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Crime / Re: Video Footage Captures Robbers Operating In Broad Day Light In Benin (Video) by Ifakiland(m): 10:11pm On Jan 10, 2023
Bvlgari:
Video footage captures arm robbers operating in broad day light in Benin city

Source;

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnO8jOppgmw/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sx-2epPMmog

Wait them use ak 47 take dey Rob phones and bags for road?
Lolzzzzz it's laffable na skit biko
Family / Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Ifakiland(m): 9:54pm On Jan 10, 2023
All these fake stories no dey move me
Education / Re: Visa Denial: Canadian College Withholds Nigerian Applicant’s Fees (pics) by Ifakiland(m): 11:53pm On Jan 09, 2023
frog12:
some of these schools force you to reserve a seat by paying. before even collecting visa.

[b][/b]
Glad you said "some" also they will say pay deposit....not paying half or full fee....this story shows the girl paid even more than half of fees before visa...who does dat?
Religion / Re: Ibiyeomie Bans Couples From Having Sex During Fasting by Ifakiland(m): 11:49pm On Jan 09, 2023
chokekachy:


https://independent.ng/ibiyeomie-bans-couples-from-having-sex-during-fasting/?utm_source=&utm_medium=%5Btwitter%5D
Whatever he likes he should tell his foolish members, I don't care, its not my tithe he's using to look fresh
Crime / Re: Woman Allegedly Set Ablaze By Her 'Jealous' Co-Wife Dies In Owerri (Graphic Pix) by Ifakiland(m): 11:33pm On Jan 09, 2023
Mercysaid:
please someone should please help me, my daughter and I we are starving. Please help me. the last time we ate a good food was from our neighbor on Christmas day. Since then we have surviving on drinking garri since tuesday last week and the garri we use to have hope has finished. the little money I have I used it to pay for house rent so that we can at least have roof over our head. am pleading for help please, not for my sake but for my daughter please am a single mother. No matter how little it will go a long way to help us. May GOD bless you
Acct num; Faith
318747
8996
First Bank
How old is your dota?
Family / Re: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by Ifakiland(m): 12:00pm On Jan 09, 2023
Akwaokukuo:
Hey guys, this question goes to the men in this thread who are married to medical doctors, especially those working in the UK or any other western country.
What are your experiences?
Judging from the busy schedule of medical doctors, how do you guys take care of the children?
What are the biggest challanges you face in your marriage?

I am currently dating a medical student and plan to send her abroad immediately after her studies.
I would appreciate hearing from those with the experience or those whose relatives are married to medical doctors and both of them live in any western country.
Thank you.
You plan to send your gf aboard? Gf?
Back to your question, before you marry a doctor, make sure your self esteem is high, make sure you're doing well for yourself, make sure you won't be jealous of her successes in life cos she will be better recognises and seem smarter than you. Allow her read, assist with house chores or get a maid....not everyone can cope with a doctor wife....mine is one and I must say....its a push to always be my best, but I'm happy sha atleast my kids go sabi book, cos as you see me so, I be olodo near my wife, but den as she sabi book, I sabi streets, so we blend well.

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Family / Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Ifakiland(m): 3:23pm On Jan 08, 2023
Rechargeam247:
Scenario:

You have a good marriage, you pamper and take care of your wife, family and responsibilities.

On this particular day, your wife wanted to travel for an event, you asked her not to go for this particular event, kindly note, she is very social and travels a lot, you allow her, give her the freedom she needs.

Now, she ignored you and travelled, what can you do to express your displeasure, get her to apologise and avoid a repetition of such?

Creative solutions asides sex or money should be proferred

Married men and women only*

To the women, if you were the woman in this scenario, what can your husband do to get you to apologise and make you not repeat such?
Is there a reason you wanted her not to go?
Did you discuss the reason with her?
You've got to understand dat your wife is your gee not your dota
Agriculture / Re: Farming Or Relocating Abroad by Ifakiland(m): 6:47pm On Jan 07, 2023
hahn:


You don manage borrow data? grin
Lol werey, if I show you my account balance, you fir Enter depression....smh
Travel / Re: What’s So Special About The UK That Nigerians Are Fleeing To? by Ifakiland(m): 6:44pm On Jan 07, 2023
fullnetwork:

You that can't even cough in the face of impunity, stealing, government brutality the Nigerian politicians serve you everyday is calling people who have all the good things of life slave.
My God forgive you.
Leave those poor people that can't even afford international passport, they will always hate what they can't afford....if japa easy them for don go
Travel / Re: What’s So Special About The UK That Nigerians Are Fleeing To? by Ifakiland(m): 6:43pm On Jan 07, 2023
Cashsteady:
UK is currently facing serious economic crisis and some other few crises too but why do Nigerians keep flocking UK .. There are other by far better countries in Europe that offers everything way better than UK..

