₦airaland Forum

bigsam75:
Between investing 10million naira in Nigeria or JAPA with 10M which one is the best?

For you to even ask that question means you can't do well abroad....stay in Nigeria...dey rear fowl or goat.

kenedyx:
I got a huge contract through my brother's company.

The contract is securely in my possession now and I've been fully paid. Initially, the plan was for my bro to supply me the materials

But the issue now is the quotation he's giving me is way higher than what I'm getting elsewhere.

I've asked him to beat down his price but he's adamant. I plan on sidelining him if he doesn't do the needful.

Guys any thoughts on this?

Buy from anoda supplier....you're just a wicked individual and evil full your heart. Na wetin dey make bros kill demselves be this.

Gboom:
You have a shallow and callous mind, you think you are so comfortable, and you can't experience situation beyond your control.

Your father is the shallow one, he raised a simp for a son.....he should be killed for raising weaklings

EcoBrick:
https://thenationonlineng.net/anambra-sextuplets-residents-carpet-obi-ekwunife-uba-others-for-abandoning-couple/

This is the problem with our society, this evil entitlement attitude....na the rich men say make dem born 6 babies? Sebi dey say children come with blessings from heaven....them dis one's forget their heavenly atm cards? Smh the useless father had 9months to plan for the birth, so fuq him

sqlPAIN:
This mentality is mostly common among Nigerian guys and honesty it's disgusting mentality to me...

I was watching a prank video on YouTube where a guy pretended to be an ice cream selling and tried to asked some girls out to see if anyone would give him a chance. Only about 2 girls out if like 12 he approached gave him their number. What I noticed in the comments section were comments of guys saying the two girls who gave him their number were real women and that the others were fake. I've seen a lot of guys even on nairaland here with such stuupidd mentality. Ask yourself this question, if you were an ice cream seller or a broke or poor man, Shey you go date yourself if you be woman ni?

If I find myself in such situations as a guy man, going into a relationship would not even cross my mind, not to talk of being the last thing on my mind. My biggest priority would be to hussle. Hussle and more hussle till I make enough to get myself a better life...

Abeg make una stop dey castigate women for wanting the best, it's human to want the best things and it's logical.

You no get sense

Anticultism:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0LwqY4huE1nnFDy3V18dVAhVGnMVAP7oAQNBKWkV7wNnR57Lrm8jruA2iSQ1QMWibl&id=100083329287931

Well don't steal from the poor, you never hear them burning bank robbers. These small time criminals, steal from the poor and even injure the poor when they don't see enuf to steal....so no matter what's stolen, they all deserve to die cos they are wicked and evil.

Merch:
lol old story..almost everybody in lekki knows that yomi is gay na

Your papa na him partner na, him dey drill your papa asshole on a regular....na why him mess dey smell die....your papa even sabi suck balls....na baller dem dey call your papa

Banilla:
Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.

Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his...

What should I do?

NB: I've never taken a dime from him. He drinks often and I don't want him spending 'our future' on alcohol! I'm way better at saving.

I'm worried if I press the subject, he'll get mad at me.

I also told him I want to leave Nigeria, he thinks it's a good idea and I also told him I can't afford it alone. He said he needs time.

Doesn't he love me? Should I let it go? Or insist we resolve this?

Lolzzz this is laughable....he should be saving in your account? As what? Cbn governor wey you be? So you wan use him money do guarantor say him no go leave you abi you girls are just mad ni?

segtech68:
I'm in a very serious relationship which will likely lead to marriage before the middle of this year. she's a good lady, very decent, God fearing and has a good Job. We both love each other so there's no point waiting than to marry her. We've talked about it and she loves the idea. Also , i've met her family and her parent treated me kindly.

The issue is, we are both planning to relocate after marriage to any of the western countries, we are both credible financially and i'm very sure we won't get denied but the stories i've heard about women changing after getting abroad makes me want to think twice about the court marriage. I would love to do every other marital right except court marriage.

How do i tell her politely without losing her? please i'll appreciate your advise.

Thank you.

Ode how you wan prove to visa officer say una two marry? Oponu

Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

1) learn to say no to girls, even if she will die, say no to her.

2) forget sex, you can masturbate. Fornication and masturbation na same sin, just dat the later is cheaper and safer.

3) focus on improving ur life.

