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how can you be borrowing people money in these times?

Creamcrest:
You must be a buffalo.

So you are giving ladies expo on how to marry in this shege promax season?

no mind the idiot

Zigzagman:
Abacha. Those were days of nationwide suffering.

seems every post you've put on since last week has been a lamentation

Acidosis:
Market realities, boss.

market realities. everyone has to adapt

DyshApp:
Lol you're right 😂 but you can still learn some other terms in the link in my bio

what are you selling

Gerrard59:
Use and make your society prosperous, and not doing CCTV inside woman vagina!

What's with the constant reference to CCYV inside woman vagina? Are you a love-vendor?

Saintmary:
If for any reason you, as a woman, ever find yourself wishing for your ex back, it means you have not done any work on yourself.


You are in a rut.


You are betraying yourself.


This is why: Something must have pushed you away from that guy, an intuition that something is wrong somewhere, even if you can't see it clearly.

Now, turning around to eat your words makes you a double minded person that can't be trusted to keep to your words no matter how painful the journey becomes. If you can't trust yourself, no one should trust you.



This is the closure you need: your ex found a woman who can tolerate whatever it is you can't tolerate, let go.



Face front, be a better person, make better money, and see how exes will become like poop in your eyes.


Bye.


P. S. If you're a male and you feel triggered by this post, don't quote me, just go and drink your beer jejely.

why do women always feel they can do better?

ok

No truer words have been spoken here today. Very true.

Acekidc4:
Never ever Trust anybody fully not even your Spouse. Anybody can betray you at anytime.



Patron

No truer words have been spoken here today. Very true.

hard to swallow

No truer words have been spoken here today. Very true.

Very true.

No truer words have been spoken here today. Very true.

No truer words have been spoken here today. Very true.

No truer words have been spoken here today. Very true.

what's useless about it?

No truer words have been spoken here today. Very true.

advise her to register for ante natal care services

FRANCISTOWN:
Coming from a 50 years old woman 🤣🤣🤣

these grandmothers sef

About 5 years ago when Hilda, a gorgeous, 23 year old polytechnic student decided to break up with her boyfriend chuks, she did so because "he was too jealous of the attention I am receiving from male classmates". What no one told her, was that chuks would soon be the guy she would benchmark and compare every other boyfriend that came after against.

Over a three month period, Hilda's mom begged her to make the relationship work. Her mom couldn't seem to understand the reasons why Hilda wanted to end things with Chuks. After all, he was Igbo, a successful merchant, a devout catholic and a family-oriented man. He came from a responsible family, exceptionally generous and had a good head on his shoulders. Her mom didn't realise that Hilda felt Chuks was too safe. He was too serious, careful about the world and wanted to know everything she was up to.

And Hilda wanted to be free. She broke things off and smiled gleefully as he shed tears, begging her to give their relationship one more chance. Heartbroken, Chuks would go on a year later to marry a young lady that his family arranged from their hometown.

Every week after their break up, Hilda would get invited on dates by random men she bumped into on the streets of Lagos and during the course of events that she catered. Her week was the same: Monday through Friday, instagram, facebook and whatsapp would fill with invitations to go out on a date. Friday evening from 4pm till Sunday Nights, it was one outing after another hosting suitors, visiting them in their homes, attending a night party/event or just enjoying a light bottle of wine together in a cozy hotel room. At the year's end, she'd had over 50 dates.

Four years, 200 dates later, not one guy spoke of marriage. They all enjoyed her company but stopped replying her messages once she hinted at a wedding. One of her dates had even[i] proposed to pay her[/i] to be a surrogate-mother/ pregnancy carrier for his babies. No engagement ring.

In the fifth year, she reached out to Chuks to apologize for the break up. Then this happened.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dz8ZVqReCJ0

https://www.nairaland.com/7773201/these-leftover-women-now-regret

1Sharon:
Because a man said he wanted to marry a woman, doesn't mean he would have.

Actions should follow from what they're saying and not words.

Why do they always love to talk about the plans they had for you after you break up with them?

you ehn? One day I will catch you in person

There's someone out there for you. He just may not look like your ex, or like all those big boys and men you've rolled with before

she needs your advice

About 5 years ago when Hilda, a gorgeous, 23 year old polytechnic student decided to break up with her boyfriend chuks, she did so because "he was too jealous of the attention I am receiving from male classmates". What no one told her, was that chuks would soon be the guy she would benchmark and compare every other boyfriend that came after against.

Over a three month period, Hilda's mom begged her to make the relationship work. Her mom couldn't seem to understand the reasons why Hilda wanted to end things with Chuks. After all, he was Igbo, a successful merchant, a devout catholic and a family-oriented man. He came from a responsible family, exceptionally generous and had a good head on his shoulders. Her mom didn't realise that Hilda felt Chuks was too safe. He was too serious, careful about the world and wanted to know everything she was up to.

And Hilda wanted to be free. She broke things off and smiled gleefully as he shed tears, begging her to give their relationship one more chance. Heartbroken, Chuks would go on a year later to marry a young lady that his family arranged from their hometown.

Every week after their break up, Hilda would get invited on dates by random men she bumped into on the streets of Lagos and during the course of events that she catered. Her week was the same: Monday through Friday, instagram, facebook and whatsapp would fill with invitations to go out on a date. Friday evening from 4pm till Sunday Nights, it was one outing after another hosting suitors, visiting them in their homes, attending a night party/event or just enjoying a light bottle of wine together in a cozy hotel room. At the year's end, she'd had over 50 dates.

Four years, 200 dates later, not one guy spoke of marriage. They all enjoyed her company but stopped replying her messages once she hinted at a wedding. One of her dates had even proposed to pay her to be a surrogate-mother/ pregnancy carrier for his babies. No engagement ring.


In this video: the men who got away, Hilda and several other ladies share their regrets about their break ups with men they ought to have married and ask for advice on how they can return.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dz8ZVqReCJ0

If you're single and unmarried with regrets over a love that could have been, you're not alone.
Please watch the video, laugh a little, offer hilda your advice.

There's love out there for you. Open your eyes to those right in front of you

Love after you're sure he can support a family.

All these love at first sight or love after being friends is useless if the man cannot provide. These are the lies we tell young women.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pzWY98kIUqE