₦airaland Forum

yarimo:
Donating stolen money from labour party

You prefer he used the money in a billion van to buy votes like your bullion van thief?

yarimo:
The ungrateful man will soon blame WIKE for this again

Go and beg in ur state and leave treasure base of the nation alone.

sslcrypt:
Nice explanation, thanks.

You are welcome.

ThunderfireNLMO:
How I wish to bless your aza with this. You have indeed spoken well.

Thanks as your spirit leads you ....

ThunderfireNLMO:
How I wish to bless your aza with this. You have indeed spoken well.

Thanks as your spirit leads you

sslcrypt:
What the hell is bonga North?

It's an name given to a new area that holds huge amount of crude close to the initial area (Bonga field) they saw oil and harnessed it through it's field processing by the use of an FPSO (Floating production storage and offloading Vessel). The essence is to do a field development plan and tie the new wells to the existing FPSO at Bonga since it has the capacity to process all those additional volumes (110000. Barrels per day).

advanceDNA:
No...only women are allowed to be parasites and be proud about it ....

.a man must not seek a marriage that will improve his life.

A man must suffer alone...he doesn't have right to talk to women or have an erection or even deserve love until he's rich enough to add a broke woman to his life so that the she can improve her status and that of her family..

U get??

I saw what you did

Berankis:
Truly, this is a societal misconception and it is widely believed to be the norm all over the world, simply to make men slaves to women.
It is even worse abroad. Marriage is supposed to be a collaboration between a man and a woman in the relationship, working together for the betterment of the family and why a man is termed "The Provider" is so that the woman can stay back a little to care for the home (children) while the man is out to earn a living. But unfortunately and mostly recently, men are being made victims.
-Men are easily sent out of their homes on the flimsiest and unsubstantiated allegations of women
-Men are compelled to pay child support (sometimes for children that are not even theirs)
-Women are never punished for pinning bastard(s) on a man to father
-Men are quickly condemned for inability to "provide" as the woman expects to be provided for
-Yet, job opportunities are equally shared (most especially white collar) between males and females and there are more situations where you have more females getting into positions (or are even more preferred in certain positions than men).

Aptly stated

1Alex:
but the girl just told him that he doesn't have to take care of the pregnancy and the baby.

That's a big lie , when your emotional defense mechanism has been broken you will spend and she will ask

Johnn74:
Ned Nwoko will not like this
Marrying within same age bracket posed such challenges. Others include some women looking older than their husbands of same age after putting to birth.

Some cultures, men are encouraged to go for younger women with at least 7 or 8years difference. It is believed younger women care for older husbands In old age.

It's not because they care for men in their old age but because they have the ability to give birth with lesser complications and higher success rate.

004gist:
no the tinubu is wise enough to only include vat and leave other areas untouched.
This are areas that he has advantage in

I know this that's why we in the region should push for it ourselves now that the noise is gathering momentum

004gist:
Why are they pushing this narrative about VAT all of a sudden?

For ages Naija delta has produce oil n got just 13%

We want even development and that's the excuse they gave all this while soo lets stick to it.

Hahaha, if this pulls through, we in the Niger Delta will be foolish not to ask for 60% derivation from oil resources from our domain. Only my state Rivers can boost of huge VAT from the Niger Delta all other ND states will take the bullet so the best bet is to push for same thing from oil and gas derivation

kheny12:
With all the earnings, only Lagos state and fct are developed. But the citizens are not enjoying the country.

These are the states that has enjoyed the lion share of the revenue from the country name another. If Rivers even enjoyed 10% of the revenue it has produced to Nigeria since 1960 this would have been different. Why you mentioned this two is because they have been capital for over 85 years and 34 years respectively.

DeltaOil:
Wetin dey vex me be say most VAT is not generated by the state indigenes

We all the commercial tribe of Nigeria

Nevertheless let the tax bill be passed, so that states will cut their coat to their various sizes.

Tax has nothing to do with indegenship but residents which includes indegens and non indegens. How do you even come about indegens not paying tax or most Vat generated by non indegens? Do you know what VAT is to make this assertion? Are you saying indegens don't consume goods and services in their domain?

Baronthecelebri:
I support her on this, if you're worth 5k when single, after marriage you're should be worth 15k. That's importance of marriage

If as a man when you marry and it doesn't uplift the man financially hope you will also support the man to take the next exit? A man can loose financially for the sake of the family and a woman shouldn't , delusional people walking the streets of the world. Provider man , that term was only relevant when the woman weren't capable to provide for themselves, only delusional women remain in this cycle.