4) no dey smile with girls....hate girls, when you see a girl, imagine her cheating on you already and hate her

NwekeUG:
Yashim Elisha, one of the seven Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps (NSCDC) officers killed by bandits in Kaduna State reportedly got employed in NSCDC in 2022, IGBERETV has learnt

Yashim Elisha and other personnel were ambushed and killed at Kuriga mining site in Birnin Gwari Local Government Area of the state on Monday, January 9, 2023,

Friends and family members have taken to Facebook to mourn Elisha. Emmanuel Dondo wrote on Facebook



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02VJHoYLoodePSa2bfCU2TTtSHa82ww8bsNgZXABP8kCugEEHsRL523XSXBSB1QU37l&id=100079125481126

This only show how poorly trained he was....connection to get job don finish this country. Smh

dazzlingd:
Being lazy or not has nothing to do with Carrying heavy metals. He is mentally lazy, what a machine could have done, he used muscle which is unprofessional and unsafe

I'm telling you, poor people always feel na until dem use physical power do aomething naim be "I'm not lazy" the way he lifted that engine could hurt his back and make him serious ill. What happened to using a pulley system.....

ersonleads:
Hello, please I need to know how to go about going to UK as my girlfriend schools & work there.
I work in a reputable company in Nigeria but also having plans to Japa soon. We are actually planning of me going soon so I can work full time while she schools & work. Please I need una help oooo, cos my babe dey talk say if I dey with her, life go dey more easy over there.

You can only join your wife in the uk as a dependent visa....you can do that with a gf.

Domainer1999:
Pls palm credit is asking for my card pin, Am I safe with them?

Very urgent pls...

Give them na or don't you have intention of paying bk your loan? Werey you wan borrow money run abi....dem don get sense pass una finally lolzzz

Bvlgari:
Video footage captures arm robbers operating in broad day light in Benin city

Source;

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnO8jOppgmw/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sx-2epPMmog

Wait them use ak 47 take dey Rob phones and bags for road?
Lolzzzzz it's laffable na skit biko

All these fake stories no dey move me

frog12:
some of these schools force you to reserve a seat by paying. before even collecting visa.

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Glad you said "some" also they will say pay deposit....not paying half or full fee....this story shows the girl paid even more than half of fees before visa...who does dat?

chokekachy:
https://independent.ng/ibiyeomie-bans-couples-from-having-sex-during-fasting/?utm_source=&utm_medium=%5Btwitter%5D

Whatever he likes he should tell his foolish members, I don't care, its not my tithe he's using to look fresh

Mercysaid:
please someone should please help me, my daughter and I we are starving. Please help me. the last time we ate a good food was from our neighbor on Christmas day. Since then we have surviving on drinking garri since tuesday last week and the garri we use to have hope has finished. the little money I have I used it to pay for house rent so that we can at least have roof over our head. am pleading for help please, not for my sake but for my daughter please am a single mother. No matter how little it will go a long way to help us. May GOD bless you
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First Bank

How old is your dota?

Akwaokukuo:
Hey guys, this question goes to the men in this thread who are married to medical doctors, especially those working in the UK or any other western country.
What are your experiences?
Judging from the busy schedule of medical doctors, how do you guys take care of the children?
What are the biggest challanges you face in your marriage?

I am currently dating a medical student and plan to send her abroad immediately after her studies.
I would appreciate hearing from those with the experience or those whose relatives are married to medical doctors and both of them live in any western country.
Thank you.

You plan to send your gf aboard? Gf?
Back to your question, before you marry a doctor, make sure your self esteem is high, make sure you're doing well for yourself, make sure you won't be jealous of her successes in life cos she will be better recognises and seem smarter than you. Allow her read, assist with house chores or get a maid....not everyone can cope with a doctor wife....mine is one and I must say....its a push to always be my best, but I'm happy sha atleast my kids go sabi book, cos as you see me so, I be olodo near my wife, but den as she sabi book, I sabi streets, so we blend well.

Rechargeam247:
Scenario:

You have a good marriage, you pamper and take care of your wife, family and responsibilities.

On this particular day, your wife wanted to travel for an event, you asked her not to go for this particular event, kindly note, she is very social and travels a lot, you allow her, give her the freedom she needs.

Now, she ignored you and travelled, what can you do to express your displeasure, get her to apologise and avoid a repetition of such?

Creative solutions asides sex or money should be proferred

Married men and women only*

To the women, if you were the woman in this scenario, what can your husband do to get you to apologise and make you not repeat such?

Is there a reason you wanted her not to go?
Did you discuss the reason with her?
You've got to understand dat your wife is your gee not your dota

hahn:
You don manage borrow data?

