Graceihotu: My question is "what do guys really want" I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���
Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.
He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him
Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.
I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.
Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?
I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him
My heart is bleeding. I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''
He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����
Lolzzzz you probably deserve it....no guy breaks a girls heart unless she deserves it.
peteregwu: JUST IN: THE DAY 1 INSTANT TOUCH OF GOD AT " GOD HAS SWORN TO BLESS YOU", WARRI 2022.
Saturday 19th September 2022.
Interesting! The servant of God, Pastor Lazarus Muoka instructed the disabled to do whatever he instructs them to do, he confronted all ailments by the reason of the stripes given to Jesus Christ at the cross of cavalry and decreed strength and power to the weak. He cursed paralysis, ordered the cripple to walk, cancelled blindness and gave a blasting knockout to deaf and dumb declaring victory, deliverance and freedom to all who are oppressed by the enemy.
Astoundingly, his utterances birthed these:
1. A man, 40 years born deaf and dumb healed. 2. A man, 35 years born deaf and dumb healed. 3. A girl, 10 years born deaf and dumb healed. 4. A woman, 10 years stroke healed. 5. A woman, 20 years deaf and dumb healed. 6. A man, 3 years of partial stroke healed. 7. A woman, 5 years stroke healed. 8. A man, 4 years stroke healed. 9. A man, 7 years stroke healed. 10. A woman, 1 years stroke healed. 11. A woman, 3 weeks stroke healed. 12. A woman, 1 year stroke healed. 13. A man, 15 years stroke healed. 14. A man, 6 years kidney dieses healed. 15. A woman,1 month stroke healed. 16. A man, 3 years stroke healed. 17. A man, 6 months broken bone joined together. 18. A man, 1 month stroke healed. 19. A woman, 2 years paralysis unable to stand healed. 20. A man, 15 years hearing with one hear healed. 21. A woman, 4 months heart pain, swollen leg, swollen stomach healed. 22. A woman, 6 years paralysis healed. 23. A girl, 9 years born deaf and dumb healed. 24. A man, 6 months bone dislocation joined together. 25. A man, 5 months paralysis healed. 26. A man, 6 years paralysis healed. 27. A man, 11 months stroke healed. 28. A man, 15 years chronic waste pain healed. 29. A woman, 2 years leg pain healed. 30. A woman, 5 years paralysis healed. 31. A man, 1 year 6months stroke healed. 32. A woman, 2 years arthritis high blood pressure and Rheumatism healed. 33. A man, 7 years Rheumatism healed. 34. A woman, 3 years paralysis healed. 35. A man, 1 year broken waste healed. 36. A man, 3 years stroke healed.healinggg woman, 1 year and 7 months rheumatic pain healed. 38. A woman with 5 years of liver problems healed. 39. A man, 30 years deaf and dumb healed. 40. 2 girls, 16 and 18 years born deaf and dumb from the same mother healed. 41. A woman, 40 years can’t work chronic rheumatism healed. 42. A man,18 months broken leg healed.
Lightorder: people are wicked oo. 3 years on someone’s house without paying? ok , you just climbed a roof of a house still being inhabited by someone either paying or not paying ? And there is a law and a court in that town? Oga , I will break part of the ceiling, lock the door and report that my 7.6 million and some relevant documents got missing. Whoever removed the roof should come and explain or would the landlord also deny that he knows nothing about the roof? My brother, whoever sells this removing roof idea, wants to land you into a huge mess. A fellow like me would so press you until you sell that house to pay debts if you should go that way
You can't say you have 7.6m in the house and still not pay your rent....the story will collapse on itself and also....who says its the landlord involved?? I'll pay guys to do it and travel the period.
orohbiro: You bought her gift then she break ur heart or u guys have quarrel or she rejected ur proposer u went ahead to collect your gift u are a weak man not a strong man. In fact u not a gentle man u are not qualify to be a man in the ist place. If u are doing that u should stop it is embarrassing
MrCover: A Man has given his wife a car for staying with him when he had just a motorcycle.
The Benue Man took to Facebook to share photos of the new car he got for his wife and Wrote As Sighted By Below:
"Congratulations my precious jewel, I feel very proud and happy to buy this car for you, you were very comfortable with me even when I had an old C75 (Honda bike), they were countless number of times that we pushed the bike because it was faulty, your support and constant contribution have changed our story, enjoy your new baby."
So what did she buy for you for marrying her when she didn't have a car also?? Mumu man, so you're rewarding a broke bish for been with you while broke Smh
Ohyinyeah: Please, can anyone highlight the procedure for ejecting a tenant from one's building in lagos?