You will be surprised to see the population of Nigerians in London..you will think you are in Lagos ..Nigerians just scatter for London..

Try Germany, Netherlands. Denmark, Norway Even France ..this countries ain’t bad either
Go Germany....your papa dey speak German?
Go Denmark....your apap dey Spean Danny?
Go France....your papa dey speak French?
If no be the same uk you dey dey beg, how you take jobless to dey count Nigerians wey dey London? Oponu
Education / Re: Visa Denial: Canadian College Withholds Nigerian Applicant’s Fees (pics) by Ifakiland(m): 6:17pm On Jan 07, 2023
Islie:


https://punchng.com/visa-denial-canadian-college-withholds-nigerian-applicants-fees/?amp

Pic: Miss Precious Christianah Ademokun
Wait for visa before paying fees coconut head una no hear word
Celebrities / Re: Angel Smith BBNaija Talks About Committing Suicide by Ifakiland(m): 10:41pm On Jan 06, 2023
post=119784282:
Former Big Brother Naija, BBNaija, reality show star, Angel Smith has sparked mixed reactions online over a recent social media Post.

In a Tweet on Thursday, As Sighted By , Angel hinted that she is exhausted over the things happening in her life.

Although Angel did not give full details of the issue she is currently battling with, she added that at some time, she wants to jump off the bridge and end her life.

She wrote: God, I’m so exhausted, I really just want to jump off a bridge.”

The post generated several comments on her page, and while some netizens expressed worry over the post, others made fun of it.

Zeezah1222: ”Please Don’t try it Angel. No matter what you are going through put your faith and trust in God, okay i beg @theangeljbsmith.”

@TNath77: “You’re good, you’re beautiful, you’re loved, you’re enough. Don’t let anyone tell you differently. Good morning @theangeljbsmith If you need to talk to someone, please do. I’ll be praying for you.”

@YERONEI: “Nope that cannot be the last solution you would ever think of because you are not the only one in an exhaustion state. There are many in this same state as yours. Just hold your head high and believe in your self and do what you love doing the most. You will see why it is worth living.”

@omosexy2010: “Suicidal is not an option darling. Keep pushing. May God crown all our efforts. Amen, everything is going to be alright.”

@Danieluzomacon1: “don’t try it, don’t even think of it again. Life is too sweet to waste just like that. Play games if it will help, travel if that too will help. There are a zillion options dear.”

@Lynnth_: “Embrace God. Slow down on the fast life. You are just 22.”

@FataiGrace: “Please don’t take this for a joke. Someone close to her should please cheek up on her.”

Source: BLOG
Clout chaser.....clout hoes

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Crime / Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor by Ifakiland(m): 4:29pm On Jan 04, 2023
So you wanna fight a 15yrs in church? Smh wetin make you belive your pikin no fit lie na the same thing wey make the 15yr girl parent sef belive their pikin no fit lie.....so die the matter biko
Agriculture / Re: Farming Or Relocating Abroad by Ifakiland(m): 4:22pm On Jan 04, 2023
hahn:


Lol.

Obviously you have already forgotten your new year resolution to try to make sense when you speak.

Since you have started this year with stupidity it is obvious the rest of your year is going to be as unproductive as your entire life.

Sucks to be you grin
Poor man, japa if e easy for you....ewu South east
Family / Re: Work Wahala In My Marriage by Ifakiland(m): 1:43pm On Jan 04, 2023
Afodot0022:
Happy new year nairalanders. This year is favor for us all. I need advice o my people especially from people that have been in the same scenario before.

I am having an issue in my marriage which is taking my peace this moment. My wife got a job at the correctional services of Nigeria which is formally know as prison service as a warder like 2 years now.

At first i never wanted her to do the job cos i knew the job will be demanding and will cause friction at home but i decided to let her go for it just to keep her busy and also to get small support from her cos it's not easy for me shouldering all expenses.

After she got the job, I noticed my wife changed in character and attitude and also in integrity, example like lieing and also having an I don't care attitude which she doesn't do when she was not working. Well I thought maybe the little exposure she start having and people she is minggling with are those influencing her. I never take consideration of it. The job is so demanding that she works on shift, at tmes afternoon and night shift and this has caused alot of issues but I decided to be an understanding husband and ignore, I supported her in chores of the house and also take care of our two kids when she is gone for work.

