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It is that bad. The bible says it.

Of course!! It lets me know that I still got it. It also reminds my husband that he needs to protect what will ALWAYS be his LOL

It is only the older generation that did not go to school especially that think fat is in. To be fat means you are not struggling, that you have arrived in wealth and such,

My mother in law gets upset at me because I run 4 days a week. She said she liked me better before I married her son (because I was 10 pounds heavier). She wants to be very big until today.She is not a skinny woman but in her mind, she is not big enough, Sad but EXTREMELY true.

C2H5OH:
Hope all of that works cos some girls can't be fixed

He started dating her for a reason, if she tries this and it does not work, you know that he wanted her for wrong reasons,

You need to be straight up with her and ask her. COMMUNICATE. Don't EVER assume.

Do your hair, buy new make up, buy new "young" clothes and he will not think that again

I like someone who speaks their own mind and voices their opinion, if I wanted someone who would always agree with me or submit to what I think a tape recorder is cheaper. 

I want someone with there own dreams and desires, two dreams made into one sounds like it could only get better. I would think a man would want a determined woman, intelligent and thoughtful.

Being domesticated is a learned behavior and can be learned together. I think everyone can share in the domestic aspects of a home, and it should be everyones responsibility, not just the wife.

Why would I be ashamed? That let's me know I still got sexy in me

That was really good,

My husband is My Lover on my phone

You all are so clueless about the medical realm. You can't get staph like an STD. Wow this is something else.

S. aureus infections can be spread through contact with pus from an infected wound, skin-to-skin contact with an infected person, and contact with objects such as towels, sheets, clothing, or athletic equipment used by an infected person. I could give it to you just by standing next to you. You may have staph that is on your body (because we all have bacteria on us) that I may not have and it can cause a reaction.

Yeye Idiot. Know your STD's before you post some crap like this.

Classic88:
@ C2H5OH

I appreciate all of your advice, however, I feel like you have the wrong impression of me. Im not saying that some women dont do what you just said but this is not a routine of mine, I dont just fall in love over and over and sleep with men. This is only the second time I have been in love with someone and the first time with an African. And I have done FAR more than sex to show him that I love him.

These are genuine feelings, not just something random. But please believe lesson has been learned. This will not happen with another man.

All good. But this will NOT work out honey. It hardly ever does. You have dated him for how long? Have you met the fam? Has he brought you around many friends and fam?If a Naija man says he is not interested, he is not interested. No matter how sweetly put.

Why would you make a post like this?

Marriage is not "cute or fine" If you are looking for ol fine gal, you will burn with the consequences of your superficial decisions. Don't be stupid and marry a green snake in the grass.

Marriage is lifelong not a cheap freebie to have a cute chick on your arm to say ,"ol boy, you meet the wifey-o?" You better pray to God to help you find your wife instead of letting your penis talk for you

If it is going to work it will work. Breaking up to make up is NOT wise. How many Naija men do that nonsense? Find them and let me know because that will not happen dear

You will get over it. Anyone who stays because of fear of the unknown is not living life. Suck it up and get it over with now before you are in too deep.

I personally don't see a problem, because I was in a similar situation and I know how opposition can become the plague in your relationship with him. You have to be ready for the ugly that will come. If you feel it in your heart that it is right or wrong, it probably is. Don't worry about what we think. It's you and him against the world. I was coming from the realistic side of it, not wanting to hurt your feelings.

Ibukun O:
I DISGREE. IVE TRIED TO REMOVE MYSELF FROM THE RELATIONSHIP. HE'S STILL HERE. I UNDERSTAND THE NEED FOR HIS MON'S APPROVAL. I KNOW HIM. HE NEEDS HER APPROVAL AND UNDERSTANDING. HE'S VERY PROUD OF HIS MUM. AND HE LOVES HER WITH HIS WHOLE BEING. HIS FAMILY BOND IN SICKLY STRONG. AND WHAT I MEAN BY THAT IS HIS BROTHER AND COUSINS BECOME JEALOUS WHEN HE SPENDS DAYS WITH ME. HE HAS TO CALL AND CHECK IN. THEY HAVE TO CALL AND CHECK IN. HE HAS NEVER SPENT TIME WITH A FEMALE LIKE HE DOES WITH ME. ITS NEW TO THEM ALL, SO WHEN HE DOES NOT SHOW HIS FACE FOR DAYS AT A TIME THEY SPAZE OUT. NOW I CAN SPEND DAYS AT HIS HOME AND THEY ARE FINE. WE JUST RATHER HAVE MORE PRIVACY, FOR MY SAKE THE JOURNEY TO THE BATHROOM FOR A SHOWER AND FOUR MEN IN THE HOUSE IS A CHALLENGE FOR ME. WE HAVE TO CONSTANTLY LOCK THE DOOR. SO NOW WE SPEND QT AT MY PLACE MAJORITY OF THE TIME. IF HE WANTED TO BE RID OF ME HE HAS HAD HIS CHANCE AND THE DOOR IS STILL OPEN. LIFE GOES ON, TRUST ME, I WILL HAVE NO ISSUES WITH FINDING A MATE. I'M FLY LIKE THAT. HE KNOWS THAT TOO, THATS WHY HE'S STILL HERE.

