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kayedad004:
RIP God's General. Under you I gave my life to Jesus Christ in 1989 while at Kano. A great teacher of the word and counselor. Heavens have gained a saint.

I wanted to ask if he was in Kano before.
Loved him in my youth.

QuizPay:
I will make this epistle to be as short as possible, forget about the grammar and focus on the content ...

Is this a red flag or not or its just what it is, or what is your take in this?

My fiancee Fines it difficult to cook (though she can cook and a very good cook), I am not the type that eat outside always (I love home food), I only do such once in a while. She cooks sometimes in the evening or at night but it's a no no in the morning, I have to make my dishes for myself before going to work and house chores is even the worst. l gave her 9.9% that's how worst in terms of house chores, her excuse is "my weakness is house chores, I will try to be adjusting blablabla.

She only tidy/clean when I complain, after that she returns to former ways except if I complain again. Any time she does house chores she won't let me hear words, I did this, I did that, you don't even appreciate me, I did that too ecsetera. Her suggestion is for us to hire househelp (and house help is a no no for me, even if I will take in house help not now). The house is even small for house help to come in. Sometimes, she dodges cooking by trying to convince me to buy/order food while coming home etc, I do that sometimes but most time I decline and tell her to prepare food at home.

Although if I compel her to do things in romantic way sha she will do it but must I be compelling someone daughter in romantic ways always before doing what she needs to do ni. Also she works in a finance firm and leaves the house around after seven or 7:30am (House to work is close), back by 6pm but should this be an excuse to prepare dish for me, for someone that finds it difficult to prepare breakfast as Early as possible for just one person how much more when kids are involved waking up to take care of kids ecsetera. We agreed she will stop the work and I will set her up when we got marry and she promised after that she will be able to do the tidy and cooking very well . Planning to knot this year anyways, just a bit worry about this house chores of a thing which I have told her times without number...

The good part about her
* She is faithful and literally tells me everything that happens to her on daily basis.
*she can confidently give me her phone to work (this has happened twice, because I need to help in fixing her phone) , which I will give her updates about her callers, messages etc when she returns back from work and her phone has never be on lock.
*She is open and transparent
*She is supportive and submissive (with the time I have spent with her)
*She is a prayer warrior (she can pray for 4hours ), though she skips Sunday sometime because of resting. And Sometimes, i am tempted to tell her to reduce prayer at night so she can cook/tidy things that need to be tidy in the morning.

About me
Me: Am I.T guy, In aspects of earning I earn thrice more than her but I find it easy in doing house chores, (my mama taught me well you know) do dishes and tidy up things myself, (that was how she knows me) and always putting things in place, provides everything needed, supportive etc...Am the kind of person I return home late sometimes because after leaving my official work, I check in my personal business before going home.. So something 9pm or 10pm or 11pm (depends on traffic) before I get back home.

To married people, Councillors, experienced people in the house, , I will like your contribution in terms of House chores issue and wife responsibility etc, It can help me or some people out there in this kind of similar situation. Thank.. (no insult I beg.)

Prayer warrior living with a man and playing wife?

First fruit is a scam for the gullible minds that refuse to have a personal walk with the Holy Spirit

I never liked him in movies now I know why.
What a goat

Because of N1,000.

Please don't endorse anyone again.
Your last endorsement has been a disaster.

joe54:
Igbo's already fighting themselves rather than uniting to present a formidable candidate.
Shame what pride and egoism has done to the Igbo's.
In Obasanjo's voice " if the Igbo's had win the civil war the South South
have been their slaves"

What is egoism?
"If Igbos had win the war"
Olodo

slimjohn2k5:
Is the bed the issue or sleeping with his wife

I wonder o

Rather than provide power
What a shame

Scary

treesun:
I think Amaechi needs medical check up!

He must be mad

If you are fearful that snakes or godzilla may be lurking in your toilet waiting to nip at your ojolima,God has answered your prayers, this toilet is for you.

GreatBoss:
Landlocked dot circle Biafra Republic.
Without access to the ocean.

God bless the Ijaw Republic.

God bless our hero General Ditari.

No be my Ibani Ijaw people una go use do that access to the sea.
Ibo that call fellow Ibo out cast and OSU till today,
come dey do like say dem like us too much because of crude oil and access to sea.

We don't have same culture we are Ijaw.
I'm from Bonny and all Ibani people Bonny, Opobo, and the rests are all Ijaws.

Landlocked dot circle Biafra Republic.

Meanwhile 99% of you speak Igbo.
People of no proper descent
You will answer fyneface and fynenyash and and speak Igbo.
When Nigerians are talking this one with oily dirty rivers wey suppose cry more than ndiIgbo is also talking
Onye ara

The turned her to Chinese

Endless programmes that have done us no good.
By January they will fast 30 days and plant their January salary for breakthrough and get no where.
Meanwhile Leke is eating a pot of eba

Bubu has done his worst

Don't they do same for their pastor

Dem say she also get bad body odor

hashbag1:
Nlanders,
I have been married for 9 years now, amidst several incidences that gave me suspicions over my wife's infidelity. The one that happened of recent gave me nothing more than great suspicion over any other.

