Zigzagman: Today, all hope seems lost. The economy appears bleak, food inflation is up, salaries are almost useless and there's generally a dearth of hope.
In the middle of all these, you need to keep a calm disposition, and begin to plan how your actions can pull Nigeria out of the shadows. Today, the country doesn't project dreams or a vision that young people can believe in.
We need visions of the future that will inspire and catalyze a global movement. The solutions to Nigeria's ills lie in the dreams and visions that you can bring to life.
Greenbirth: This is a bitter truth, as a biochemist, the More you age as a woman, the More your eggs reduces. Check all those northern women that marries early, they always give birth with easy and many, but check all those church girls of 30+. Many very difficult to born.
90% of a woman's eggs are gone by age 30. advice your sisters to stop postponing childbearing.
Gentlelox: This may sound lame but let me break it down
I came from a polygamous family and didn't have anything when my mum and dad died because my step brothers fought to take everything.
I managed to train myself to the University. In my first year, i met a girl, though not a student but she had everything i wanted. From big ass to brain. But she was broke like me. She was working as a sales assistant in a noodle company, so she would assist me with the little she got until she tasted outside dick again and fell in love with someone else. It was difficult because i simped but times healed me.
I started meeting broke ladies after that. Mostly the ones that will sleep with any nighar but want me to be their serious boyfriend. I went into street life(yahoo) in my 200level and after some time I made my first million. A lady friend also coerced me to making her my gf and after much deliberation with friends, we started the relationship. She was very broke. Her dad just lost his job and her mum was late. She was very difficult to understand too but mehn she would give me sex 24/7 anytime I wanted it. I gave her money most days. Infact, it was through this girl that I discovered that a girl that is angry with u for whatever reason can easily forget the anger once you send her money.
I dated many broke girls afterwards and very dumb ones too. Though they taught me painful lessons with time. At a time i began to wonder why I was only meeting broke girls even though I had money and a car and my own house I was staying while In school. I was very tired of them.
Though I have rich friends, like Ejele 1,Hon. Micheal Diden's daughter would do anything for my di*k back then. And then Ibru's family because we grew up together as distant family members. Some very wealthy Yahoo boys like Prince Mamus of Agbarho and so on.
After school, I realised I wasted my first 25years for nothing going to school cos I learnt nothing except yahoo. I went legit with my business and with the influence of friends my business grew very fast. I was fucking mostly broke girls and discover that most of them have spiritual problems that can spoil luck for man for a period of time(even if u doubt this, i av confirmed this from pastors and medicine men). Also, they are dramatic and cheaters mostly with sense of entitlement.
I was lucky to meet the daughter of a former senator(also a former governor) which i can't mention because of privacy. I was about 5years older than the girl but she was totally into me. After much chatting, she came to my place, we had sex, which was her first and we started dating. She would text me everyday and was very clingy. She doesn't even spend a minute without chatting me or calling me and always assumes my offline presence means I was ducking some chick. It was interesting though but I got bored of the drama and had to turn her off. It took a lot but we parted ways and then I moved to her friend which turned out to be like her. From there, i met a girl that claimed her dad was a general and a very influential person in the country. We started dating, she was as demanding as a broke girl. We dated for only two months and then I broke up with her which didn't go well with her with her constant threats and insults. After dating some other few well to do girls. I started dating a girl from a humble background again. Her cheating level and lying technique was beyond dix world. We ended the relationship and I tried some other broke ones. Turned out they are terrible. I became allergic to these people because I see them as they are. Cheap and can be easily fu*ked my any man.
They are very dumb too and will believe anything you tell them including promises to marry them and take them abroad.
I'm writing this post because one of my ex, a wealthy lady is getting married and she didn't tell me. It was a friend that told me. I realised I still love the girl and want to destroy the marriage. I just don't know how yet. I will probably send her sex video to the guy. Cos this marriage will not hold.
you need help. and it's obvious you have certain delusions that need to be addressed.
I would suggest you watch this video and reach out to a mental health specialist for help. Things will get better
Padipadi: One day, the govt of this nation ll wake up to cater better for the masses. Level 8 presently suppose they collect like N1.5m if they want to enjoy normal life. Your wife no fit wan give birth via CS make u no cough at least N300K to N500K. As a civil servant, you can't access basic life support stuffs. It's pathetic in Nigeria. That's why I support cutting the earnings of politicians. Let everyone feel the pain together. And we should be killing those guilty of corruption.
WorldRichest: She is MAD for saying they can’t find men to match them intellectually. Which intellect do these Oloshos have? Many of them are dumb prostitutes. I spent 8 years in 5 banks, and I can authoritatively tell you that over 95% of them are dumb. That is why the male bankers will not marry them. Who will marry a dumb Olosho?
E no go better for your Mama for saying that you cannot find men who will match you intellectually.
Dimaya: You'd be surprised his mom has learnt a lot. She has learnt to manage a home, raise responsible children. dont shame women for making responsible choices.
Up till 1960, most people died before age of 40. It wasn't unusual to be a grandfather at the age of 35-40.
carolingian79: When his lyrics felt like honey in your ears, we didn't hear he's broke but still wants to marry me, now that e don red for una, you have opened the book of lamentations. You have good men who are willing to do anything to be with you but they're all 'weaklings' because they're always saying the truth to you
SUVs: Though I started experiencing my it in my early teens; I was always escaping sexual abuses...thanks be to God who never allowed it to transcend from sexual harassment to sexual abuse...before finding one way or the other to stop it....there are times I have ignorantly allowed adult ladies and guys to touch and grope me inappropriately, or carresses, they jokingly call you their husband, for the guys, takes a special liking to you, favor you and do other stuffs for you...all in a bid to gratify their cravings, what do I know...was very very ignorant....I don't wanna talk of how I escaped sodomy several times from these guys when we relocated to Asaba......
Mehn, all of these impaired my impression about sex and relationship, even my self-esteem.
I became very suspicious of every person who has an interest in me. Once someone shows an interest in me, male or female, weather for friendship or relationship, the first thing that occurs to me is that their interest is basically a sexual interest.
So I kinda unconsciously built a 'do not approach' atmosphere that tend to chase people away from me, I became so introverted and timid...the list goes on and on.
I do really hope to snap out of it, because for sure, that is not what I was as a kid...but my teenage experience impaired my personality so much. God help me.