₦airaland Forum

finallybusy:
Like I said before; a woman will not carry the child of any man she doesn’t consider a marriage with. The same person who will abort multiple pregnancies will fall pregnant — and keep the child — from Dangote’s handshake.

Karlifate:
This is why these women will keep sharing one man, as rich men are not much to go around.

janeedema:
This is you and I am sorry you experienced this. I'm sure you've learned a lesson to two for that's the essence of going through the things we go through.

culf:
Make una dey stop all these things abeg, some marry at forty and immediately conceive and give birth while others marry at 20 and waited for years.
Stop putting unnecessary pressure on people abeg.

Dimaya:
Now you're sounding like a motigbetional speaker

STEWpid:
How many girls hustle with their kpussies in those days compared to now?

How many boys fit smoke or toast girls in those days compared to now?

Acidosis:
That's quite a longgg journey you've had. The environment one lives in really plays a huge role sha. That's one thing I have come to realise. It's almost impossible to meet certain people if you live or attend some "kain schools"

It's great that you've found ways to be resourceful and save money. The convenience that comes with bulk purchases is something I have come to embrace too. Going through your store, fridge, etc. and seeing things leaves a very lasting satisfaction. In fact, I don't like to be known as "customer daada" (like a regular customer)

bukatyne:
@ bold:

Good you recognise she is not in your league and decided to steer clear.

Childfree:
I wasn't trying to point a particular lady on the thread. If you go through to the second page, you'll see people mentioning from ranges of 1k to 4k. By now it is more sef. So I see no reason for the fuss regards what that lady said in that video.

The lady isn't saying everyone should spend 4k or is she saying you must spend 4k. So what is her business if someone doesn't have the money to spend 4k on food or how many Nigerians can afford it. Are you implying people shouldn't spend 4k on food because a lot of Nigerians can't spend that?

All the people that spend 4k, is it not their money? Is it not their choice? So what's the problem?

If a family that have the funds to spend 600k eating outside, is it not their choice and money? Paying for house rent, school fees or any. Please how is it anyone's concern.

You can choose not to spend 4k daily on food or marry a girl that does such. But allow people to spend their money the way they like.

Let's say I can spend 2k daily, does it make sense just because someone spends 800 should see my spending habit on food bad or unrealistic?

Curious what do you think is the ideal amount to spend daily if one doesn't cook? Your figure is based on what?