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PoliticsRe: Why YOU And Your Dreams Are The Solutions To Nigeria's Problems by ideamonster: 7:57pm On Aug 24, 2023
Zigzagman:
Today, all hope seems lost. The economy appears bleak, food inflation is up, salaries are almost useless and there's generally a dearth of hope.

In the middle of all these, you need to keep a calm disposition, and begin to plan how your actions can pull Nigeria out of the shadows. Today, the country doesn't project dreams or a vision that young people can believe in.

We need visions of the future that will inspire and catalyze a global movement. The solutions to Nigeria's ills lie in the dreams and visions that you can bring to life.

Don't panic, help is on the way


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=56z57Nej06E

truly inspiring videos. Will share on my socials. godspeed bro
CareerRe: How YOUR Dreams Can Catalyse Nigeria's Transformation by ideamonster: 7:56pm On Aug 24, 2023
quite inspiring if every Nigerian plugs into it. Godspeed my brother
FamilyRe: Pretty female banker laments she can't find true love by ideamonster: 7:54pm On Aug 24, 2023
Dyfynezz12:
Wow!, She is not only an olosho but she is dumb 2
this is too harsh. I listened to her and she does have a point though.
RomanceRe: Marrying Women Older Than 25 Is Risky~ A Brutal Truth For Men Who Want Children by ideamonster: 7:53pm On Aug 24, 2023
Greenbirth:
This is a bitter truth, as a biochemist, the More you age as a woman, the More your eggs reduces. Check all those northern women that marries early, they always give birth with easy and many, but check all those church girls of 30+. Many very difficult to born.
90% of a woman's eggs are gone by age 30. advice your sisters to stop postponing childbearing.
RomanceRe: I'm Allergic To Stupid Girls And Broke Ones by ideamonster: 7:43pm On Aug 24, 2023
Gentlelox:
This may sound lame but let me break it down

I came from a polygamous family and didn't have anything when my mum and dad died because my step brothers fought to take everything.

I managed to train myself to the University. In my first year, i met a girl, though not a student but she had everything i wanted. From big ass to brain. But she was broke like me. She was working as a sales assistant in a noodle company, so she would assist me with the little she got until she tasted outside dick again and fell in love with someone else. It was difficult because i simped but times healed me.

I started meeting broke ladies after that. Mostly the ones that will sleep with any nighar but want me to be their serious boyfriend. I went into street life(yahoo) in my 200level and after some time I made my first million. A lady friend also coerced me to making her my gf and after much deliberation with friends, we started the relationship. She was very broke. Her dad just lost his job and her mum was late. She was very difficult to understand too but mehn she would give me sex 24/7 anytime I wanted it. I gave her money most days. Infact, it was through this girl that I discovered that a girl that is angry with u for whatever reason can easily forget the anger once you send her money.

I dated many broke girls afterwards and very dumb ones too. Though they taught me painful lessons with time. At a time i began to wonder why I was only meeting broke girls even though I had money and a car and my own house I was staying while In school. I was very tired of them.

Though I have rich friends, like Ejele 1,Hon. Micheal Diden's daughter would do anything for my di*k back then. And then Ibru's family because we grew up together as distant family members. Some very wealthy Yahoo boys like Prince Mamus of Agbarho and so on.

After school, I realised I wasted my first 25years for nothing going to school cos I learnt nothing except yahoo. I went legit with my business and with the influence of friends my business grew very fast. I was fucking mostly broke girls and discover that most of them have spiritual problems that can spoil luck for man for a period of time(even if u doubt this, i av confirmed this from pastors and medicine men). Also, they are dramatic and cheaters mostly with sense of entitlement.