Lol werey, if I show you my account balance, you fir Enter depression....smh

fullnetwork:
You that can't even cough in the face of impunity, stealing, government brutality the Nigerian politicians serve you everyday is calling people who have all the good things of life slave.
My God forgive you.

Leave those poor people that can't even afford international passport, they will always hate what they can't afford....if japa easy them for don go

Cashsteady:
UK is currently facing serious economic crisis and some other few crises too but why do Nigerians keep flocking UK .. There are other by far better countries in Europe that offers everything way better than UK..

You will be surprised to see the population of Nigerians in London..you will think you are in Lagos ..Nigerians just scatter for London..

Try Germany, Netherlands. Denmark, Norway Even France ..this countries ain’t bad either

Go Germany....your papa dey speak German?
Go Denmark....your apap dey Spean Danny?
Go France....your papa dey speak French?
If no be the same uk you dey dey beg, how you take jobless to dey count Nigerians wey dey London? Oponu

Islie:
https://punchng.com/visa-denial-canadian-college-withholds-nigerian-applicants-fees/?amp

Pic: Miss Precious Christianah Ademokun

Wait for visa before paying fees coconut head una no hear word

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Former Big Brother Naija, BBNaija, reality show star, Angel Smith has sparked mixed reactions online over a recent social media Post.

In a Tweet on Thursday, As Sighted By , Angel hinted that she is exhausted over the things happening in her life.

Although Angel did not give full details of the issue she is currently battling with, she added that at some time, she wants to jump off the bridge and end her life.

She wrote: “God, I’m so exhausted, I really just want to jump off a bridge.”

The post generated several comments on her page, and while some netizens expressed worry over the post, others made fun of it.

Zeezah1222: ”Please Don’t try it Angel. No matter what you are going through put your faith and trust in God, okay i beg @theangeljbsmith.”

@TNath77: “You’re good, you’re beautiful, you’re loved, you’re enough. Don’t let anyone tell you differently. Good morning @theangeljbsmith If you need to talk to someone, please do. I’ll be praying for you.”

@YERONEI: “Nope that cannot be the last solution you would ever think of because you are not the only one in an exhaustion state. There are many in this same state as yours. Just hold your head high and believe in your self and do what you love doing the most. You will see why it is worth living.”

@omosexy2010: “Suicidal is not an option darling. Keep pushing. May God crown all our efforts. Amen, everything is going to be alright.”

@Danieluzomacon1: “don’t try it, don’t even think of it again. Life is too sweet to waste just like that. Play games if it will help, travel if that too will help. There are a zillion options dear.”

@Lynnth_: “Embrace God. Slow down on the fast life. You are just 22.”

@FataiGrace: “Please don’t take this for a joke. Someone close to her should please cheek up on her.”

Source: BLOG

Clout chaser.....clout hoes

So you wanna fight a 15yrs in church? Smh wetin make you belive your pikin no fit lie na the same thing wey make the 15yr girl parent sef belive their pikin no fit lie.....so die the matter biko

hahn:
Lol.

Obviously you have already forgotten your new year resolution to try to make sense when you speak.

Since you have started this year with stupidity it is obvious the rest of your year is going to be as unproductive as your entire life.

Sucks to be you

Poor man, japa if e easy for you....ewu South east

Afodot0022:
Happy new year nairalanders. This year is favor for us all. I need advice o my people especially from people that have been in the same scenario before.

I am having an issue in my marriage which is taking my peace this moment. My wife got a job at the correctional services of Nigeria which is formally know as prison service as a warder like 2 years now.

At first i never wanted her to do the job cos i knew the job will be demanding and will cause friction at home but i decided to let her go for it just to keep her busy and also to get small support from her cos it's not easy for me shouldering all expenses.

After she got the job, I noticed my wife changed in character and attitude and also in integrity, example like lieing and also having an I don't care attitude which she doesn't do when she was not working. Well I thought maybe the little exposure she start having and people she is minggling with are those influencing her. I never take consideration of it. The job is so demanding that she works on shift, at tmes afternoon and night shift and this has caused alot of issues but I decided to be an understanding husband and ignore, I supported her in chores of the house and also take care of our two kids when she is gone for work.

My mom also stays with us making it easier for me to navigate and take care of the home while she is away at work. It happened that we had serious issue of infidelity from her last year that i saw her chatting with one of her old friend and notice they were having an emotional affair. I was angry when I found out and sent her parking from the room we share together.

