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nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

FK the shixt out of her she will get the message and stay clear of u " she want to show appreciation for all u do for her so give her d rod and let the tension seize

Umahi must think Nigeria is Ebonyi state he has in his pocket? E go clear soon Eluupi 78

The husband is impotent as such he sent the wife to go on that mission cos after marriage Na pikin remain

Truth is e de happen even the married once still de Fok available gbola
Just like my secretary wey don marry with 2kid I still de Bleep am anytime I like
Even press free bobi for office

lavylilly:
Is this supposed to be news. True some of this married women throw themselves to these men

Married people (men/women)don't always ask for money. So, many of them are doing it for the pleasure not for financial gains. Those of them who are good financially, especially older ones, would even pamper you finish.

If a married wo/man makes herself available to u for sex, and it is not against ur principle, f@ck the hell out of them. U don't ve any moral obligation towards their partner. Karma won't affect u. It is them who took an oath of faithfulness to themselves infront of God and man not u. U re only a passerby.

I have been fuckn dis married women for about 4times now she does it for the migre amount of 7k and her hubby is bed ridding she would risk it all to come FK me ! More so she is 8yrs older than I am I just enjoy spreading her matured cunt

sacajawea:
She let out a "Mourn" ?

Your call 🤙 is not reachable try again next year 😂

I travelled to the north some weeks back . I sat near the window of the bus near a fair lady with some big juggs .
We didn't talk much not greeted cos she was on her ear phone
However, after 3hrs into the journey she was already resting on my shoulder or sleeping as the case may be I had to adjust my hand to the left part of her shoulder
All this while her jugs was pressing against me
So I tickled her left juggs with my other hand to see her reaction lol she wasn't responding so it seems so I went ahead to announce my presence the more then she let out a moan I knew it was mutual
It was a bweest handling journey for me , she was giving me different sounds of moan which was only interrupted by the occasional gallops on the road
Now I know that big girls will give it all when no one is looking .
At a point I slide my hand under the bra to feel the erect nipu she was whining like a centipede all through hahaha
We both alighted pretended nothing happened the key is it was good doing business with you madam

Dearlove2me:
The truth is right now, I feel like going somewhere for a while. I feel like I need rest. Somewhere I can forget about all my problems and breathe a fresh air.
My husband has not been honest with me since the beginning of this marriage and I doubt if this is an attitude of a man that loves

He has always been in debt even before I married him. and he wouldn't let me know what he do with the money he keeps borrowing from people. Even my friends I introduced to him, he is owning them and can't pay back.

The bad side is, he borrows and stop picking their calls not respond nicely to them.
He behalves badly to them.
I'm suspecting he's into some kind of addiction that demands money. Maybe gambling but he wouldn't tell me.
He's constantly on his phone.

He is owning loan app everywhere. To the extent that the app had to send hurrible messages to his contact's lists including his bosses, office colleagues and my relatives.
It's so embarrassing and tiring.
He has apologized several times that I should give him time to work on himself to stop an addiction, but he refused to explain what it is. Claiming that I might leave him if I know.
But he has not changed abit.
We are always hungry in this house. No baby food for my 6months old baby, no pampers and everything is total struggle. I quit my job last year but I'll soon start job search once my baby grow a little.
In this house, If I don't look for food, then, we starve, I don't look for means of getting pampers, food, wears,then my baby will suffer, because his daddy is not capable of providing anything for us. It's so annoying.

I have dreams before I married him, but right now, I feel lost. There's no romance, no love, no affection in this marriage anymore, as I wouldn't even let him touch me because of the stress, suffer he constantly brings on us.

Money I raised to start up a business, (340k) I ended up using it to pay for his debt last two months because the people were always coming to embarrass us in the house and neighbors were coming to pleade on our behalf. I had to clear up the loan, yet he couldn't explain what he did with the money.
With that start up capital, I would have been growing by now, but here I am. Still at the zero point.

I'm really tired
I'm so confused here.
What should I do?
What would you advise?

U knew he owes debt yet u married him so u can complin later? Obinrin better carry ur cross let that man breathe

lhordspy:
“I am not an hero worshipper and gossiper. For Gbadebo, the future is open to you. God will not kill you, there is nothing wrong in you contesting. All of those contesting are my children. I pray by the authority in this palace, God should help us to turn the state better. There is no way I can hate the igbos because they are among my best friend.”

Very wise elderly man.
Whenever i see people talking down on this man. Especially the south easterners, I just laugh at the disrespect. I am not a fan of him, but he is one of the wisest and straightforward elder-man one can find anywhere in Nigeria today.

I remember few days after the declaration of the presidential result and Ezeife, an elder-stateman, a Cheiftain from the Southeast. Someone the younger ones should be looking upto was asked on AriseTV about his expectation of Tinubu's presidency and how he feels the south easterners should be represented. The only thing that came out of this man's mouth was: 'Tinubu will never be sworn-in, and if he is sworn-in, it means there will never be Nigeria, this country will sc@tter'.

So much hatred, contempt, disdain, venom in an elderly man like that. The mischieveous Arisetv host that probably planned the whole thing to heat up the already tensed emotions on ground by interviewing such person knowing too well his hateful nature was even trying to calm him down, he still refused in saying anything tangible. Except this country must break.

You can never measure wisdom by age. I wish the southeasterners can pay more attention to their elder-statemen who are fanning war and disunity, instead of focusing on what is happening the southwest.

U are madt for casting aspersions at south East

That recruitment Na scam very useless organisation

If u like her woe he as a hotel attendant most of our clients we get on Sundays and u can guess dey are coming all d way from church by their clothing

woginid967:
Have a side chick and have peace.

Not all women love sex especially if the man doesn't know how to really put her in the mood.

Enjoy yourself with tinder, SFS, coddedruns.

But pls use condomzzz

Correct 💯 no time

imagrg:
Be ready to receive AID S from her!

Like Ur papa carry HIV?

Hatrick01:
FIXED!!!

No need to thank me....

I like fixing typographic errors....

Whatever make u happy bro so far u no follow me drag the nipu Sidon and watch

ThugOfWar:
the older the wine the better. but remember the rule ''older women at work can murder for less''.
office romance is sweet till you lose your job

Oga noted my way no be your way abeg no de carry another pesin headache e get y

Hatrick01:
Op, that bwess up there looks familiar....

Na for Where u jam that bwess?

Na the nipu wey she de gi me suck on code

ikeno:
Dey whine you sef👍

I no be comedian I refer you to I go die comedy u fit get help Dia e get why?