I was lucky to meet the daughter of a former senator(also a former governor) which i can't mention because of privacy. I was about 5years older than the girl but she was totally into me. After much chatting, she came to my place, we had sex, which was her first and we started dating. She would text me everyday and was very clingy. She doesn't even spend a minute without chatting me or calling me and always assumes my offline presence means I was ducking some chick. It was interesting though but I got bored of the drama and had to turn her off. It took a lot but we parted ways and then I moved to her friend which turned out to be like her. From there, i met a girl that claimed her dad was a general and a very influential person in the country. We started dating, she was as demanding as a broke girl. We dated for only two months and then I broke up with her which didn't go well with her with her constant threats and insults. After dating some other few well to do girls. I started dating a girl from a humble background again. Her cheating level and lying technique was beyond dix world. We ended the relationship and I tried some other broke ones. Turned out they are terrible. I became allergic to these people because I see them as they are. Cheap and can be easily fu*ked my any man.

They are very dumb too and will believe anything you tell them including promises to marry them and take them abroad.

I'm writing this post because one of my ex, a wealthy lady is getting married and she didn't tell me. It was a friend that told me. I realised I still love the girl and want to destroy the marriage. I just don't know how yet. I will probably send her sex video to the guy. Cos this marriage will not hold.
you need help. and it's obvious you have certain delusions that need to be addressed.

I would suggest you watch this video and reach out to a mental health specialist for help. Things will get better


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWyK9d6IS7Q
RomanceRe: I Am Getting Irreparably Depressed by ideamonster: 7:43pm On Aug 24, 2023
you need help
FamilyRe: How Do You Love A Difficult Partner? by ideamonster: 1:33pm On Aug 24, 2023
just love them. its not too hard
RomanceRe: Can Civil Servants Get Married In Today's Economy? by ideamonster: 1:25pm On Aug 24, 2023
Padipadi:
One day, the govt of this nation ll wake up to cater better for the masses. Level 8 presently suppose they collect like N1.5m if they want to enjoy normal life.
Your wife no fit wan give birth via CS make u no cough at least N300K to N500K. As a civil servant, you can't access basic life support stuffs. It's pathetic in Nigeria. That's why I support cutting the earnings of politicians. Let everyone feel the pain together.
And we should be killing those guilty of corruption.
so true
RomanceRe: How Do You Phrase The Marriage Question Without Scaring A Man Off? by ideamonster: 1:24pm On Aug 24, 2023
Dimaya:
I think it's best if people clarify expectations right from the outset.
tell them
FamilyRe: Pretty female banker laments she can't find true love by ideamonster: 1:13pm On Aug 24, 2023
WorldRichest:
She is MAD for saying they can’t find men to match them intellectually. Which intellect do these Oloshos have? Many of them are dumb prostitutes. I spent 8 years in 5 banks, and I can authoritatively tell you that over 95% of them are dumb. That is why the male bankers will not marry them. Who will marry a dumb Olosho?

E no go better for your Mama for saying that you cannot find men who will match you intellectually.
dis guy dey vex grin grin
CareerRe: Student: I Can Earn over 200K As An Entry Level Civil Servant in Nigeria by ideamonster: 1:10pm On Aug 24, 2023
orjibra1:
She forgot minimum wage is 33k
tell her
SportsRe: How To Stop Gambling by ideamonster: 1:09pm On Aug 24, 2023
orjibra1:
Make I plce this 2 odds first
grin grin
FamilyRe: Nobody Wants To Marry A Broke Girl Also by ideamonster: 1:08pm On Aug 24, 2023
Anuoluwapo296:
broke girl dey get big dream well hope she's got a big god shocked
okay o
RomanceRe: LASU Female Student Roasted Extra Crispy By Lagos Mob Over Boyfriend's Car by ideamonster: 1:07pm On Aug 24, 2023
Afonjacrusder:
Useless click-bait.
you can say that again
FamilyRe: Married Civil Servants In Today's Economy, How are you coping? by ideamonster: 1:05pm On Aug 24, 2023
Heineken:
I'm serious bro
SHIEEEET!!
FamilyRe: Man: How Do You Stop Ex-girlfriend From Aborting Your Baby? by ideamonster: 1:03pm On Aug 24, 2023
finallybusy:
Something the right person will understand.
hmmn grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Marrying Women Older Than 25 Is Risky~ A Brutal Truth For Men Who Want Children by ideamonster: 1:01pm On Aug 24, 2023
AliEzeOlu:
I knew this a long time ago. Na why I dumped Dr. Gloria after we had a steamy relationship grin grin grin
story teller. hmmn grin
CareerRe: How To Handle Close Betrayal At Work [like A BOSS] by ideamonster: 1:00pm On Aug 24, 2023
Zigzagman:
What's saddest about betrayal is that it never comes from your enemies
true talk
FamilyRe: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by ideamonster: 12:59pm On Aug 24, 2023
Dimaya:
You'd be surprised his mom has learnt a lot. She has learnt to manage a home, raise responsible children. dont shame women for making responsible choices.