My mom also stays with us making it easier for me to navigate and take care of the home while she is away at work. It happened that we had serious issue of infidelity from her last year that i saw her chatting with one of her old friend and notice they were having an emotional affair. I was angry when I found out and sent her parking from the room we share together.

Honestly my intention was to send her away from the house cos I was furious and disappointed that despite all I have been doing for the family and also for her, she could pay me back in such manner, but because of pleading from my mom, I decided to let her move her stuff to the sitting room and we stop staying in the same room cos i needed space and also to heal from the heartbreak and disappointment.

During those time for like 4 months we had serious issue and living apart and doing things separately, but still in the same flat, I only give her money for my kids feeding and also pay their school fee cos have already made up my mind to move on.

During those period she went ahead to rent an apartment in the barracks where she works and never informed me. It was after she had paid for the apartment she told me and informed she will be leaving to her work station and reason is for her to reduce stress and also expenses.

When she got the job then, it was so stressful for her cos the distance to kirikiri to where we stay is very far and also she spend all her salary on transport, attimes she uses the house upkeep money I gave for tfare when she is stranded. She doesn't have time for me nor the kids cos she will be so exhausted when she returns back from work.

So when we had misunderstanding, I think she saw it as an opportunity to move to barracks and also to reduce her stress and also expenses. But what annoyed me is she never carried me along when she was processing the apartment.

Now the misunderstanding has been settled by both family and have decided to forgive her and give her a second chance cos this was her first time misbehaving. She has always been a good wife from the start but don't know why she turned this way of late. Now the issue is that, i don't know what to do, initially i told her to resign the government job which she accepted to resign, irrespective of her not having any new job or business to fall back on if she resign. She will be at home idle and dependant on me. Not that this govt job she is doing is helping financially at home cos she entered the institution with SSCE cert and poorly paid that bfore the month end she is broke and spend all on tfare, but because its a govt job and also she can grow in it and also become big in it in future, I decided to let her continue the job but she still wants to go to the apartment that she rented cos it has start reading.

What she suggested is she coming home every weekend to attend to the kids and return back afterwards. While she is gone back, it will be my mom and myself that take care of the kids of 5 and 6 years and my mom is old and don't have strength for such stress. I don't think that will be easy for me as man cos I also work as well and don't have that much time.

My decision now is for her to take the kids with her to the barracks to stay with her and will also change their school, i will be going there when i have the time to check on them. I can't change our present location now cos the place is closer to my own work and the apartment is almost rent free reason why i decided to stay put cos its not easy with rent in Lagos.

The problem now is that if i allow them to go, at anytime, they might sent my wife to enugu for 6 month to do her mandatory course and there will be no choice, the kids will be back to me and will also start changing school again which is not good for the kids. The job has been like a curse to the family rather than a blessing.

Should my wife resign the job and get another job closer to home so she can have time for her family or i should let her go to the barracks alone or with my kids and will be visiting them once in a while even though i as a man i have needs aswell and dont know how that needs will be meant when she leaves. I am just in a dilemma now and need an advice expecially from married couples and those that have experience such or couples that live apart due to work or something else. Pls pardon my typo errors.

I will appreciate frontage from the mod for more inputs.
Oga why are u so insecure? You want your wife to depend on you when u don't have money? Y is Nigerian men always scared of their wife working?
Politics / Re: Garba Shehu: Buhari Is Ahead Of Obasanjo In All Fields Of National Development by Ifakiland(m): 8:29am On Jan 03, 2023
muykem:
Obasanjo is always dissatisfied with every siting president except himself.
* He conducted the worst election in the history of Nigeria.
* Federal might was worst used under his government. Governors against his stand were being impeached by less than one third of house of assembly. State of emergency at will to remove Governors.
* Rule of law was all time low.
Werey who made it possible for you to be using that fone to vomit rubbish online?
Agriculture / Re: Farming Or Relocating Abroad by Ifakiland(m): 8:26am On Jan 03, 2023
hahn:


Bros, focus on your business.

I also have the same exact plans although I have not yet purchased the land etc.

Invest in your business and in 2 to 5 years you will be able to travel abroad whenever you like.

