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Landmack:
He didn’t marry. He was furking a jobless broke girl who has finally tied him down.

They never learn.

Prospertochu:
I got my girlfriend then now wife pregnant, I wasn't ready for marriage. My plan was to take care of her and my baby while she stays in her father's house, her mother was fine with it as long as I take care of my responsibilities, but everything changed when the scan confirmed that she was carrying triples, her mother said I must marry her because there's no way her daughter will still under her roofs with 3 children.

I pleaded with her to give me sometimes to find my own accommodations because I was living in my father's family house after his demise I stay with his siblings while my mum left with my younger sister.

My mother in law refused saying I must do something fast because she doesn't want people to mocked her that her daughter has gotten pregnant out of wedlock not just with one baby but 3 so I managed to save enough money to get a place for our own but her mother refused saying I must pay her bride price first, I didn't have any more money so i have borrowed from friends and added to the money I had to pay for her bride price. It wasn't a big party just something small, I took my wife to my father family house where we are living now with our triplets but things hasn't been easy for me, taking care of 3 children it's not easy, I am grateful that I am rent free but household bills are killing me.

My wife and I are always arguing because she keeps asking for more money my salary is 55k I use to give her 20k monthly, 10 monthly to my mother and I use 20 and save 5k she said the money wasn't enough that I am stingy, I now started giving her 25k she is still complaining about the money not being enough. I refused giving her more she started staving me of sex and foods. My family are tired of separating us fighting almost every day, my uncle has asked us to leave the compound because we are disturbing there peace and I had to beg him to forgive us that ur shouldn't be happening again and I cautioned my wife but she is threatening to abandon me with the kids. I have told her to do her worse because I am tired of her madness. I wish I never married her in the first, all I could've do is to take care of my kids and let her be I know it's too late now to change the past but what should I do?

Is there a reason you're the one responsible for your mom wellbeing?? Even when she knows you have 4 mouths to feed on 55k salary?? Some parents can be heartless tho. Are you her only child?? Where's her husband Cos I don't understand why you have to be giving her a whole 10k monthly Also why did you date a broke girl in the first place?? Haven't you guys been warned to flee from broke girls from poor homes I don't understand you simps Now you're lamenting you think marriage is still based on love and sexual abilities?? Now you've brought a whole 3 babies to come and suffer in Nigeria....Well done oh you suppose chop slap....I'm sure soon now you go still wan fork again smh

sben2308:
It would av been more mature and professional if you av just not said anything but still u chose to make a fool of yourself. Tx

When you advertise foolish products for sales, you tend to think all responses are foolish....care without engine smh....

Prospertochu:
I am married with three kids 2 years and 3 months triplets, my salary is 55k. I used to give my wife 20k, mother 10k, 5k for rainy days and 20k for myself transportation and other expenses outside my house.

My wife complained that the money was not enough I added 5k making it 25k monthly but she still demanding for more money and she has threatened to leave if I don't give her more.

I had no money to give her, my own mother was homeless staying in church and I couldn't stop giving her that 10k because she needed it. My wife used to fight me every single day and my uncle asked us to leave the family house as we were disturbing their peace and I was ready to let her go and I will be sending 25k for our triplets upkeep every month but for the sake of our kids we have settled down with 30k monthly leaving me with 15k.

So far, we have moved out of the family house, we are staying in a parlour and room house a brother from Canada gave us the place it is not permanent but it is better and we are very very grateful.

Like I said earlier my mother was staying in church, now we have a one bedroom house I have discussed with my wife for my mum to come and live with us and I will stop the 10k I was giving her and I will add it to her money making it 40k monthly, she has agreed.

Now that my mother is here with us, she started again with the 40k is not enough to feed all of us, note I don't eat breakfast, I eat lunch at work and in the evening I eat at home. She is only giving my mother food in the evening while she and my kids eat 3 Square meal a day.

I asked her why she is treating my mother so badly she said the economy is hard if she doesn't have she won't kill herself. I am sick and tired and if I have sorted things it was for the sake of our kids and now I am starting to regret. I am thinking from this month when I get my salary I will give her 30k and give my mother 10k to be cooking her own foods.