My daughter and son got infection, they were admitted into the hospital. On this faithful day, I was there with them and I left the hospital in the afternoon to get something for them to eat, I got back with the food and quickly rushed down to my office to tidy some work. I felt hungry and decided to drive out, on my way to the restaurant leads to the hospital, I was in traffic when I put a call through to my wife whom I asked how she was coping and how the kids were doing, while on call with her, I heard sounds of car horns so I asked if she was out, she said yes that she was going to get water across the stree, so i was like you shouldnt have stressed yourself since
the house maid was with her, next thing she yelled at me saying why am I making ascertion as to who should go get the water or not, I was like but that isnt a big deal to ask, she was like well the house girl have been the one running errands all day, I responded saying instead of yelling at me, you would have just responded by saying the above.

As a responsible and concerned father, I decided to suspend dinner and branch at the hospital which took me 8 mins to get there because of traffic. On getting to the hospital, lo and behold, my wife was not there, just the kids and the house maid. I asked the house maid where madam was, she said she stepped out without saying where she was going. I immediately put a call through to her. "Babes where are you at, just got here now and you are not here". She immediately hung up on me, I called back, she didnt pick, called her again didn't pick, waited few mins and called, she picked and yelled "why are you looking for me" I was like but you claimed you went to
go get water but its been up to 15mins and you are not here yet, next thing she said was I'm in a uber car, Wow uber car when you just said you went across the street to get water, how does being in uber car relate to that. I requested a video call, I hung up the normal call and called her on whatsapp call, she didn't pick, I called her back again on normal call and said you aren't picking, she responded saying am in uber car now, call me on video again, I did but she still didnt pick. So I decided not to bother since declaring her whereabout seems frutile. She called back on normal call saying she was on her way home to pick some her items to quickly do an advertising shoot to model to her customers in the hospital room, that she didnt want me to get mad at her reason why she didn't tell me before she left, I was like its not a big deal telling me that after which I have found out she never did go out there to buy water.

Husbands and fathers in the house, in this kind of situation, what could have been your thought? As for me, something was not just right, and the most damning part of all these is leaving the kids at the mercy of just the house maid, I feel if there is something she is hiding from me and leaving the kids like that is what
the issue of trust has led us to, I am left in amazement and total disappointment.

You are a very insecure man.
She is already sick of your follow follow jelly back ,nagging self.
You need help

Moderator please shut down this thread

This is for show
So u think they are being tough on crime

Davido even looks like David Oyedepo

May the family be comforted.
May her soul RIP
Please sir don't marry again

The tailor tried abeg

Nezzjnr:
Some people get to look down at you if you aren't in a Department in the church or do stand a chance of loosing out of God's blessings.

I feel it's your personal relationship with God.

Free job
It is a way of deceiving people to giving free labour for their church enterprise.
You waste the time you would have used to work on your dreams to work on theirs.
You buy the land for them,build it for them,maintain it for them,run the business for them build then schools and hospitals
They reap their rewards and proceeds here on earth and tell you to look to heaven for yours.
They call itvworking in the kingdom.
You work on the kingdom and theu are chopping in the kingdom.
Scam

They should go and trade places with prisoners then

Cannabis that is legal in America and Europe?

Cynergy:
Infact, I don't understand at all. I have been baptized by immersion in my former church (Foursquare) at the Unilag lagoon front years ago, and I have my certificate intact. Now the RCCG presently I am planning to join their workforce insisted that I should go through all the classes again which I obliged to, Infact, weeks from now they are planning to conduct Baptism for our set. Funny enough I asked several of our Teachers in the church, all they said; "it is RCCG policy". To be honest, churches should not subjected already baptised Christians to another round of this process especially someone that have done it thoroughly in a church like Foursquare Gospel Church. Infact, if I compare both churches process my former church is even more thorough than what I am being thought in my new church. Countless times my class teachers always asked me how I did so well in the class test but all
thanks to my prior knowledge in the whole process from my former church. So in a nutshell, going through all the process all over again for someone like me, is like someone that is already in Jss1 asked to rewrite common entrance again because the new school insisted I have to retake common entrance examination before i can be admitted into their own Jss1 class. Even if this done in the secular world , I believe in Christianity it should not be so, because on Judgement day nobody will be asked to identify the name or denomination of the churches they belong to.

Don't you know RCCG is a cult
Why are you there in the first place?
They baptize you into the cult of daddy not into Christ.

The men who led the African church down this ugly path are making corrections and the Africans are still insisting on the error.

OmoEpe:
Mesah Otabil,a man I respect tremendously, got it wrong here. When people tap into your grace it is assumed they are tapping into a specific grace of God on your life. No man has a grace on his own, God gives grace, so when people desire that grace,it isn't your grace but the grace of God on your life.
Elisha desired and received the grace of God on Elijah. Not Elijahs grace. No man can receive anything except as giving to him from Above.

Another way of receiving the grace of people is learning under them. Biblically grace is multiplied by knowledge so another way of tapping into your grace is acquiring the knowledge you process in that area that causes the glow of that grace.

It.is never your grace but God's grace upon your life. As Christians it is assumed that all things are from Above and not on earth so it is implied that what is desired is the grace of God bestowed upon your life by God the bestower of the grace.

Elisha desired God's grace bestowed upon Elijah and got it, that doesn't make Elisha mad. It's a matter of intentions not just words.

A wise man once said words means nothing, it's only meaning is what lies in the mind of the speaker.
Seeking to tap into a man of God's grace is simply desiring totap into a specific grace of God on his life. Both ways it is still God's grace because the man processes no grace of his own

This is nonsense.
Go to the source and tap
Why are you hard of hearing

Mine was in 2017
The last time I got a salary increase though was in 2019
For 2020 I got a bonus