Leave all those japa crew alone. Dem no wise
How can you japa when you no even get money to buy land start the farm wey you dey advice anoda person to do....lolzzzz werey poor people don't advice bro....start your own farm first and come back after that 2 to 5 yrs and be vomiting advice oponu
Agriculture / Re: Farming Or Relocating Abroad by Ifakiland(m): 8:19am On Jan 03, 2023
Zerofarm:
Hello Nairalander,

I need your suggestion and advice because I just acquired 7 hectares of land for plantain farming in ekiti which will be planted by February next year, the place is secured and free from bandits or herdsmen but everybody is telling me to do relocation instead of farming even though I’ve invested up to 4 million naira into this project because I love Agric….

Please which one is the best advice for me right now as I know how I can make it big by planting up to 10,000 suckers of plantain on this land and get the return in a year, is there market for large production of plantain?

Mods please help me to push this to front page as this is my only option of surviving
Farming bro....abroad don full stay for Nigeria and farm please....sha keep ransom money down incase. Thank you.

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Politics / Re: 2023: More Labor Party Candidates In Lagos (Photos) by Ifakiland(m): 8:17am On Jan 03, 2023
Can a yoruba man/woman contest for any political position in the east? Yet they wanna be in lagos Chambers of rep....they joke....those tribalistic homosapients

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Celebrities / Re: BBNaija's Nengi Shines In Bikini As She Celebrates Her 25th Birthday (Photos) by Ifakiland(m): 8:35pm On Jan 01, 2023
Them use nude swear for these bbn idiots?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Should The Boss Inform His Staff Of A Potential Sale? by Ifakiland(m): 7:07pm On Dec 30, 2022
DenreleDave:
I want to ask this guys. If you are working for someone in an organisation, informal organisation at that.

If the boss decides to sell the company, is it legal, morally or and constitutionally right to inform the staffs of the potential sales?

Should the boss just sell the company and care less about any decision the potential buyer decides to do with the staff who were unprepared for this?

Tell dem as what? Ordinary staff? Are they shareholder?
Travel / Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by Ifakiland(m): 11:21pm On Dec 29, 2022
Canada just dey use us catch cruise....so no single draw in December just so the point will be maintained at 495+ nice one....when my ielts expires that's the end....I no blame dem.

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Travel / Re: Japa Propaganda And The Mindset Of The Nigerian Youths by Ifakiland(m): 10:14pm On Dec 29, 2022
Samunique:
I've watched with amazement and bewilderment how the social media nairaland inclusive, have been filled with the stories of leaving Nigeria to other countries with the impression that, once they get there their problems are over. I think this big fat lie will hunt, and may destroy our future generations if nothing is done about it.

1. They believe once you leave the shores of this country, you have nothing to worry about again bcs automatic success is now guaranteed. If this is true, what happens to many Nigerians that are now stranded after so many years abroad ? Is the system over there a contributory factor as well

2. Government is bad !
Yes Nigerian government is very bad, if not the worst in the whole world. But then, who is the government, isn't it you and I ? Are we forgetting that a government is a product of the society and the reflection of its people ?
If the government is bad, then we're bad as a people !

This very generation of Nigerian youths is worse than the current leaders of the pass/outgoing generation they're blaming.

At least, our current leaders did not practice Yahoo Yahoo, Yahoo plus, they did not steal women pants for money ritual, they didn't engage in kidnapping for quick money etc in their time. But this generation does and even far worst things. I'm not in anyway exhonorating them bcs they have really messed up this country. But this generation is now worst than them.

Yes our pass and current leaders steal our collective wealth ? They did/do so bcs we allow them to, based on ethic, tribal and religious sentiments. In fact continuous stealing is only possible in the society of thieves and robbers. If all we could produce as leaders are thieves and looters, then that's who we all are as a people.

These same people that are preaching "JAPA" now, will never obey a simple traffic rule while in Nigeria, but they're there now throw every kind of stone against their own country.
Ask them what's their own contribution back home towards nation building.

Did they ever obey simple traffic rule?

What about paying their taxes, what was their contribution to social development and services etc ?

These things and more they're willingly do over there bcs they know that the
[b]the sicitzens of those countries make law and systems to work not even the governments
, and they cannot hid under a finger. Remove the law and oder over there, and see them showing their true colours.

Lastly, I think there are some external forces behind this sudden propaganda of japa. I know Nigeria is at it worst state since it started as a nation, but if we all run away, who will rescue and build it, where would we run back to when the jungle is matured outside ?

Nations are built by their citizens.

And for those of you outside Nigeria whose job now is to mock and denigrate the country, remember your people are still leaving here.

Some are even going as far as mocking God, the two major religions, saying all manner of things against the church, mosque etc. For your information, Nigerians have always been religious, it's in our DNA. There's a time Nigeria was working, our currency was better than the British pounds. My mother's senior brothers who schooled in the UK came back to Nigeria to work, and that didn't make people less religious.