Is my decision good?

It's your fault bro....why will you marry a jobless broke woman?? When you know you don't have money??
You've plunge yourself into a circle of poverty, deep poverty....if you have married a rich girl from a rich home, she won't be so desperate to suck you dry....also tell your mom to go to her husbands house, she's not your full responsibility

[quote author=Odewaleadesoye post=109451379][/quote]You open eyes watch your driver follow one way you didn't call God, accident happen finish you dey thank God....you don't have sense

sben2308:
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jesusjnr2020:
An Armed Robbery Experience I Had Moments After A Holy Ghost Church Service

It happened moments after i just returned from a church program, sometime in late 2003. It was most likely carried out by cultists, since it took place in a university campus hostel.

There were six of us (all guys) inside the room. Four of us, choir members, yet in high spirits having just returned from a Holy Ghost power-packed, Spirit-filled service on campus at about 10pm.

We were still trying to absorb everything that had transpired during the powerful service, while also getting set for bed, when out of nowhere, there came in the three guys with gun(s) and machete(s) into the room and one of them switched off the light, while using touch light to be flashing light on our faces carrying out the robbery.

But it was a strange kind of robbery, because after they were through, they had robbed every one inside the room, except me.

And it wasn't as though it was a mistake or that they had forgotten to do so or were in a hurry, it seemed deliberate, because after asking everyone of us to lie down, they had stood us up one by one to rob us, from the first person to the fifth person.

But when it got to my turn, being the sixth and final person, after the guy came to me, and flashed the touch on my face, since it was dark, instead of telling me to stand up and go to show him my things as he had done to the other five persons before me, he just stood up and started walking sheepishly back to where his guys were to my amazement. It was as though he had seen something strange or an angel.

Moreover while yet lying down, i overheard him being asked by one of his guys, who I suppose was their leader, "what of that guy"? His response though was not loud, so I couldn't hear what he said was his reason for doing that, but it seemed to suffice to his fellow guys, as it wasn't long afterwards they left the room.

Probably even more puzzling, was the fact that my black traveling bag, was just about the first thing anyone else would spot in the place the robbers had taken most of the things from, such as, cash, a mobile phone, a perfume jar, a pair of shoes etc., which was the wardrobe.

And inside the side pocket of that bag which was the foremost and most exposed part of that bag, there was some considerable amount of cash. Therefore had they just stumbled on it and decided to open it just one of the times they went there with one of the other five persons to show them their stuff, they would have also robbed me of some cash, because that was the closest money or thing in the wardrobe for them to have made away with.

But for some reason they left all the cash intact and no single thing in my bag was missing, while the other things more difficult to access in that wardrobe were being made away with, apart from my other things without my bag there which they also didn't touch.

So this was not just about me not being stood up by them, because they could have also easily robbed me even without needing me to do that.

As I said earlier, four of us there of the six were all choir members of the same church, and we had just returned from a church service together. And while three of us were guests who came from other parts of the country for the annual church program held within the campus premises, the other one was a student of that school who happened to be our host.

But despite that, when the robbery took place, I was the only one of the four who was separated and treated differently from the rest by the armed robbers.

It was really shocking to say the least, but it wasn't completely surprising to me because it was obvious to me why that was.

Despite that we were all Christians, and some active church members, as those my fellow choir members, i was the only one among them that was really saved and truly of God among them, so that was what was separated me from the rest when it mattered.

God bless.

