:
20. Never trust an accountant in top political leadership position in Nigeria.


You just reminded me of both Ambode and Fubara.

What is wrong with both of them? They are excellent leaders who did right and is doing right, the mindset of Nigerians has been corrupted to an extent that people now see godfatherism as a necessary evil in the country. They did right and they ain't only the people who didn't like their godfathers stealing from the wealth of the people