₦airaland Forum

Zigzagman:
still on this story

DMerciful:
Tinubu, the illegitimate president has no such powers!

ideamonster:
Good day everyone!!

Most people in relationships believe that a relationship ends the day one party call it quit. But that’s far from the truth. An average relationship that ended didn’t end that day, it probably ended few days, months or years before. So why didn’t the person just call it quit that same day?

It’s mainly because the party involved just wants time to enjoy the benefits they’ve been enjoying. It may be the gifts, money, sex, the trips etc.

So let me share the experience of a friend of mine. He was dating this girl sometime ago and it was going on very well. So I was with him in her house on this particular day and they were arguing about something that has to do with the male and female gender. He is an unapologetic alpha male and supports the male gender with all he has but this was a problem with her. She said something that annoyed him so he told her he was going home. The next thing madam said was “who the hell do you think you are? Every time you'd just be getting angry as if you’re God” As if that wasn’t enough she pushed us both out of her apartment and told him “get out of my house and go and die“.

As a gentleman he didn’t say anything to me, but knowing my friend, deep down I knew the relationship was over. But he didn’t end it that day or week or month. A few later, he just called her out of the blue and said it was over. Some days ago while going through my own dating issues, I messaged him asking why he broke off with her and he forwarded the video below and typed "that day" under it.

So guys, when did you know that your relationship was over?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FqQqxrWfCnk

GboyegaD:
While one would expect people to be reasonable, poverty has eaten so deep into our culture and people have been brainwashed with religion; thus, reasoning has been discarded by a majority of people. For this reason, it will be nice for the government to bring up a restriction policy. However, for a country that has no statistics, where do we start from?

BlessedOne259:
Some Northerners are not immunized. Their religion is not against BVN. Their religion allows them marry more than one wife and they believe they are expected to produce as many kids as possible. The country will be aflame if any government try to enforce it.

I think the only way it can be enforced is it Nigeria is split into different country.

BlessedOne259:
It will never be possible because it will be impossible to enforce it especially in Northern Nigeria

Childfree:
Why should anyone wait till somebody or the government tells him or her to give birth to certain number of children that he or she can handle?

Ironically the people that can't meet up with their rent, children school fees, feeding... are still firing to fulfill the number of children they always desire.

They don't pity their lives why should I. Continue, na them go suffer their thing.

Kobojunkie:
Maturity which most Nigerian men lack as they are rather programmed from childhood to believe a good relationship is one where they get to sit as lord over the wife. Some even go as far as to try to claim that such arrangements are as designed by God who instead decreed that of a cursed state.

So, not all Nigerian men are raised with what it takes to date a career-minded woman. And no, there is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman being career-oriented much the same way as there is nothing wrong with a man being the same.

Zigzagman:
So true

DaddyFreeze2020:
Who will enforce it especially in the far North where marrying 4 wives and giving birth to many children is their objective in life?

pretydiva:
including your sisters abi

Zupay:
And those in the trenches are happily married?

Dimaya:
Just realize it's how wolverine has said. People do what they need to do to survive.



Just pray that you won't face temptations bigger than you.

Gerrard59:
CCTV inside women's vagina = men who are more concerned with what women use their vaginas for rather than solving the issue, which made these women use their vaginas to make money.

WildChild00:
I dey laugh 🤣🤣😊

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