I wonder why some of you Christians reason like this, so cos you're the only one whose property wasn't touched, you're the beloved of God?? Or you're holier that the other guys?? That's how accident will happen and a Christian will say only me survived....are you mocking the others that bad thing befell or what?? You're just an honurable idiot honestly

FreeStuffsNG:
If we 'lost' N10 trillion in 220 days, it meant Twitter must have brought into Nigeria N100 Trillion in 2200 days before it was suspended for being used by the IPOB terrorists to set the country on fire leading to colloidal loss of lives and multibillion dollars properties. So where's the N100 Trillion Twitter, that doesn't pay tax or have any office in Nigeria, brought into Nigeria in the 6 years before its suspension? Did LCCI even see how they turned out to be completely unserious? Is that the kind of data they give their member businesses

There is no way LCCI will keep churning out this kind of dubious data and any serious organisation or individual will take them serious. This claim is not only embarrassing it is way too shallow

Ode when they said Nigeria lost that amount of money, they weren't referring to the govt...they are referring to the bulk of total money individual Nigerians make via twitter....these includes celebrity endorsements, advert paid to influencer, those that sell their goods and services via twitter etc....the problem with Nigeria is there are too many educated dummies like you still breathing.

3.1m for a 15years old car
Lolzzzz

oluztx:
I wish I was light skin like Igbo people with beautiful skin and straight hair. They have it easy in life, and don't experience racism as much as we Yorubas with jet black skin.

Iya baba e

Don't apologise, allow her grieve alone, ignore her totally....why will she deny you her body in the first place?? Infact make she get out.

Did you mean 240k or 2.4m

Irupetepete:
bro listen to this, nobody like owing debt, you loose your peace and sanity... But then, shit happens..
Imagine collecting over 200k from a loan app and then, you were robbed at gun point beside atm...
It happens bro

So na the loan coy suppose swallow the lose?? Smh you sef go get your own coy oh, when you do begin dash people your products for free

Tpharell:
There will more than likely not be any collateral as that return on investment quoted is suspect for me.

Lol enter gtbank go collect loan na

So because she's a female painter I'm supposed to clap for her and Dash her money?? She for no go hustle na....smh adult is working and it's news smh honestly

Solutionmaster3:
I run POS centers in Lagos, I am looking for a partner who will put 100k in and get back 20k everymonth (10k part of your initial money and 10k returns on investment (ROI) every month) for 10 months contact me on 07zero61624402

In other words you wanna borrow 100k and pay back 200k in 10 months??
What property do you wanna use as collateral

How that doll go be 1m?? Smh all these useless self employed youths sef....cos na Davido you wan make annual sales for him head....no talk normal price collect your money, dey find maga wey go pay you 1m there

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350k....09093191919 is the number to chat. Thanks.

drololaaof:
They should be fined , regulated, it is unethical the degrading messages they send out , they have breached privacy act ,they are shylock. If I have my way I will sue them . Govt should do something about them ,the loan companies expose people to danger ridicule,their interest rate is another problem

Se your mouth like sue dem...smh their terms and conditions allow dem access to your contact and you clicked it

I'd rather allow a debtor die than not collect wats owed....debtors are bustards.

Truth of the matter is, most Nigerian guys can't stand a rich girl, they will be too insecure to date or even marry a rich girl...they can only fantasise it, but they can't. The reason is they feel you have to be richer than a girl to control her....that's why they marry poor girls, and suffer all their lives to carter for her and dir younger before her....90% nigerian men are simps, spineless simps

NwaAmaikpe:




Truly, I say unto you..our forefathers are wise. What they saw while lying on top of the concubine, we can't see even on top of our choppers.

This is why our bride price is extremely expensive in Igbo land.
It brings value to marriage because your wife becomes an asset not a partner.

After spending almost 4million naira to marry a woman properly, who born your father to give a miscreant 10k to kill her?

But in some places, just prostrate, say ekpele and give them bush meat to add in making dinner; they'd hand over their daughter to you.

That's why the average Igbo man treats his wife like a goddess because he earned her by sweating through his nose.

Doesn't change the face that igbo girls are the easiest to dangle money in front of and fork. I'd rather flush my money down the toilet than use the millions to marry full Eastern girl, especially from imo. Smh

AmancalledGod:
Good morning friend's, please i really need an urgent answer to this, thou for now I'm still staying with my people (parent's) pls is it proper for a friend to carry a woman to your parent's house to sleep over obviously to have sex with the girl, when your parent's is not around. He has be begging me to allow him come over with the girl.

I have agreed shaa, but I'm still thinking of it if i could have a change of mind.