Honestly my intention was to send her away from the house cos I was furious and disappointed that despite all I have been doing for the family and also for her, she could pay me back in such manner, but because of pleading from my mom, I decided to let her move her stuff to the sitting room and we stop staying in the same room cos i needed space and also to heal from the heartbreak and disappointment.

During those time for like 4 months we had serious issue and living apart and doing things separately, but still in the same flat, I only give her money for my kids feeding and also pay their school fee cos have already made up my mind to move on.

During those period she went ahead to rent an apartment in the barracks where she works and never informed me. It was after she had paid for the apartment she told me and informed she will be leaving to her work station and reason is for her to reduce stress and also expenses.

When she got the job then, it was so stressful for her cos the distance to kirikiri to where we stay is very far and also she spend all her salary on transport, attimes she uses the house upkeep money I gave for tfare when she is stranded. She doesn't have time for me nor the kids cos she will be so exhausted when she returns back from work.

So when we had misunderstanding, I think she saw it as an opportunity to move to barracks and also to reduce her stress and also expenses. But what annoyed me is she never carried me along when she was processing the apartment.

Now the misunderstanding has been settled by both family and have decided to forgive her and give her a second chance cos this was her first time misbehaving. She has always been a good wife from the start but don't know why she turned this way of late. Now the issue is that, i don't know what to do, initially i told her to resign the government job which she accepted to resign, irrespective of her not having any new job or business to fall back on if she resign. She will be at home idle and dependant on me. Not that this govt job she is doing is helping financially at home cos she entered the institution with SSCE cert and poorly paid that bfore the month end she is broke and spend all on tfare, but because its a govt job and also she can grow in it and also become big in it in future, I decided to let her continue the job but she still wants to go to the apartment that she rented cos it has start reading.

What she suggested is she coming home every weekend to attend to the kids and return back afterwards. While she is gone back, it will be my mom and myself that take care of the kids of 5 and 6 years and my mom is old and don't have strength for such stress. I don't think that will be easy for me as man cos I also work as well and don't have that much time.

My decision now is for her to take the kids with her to the barracks to stay with her and will also change their school, i will be going there when i have the time to check on them. I can't change our present location now cos the place is closer to my own work and the apartment is almost rent free reason why i decided to stay put cos its not easy with rent in Lagos.

The problem now is that if i allow them to go, at anytime, they might sent my wife to enugu for 6 month to do her mandatory course and there will be no choice, the kids will be back to me and will also start changing school again which is not good for the kids. The job has been like a curse to the family rather than a blessing.

Should my wife resign the job and get another job closer to home so she can have time for her family or i should let her go to the barracks alone or with my kids and will be visiting them once in a while even though i as a man i have needs aswell and dont know how that needs will be meant when she leaves. I am just in a dilemma now and need an advice expecially from married couples and those that have experience such or couples that live apart due to work or something else. Pls pardon my typo errors.

I will appreciate frontage from the mod for more inputs.

Oga why are u so insecure? You want your wife to depend on you when u don't have money? Y is Nigerian men always scared of their wife working?

muykem:
Obasanjo is always dissatisfied with every siting president except himself.
* He conducted the worst election in the history of Nigeria.
* Federal might was worst used under his government. Governors against his stand were being impeached by less than one third of house of assembly. State of emergency at will to remove Governors.
* Rule of law was all time low.

Werey who made it possible for you to be using that fone to vomit rubbish online?

hahn:
Bros, focus on your business.

I also have the same exact plans although I have not yet purchased the land etc.

Invest in your business and in 2 to 5 years you will be able to travel abroad whenever you like.

Leave all those japa crew alone. Dem no wise

How can you japa when you no even get money to buy land start the farm wey you dey advice anoda person to do....lolzzzz werey poor people don't advice bro....start your own farm first and come back after that 2 to 5 yrs and be vomiting advice oponu

Zerofarm:
Hello Nairalander,

I need your suggestion and advice because I just acquired 7 hectares of land for plantain farming in ekiti which will be planted by February next year, the place is secured and free from bandits or herdsmen but everybody is telling me to do relocation instead of farming even though I’ve invested up to 4 million naira into this project because I love Agric….

Please which one is the best advice for me right now as I know how I can make it big by planting up to 10,000 suckers of plantain on this land and get the return in a year, is there market for large production of plantain?

Mods please help me to push this to front page as this is my only option of surviving

Farming bro....abroad don full stay for Nigeria and farm please....sha keep ransom money down incase. Thank you.