NPTJ:
I'm a Yoruba while the man is an igbo man from Imo state

I would be grateful if you can support us with the transport fare. I and my elder brother will go see her and hopefully sleep over in the church before coming back to Lagos because i don't think my dad would want us to sleep under the man's roof for now

Thanks

How much will it cost for you to go to PH and return.
Good idea not to sleep in his house please.

Maxymilliano:

http://saharareporters.com/2021/10/10/ipob-bans-rearing-consumption-cows-south-east-nigeria

I actually support this.
It will force breeders of Efi Igbo ( igbo cows) to expand their business.
Then fulanis will have no need to bring their nama to Igboland

Must it be on camera? Doesn't this girl have one friend with commonsense?

NPTJ:
Good morning house

The only sister i and my other siblings had met a Man around 2008. He's from Imo state, a deportee from Germany who was in his late 40s when they met. My sister was just out of high school then and struggling to secure admission into any of the tertiary institutions. Luckily, she got admission to study law at Unilag after her second attempt. Sadly, there was no money to process the admission, she lost it. She was the first and only daughter of our parents. My parents were incapacitated financially to support her dream

My father never wanted her to work then, for guys not to take advantage of her or something. Having lost the admission, she insisted to work inorder to raise money for her studies. My dad got no option than to obliged

She met this man barely a year she started working. She was in her early 20s and full of dreams. Lest I forget, she was staying with our grand mother due to distance. This man got my sister pregnant and we got to hear about it. My dad got the man arrested and beat the hell out of my sister. He wept bitterly claiming this isn't the life he envisioned for his only daughter

He beseeched her and talk sense into her but she insisted, claiming she loved the man. This man was deported after spending almost half of his productive years outside the shores of Nigeria. He came back home with nothing and the next thing he could do was to got my sister pregnant claiming he loves her beyond words

My sister moved in with him and they started living together. We lost our grand parents (paternal and maternal) Yet, this man and my sister never stepped their foot in our house to commesorate. I lost my eldest brother, same thing happened. They never showed up. I was the 4th child of five children. Though, only four left now. She hardly call our parents nor we her siblings. To cap it all, my sister had stopped using phone ever since she moved to pourtharcourt with this man

This same man always attend his family function and very much into his family but isolated my sister away from her family. My sister never called throughout my days in the university just to know how I'm fairing, despite knowing our family condition. A very close friend of mine noticed this while in school and i did explained everything to him. He felt so bittered. He asserted the man might be diabolic, he's from the same town with the man in imo state

My parents are in their early/late 60s respectively and aging gradually. They couldn't felt the presence of their only daughter. Interestingly, family members got suspicious and they kept asking after her but my parents are bent on covering up, claiming she's fine. Yet, they goes to their closets to cry bitterly for the life of their daughter. I asked my dad why covering up, he claimed to have known his family pretty well, that they would do nothing

I'm just a young graduate, still job haunting. While my elder brother is gainfully employed with 50k as his monthly take home. He's being supportive with day to day running of the house and that of our last born studies. A friend suggested myself and elder brother with any of our uncle should go and treat the man's fvckup for eloping with someone's daughter without paying her bride price nor any other marital rite. I told him that isn't feasible for now due to our poor finances.

Nonetheless, we can't continue folding our hands and watch this man get away with this. She is the only daughter of our parents. Her presence is highly needed in their life, especially my mother

Please what can we do to make things work for my family back? I can't imagine having a sister who's more like a living dead

Any help, input or suggestions from anyone!

I dont know what tribe you are but I say shame on that Igbo man.
He knows by Igbo culture it is a shameful thing to take a woman without a bride price and he is doing it.
I suspect your sister is being abused by this man hence the isolation from her family.
If you know where she is, take a trip down there to PH and find her to see her with your 2 eyes and talk with her.
If you need transport money to get down there,I will gladly help you

femoint007:
*PRAYER POINTS ON TODAY'S OPEN HEAVENS:*

*(Sunday, October 10, 2021)*



Kindly, purchase your own hard copy or online version of the Open Heavens devotional & buy for your friends too, as a potent evangelism tool. God bless you, as you sow, into Pastor E.A. Adeboye's book Ministry, in Jesus' name.

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This right there is the reason for this so called devotional. Mugu still falling
It is a money making venture and nothing more.
Even the Bible and Koran are free online but these folks are still selling this
Save your money and read your bibles free online

Is that what they called his ailment?
Knee surgery

Should he have ever been arrested?
Where in the world does the army have a right to arrest people except in this lawless enclave where anyone wearing a uniform becomes a god

Metrix147:
Imo state police command says it has killed a suspected member of the Indigenous People of Biafra, IPOB while another, Uchenna Chukwu, 34, a native of Umunakanu in Ehime Mbano LGA of the State was arrested.

CSP Michael Abattam, PPRO of the command in a statement on Friday made available to ABN TV said the arrest of Chukwu, who has been on the wanted list of the police after participating in several terror operations follows a piece of credible information.

