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RomanceRe: Help! Love Is Ruining Me by Idonweak: 8:16pm On Jun 30, 2022
Bro read about bpd(borderline personality disorder)
RomanceRe: Am In Love With A Girl That I Don't Know How To Express My Love For Her! by Idonweak: 12:28pm On Jun 26, 2022
olagunjuolawuyi:
i am from a royal family, and soon to be king, and i manage a saloon near lautech, and study at lautech,ogbomoso oyo state
are you serious?
RomanceRe: Help Me, My Joystick Is Malfunctioning by Idonweak(op): 6:12am On Jun 20, 2022
osemoses1234:
This op when craze last week na una de reply
Na me and your papa craze
RomanceRe: Help Me, My Joystick Is Malfunctioning by Idonweak(op): 6:11am On Jun 20, 2022
Autobot05:
Say no to fornication boss


Jesus is the ONLY way❤️
I'm not abstaining from sex because of religion sir.
RomanceRe: Help Me, My Joystick Is Malfunctioning by Idonweak(op): 8:50am On Jun 19, 2022
samwash:
Oga Op, so like this na from your narration, so your joystick is malfunctioning abi?
If I may ask how is are you?
Can you reframe your question sir?
RomanceHelp Me, My Joystick Is Malfunctioning by Idonweak(op): 8:05am On Jun 19, 2022
Hi
I'll get straight to the issue.
I've been abstaining from sex and masturbation for awhile now and I don't intend to engage in any sexual activities for awhile. The problem now is that anytime i am with a girl (esp the ones i find attractive) i get arouse even when I'm not thinking anything sexual. Just listening to the voice of a female gets me hard. It's affecting my relationship with my female friends. This is because I can't play, touch them with me having an embarrassing erection. These days i have been avoiding sitting behind a girl on a bike because no matter what i do my joystick will get hard and she would notice and even to alight from the bike without making my engorged instrument noticeable is another challenge cry . I don't give hugs to girls because I'll surely get hard huh .Sometimes, my girl friends will want me to see them off but I'll refuse adamantly because I can't stand up from my seat. I can't continue like this. Please my fellow men, how can i reduce this incessant erection and save myself from embarrassment
RomanceRe: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Idonweak: 11:38am On May 17, 2022
Poswahala:
Guys I genuinely need some advice
Because of the state of my mental health I have decided never to get married or have kids.

I suffer from intense depression and anxiety and other mental health problems. I'm unsure of my own future talk more of a child.

I do love being in relationships but I do that only for companionship and sex.

I don't know if I will regret my decision. The guys I have dated have been cool with my no marriage proposal but I don't think any Nigerian man will not want kids.

I'm thinking of moving to another country, buy a house, take care of my community and neighbors then when I'm old, I will move to a retirement home.

If I change my mind I can adopt a child, am not against adoption as I am with marriage, it depends on if my mental health improves.

The problem I have is that will I be lonely without a child, like I said I'm not into marriage despite being a woman trained in traditional home, it's not that I hate it or anything, it's not just for me. I will be unhappy being married.

But the child thing is bothering me, I always wanted a child, but i don't want my mental health to prevent me from loving and caring for the child.

Please advise.
I suffer similar fate with mental illness. Mine is bdp and depression. I also determined not to have children and if at all i must have a child. My wife must be psychologically and emotionally stable.
RomanceRe: Help! I'm Dying Of Being A Simp by Idonweak: 6:57am On May 17, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Ok boy.. wink
Whatever makes you feel important grin
RomanceRe: Help! I'm Dying Of Being A Simp by Idonweak: 9:35am On May 16, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Yeah when you have kids you will know better... kiss
What you're doing is projecting? I can bet anything that you're not over 20. No mature adult will come on a faceless forum where majority is mostly anonymous and be calling everyone "boy".
RomanceRe: Help! I'm Dying Of Being A Simp by Idonweak: 1:15am On May 16, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
I am old enough to birth you tho.. undecided
I can't imagine myself exchanging words with a teen like you.. undecided

You are still feeding from momma and know nothing about life so keep mute when I speak..
You're older than everyone on nairaland. Ancient of days. You obviously jobless and being taken care of that's why you've the luxury of time to be on every thread.
PoliticsRe: They Are Planning And Mobilising To Kill Another Girl Naomi In Maiduguri by Idonweak: 5:40pm On May 14, 2022
PrinceOfLagos:
Leave them na

The one that got killed wetin happen
Shebi na only them sabi kill pass abi
CrimeRe: Herdsmen Slit Man’s Throat For Attempting To Save Sister From Rape (photo) by Idonweak: 10:24am On May 14, 2022
saapphiere:
Are you not a rape apologist for not condemning rape instead you cursed my God?
You're a fool and your god is a bigger fool
RomanceRe: I Attempted Suicide...after Being Served Breakfast... by Idonweak: 10:00am On May 13, 2022
BoredBerry:
Yes I did... But it was a troll... This happened two days ago!!! Imagine! But I'm alive today... smiley
I know ways you can achieve your goals with minimum pain and effective results. Please only contact me if you're indeed ready to kill yourself. No one should be deny their right to death
PoliticsRe: Female Student Burnt Alive Over Blasphemy In Sokoto by Idonweak: 8:42pm On May 12, 2022
PussyOdour:
The so call atheists sharp mouth on Christianity alone, because they know no matter the insult and abuse the heap on Christians for believing in God and Jesus, they'll go unscathed. I dare any atheist to try their nonsense in any Islamic populated area, and say that Allah doesn't exist or that prophet Muhammad had an imaginary dream if e no go enter their body.


