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@Topic,better actress . . . definitely Bimbo,love her to pieces BUT she has not been as lucky and favored as Genny in the industry.

Rubi,ndeewo.Weekend oma to you too
@Topic,Onye na amaghi ebe mmiri bidoro mawa ya e nweghiike ikowa/ikota ebe o ga akwusi
You can only solve a problem when u have identified the root cause,dealing with symptoms alone heals no one.

Birth,Marriage and occupation .

Minister of Agric . . .Niajacutee
Wome affiars . . .Dayokanu
Health . . .Naijaking,Dep. . . .Kathiekiti
Chief justice of the federation . . . .Lawyer
Petroleum . . .Debosky
Urban and town planning . . . .Musiwa
Technology . . . .Texaxxpete
Information . . . .Missy B

Itsekiri,Delta state

^I agree with the last poster.Btwn,hope u are crime free and possess a clean record

cantell:
**rubs his eyes to make sure he's not dreaming** Well. . .I'll be damned!

Someone has made a whole lot of changes to their post.

Lets hope the strides continues.

Enwe, Im in a good mood . . . .thanks to the man you so envy but can NEVER be
I won't pay you no mind,just gafere,I choose my playground and who to play with and definietly it ain't here and you today
Ije oma

@Dayo,so na me good to tanda for kitchen?Na bicos i no be Amelika soja?

^lol

OP,dey earn 25K and Jenny dey talk say 100K no reach am for 1 day shopping . . . the bobo don pick race since.

UmuIgbo hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

Uwa na ato m ka okpa 9th mile Aka aoru Chukwu di egwu

A no m n'ofe,ofe na ekpo oku !

chai . . . .On On On Citius,Altius,fortius!!!!

Nwa afor go fry sand chop.I almost "took" u serious.lol

Odunnu,did u see the link?Virtualfun. . .

Aww!

Life goes on.

Yes,happy happy with Paulinus na Longinus my 2 latest catches.
Ha abuo di egwu na "down" :touchdown,smackdown,downtown,rikom elu na ala.

Mehnn.obi oma na akpa m today.A maghim why?

@Agaba,okwa i si na onye chotara Romeo na Ikomi ga eketa oke n'ala eze?Olekwanu oke nke m?I brought Romanus,BabyO dota Ikomi,where is the promised "things" now?ahu m di very hot ugbu a,e neediri m coolant!

^lol

I hula ihe i mere onwe gi "publik assaultu".Confirm before u hit the reply 'bottom'.

Btwn,a nom mobile ugbu a but knowing you,a mam na i ji emoticon onye iwe na asa m okwu.
Cherekwa ka m jekete komputa m nso,m ga eji angry birds and faces chuo gi oso.

^Lele Ikomi.

A nam akoro gi,o di nke m nma?Owuru na i choro ima data umu nwoke,I can easily tell nke ahu maka na kemgbe m biara nld,e wezuga ma 3 sweet sisters,owu nani umu nwoke ka mu na ha na akpa.Ike asiri umu nwanyi adighim.

A maghim ihe na aga nu,ele na aga i siri hu ya wukwa otu m siri hu ya and n'eziokwu a choghim ima,O gbasaghi m.I choo ima Ikomi,ga juo the ppl involved(if ha ga agwa gi eziokwu).

Biko puorom na uzo jor,a na m acho onye mu na ya ga egwu egwu. . .On On On!
lol

^lekwa Romanus.lol

I biara leeti.choochi agbasago,fada na mass servants don chop all the communion bread and wine finish,clean mouth join.

Yeah,owu m chotara UsuRome!
Ihe m choro wu "otu aka,otu aka" from unu nile.No more no less. . .and ma owughi otu ahu m ga agabali threadia.Gbakasia hia ka ndi Mafia Aba.No ochi

Ikomi sef,gini gbasara gi na okwu umu nwanyi abuo eeekwa?Ima ihe gara na etiti ha abuo?Look and wepu anya,let Ohsisi na onye o bu ha abuo settleua onwe ya n'uzo o bula di ha nma,ka ha akporo gi aha?
Dika Pres-elect siri kwam b4,e jighi ihe a gutara na forum eme pillow.
btw,kedu maka Felimbobo?

Lol,a hurum Presido/fromuk na uratta junction na abali echi gara aga(A gajem choochi oo) ebe o na e picki "okuko igbo".Pres de Pres,nwoke isi nkwocha!

You know I talked abt this last week with a friend.

Ihu na anya. To See clearly with the eyes.
If I'm right,in the olden days one thinks of courtship and marriage with the "eyes" only and infact whatever one"sees" after many investigations could make or mar an alter bound courtship.here goes:
Parents search for spouses for their kids.
They observe and watch the person for years(some start from birth)
For females:ur waist is considered(the broader the better),ur dance steps,the way u balance ur water pot,ur cooking,ur height,cleaning abilities etc.
For males:ur farm harvest(cocoyam,cassava,yam sizes),the size of game u bring home,palm wine tapping and general climbing strenght,height,strenght etc.

