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Childofgrace18:
Good afternoon my wonderful romance lander, I open this new account to post this for security reasons.

Please pardon my grammatical errors. This write up maybe long. please take your time read, and advise, insults are welcomed too.

in 2018 I posted something here about my ex girlfriend who works under me in one of the advertising agencies but that's past tense now. Late 2018 I resigned from that company because I got a better offer in another agency as HOP (Head of operations) in the charge of South. My ex still works for my formal office not until last year October or November when about 50% of the field workers were retrenched and she was affected. But before then around August 2019 we met in one of my boss in-laws burial in one of the south south state, we sat together until the end of the burial athough she doesn't know anyone in the village except me. after the entire event my boss tried to bring us together, he was like Bros why can't u marry this girl since you both are still single, which I see as a big joke. When I wanted to live she opted to join me in my car which I never said no. after the incidence we chat once in a while and she calls sometimes so I see her as a friend even though we are no longer together.

The problem now, she is jobless since they were retrenched and my office is currently recruiting for a position she is well qualified and her location is part of we're we need people, i have 100% power to give her the job as am the one recruiting in my region both supervisors and others which she knows. But the last time we worked together she is a very unserious person, cos she feels that she can always have her way because of her beauty.

she has submitted her CV, and has been begging me telling me how she needs the job. should I employ her?

ASK YOURSELF THESE....CAN SHE DO THE SAME FOR ME ASSUMING I'M IN HER SHOES? IF UR ANSWER IS YES,THEN DO IT FOR HER....BUT IF ITS A NO,THEN don't .

I DOUBT THEY CAN GIVE YOU THE MUCH NEEDED answers.

JewelDiamond:
You make a comment they don't like. They will start calling your father and mother as if they are the ones that told you to write it. Is it that they lack manners or just frustrated by the kind of parents they have. I just don't understand. [color=#990000][/color]

TALK TO UR FELLOW LADIES....THEY ARE THE ONES THAT DO IT MOSTLY.

THIS ONE NA MAN? SMH

BlueDomera:
Sigh!!!!

Epistle of a kid that refuses to grow according to age.

So disrespecting women makes you strong and giving women respect makes you weak. SMH.

There is no need to waste my time advising you on relationship since you have decided to follow your so called redpill rubbish.

Funny thing is that all this nairaland guys forming and shouting redpill this, alpha male that, can only form redpill for small local girls.

When you meet real classy ladies, you turn boy boy.

THE WISDOM OF SIMPS IS LIKE A FILTHY RAG IN OUR Presence.

THERE'S A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ALFA MALES AND ALFA WANNABES.so which ones ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?

Liftkid:
Dude, She is my woman and not yours. Can you please get a life ?

PLS CALM DOWN AND STOP EXCHANGING WORDS WITH ANYBODY HERE.... SILENCE IS GOLDEN.

HIGH VALUE OR LOW VALUE.NA STILL MEN GO CARRY una. ASK LINDA IKEJI.

OIL DON FINISH FOR Market. Hbd

funmisticqueen2:
Insults are not necessary here, repeat this and you will be reported. This is your final warning.

AND YOU WERE SO BLIND TO SEE THAT YOUR FRIEND ALSO INSULTED MEN?

IKPEAZU OF ABIA STATE IS THE worst.

WHEN VILLAGE PEOPLE SHOW NOW, UNA GO DEY BLAME THEM. KEEP NOTIFYING them oo

Millenniumlady:
K keep rotting in poverty

THANK YOU. MRS DANGOTE.

Millenniumlady:
Go make money i still dey wait for you

ABEG CARRY YOUR WAHALA GO.YIU WAN KILL me?Bye

Millenniumlady:
When you're already sliding in my pms

I DEY MAD?GOD BID. I WAN DIE? POOR MAN like me

Millenniumlady:
They wait is over cause my next boo might be your brother

HE IS NOT THAT STUPID.JUST PRAY THAT THE OP'S BROTHER COMES TO UR rescue

Millenniumlady:
Since he can meet up with my needs i don't care....it's better to cry in a range rover than to be happy in poverty

KEEP WAITING UNTIL Eternity.EVEN SHILO CANT HELP UR TYPE.

Millenniumlady:
If you're not ready for marriage kindly step back let those who knows what it takes to marry and treat a lady right come forward

NO WONDER YOU ARE STILL SINGLE.NAH ARMED ROBBER fit marry YOU LAS LAS.

Jaubdu:
.You need to meet in person, I am streetwise but I believe first impression matters. I work in a corporate world, but this issue is a different ball game. She is from South West and I am from South South. I am not too sure of the culture.