Atheists are cowards, the day I will believe atheists is when any of them confront Islam as they do it with Christianity.
Y'all the same. Deep down you wish you can do it if only there's a passage to justify it in your books if fairytales.

Meanwhile the girl killed is not an atheist. She's a Christian like yourself. An atheist who know better to avoid an area feel with demented extremist fools like you
RomanceCan You Live Like This? (image Attached) by Idonweak(op): 7:35pm On May 12, 2022
I came across this post on quora and i was immediately intrigued. I've been wondering if i can personally live as this man described but i don't think i can. It's not easy at all

Is it possible to live like this and if you think it is, can you like this as a man?

RomanceRe: This Is How I Treat Guys Without Beard (Pictured) by Idonweak: 10:47pm On May 03, 2022
virginprincess:
I don't like guys with beards,they disgust me.
I'm curious,What will you change your moniker to when you're no longer a virgin?

Or you thinking you'll be one for life?
CrimeRe: Say No To Cultism,how I Joined The Supreme Maphite,and Almost Got Killed By NBM by Idonweak: 1:40pm On Apr 29, 2022
YahooG:
Oc bobo called me to congratulate me, told me his bloodline is always rugged,that he is an Ex DD, that's double don
Here are the Heirachies of the Maph
Don
Double Don
Chairman
Professsinals
Chiefo
Phire
Money men, I have forgotten their name self, for me,that's not an office
Executioners
newborns
Bros i just want to know if that ogume truly work for you because i get interest oo. I wan join airforce soon and i go like dey fortified
RomanceRe: Facts About YORUBA Girls. by Idonweak: 1:36pm On Apr 29, 2022
Albertone:
If they delete this thread, what will you gain?
So why did they delete the igbo own?

Or you can't see how igbo guys are bashing yoruba gals abi
RomanceRe: Facts About YORUBA Girls. by Idonweak: 1:17pm On Apr 29, 2022
I swear nairaland is biased as fuvk against the yorubas. They deleted the igbo thread but kept this one so they bashing can continue. Seun and lalatiscala delete this thread too. Don't be sentimental
Science/TechnologyRe: One Of These Rats Must Have Bitten My Friend (Photo) by Idonweak: 2:14am On Apr 29, 2022
Why do you kill your roommates huh
CrimeRe: Say No To Cultism,how I Joined The Supreme Maphite,and Almost Got Killed By NBM by Idonweak: 9:46pm On Apr 28, 2022
Righteousness2:
Cultism is one of the Fatest way to Hell!

Being a Cultist under any guise is one of the Fastest way of making your parents Childless.

Being a Cultist is a Great Foolishness.
Bros you never let them finish story before you start to dey judge. Chief judge of nairaland
CelebritiesRe: Yul Edochie's Brother, Linc Dissociates Himself From Yul's Second Marriage (Pix) by Idonweak: 9:00pm On Apr 28, 2022
JovialJune:
[s][/s]


We all know you come from a piss poor polygamous home where your mother was treated like trash, and because your mother misbehaved, her position was displaced, and she was replaced, that is why you see what your father did to your mother as normal, you damaged psychopath,

A happy Nigerian woman is an automatic sadness for you, and you think all will be well with you in life? We have seen your picture here and you are a sadness to behold,

What you proclaim to others will come right back at you million folds kiss
So because someone opinion defers from yours ,you decide to concort a malicious story about them. How immature can you be?
If we trace your lineage now, one of your grandmother or great grandmother mother is probably a second or third wife and you're here ranting as if polygamous is strange to african culture. Abeg go sleep somewhere jare
RomanceRe: As A Lady, Don't Date A Man If You Don't Have 1.5 Million Naira In Your Account by Idonweak: 4:13pm On Apr 03, 2022
Iyaebe:
And you think the life of a man is the same as that of a woman? Where did you keep your brains?
This is the 21st century. You better make your money, no guys wants a liability or a parasite.
RomanceRe: As A Lady, Don't Date A Man If You Don't Have 1.5 Million Naira In Your Account by Idonweak: 4:03pm On Apr 03, 2022
Iyaebe:
This one have reach Japan kikiki Be looking for rich women to leach on oloshi
Are you not the oloriburuku that created a thread asking men not to date unless they are financially buoyant? So why are you disagreeing with the op and insulting him? You are both saying the same thing nau
Foreign AffairsRe: Cyril Ramaphosa Blames NATO For Ukraine Crisis by Idonweak: 8:51am On Mar 18, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
And who gives without taking?
Blame and hold your leaders responsible for the catastrophy and misfortune that has befall your nation..
Lol, your nation.

No matter how much you ass.lick your white masters. You're still a nigg.a to them. tongue

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