He said on the 6th of October, 2021 at about 1630 hours, (4:30pm) the police mobilised and stormed the suspect's shop.

He said, "On sighting the police operatives he raised alarm alerting other members of his gang, picked a cutlass, and rushed at one of the police operatives attempted chopping off his head but was overpowered, disarmed and the cutlass recovered from him."

On how another suspect was killed, the police spokesman said, "While this was on, the already alerted members came in their number and engaged the police operatives in a gun duel but were overwhelmed by the superior firing power of the police and in the process, one of them was neutralized while others escaped with bullet wounds into hiding."

He listed items recovered from the deceased to include one locally made double barrel pistol with two expended cartridges, two live cartridges, and the charms he tied round his waist to fortify himself against police bullet.

He added that the arrested suspect is presently undergoing interrogation and has made a useful statement to the investigating team revealing their hideout and the abode of other members of his gang on the run.

Source: https://abntv.com.ng/2021/10/police-kill-suspected-ipob-member-in-imo-arrest-one-photo/

Anyone that believes this is goat

dierich:
Somebody should please help me.
I'm in a rural area right now for a particular contract job that will take up to 2 weeks to be completed hence, making it difficult for me to visit hospital right now..

Since morning, I've been drinking lot of water but yet urine is not coming. Through out today, I only forcefully pass a little urine, as little as a handful of water.

I hope this is not the end for me.
I'm scared

Mods please help me push it to FP maybe I can find help pending the time I'll leave this rural area and go to my hospital

You need to see the doctor ASAP.
A dead man cannot do contract work.
The urine will back up and destroy your kidneys and the waste products produced will poison your body and you will be in bigger problem
Obviously there is a problem somewhere that needs to be addressed IMMEDIATELY

needhelp909:
My younger who is age 20 has been battling with a sickness for over a year now.
His body is swelling up.
Eyes, neck, legs and stomach. They all appear puffed.
We have done all kinds of test and treatment, nobody has been able to diagnose the nature of the sickness.
There is no pain whatsoever, just swellings especially after a nap.
Also he sleeps more than usual.
There was a period it went down for like 3 months.
But now we are back to it again.
He is having difficulty in breathing because of the throat swellings
I will be attaching some of the drugs he is using.
And will be available to answer questions.

Pls ignore the typos here.

Don't listen to any advice about getting herbs or doing prayer and fasting and going for deliverance.
Please take him to a teaching hospital as soon as possible and the specialist you should be seeing is a nephrologist

Is she wearing pampers?

Aren't we sick of these stoopid useless photo ups

Ekealterego:

Don't you have a phallus to suck? This is not a prostitution depot.

Is the IPOB nwanu full of touts?
If this is the calibre of people clamoring for a biafra nation I want no part in it

One month only.
Make it 6 months
Idiots

IPOB is being very foolish by systemically destroying Igboland by grounding the region.
Other regions are moving forward but you choose to move backwards, destroying businesses and killing people in the process.
This is stupidity
Any iota of sympathy I had for the group has flown out the window.
Being under Buhari is looking more attractive than being under IPOB
I denounce this with every fiber in my being and yes I am a full-blooded Igbo woman

No
It is IPOB

What a useless country
Everything ends in speculations but the man is dead.
No investigations
No forensics
Nothing
Useless place with useless leaders

They seized the kids?
to turn them into domestic and sex slaves
Does the police care about the girls?
If you give them a chance they will rape the children
Not even their dead beat dad cares
This is just a show of power
Police snatch children without a court injunction and people are clapping
What a barbaric enclave Nigeria is
Anybody can pay the useless NPF to do anything
Come back and ask of those kids in 10 years to see what they have become
Poor kids.
Nigeria is a wicked place
Same way that loud mouthed disgusting looking FFK took the kids he couldn't even father naturally but by IVF and left the mother empty handed.

Wicked society

Sometimes I fantasize and wish I could ask God one question just like I would speak to someone beside me and get a satisying answer to this one question I have.
Why does the bible say we should ask anything in his name by faith and it will be done unto us yet we pray for very sick loved ones and they don't get healed but most times end up dying.
I have seen this happen over and over again and it saddens me each time.
I have prayed for many sick people believing for a miracle but they still died.
It is always sad and sometimes very discouraging.

What is that nagging question you wish you could ask God and receive a satisfying answer ?

Bubu is a goat!!

johnsonmartina6:
She said she wanted some space because we had some quarrel,, i gave her the space and added another extra week,, now she cries of heartbreak on her WhatsApp status ,, i don't understand,,, what should I do

So teenage boys have taken over nairaland?
It is now a JSS forum
Just negodu this post.
What am I doing here?

I always laugh when there is a thread about a cheating wife and the boys will start hyperventilating telling us the man should pack her things and send her to her father's house.
I love to see their frustrations pouring out in their responses
In Nigeria today most husbands can't afford to pay house rent and feed without the woman's income , you all know that already.
But somehow when you type you forget that reality.
Many of the women are the major bread winners .