The said tenant was owing over 1 years rent, not paying and not leaving.
Tenant was charged to court. The case has been ongoing for more than a year. Tenant and her lawyer do not show up in court on hearing date and have been adjourned for this reason each time...
Now running to almost 3 years in the flat without paying rent and without leaving....
Remove the roof of their apartment....no court can stop you from renovating your house. Thank you
Olawrites: There's high cost of living everywhere, like recently in the US, the cost of gas moved from $2 to $5 per liter.
Just know this fact before thinking of travelling.
Don't be caught unaware.
We've had enough stranded Nigerians in the diaspora already. Don't add to it.
Have enough money SAVED before you think of travelling.
Move this to front page please
Your papa come to Nigeria and buy it, its still less than a dollar per liter. Werey I no sabi who ask you for advice.....you dey dare dey say e no easy...oya come Nigeria back wey easy na
Duke007: Hi every one, l have been a nairalander for over 10 years and have seen people get advised here, thats why l am putting this up with my account. I am not blaming anybody for my predicament, neither do l blame the loan app company for their shark like business sytle, l take responsibility for my actions. I am one of those people who criticized people for Falling into the trap of online loan company. It's basically a rat race syndrome and tends to take you deeper and deeper from the seemingly innocuous first attempt.
It all started when my side hussle of buying and selling food stuff suffered a decreased in cost of replacement due to inflation and my sales boy stealing my money. I took my first loan to boost my business and realized that the cost of the loan is high. Since then, it's been a malicious cycle of robbing Peter to pay Paul. I realized that l was lossing money in each transcation and in order to meet up with my payment to avoid defaulting, l resorted to other loan company. Now, l don't even no what to do, all cash injection coming to me is spent on servicing the loan. I can't even feed my family and pay my children school fees. I am tire of this scenario and want to break free. It has taken a toil on me physically, mentally and spiritually.
I seek advice from people who have gone thru this ugly experience on how to break free before it is too late. Below is the list of my indebtness:
zedegit: During my course of sojourn in the teaching field, I have discovered that small schools pay more compared to bigger schools.
There's this big school I teach which pays me a bit higher than what a smaller school was paying despite having more than 3 times the population of the small one. They usually complain they pay a lot of people which is true but theres a good response to payment of school fees from the students as more than 80% of students pay before exam starts and 95% plus pay at exam commencement.
What are your views about this trend?
NB:The owner of the school has bought cars and houses and no teacher in that school has a bike. It's from hand to mouth.
It's simple dude, start your own school, use the money you should have used to buy personal cars and houses to pay big salaries to your staffs. End of discussion
Moral of the story, don't birth to kids you can't take care of, don't bring kids to the world to suffer...they just might kill you for been a wicked parent.
KOPArespect: I am Osogbo base but went to Lagos yesterday for an interview, i didnt print a copy of my CV so i decided to branch a business center to do so. the good thing is that the shop was open even as early as 7 a.m compared to Osogbo people that wont open shop until 10 a.m and even 12 pm sometimes.
I entered into the shop and met a lady who asked me to transfer my file to the company mail which i did... grrrrrr document came out and i open my wallet with dignity and gave the lady 1000 expecting change of 850... but to my surprise, she gave me #400, at first, i didnt say anything thinking maybe she is still trying to find the rest of the change.
Then this lady sat down and continue with another customer document, i then said "excuse me, my change is not complete" i was moved to tears when she told me its #200 per page. i couldnt say anything as i have to respect my suit and tie and package my self out of the Cafe.
i went out of the shop and noticed my shoe is dusty and i need to shine it which normally cost #50, i saw one aboki by the road side, I pulled out my shoe and put on the slippers he offered me. just as he was dusting the shoe, my spirit just told me to ask for the price and to my surprise, he said #100... i didn't know when i screemed "for shinning shoe?" oga dont worry, gimme my shoe back... nah so i take commot for his front and use my hand take dust am
Printing na highest 100, and na if them on gen....won ti gbe e mora
Aidejay: As fuel scarcity enters it's 3rd week, how much do you have to spend on transport daily.
Thread for the carless people.
For me, I spend at least 250 to and from work.
Although in the morning I have to walk to the junction to reduce the cost of okada. From my house they'll call 150-200 but if I walk small I can get it for 100 naira.
And I like walking in the morning, no hot sun just breeze and my thoughts.
On my way back in the afternoon, it's like 150. 100 naira for Keke (used to be 50) to the same junction. Then 50 naira to my house cause I cannot walk under hot sun.
Total = N250. Daily, Monday to Friday.
