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Lizzy651: Read the responses before you reply!

I didn't know his moniker existed before we started dating. You don't start noticing a make/model of a car on the road until you actually start driving the type.

Fuq does everyone think it's Coogar. He sure doesn't think women are b1tches.

All this una lie-lie notice me mgbeke threads sha.
You sure met him in your dreams and dated him on nld.

What did you type in your opening post? Why are you shiting grounds now?
Shiorrrrrr!

Oya researchers,who was the first nlder to be banned? seun sef go don forget.

Nonso,what is "tbh"?

Bye and see you around with a another moniker.

When you finish your shakara, check out this thread and threads at the job section.

https://www.nairaland.com/1522367/please-need

@OP,you got the "real" man but still worried about the alter ego. When you find him,what do you plan to do with it?

You liked or loved the alter ego well enough to go on a first date,enter a relationship so why you hating now sis?

Woman,what do you want?

Ujujoan: First of all, what's with all this font pimping

Maybe Nld is not the place to 'seek such help' . . . . What about local churches, relatives e.t.c? we are all dealing with issues in our lives and hand-holding every potential suicidal person is kind of sending the wrong message . . . It's like feeding the attention they crave and it doesn't really solve any problem in the lng run!

Like someone said, how did we get here? Why does every teenager think the best way out is to end h/her life? The more people's issues are addressed, the more new threads are springing up. When does it really end

I sometimes find the whole ish nauseating to be honest!

There should be a firm line somewhere. People should be taught/encouraged to toughen up and face life when it hits them and as usual, we Nigerians not just abuse every "opportunity" but also over-do each fad.

Every small problem now calls for a suicide thread. Anyways, this phase too will soon fade.
190fan,had financial problems,business gone bad bla bla. He started with a suicide thread(emotional blackmail) and when the thread didn't swing to "ok-lets-get-him-some-donation" ,he came outrightly clean to ask for 170K or so,when that too didn't get any steam,he deactivated his account.

People have problems,get depressed and might think suicide but then when it becomes a trend(as its gradually becoming) then the society would soon get used to it and IGNORE.

Money,wealth comes over time. Todays Youth want it all overnight,no patience. If you fail,you must learn to rise as opposed to threat to kill yourself.life will go on just fine without you. There are nlders that I know from the job section that have been jobless for years,I really really wonder how they survive but you still see them hopeful, loving life and struggling.
If you've given up on yourself,why should I bother?

Life is tough,we MUST force ourselves,accept,decide to deal with it.

Uhhm, Is there anything that guarantees getting a job in this country?

I suggested he joins COREN because :
Most companies prefer and specifically demand for a COREN member.
Network-with fellow engineers. Man-know-man works like magic here.

@OP,noted. Keeping fingers crossed.

Lies.
Peter,Paul and other members of their family were at the wedding.

Airforce1: @OP
Which of the Event Planners do you work for?

Kai.
Hateforce 1

Ol'boy.
Fear doors and ceiling fans. Gobe

smilem: I can't go on anymore ,I've tried everything I can but its not just working ,I've lost more money than I've made ,people think everything is ok with me because of my look,even when I av not eaten for days ,I tried looking for menial jobs but no one will employ me, I give people business ideals & it always works for them but when I try such ideals myself it results in debt ,I find it hard to beg cos I believe in hard work,i'm tired I want to end it ,suicide might be the perfect solution I give up.I don't have anything doing again.so

If you are too proud to ask for help then you should not be wussy to endure the pains of life.
I'd rather ask for help/direction than quench in silence.

If the handicapped can make it,have reasons to stay alive,why not you?
See ya when you decide to stay alive.

@Blank and Coogar,Moving closer to the wife's office won't stop the wife from coming back wasted.
Besides the OP's concern,I fear for the wife's health and the baby's too. Constant stress and washed out daily is not good for anyone,much more such a young lady. Make she no come break down someday.