This is 2021
Nobody is packing anybody's things and taking their kids
Only Mgbekes get that sort of treatment today.
A woman will carry a baby 9 months and birth her and you take the child and kick her out?
Are u mad?
Am I saying it is good to cheat?
Absolutely not.
Her story may be totally different
If they can work it out and she is remorseful let them work it out , if they can't, let them go their separate ways.

walkbrazil4k:
I come from a country where females don't ride motorcycles and bicycles in the city, but would you find few women riding tricycles in the city but in villages in my country you would see women riding bicycles and motorcycles but in the main city it is always hard to find women that ride bikes and many would even laugh at you or many women are even shy to ride motorcycles because they feel too big or they feel that they are bigger than motorcycles, they prefer a car or using Uber to shuttle around.



This is why in developed countries they have bicycle lanes so people can ride and this is very important to reduce pollution and where I come from, in the city, you would hardly see women or girls ride bicycles, lol. maybe because many of the roads are bad. Lol, I would leave you to be the judge and we are not used to women driving buses and all that because in Africa we believe there are some things that women shouldn't be allowed to do or some jobs that they should not do, I think before in Iran women are not allowed to ride bicycles or maybe they do now.



Brazilian women have rights and there is freedom for everyone and in Brazil, you have bicycle lanes where people can ride their bicycles in peace without stress and it is common in Brazil To see women riding buses, motorcycles and bicycles, in fact even old women you see them riding bikes and it is very common here even the rich have bicycles it is no big deal, you are not poor if you ride bicycles unlike our belief in Africa that it is only the poor that ride bicycles, we must imbibe the bicycle riding culture in Africa to reduce pollution so don't be surprised when you come to Brazil and see women riding it is normal here

https://www.walkbrazil4k.com/2021/06/ride-motorcycles-in-brazil-i-come-from.html?m=1

So riding bicycle is now divided into riding it in the city and riding it in the village.
You acknowledge that in Nigeria women ride bikes in villages but you are fascinated that in Brazil they ride them in cities.
In Ngwa there has always been females riding bikes , the female bikes are called love nwantinti and sometimes rich suitors bought it for the bride's family.
Its nothing new.
Igbo women have always been fearless hardworking women.

Sad

Nigerians are so heartless

The only reason this is happening is because the so called GOs like Adeboye,Oyedepo,Oyakilome, Chris Okafor, the late TB, Olukoya, Enenche,Ibiyeomie, Funke Adejumo, Oritsejafor , Fatoyinbo etc have turned the church into a 3 ring circus , a business center.
Any comedian is now bold and free to insult the church as they wish.

Joe4real1988:
Thats why she is going back to her father's house.........nonsense

If he can pay rent and feed without her income

tenry:

Bro, I can't be wasting my time here at this time when I should be enjoying my sleep. My wife and I cannot sleep. Few minutes ago we called them, he had already packed her things in their sitting room, waiting for a day break before sending her to her parents. Still appealing to him to call her parents that she will be coming and also release her phone to her. We felt this is necessary should anything happen , her family won't request him to produce their daughter.

Why can't he forgive her?
Yes
He should forgive and forget

tenry:
Please don't mind my grammatical blunders .My brother in law called my wife and I tonight sobbing profusely and confused about what to do.

He caught his wife cheating on a man erroneously believe to be her daddy's friend.

It all started when his wife's phone was bad and he gave him to repair it for him while coming from work. Engineer repaired the phone and on his way home, he curiously checked his wife's phone and discovered sex chat his wife had with the man she called her daddy's friend.

His wife snapped her private parts and sent to the man. They exchanged so many dirty videos including pornography . All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend.

Her dad is late. Their wedding is one year this month with a three month old girl child.

He is worried about the father of the child cos according to him, his wife had visited the man shortly after their wedding.

My wife and I have been disturbed seriously on this matter. The husband called for advice on the step to take.

Please I need your advice cos we are in shock as we didn't expect that from the lady.

Why was he checking her phone
This is why men should never check their wife's phone.Busy body husband.
That he saw sex chats doesn't mean anything happened.
It is a woman's world, please tell him to be a good husband and never to check her phone again.
Infact he needs to go apologize to her for invading her privacy

(I just gave the response we hear when the cheating spouse is the man.Now let me read responses)

LilMissFavvy:
Perfectly written. . "They that have ears let them hear". As a lady, if a man asks for your past, tell him to pls take the lead and recount his own first, let him lead first, before you do yours. However some ladies will recount their past even when a man hasn't mentioned anything about his past, they aren't wise. When a man takes a lead in recounting his past life, you will observe him to know how sincere he is, and know how much you can open up to him.

Gbam!

nijaomegacode:
I am very useless: ALL OF me !

Sorry o

FFK looks like someone that will have body and mouth odor really bad.
Let me ask Precious