When I realize how much I spend on TP, daily, weekly and monthly I can't help but to shout!!!! But I'm sure some people own worse.
makavell7: My brother that was the first kleg i noticed in his fake story! POS cardless withdrawal with your phone All these stupid threads you guys open to attract comments are just dumb!!!
I immediately smelt a rat when he said his phone had a lock and also his SIM card. with those 2 locks on no criminal i repeat no phone hacker can ever have access to your account. with the phone lock on the thief will remove the sim and insert in another phone and immediately the phone start up the first thing that will appear on the screen is IMPUT YOUR SIM PASSWORD, without the correct sim password that sim is useless and after imputing the wrong one 3 times it automatically locks the sim. You guys should stop all these fake threads. really dont know your intentions
No mind the zobo seller, when you put pin for your sim, nobody fit unlock am do any cardless withdrawal....fake story. Smh
Silentmoni: So on Thursday 3rd of march 2022, I came down from the Keke I had entered and realized my phone was missing, I quickly rushed back to the Keke to search but couldn't find my phon. I asked the driver who told me he didn't see it either and other passengers had left.
So another Keke driver who was there assisted me with his phone to call my line, it rang without response @ first I taught I forgot it where I was coming from until I got home and called but was told it wasn't there then I realized I was either pick pocketed or the phone fell off from my pocket in the Keke.
I felt reluctant to call my bank to block my account because I felt my sim was secured because I had the sim and phone lock activated. So to me there's no how my account can be accessed using my sim because of the sim lock but I was wrong.
I was intending to go retrieve my line on Monday but on Sunday I decided to access my email using another phone only to find out my account has been cleared without leaving a single dime.
I called Access bank customer service who confirmed my fears.....I asked them if I can have details of the account the monies were transferred to they told me it's not traceable as the transaction was a cardless withdrawal using POS....I don't understand how possible it is for the transaction not to be traceable, how cardless transaction can be initiated without pin or otp,is it possible for sim lock to be bypassed......I am still confused.
Please what could have happened in this case and how can I go about it?
Una go just dey post useless imaginary fake story....which one be careless withdrawal, we be like mumu for your eyes
jesusjnr2020: Could Russia's Invasion Of Ukraine Be A Fulfilment Of Biblical Prophecy?
The world hasn't recovered but is still grappling with the devastating effects of covid-19 pandemic, as the vaccines have so far flattered to deceive, having not provided the desired results to curtail or stop the deadly virus.
Alongside this unusual pandemic which brought the world to her bare knees, there have been many other strange and unusual occurrences, including unprecedented natural disasters, taking place in different parts of the world.
Now we have a full-blown war in our hands in Ukraine that appears to be edging towards the 3rd world war which has been much spoken about, so could this be a fulfilment of biblical prophecy?
Jesus said:
Matthew 24:6-7 (KJV)
And ye shall hear of wars and rumours of wars: see that ye be not troubled: for all these things must come to pass, but the end is not yet. For nation shall rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom: and there shall be famines, and pestilences, and earthquakes, in divers places.
I believe it is, because the signs have it that these are surely the last days. It's for this very reason we've been preaching and rigorously warning people to repent, because the end is at the door and the day of Jesus' second coming is very near.
I hope that all these warnings would not be in vain, and you still find yourself get left behind, because then you'd only have yourself to blame.
God bless.
Una no just get sense....ww1 came, I'm sure an idiot also tot it was sign of entire, ww2 came, anoda mumu must have said its sign of end time, usa vs Iraq fools said its sign of end time....I don tire for una matter....una fear this endtime pass people wey no be Christians sef....are you sure tall normal at all
obembet: A list of Chelsea player wages has emerged online following Roman Abramovich's decision to sell the club.
It was announced on Wednesday that billionaire owner Abramovich intended to sell in the wake of Russia's invasion of Ukraine.
The 55-year-old has already received offers and is looking to complete a transaction as soon as possible, with sanctions from UK parliament looming.
Chelsea are one of the wealthiest clubs in England as it stands and Abramovich's funds have helped them recruit some top quality players.
Data company Spotrac have revealed which players are earning most at Stamford Bridge and Romelu Lukaku is leading the way.
Lukaku arrived from Inter Milan last summer in a £97.5 million deal and it's believed he earns around £325,000-a-week - the sixth-highest in the Premier League.
Check out the entire list below, with Malang Sarr and Ross Barkley being the two notable omissions.