@OP,Discuss with your wife and see if you guys can get a nanny for the child or alternatively,get someone to come once every week to clean the house thoroughly,make soups and stew for the week.
Find out from your wife what business or whatever else she can/want to do that would not be as consuming as her present job.
Draw up a start up budget plan,fix a realistic date for her to resign.

Eko oni baje its citizens oh.Ko easy rara.

Making me a grandmother One funky,cool grannie i am. Baba God noni

This result na real shocker.

Welldone to everyone.

PS: Can the contestants use an alternate handle going forward. It will eliminate bias and the usual nld groupies.

@OP,which part of lagos do you stay?

Networking is the key to survival in this lagos. You are an engineer, join COREN !
Every outing(wedding,party,church) is an opportunity to sale yourself.
Check adexen.com and even if you don't qualify for their listed placements,still apply,let them have your CV at their database.

May Gods never ending grace locate you and others in same fate.

Tosh Faketan weds Feli. O ga adi kpo-kpo this december. Agaba nyere m card,so Feli wu nwa Mbano?
Ala akwupula otele Agba m nkwu ha bu na Ehime-Mbano

@TV1,If a anyones sense of reasoning can be affected by the quality (and quantity) of seex he or she recieves,then the person is neither ready nor ripe for marriage. Why? would he propose marriage to any lady/guy that offers him or her seex after or within the course of marriage,or you think no-seex before marriage guarantees fidelity?

If sex has a binding effect(your words) ,why then do two adults in a relationship not be allowed to bond as soon as possible,why wait till wedding day only to find out they can't bond because of differences in wants and needs?

Talking about diseases,what happens to the couple who didnt do seex during courtship but still got hit with conditions like weak or no erection. What if the other partner cannot deal with it?

When you say,no seex before marriage-does that cover deep kissing,anaaal seex ,fingeeering ,masssturbation and any other thing excluding vaaaginal sex?

In your last paragraph,you qualified sex before marriage as a non-chaste relationship. So, if a woman nags/a drug addict,a man is violent/is a drunk etc so long as they dont do seex,the relationship is chaste and OK?

alutacontinua: Phew! Na on top kpekus matter Ify go come spread mat for family section.
Where have you been since?

lol
Na this topic and cohabitation before marriage carry me come.
Happy sunday.

TV na contestant no 1? Fear go let me ask my questions so? That guy go use grammar scatter my head.

Make i re-phrase my questions first.

lol,the beauty of debate sha.
See Pastor Obinoscopy of no-seeex-before marriage fame debating against. Ngwanu Obino,when you finish debating holla at me.I don arrange one better babe dey wait you.

OK @ Tgirl.
Contestant 1, wait for me . lol

When can the audience ask the debaters question,Is that allowed?

Contestant 5 your refrences plenty pass your debate gan.

E no easy sha.Una welldone.

Kai,I for debate for just this topic Kpekus before marriage - Gbam!

All the contestants proposing the motion seem to have copied each other. Same line of argument.

skimpychick: Agaba isi na gini mere. Isi na tosh na ndi no na di n'eme ginikwa. Ha! Asiri gbakaa ute. Okwa gi ka ify huru n' odu akwuna.

Mbakwa.
Agaba is too smooth iga n'ulo lekwa ntu.Infact ulo Agaba n'onwe ya bu ulo lekwa nail . Ya na Tosh na-eme akwuna import,camp-ua ya for days or month depending on condition of the ukwu.
Kai,Taa wu Sunday

M jide nwa a na-akpo Afam4ever eee , M ga adori panti ya,were bottle palmmy kurie isi mangoe ya

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Dress would have been on point if not for the cleavage exposure. She was so conscious of the boooobs and was shifting and pulling her top all through the event in the hall.

Why wear it when you obviously know you wont be comfortable with it?

homesteady: BTW, is it only me that noticed that Many top musicians did not attend the wedding? are they beefing or what?

You arrived this conclusion how so?
More pictures would be released by morrow,Relax. Everyone that matters was there including Ify .

As for the internet haters,What stops y'all from hugging a wet transformer?
Peter don marry Lola . . .Die or deal with it.