You have been educated given everything that will expose one to achieving greatness in life and you want me that has same opportunities and even less to provide for you? let women continue in this delusional mindset that as an adult they shouldn't be responsible for themselves and should live life with zero responsibility and accountability that's their business, not a soul with such zero accountability and responsibilities will I allow close to my precinct. Provider man so that when my money gets finished you run to another provider man

The attitude of women to never accept accountability and responsibilities for their actions is sickening, see how she otherwise blamed the husband of the thief instead of blaming the thief. Which man has ever stolen and they blame women who push these men to stealing before? Provider men aka mumu man will be pushed to provide and he goes into armed robbery and gets caught who is to be blamed?

The attitude of women thinking once they get married they can afford not to contribute a single dime for the rest of their life is sickening, that man who does this for them can never be me. I can't be yoked with an irresponsible woman for any reason.

Fiscus105:
At ur bold, A VERY BITTER TRUTH, anybody that married single mother, in which the ex husband still much alive, just know, you are not in a monogamous marriage, but polyandry.

8/10 of single mothers, still went ahead to sex their ex guys/men, take it or leave it, I have heard and witnessed countless of such.

If husband still struggling to separate ex-boyfriend with no kid, how much less, ex- husband with kids.

There is no way you can completely cut her off from ex-husband, either from calls, chats, sending money, even to visit.

One astonishing and frightful things I also noticed from women is that, no matter how bad the ex boyfriend/ husband treated them, with passage of time, it would heal from their hearts, and if the ex knows his game properly and also to craw back to her life, irrespective of her "now" status, woman would be struggling not to give him access.

Aptly stated

adeoyekay:
Nothing wrong with it
I will accept him/her has my own child if I truly love their mother

The way most of you talk about single mother's kids is like when someone becomes a single mother the dad of the parents is dead. The kids are not yours and can never be yours, you can only accept them as a guardian not as your kids

That a man didn't marry a woman who he has kids with the doesn't mean he has lost fatherhood of the children. It's only a late that has. Most of you who have this view will later be fighting the fathers for custody of their children when you have no basis for it.

Remember a single mother can never be in a monogamous relationship, anyone who thinks
otherwise is delusional. Wether you like it or not she is is tied to the father of her kids through birthing for him and then delusional men who think otherwise will claim to accept the kids by trying to cut that link she has with the father of her kids. This is why most single mum's try their best to alleniate the fathers of the kids thinking they have found a New father for their kids because the new dudes try to give them that mentality.


Do your thing and allow others do their things it's no longer a monogamous relationship as long as it concerns a single mother.

rentAcock:
Pointless. I want to be a multi billionaire by own doing and I want my children to marry whoever they want. What's the point of having all that money and power when you cannot fall in love with someone you like? Once these people die, nobody will remember them or their power.

That's good but another thing is , the other party can't be trusted in having this mindset they solely marry most times for poverty eradication scheme meaning they are just there to raise their status and when this is achieved the probability of the marriage succeeding tends towards zero than one. It's better to have a party that doesn't have financial issues so you understand that the problem of finances isn't the reason they are dating so you don't have to repeat the cycle of marriages because of people taking and leaving. The world is so cold.

Exousiang01:
She left the country when she was 7.
Some of these her stories are actually imagined.
We no even rate am for London at all.
make she dey her dey.

All what she says happens in Nigeria, leave the fact that we need to proj ct the image of the country our security agencies are rogues in government uniform unless you are just economical with the truth

Melagros:
Mumu, don't you see a quotation mark there?

Welcome ignoramus

This one thinks German chancellor and German president is same person.

NigerianXXX:
Kemi Badenoch said Nigerian police stole from her brother in Nigeria. Without providing any evidence !!!!

Various times UK police were caught stealing from citizens, stores and even people they were meant to protect and serve.

I am trying to add more Pictures.

nlfpmod
Seun
mukina2
justwise

Do you even need evidence to prove that Nigerian police are thieves? Anyone who doesn't know this doesn't live in Nigeria and has never seen a police man before. The moment you see a police officer while driving on the road you must see the act of armed robbery on the road, police forcing citizens to give them money because they have weapons. These are what we see everyday, those evidence we have seen it by their thousands and we need no more evidence to confirm her story.

That it happens ok the UK doesn't negate the fact that it is what we go through along a daily basis in Nigeria and not a one off thing that happens in the UK

Ringstonermasks:
Although d story nor apply sha bt I will gladly buy my wife a private jet if i have the money.

what's hers is mine too, she got me and i got her... Our family comes first before anyone else outside.

This is a different ball game, These sets of men are the type that will use 90% of their total earnings to do a wedding in order to prove to the lady that he is a man(first mistake) and when the lady now pushes to expect more even when the dude has gone broke it will now infuriates the dude to do stupid things in order to undo what he has done. The moment men realize never to promise things or never to put burden on their shoulders they can never carry the better, it's really pathetic to see people putting themselves in a disadvantaged position because of what the society will say or what their women will say.