Maybe you forgot, I will remind some of you that, some of your parents wouldn't have been educated but for the help the church and missionary Schools .

https://www.nairaland.com/7495060/why-nigerians-less-religious-when/2

Build, don't destroy the Nation


Nlpf mod, DisGuy, justwise, seun, lalasticlala and co









Oga stay in Nigeria na, with the way you like Nigeria, may dey deny you vi's anytime you process visa werey.

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Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 8 by Ifakiland(m): 10:14am On Dec 28, 2022
Ritzy2022:

Good day. Has your application been treated now? I initiated 2 form A applications; 30th October and 7th November. October application has been treated, still waiting for them to debit the second one.
I also did uba on the 7th of Nov....nothing yet....hoping it gets treated soon though
Travel / Re: Is Relocation Abroad The New Success? by Ifakiland(m): 11:12pm On Dec 27, 2022
Spiff20:
Are you living in Nigeria or in Togo? Over 200 million people here, don't you think it's a huge market? Won't you start here first before you go international? Or you want me to give you a list of naira millionaires? Some of you are just far from reality. If you want to japa, then japa. But there home made billionaires who will buy your entire net worth after staying abroad for 10 years. You people should be deceiving yourselves that abroad is the only path to success.
Lolzzz you wish....you know nothing.
Travel / Re: Is Relocation Abroad The New Success? by Ifakiland(m): 4:48pm On Dec 27, 2022
Spiff20:
Nigeria is insecure no doubt, but that's not the chief reason for the high rate of relocation. If you stay in Obudu, Nigeria, or in Mambilla, you may never experience police brutality and recklessness. Insecurity is not everywhere. Bottom line, whatever rocks your boat. But traveling abroad is not a passport to success because times without number, people have proven that you can stay in Nigeria and succeed. Hinging your success on a change of location means you are shallow-minded and you're the problem not Nigeria.
How many businessmen became millionaires trading in Nigeria or with naira alone? Dey there dey console yourself.....odogwue bitters that's N800 in Nigeria is £30 in the uk....30x905 is N27k foreign trade in foreign currency is the real deal.....by all standard....leaving Nigeria is goal.
Family / Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Ifakiland(m): 4:45pm On Dec 27, 2022
Well it depends on the man's mood at that point in time tho....if I no dey mood, omo make no woman try this kind nonsense with me

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Politics / Re: Unpaid ‘Tax’: Bandits Kill 4, Abduct Over 100 Farmers In Niger by Ifakiland(m): 2:38pm On Dec 27, 2022
Islie:


Bandits have killed no fewer than four farmers and abducted over 100 others including women and children from 14 communities in Mashegu and Rafi local…





https://dailytrust.com/unpaid-tax-bandits-kill-4-abduct-over-100-farmers-in-niger/
K...Good.
Travel / Re: Is Relocation Abroad The New Success? by Ifakiland(m): 2:37pm On Dec 27, 2022
loswhite:
What is your own definition of success? He called only those that are close to him and you decided to bring it to nairaland
Na jealousy and envy dey worry the op, if the man no tell dem, him for say relative left Nigeria without telling his relatives, now him tell the bastard, him still dey ask weda na good news....domestic enemy, that family should be careful of the op bastard

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Travel / Re: Is Relocation Abroad The New Success? by Ifakiland(m): 2:34pm On Dec 27, 2022
donestk:
Recently a family friend of ours - a very successful man with lots of properties called to announce their relocation to the UK.

Is this the new success or just a herd mentality?
Werey dey ask mumu question till police go accidentally shoot your papa and mama for ajah

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Sports / Re: Christmas: Georgina Rodriguez Surprises Ronaldo With a Rolls Royce by Ifakiland(m): 6:53pm On Dec 26, 2022
fergie001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1zki2Q3WTEg


Georgina Rodriguez

When you have a boss lady as a gf/wife....love is sweet.....I hate broke bishes.....any broke bish wey smile at me trailer go jam her
Travel / Re: Why Are Nigerians Japing To The UK When UK Workers are On Strike For Poor Salary by Ifakiland(m): 6:47pm On Dec 26, 2022
ednut1:
Average income in uk is 31k, people who did cleaning jobs when i dey uk some 14 years ago ( minimum wage then was 5.50) were able to save and build houses in Nigeria lol . 60k na big man salary for Uk, some doctors in Uk earn that.
No mind the werey.....him dey call 60k pounds per year small smh

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