Up till 1960, most people died before age of 40. It wasn't unusual to be a grandfather at the age of 35-40.
true talk
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How To Handle Close Betrayal At Work [like A BOSS] by ideamonster: 12:57pm On Aug 24, 2023
Dimaya:
Things will get better
It definitely will
CareerRe: How We Survived Unemployment, Fake Job Scams And Poverty by ideamonster: 12:56pm On Aug 24, 2023
Dimaya:
Can you imagine coups in this century
if Nigeria has a coup, the job situation will even be worse.
RomanceRe: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by ideamonster: 12:55pm On Aug 24, 2023
carolingian79:
When his lyrics felt like honey in your ears, we didn't hear he's broke but still wants to marry me, now that e don red for una, you have opened the book of lamentations. You have good men who are willing to do anything to be with you but they're all 'weaklings' because they're always saying the truth to you
she fell for a scammer big time.
RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by ideamonster: 12:43pm On Aug 24, 2023
Karlifate:
This is why these women will keep sharing one man, as rich men are not much to go around.
flesh and blood did not tell you this
RomanceRe: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by ideamonster: 12:38pm On Aug 24, 2023
lordnkem000:
Am fine my dear, happy new week.
Hope all is well with you
all is well with us grin grin grin
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 60K Job Offer after 5,000 Applications and 2 Interviews | What Would YOU do? by ideamonster: 12:37pm On Aug 24, 2023
IbeOkehie:
Not true. Not true at all. Marriage is more likely to make all involved wealthier.

Have a good day.
motivational speaker grin
FamilyRe: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by ideamonster: 12:36pm On Aug 24, 2023
nobody knows
FoodRe: How Much Should A Single, Unmarried Person Spend On Food Daily? by ideamonster: 12:33pm On Aug 24, 2023
marksleek2584:
Who go help me..i never chop in 3 days...lowest ebb of my life. 0441096601 GTB. God bless
but you have data baa?
RomanceRe: How Has Your Childhood Trauma Shaped Your Adult Love Relationships? by ideamonster: 12:32pm On Aug 24, 2023
SUVs:
Though I started experiencing my it in my early teens; I was always escaping sexual abuses...thanks be to God who never allowed it to transcend from sexual harassment to sexual abuse...before finding one way or the other to stop it....there are times I have ignorantly allowed adult ladies and guys to touch and grope me inappropriately, or carresses, they jokingly call you their husband, for the guys, takes a special liking to you, favor you and do other stuffs for you...all in a bid to gratify their cravings, what do I know...was very very ignorant....I don't wanna talk of how I escaped sodomy several times from these guys when we relocated to Asaba......


Mehn, all of these impaired my impression about sex and relationship, even my self-esteem.

I became very suspicious of every person who has an interest in me.
Once someone shows an interest in me, male or female, weather for friendship or relationship, the first thing that occurs to me is that their interest is basically a sexual interest.



So I kinda unconsciously built a 'do not approach' atmosphere that tend to chase people away from me, I became so introverted and timid...the list goes on and on.

I do really hope to snap out of it, because for sure, that is not what I was as a kid...but my teenage experience impaired my personality so much. God help me.
hmmn

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