It comes with the territory. If you are willing to deal and you feel it's real. Go for it. Just know that the road will NOT be easy dear.

bluespice:
ubana?

t'ana gida

I know. No mind am, yeye

LOL[quote author=Lamidi-obi link=topic=276859.msg3930324#msg3930324 date=1243410990]na suspect and am not yet sure she is cheating ok.[/quote]But your are screwing a chick in London? Eyaaaaaaa You ARE a fool.

bluespice:
ievbuomw wow i dont even know how to shorten ur name
pardon me im very lazy u see
but he's a lonely attention seeker writing out his fantasies in broken uncoordinated sentences
but english atleast
let him be
he just discovered the beauty of the internet let him rejoice like a kid at a fair that won the big panda

You are right, It just felt good to tell the yeye off

[quote author=Lamidi-obi link=topic=276859.msg3930266#msg3930266 date=1243409992]u hate becos i no wan bang u?. i tire 4 9ja yansh. yoruba women no wear pant, them no take shower and smell like pus. y i go wan bang them. comot for my face jare.[/quote]I have ONE husband for that not you, one idiot who won't be able to get it up pass 55 because u "tire 4 9ja yansh"  Fool- go and shoot yourself!! Ugly fat lonely idiot, I hope you get an STD, greedy bastard  

They have to be as big as mine b/c small lips is NOT cool

biola44:
find it hard 2 believe even educated pple promote racism, 4 me - no wahala with any tribe so far d person is reasonable

I don't promote it. Unfortunately that is how it is. Like me know, if I brought home an American? My papa n mama go shoot us off premises.

[quote author=Lamidi-obi link=topic=276859.msg3930237#msg3930237 date=1243409525]sensible pig. yoruba 419 king. do u have work here in london apart 4rm thiefing peoples credit card to pay 4 owambe. ugly bastard. that is why yorubas r the uglyest in the world.

make i go bang my white babe before it turn cold. go commit suicide there.[/quote]Wow, You have problems. You are too immature to have the 2 wives you claim. They are probably inflatable  

C2H5OH:
Do you really like me?  Don't tease me now.  I might like you too.
I do understand what the message you are trying to pass across to the girl.

No tease-o. I'm married!! LOL but I like you   Thank you. It is the complete truth!!

biola44:
but she seem to aknowledge d cultures n willing 2 learn also,

You and I both know that just because she wants to learn, that will not give her bonus advantage with his parents.

taryour:
hello guys dis is my first post on nairaland and i want advice from u guys as regard my girlfriend.she is jst too stubborn please will like to know how to handle such situation so that she can listen to me at all times

Idiot, you want a beautiful fool? Yeye Go and pray for your self

C2H5OH:
Igbo & Yoruba still Nigerian. She's akata. Slight difference.

I like you- we are operating on the same frequency, THAT is the issue

Wow,

You got played!!!! LMAO AHHHHH!!!!!

bluespice:
i honestly think it depends on the (pardon my seeming insult here its not meant at all) level of exposure of the parents
if the parents i mean the nuclear family of this boyfriend dont care,
why should it bother u?
out of curiousity tho
i suggest u try to meet his folks u should know what they feel about u
tho the yoruba's are experts at hiding their feelings

You think that is best? to the poster, How long have you been dating? That also may help/hinder things too.

C2H5OH:
Yeah, most naija parents do have this sometimes "unsaid" fondness for having their children get married to other nigerian children. And it's even worse for you since this dude is the "eldest" son. You are in for a battle babe.

Btw, I will formulate my own opinions on the impact of the slave trade on African solidarity.

I didn't even know that one. Yeah, It's really not looking good for you, unless he is willing to be disowned

Ahhhhh LMAOOOOOO!!!! I cant handle it.

millco88:
Why y'all niggaz gonna fall victim to that love sh|t? Money will ALWAYS be over bitches. I just got some crazy brain right now, but the bitch want me to wife that.

Heellll naw bitch. You ain't touching my hard earned money you crazy bitch. The bitch head game ridiculous tho.

But on some real sh|t. Y'all naijas act like y'all wanna give the world to these hos. Come to y'all senses men. These bitches are just meant to svck and fvck. They not trophy bitches.

Bad bitch the other day said I had some nice eyes and she bought me a drink. 5 minutes later bitch started to svck me off. Them bitches hoes.

I bet you also think "hommies over hoes" too? You probably like penis that's why you feel that way.

yeye idiot