Live your life within your means and don't allow people to pressure you beyond your capability else you will do stupid things that you can't do ilon and ordinary day

brain54:
Na there dem go see you...

I wonder wetin woman used your eyes see. Dem really do you shege.

Otondo!

How do one even begin to process a woman who probably didn't spend a dime , never contributed anything towards the marriage and within one week demands for a Benz this is unfathomable.

Men are the cus of the problem of entitlement by women in this time and age. How can an adult have the mentality that she came to this world not to work but to enjoy money from others even when equal opportunities have been accorded her is beyond comprehension. A situation where men refuse to hold women accountable for themselves as adults will always breed entitlement thereby pushing men to do what they ought not to do in the first place. If adults begin to take responsibility and accountability as adults the actions that caused the reaction would never occur in the first place and everyone will live in harmony and peace.

A situation where men go out of their way to please w woman even when this hits their finances and their mental health is incomprehensible to me, foolishness in the highest place.

Be yourself and never do for a woman what a woman can never do for you in such cases people won't feel betrayed and wouldn't have reason to be violent on the first place.

ozo13:
I actually sense that when some babes will like to come visit.am very observant.i sense they may be stealing card information for there yahoo boyfriend and I install a preventive measure

Don't give any girl that chance to see your card no matter how trustworthy she is, trust no one with your card details these guys are sophisticated....

obiekunie01:
but waitoo!

SHE DOESN'T HAVE THE BLIND WOMAN'S PIN SO HOW SHE WAN TAKE USE THE CARD??

Dey play, them go wipe everything for her account.. These criminals aren't playing.

Sirchiboy:
Ph is hard.
Nothing in PH.
I left ph when hunger dealt with me

If nothing is in Port Harcourt if means nothing is in Nigeria you that? Outside Lagos which other cities can make you millionaire with zero connection to the ruling class in Nigeria? Your guess is good as mine

That you failed doesn't mean Port Harcourt isn't a rip economic destination in Nigeria

Kobojunkie:
Why do you folks like you choose to reason like imbe_ciles? So if your teenager were to have boobs like that from age 13, you would automatically conclude that she is not worthy?

What is wrong in concluding that she isn't worthy? Isn't how women see potential in the earning power of a man and concludes he isn't worthy? What is really wrong with you ladies when a dude sets his own standards of a lady he wants? What is wrong for a dude excluding ladies with fallen melons as not worthy? Make una get sense small ma

Tallesty1:
Every gift is a bribe

He doesn't know

zed7:
Not everyone wants his wife to work. Some people actually prefer to pay 100% of the bills, because they can. Some people are actually rich enough, not to consider paying every bill as a burden.

Single men actually act like they know about marriage when they don't. A man who can afford to payi 100% of the bills is a king. When your woman starts paying equal bills like you, then you have lost your right to be called the head. It's never fun to share bills equally with women.

The original role of man is to be provider and protector and the head of the home. Now that the woman has also turned provider, she might as well battle for the right of head of the home.

Even if you're poor, do not allow your woman do 50/50. It's the fastest way to lose your respect.

You are talking about 1%, that's an exception not the rule. If any of the 99% think this way it's a recipe to death sentence.

LordIsaac:
Succumbing to stroke....lols

It's sounds funny but this is true, I had an uncle who died because aof as stress from the family, he was an academic in a higher institution while his wife is an academic in a government secondary School. The dude died of high blood pressure issues while in the process of doing one of his side gigs running from one city to another to argument his pay. His wife knew he had developed high blood pressure after catering for his family for 2 decades without any financial contributions from the wife even while she was a government employee for this two decades.

How did we know about this? The guy told my mum of his struggles with high blood pressure and my mum advised him to slow down on his side gigs and take rest after his lectures for the day but the dude complained that his wife doesn't assist him that did he slows down his income won't take care of his family's monthly expenditure. 3 months later he died, now it has dawned on her that the money she refused to bring out to assist her husband she has no option this time around.

Any man in this time and age who isn't oppotuned to steal like wike and Tinubu and thinks he can carry all load on his head is sure to die very early.

Oghene86:
Almost one year no salary or allowance they think they are still lawmakers, they should go ahead and impeach the governor since they have the numbers, they keep dancing from pillars to post, according to Fubara they are gone, and gone forever. By next week Fubara would present the budget to Jumbo led house of assembly.

Leave those dudes crying here, someone not taking salary is still a member? Until they start earning their salary then we can come back to discuss about them but for now they are nullity.