SHE IS ONLY BUT YOUR GIRLFRIEND NOT YOUR WIFE YET,SO FORGET THE CULTURE ISSUE EXCEPT YOU ARE GOING FOR PROPER INTRODUCTION.IF NOT,LIKE I SAID,ALLOW THEM DO THE TALKINGS FOR NOW AND PLAY ALONG WITH them.

Jaubdu:
. A lot of you misunderstood her post and thread. She an Idealist and realist. Simp and rich wannabe get offended by her thread. I burned days reading through her thread and post, I realized that she has a great mind.Don't forget she is pro women.

JUST GO THERE AND BE URSELF. NO GIFTS WHATSOEVER BECAUSE IF YOU START BUYING GIFTS NOW,YOU WILL NEVER STOP.DRESS WELL AND LOOK PRESENTABLE. DONT SPEAK MUCH,ALLOW THEM DO THE TALKING AND ONLY SPEAK IF IT IS DIRECTED TO You.DONT BE TOO FAST,ALLOW THINGS TO FLOW AND FOLLOW IT AS THEY come.

zexy2030:
Go with gifts, for her mum most especially.

AS IN BRIBE OR WHAT? YOU JUST ENDED UP SHOWING THAT WOMEN CARES ONLY ABOUT MATERIAL THINGS.. AND THE FATHER,HE SHOULD BUILD A house for him I guess? SMH

Millenniumlady:
Just carry enough gifts and money with you i bet she might have told them enough about you how kind and generous you're.....Make sure you meet up to her standard's when going goodluck

HE SHOULD EQUALLY GO AND STEAL Because HE WANTS TO MEET HIS INLAWS TO BE.TUEH.IS THIS HOW MILLENNIUM LADIES REASON?@ JAUBDU,YOU VE HEARD HER. YOU CAN GO AND BORROW OR Steal SO YOU CAN MEASURE UP TO THE STANDARD THEY WANT.

Jaubdu:
I mean it not a business transaction,not job interview or business deal. The thought of meeting this great family is eating me up. BTW I'm an interesting person, calm, a lot of confident but I'm new to this. Useful advise needed.

DON'T TELL ME YOU LACK CONFIDENCE AT YOUR AGE. ...WHATS THERE IN MEETING YOUR IN-LAWS TO BE....GO THERE AND ACT LIKE A MAN THAT YOU ARE..OR ARE YOU NOT MAN ENOUGH?

Sixfeetbelle:
What's international women's day have to do with this post?

I need a clear answer on how to be financially dependent and have low body count at the same time. I'm yet to meet a man who doesn't want to add to my body count just so he could help me out financially.

How is a girl supposed to achieve what you listed in your post in today's world?

START SOMETHING.NO MATTER HOW LITTLE AND GROW IT.THAT MAN YOU WANT TO GO AND SEEK FOR HIS HELP HAS JUST ONE HEAD LIKE you.

Kennedyiheme02:
simple every gender take the advice and use to your advantage... id always advice a woman to keep herself and avoid having body counts... but that wouldnt stop me from asking a woman for sex...id advice against her giving me... but if she does.. why should i refuse?

ABEG MAKE UNA STOP THIS ADVICE WEY UNA DEY GIVE DEM LADIES.LET DEM CONTINUE GIVING US Bleep.

Martinez39s:
You go fit talk before?

WHY YOU DEY TELL DEM TO CLOSE THEIR LEGS? ...WHO WE GO COME DEY Bleep if All oF Dem Come Get SENSE?NAWA YOU OOO

Martinez39s:
Only the girls that are not smart. The smart girls will close their legs and play two cards:
1) "if like what you see, put a ring on it" card,
2) "no sex until marriage for 'safety' reasons" card.

Many rich simps will fall for this. No matter how good a player is, he can't make you open your legs if you don't want to, but if you are fòolish enough to open your legs for any boy, you are on your own. Even worse is when you let fùck boys impregnate you and run away leaving you to be a struggling single mother. Use your brain.

I NO FIT TALK.

Phenomenal16:
..I can't bash u
Everyone has got a choice u know...that's ur ideology...... Is gud.....buh stop creating threads abt it...... Its making u look stu****pddddd
Just d way I wanna marry a virgin...

MITCHEWWW

HOW CAN THIS GUY BE SHAKING A TABLE WEY THE LEGS NO COMPLETE? SMH....JUST WAIT,THEY ARE COMING FOR YOUR HEAD.KENNEDYIHEME02,DO YOU WANT TO SCATTER THE TABLE FINALLY?

Zoie:
Google it.

ANSWER me FIRST

Zoie:
Google" Andropause" and you'll see how wrong you are.

ARE YOU A night night PAPER?