What if the girl dies at your parents house and the guy somehow runs away

Theonlysonofher:
While others are celebrating the new year today I am here sobbing because my marriage is at the verge of breaking.

I loved my wife with all my heart but I don't think I will ever forgive her for what she has done to my mother.

I am the only child of my mother. I have three sisters on my father's side.
I am married with two beautiful daughters. my mother suffered from diabetes, bp and high cholesterol. She is on a special diets strictly no salt or too much sugar.

She came to stay with me because the person who was taking care of her wasn't doing her job properly so I had to bring her to my house so I will be monitoring her health.

I have a house help who prepares all her meals with less salt and she also makes sure she takes her medicines on time without fail.
Everything was fine, my mother is not a troublesome person, she gets on well with my wife and most of the time she is in her room resting.

On the 20th of December my house help had traveled to the village to see her people and she will be back in January 4th so my wife and I have to take care of my mother making sure that her foods is less salty and medicines on time.

Since I am always working so my wife had to take most of the responsibility. It is only for a week and fews days until the house help is back.

She had agreed to take care of my mother during this periods of time and I thought everything was fine but I noticed my mother become distant and tired unlike her and I had no idea that she was actually dying and I have never suspected that my wife was maltreating her.

So Thursday being 30th December I was at work when my wife called and asked me to join her at the hospital because mama had a seizure.

I rushed to the hospital and my mother was in a coma state and I asked her what happened to mama, she said mama woke up that morning complaining about shortage of breath and she told her to go back to bed and rest hoping she will be fine by the time she will wake up.
Only for mama to fall off the ground and started shaking with foam coming out of her mouth.

I was in panicked I couldn't stop praying for my mother to get better and I didn't leave the hospital, my wife went home to take care of the children because she has left them with the neighbour and I had spend all night prayer vigil at my mother's bedside and glory be to God my mother woke up yesterday being 31st but the doctor report was not a good news for me.

Actually my mother was poisoned with salt and guess who did it? My beloved wife couldn't bothered to cook a different meal for my mother, she used to feed her the same meal we ate knowing full well that mama cannot eat the same foods as us because we are salt lovers, especially my wife, she love eating too much salt which I have warned her over and over again because it is also not good for her health.

I confronted her, she said she only fed mama the same meals we ate twice only but according to the doctor it was more than two times.

I am hurt that my wife doesnt love my mother or treat her like her own mother because if she truly loved her like her own mother she would have put her diet on consideration and not allow her to eat the same meal as us. I love her mother and u treat her like my own mother.

It pains me a lot when I remember five years ago when her mother was in coma state and she was staying with her at the hospital, she is her only daughter amongst three boys.

I used to visit them everyday after work, I will bring foods and I have even washed her mother clothes with my own hands, I have done with love because she is my mother. I called my mother in law this morning and I have informed her about what her daughter has done to my mother and she couldn't stop apologising and she is very disappointed with my wife.

But see how she has repaid me by hurting my own mother.

She has apologised to me and to my mother, I have forgave her but I don't think I can stay with her again because one day if I become sick or bedridden she might treat me the same way.

Honestly speaking I am not even at home with her and the kids, I am at my cousin brother's house since yesterday I left the hospital and my mother is still in the hospital because she needs more treatment and hopefully she will recover by next week.

I don't feel like going home today and I don't know when I'll go home but I will always be there for my girls because they are the best thing that ever happened to me.

What other advice would you give me on this situation? What are your thoughts? Thank you for reading all I love this community.

Is your mom so old she can't cook her own meals or couldn't refuse salted meal??
You and your wife are both workers, how do you expect her to prepare two meals at once
Smh na marry she marry you, she no commit capital crime abeg

Why arrest the alfa?? Na why people no dey wan help for this country.....why arrest someone that volunteered to give you an hint of where her kids were or might be...smh if to say him don mind him business tho, him for dey him house do new year.

Typical Nigerian he goat, thinking money can buy respect and love. Lol you SIMPs never seize to amaze someone with your high level stupidity