Both parties are also watched and investigated for gene-related diseases,generational curse etc.Marriage wud only take place when the almighty "eyes" of both families,relatives and communities concerned have done enough roving and come out satisfied hence the proverb "anya na ebu onu uzo eri" . . .

Abagworo methinks it shld be "Uzoroma",never seen anyone bearing just "uzor".
@Topic,:
Ifeoma. . .Precious,just good
Ifeyinwa. .Nothing like a child
Nnaemeka(Onitsha). .Our "fathers" have done us well.
Nkiru. .The future is gonna be brighter/better.
Obiageli. .she came into wealth.
Ujunwa/Ujuka. . . crowned with glory.
Adaobi. .1st daughter
Ogbonna/enyinnaya. .His father's son friend/pal
Onukwube. .let dem say.
Azuka. .the one that came at long last
Ndidi. . .Patience
Onyeoma. . .good fella
Ziemife. .I have been taught,have learnt also.
Nkem. . .mine
Akosa/Akaolisa. .Olisa is a "god" so hand of god.Chi is substituted with olisa

Not at all,I eat anything I so want.
I can relate with Inkerd's story though abt gizzard reserved for the man of the house but lol,in my own house,the rule then was whoever kills the fowl,gets the gizzard.

My birth town and native home forbids a handful of foods and meat and as always,a very funny reason is pushed at u when u query the reasoning plus all the scary things they claim wud betide you if u dare do otherwise.I ate all,nothing happened.

Serves both parties right.

The trigger happy cop probably shot him cos he was on mufti and therefore he assumed he is a powerless civilian.The dead soja sef dey flex with a armed policeman cos he believed that been a soja makes u a sort of invisible god.

No victor,no vanquished.

@OP,u said u are a graduate but u've been surviving from hand to mouth courtesy of ur menial jobs for years now,pls what did u read in school?There might be someone out there that can link u up to a better job.
If u are not capable of providing the basics for urself,pls don't make the mistake of bringing in a lady to compound issues.Waiting a few more years won't hurt.

@OP,I'm going to tell u what i wud tell my sister and also pretend ur hubby is my brother.
This man endured alot,deprieved himself alot of things to be able to get u over there.Perharps he never envisaged things wud get rough this way,maybe he had dreams and visions of u coming over and somehow,getting a "miracle job",could it be that things got rough at work for him?Don't go yet,pls this is a phase that wud pass away,biko.
What do u do spend all ur day doing?when he gets back from work do u care enough to ask how his day went?His food ready and warm,house well kept?
You are not his slave honey but such lil' gestures goes a long way.
Make a joke out of the accent ish,when he walks through the door,meet him with a deep kiss,take his briefcase and in ur best thick "igbotic-americana" accent go "love of my life hope u had a good day".Give him body massages at bed,talk abt ur unemploymed state with him often and remind him daily to check out openings for you.

This phase too shall pass,stay and tame him!

It's always the "woman"!

When there is an erection,its a woman's fault,when there is none,the woman did not try enough.

I know men are babies but the pathetic cry-cry ones outnumber the sane ones.

When a woman says hi to a man and the man moves in with her;the woman is "desperate",when a man says hi and the lady follows him home,she is a "slUt".

Men have refused to man-up and wud stop at nothing in shifting blames for all their actions and non-actions with women.

Yeye de reek.

^Conclusively,you have decided to let others run ur life,ur enviroment and culture to dictate ur future?Weldone and welcome to the abused women association(AWA).Fasten ur seatblet and enjoy the ride!

2011 and u are letting societal norms influence ur decision?When u marry this guy and end up abused and crying all night,wud the society be there to help you.So u are afraid of taking charge of your "OWN" life?and u expect the man to take u serious or treat u any better?

The boys mom said this and that,Puleasee ooh.So u are hanging on cos the mom assured u he loves u bla bla?When he panel beat or frustrate u to ur grave,the mom wud say the same thing to the next girl.

Babe,pls place a tag on ur head and don't swallow any BS from any unrepentant and pathetic bulldog cos u don't want to be alone.

Go out and have fun,open up ur heart,join a singles club or something,u wud meet new and better people. . .Need guys 2 keep ur phone busy?,go to the dating section and drop ur number(Dayo,born2fuck etc wud call 4 sure)

Dayo this ur condition is getting worrisome.Anywhere u enter,u leave a scent and trail,a bad one for that matter.

Are you sure all is well?I'd put you in my prayers.

Milk drink all the way!but none of those rubbish u have up there. . .Fresh and cool fura d'nunu makes me flash everyone around my 32.

^You did not answer Dayo's question yet!What possibly could be good in the man u painted above?Gifts,good sex,constant apology after every abuse,he's goodlooking,he's a fire brand child of God or what

Are u even sure what u feel for him is love or u are holding unto him cos of ur insecurity ieU think u can't attract a better man(the picture ur last post is painting)?Do u even love urself?You sound as If u have resigned urself to ur fate. . .
You are young and have ur whole life ahead of you,if he treats u like trash pls take a walk,u wud surely get a better man that u deserve.