22. Charly Musonda - £42,000-per-week
21. Edouard Mendy - £52,000-per-week
20. Reece James - £58,000-per-week
19. Ruben Loftus-Cheek - £60,000-per-week
18. Andreas Christensen - £80,000-per-week
17. Mason Mount - £88,462-per-week
=14. Hakim Ziyech - £100,000-per-week
=14. Antonio Rudiger - £100,000-per-week
=14. Marcos Alonso - £100,000-per-week
12. Jorginho - £110,000-per-week
13. Thiago Silva - £105,000-per-week
11. Callum Hudson-Odoi - £120,000-per-week
=7. Christian Pulisic - £150,000-per-week
=7. Mateo Kovacic - £150,000-per-week
=7. Kai Havertz - £150,000-per-week
=7. Cesar Azpilicueta - £150,000-per-week
6. Kepa Arrizabalaga - £155,000-per-week
5. Ben Chilwell -£190,000-per-week
4. Saul Niguez - £198,269-per-week (on loan from Atletico Madrid)
3. Timo Werner - £272,000-per-week
2. N’Golo Kante - £290,000-per-week
1. Romelu Lukaku - £325,000-per-week
Since Abramovich's arrival in 2003, Chelsea have been one of the most successful teams in the world having won 19 major trophies in that time.
Blues manager Thomas Tuchel was employed under Abramovich's ownership and naturally, questions have been asked about his future as well as the club's summer transfer plans.
Tuchel insists he is committed to Chelsea for the long-term however.
3. Timo Werner - £272,000-per-week
2. N’Golo Kante - £290,000-per-week
1. Romelu Lukaku - £325,000-per-week
Since Abramovich's arrival in 2003, Chelsea have been one of the most successful teams in the world having won 19 major trophies in that time.
Blues manager Thomas Tuchel was employed under Abramovich's ownership and naturally, questions have been asked about his future as well as the club's summer transfer plans.
Tuchel insists he is committed to Chelsea for the long-term however.
I'm going to be as explicit as possible and I need professional legal counsel/inputs to the issue stated below. (Pardon all blunders biko)
My wife recently got fed up with her place of work and decided to tender her resignation letter. She happens to be in the teaching profession and we all know what goes on in the private teaching schools (Most anyways).
On Friday the 4th of March which was supposed to be her final day at the school, the school's HM instructed her phone to put her phone on her desk (HM's) on the pretense that it was an open day and didn't want her distracted. She did exactly that and the day went just fine, after which, she dropped all the school's materials/properties with her and left. On getting home, she went through her phone and discovered that her WhatsApp messages and conversations had been deleted, text messages deleted, all her contacts deleted, and all chats on her phone read. As if that wasn't enough, a few of her contacts called her to tell her they received messages from the school asking what her relationship was with them? Imagine!!!
Moreover, I think it is also good I state the fact that she and the HM haven't been best of friends due to an event that happened sometimes back between both parties. But for her to pick up her phone and go through it, and not just that, but also deleting her chats and wiping off contacts, deleting photos that has to do with the school, that's to the extreme haba!!!
Is there any legal ground to pursue this case or is it me just being emotional hurt that my wife's privacy has been trampled upon and I need to act. What should be my next point of action?
Thanks NewDadTroubles
Do you have evidence to proof the head master or mistress deleted the phone?? Was there any witnesses at the scene to back up your story?? Court of law isn't a place of hearsay....its a place of fact evidence....if you have no video prove of her deleting the messages nor witnesses to back up your claim just lock up....why your wife sef go drop her fone with her boss on last day of work
madridguy: If not the wicked and heartless leaders we have, I don't see any reason married women should be working. Women are home maker, they are to be at home looking after the kids.
Women are no longer staying at home again due to the harsh economy and the results is what we are seeing in our society of today.
Train your daughter through university and have dem become housewives.
Lighthousetechn: Don't worry I've sorted myself. My wife and kid are now in good shape. Will soon be discharge.
I regret ever doing this with my last blood. I wish i can undo it, but it's too late as the post has already been quoted. Just imagine you quoting me that i had 9 months to prepare. As if i was sleeping that 9 months. Do you know bills that I've been footing? I believe you are among those who believe anybody that seek for help is lazy. And the worst of it is that your type hardly render help due to the fact that you too need help. Do you know the loads I've being carrying even upon that I fully prepared for my unborn child, but never knew it will be through C.S. I paid my house rent on Tuesday and on Sunday same week we were in hospital.
Stop saying what you have no idea about. If care is not taken, i work harder than you. If someone seek for assistance, if you can't help, you can just honourably ignore the fellow. Don't be the reason why someone miss his/her helper.
Meanwhile, To the glory of God, my wife is getting better. Will soon be discharge from the hospital. Have a nice day
Omo end the sob story, you no get money but you get prick to give woman belle....my friend getat