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I guess we are in the wrong section, better still its the Title/Name everybody calls me wherever i go.

Sisi Jinx:
@ Igwe 1
Lol, na wa oh. . . You just had to go there, eh because we all know only the Northern people are plagued with bad Engerish. Okay now!

if i no killam for you,I no go get sense kuma?

mixture:
Very well said and informative, but just to ask, if I have to keep dating before I get the right one, don't you think I might have to date too many girls? How would each lady feel after dating her for a while and nothing meaningful comes out of it?

It depends on what you made her to believe, there are some attributes you can really test without having affairs with ladies.
Confidence,Outer appearance,Intelligence and so on, can be spotted out from afar in a lady.
you can even get that of  cooking  through conversation.Humility, sense of humor and what have you through interaction.

The last one depends on your likes and dislikes if she has others and not good in bed, you can always work sthing out with her,or better still feed her with stimulants.

thanks

TONDO:
I fall in love with my fiancee, then her dad stop her from having love with me

It could be easier for you to confuse the lady but not the dad , , NO, NO.

TONDO:
see those harlot, idiot morons. mess your all extended family, them papa and mama

buru'ubanku ---HAUSA

your papa and mama teeth

your papa and mama mouth

The worst part is your bad mouth.

@ OP
Are you in anyway related to TONDO?

DFACT:
I believe you don't go out looking for men,
yeah if  fine man come looking for you, you gotta act maturely and be in control until he knots the thread.with that he won't  break your heart

NOW I COME IN,  DOES IT MEAN HE WILL NOT MESS OTHER GURLS AFTER KNOTING THE THREAD? EVEN PASTOR SEF I KNOW TRUST.


GOD HELP US

I thought poster was talking on dating level but for marriage level, it will be foolish of a woman to let her husband  fall out of love.
although men like varieties but intelligent women like sistawoman and many others know how to go about it.

@ TONDO
where are you from?
guess from north ba!!.

crious:
okso i've been around a while but in all the time i've been here i've realised something- the better looking the man, the better looking the chances of him breaking your heart and cheating on you. However the issue with us women is we love attractive thing, we want to show off our man and make our friends jealous "he's soooooo fiiiiinnnnneeeee'
at the end of the day is it worth it? having a man who you got to share with all the other finer and not-so-fine girls; or having your not-so-fine man and hoping other woman don't see his beautiful soul?
your views? to be aired here

I believe you don't go out looking for men,
yeah if fine man come looking for you, you gotta act maturely and be in control until he knots the thread.with that he won't break your heart.

TONDO:
fall in love with your fiancee, then her father said she is not going to havin marriage with me any more

you really amaze me.

TONDO:
hair of the dog and more mess your father, mother your grangfather werever you are, I said again mess you all

Chei the dude don vex oooooo!!!

Ndoo!!!!! pele!!!!! sanu!!!!!!!!!

muhsin:
Help! Help!! Help!!!

It’s really pathetic, and absolutely obnoxious. Life has perfectly changed, almost always thinking ways to praise a single shameless, dependent, and insatiable figure.

Since we happened to be in the same college, uncharitable Charity bewitched me, yes! Bewitched by beauty. Eventually, any task you know in school, Charity does none, not once but always. Who is doing it for her? I of course.

I am please in need of help. Charity is a girl with unspeakable unsentimental attitude, and untrammelled insatiable nature. Come for rescue, I want to be extricated.

Consequently, I had had tried and tried relentlessly before, but all these trials effect to that humongous catastrophe was that of shouting, yelling or wailing to the house set on fire. Every now and then, tongue of that fire would shoot up almost sky-high. I want to you my people tell me the numbers I should use to call Fire Service Men, so as to bring the fire under control.

-Good Hopes.

Please break it down for us

Not much but that i don't have any money with me now is obvious.

if i tell you i don't know how possible it is to date sbody online without having to see the person for once ~~~~~~
i can't imagine myself dating a woman in disguised.

if your story is true then leave it in your acc for the owner to come looking for it, if he didn't come, atleast 6 months after then you can count it as blessing from either faulty banking system or transfer system.but don't be surprised one day it might happen against you.

Wait oooooooooo,

check back on your acc statement, it could be another person's acc details.

i didn't want to post here but you guys made me to.
plssssssssss check out for the right place 4 this topic.

i guess so,

r_o_b_b_y:
ah ah now, 19 is not as young as u think.

@poster,
try and target her when she is passing or something and try to strike up a conversation while u guys are walking. before u know, u will become friends and that will give her a chance to know you a bit. don't make the mistake of asking her outright.

cool
but don't exceed platonic relationship level for now until you re ready 4 marriage

from: michelin89 on Yesterday at 08:13:08 PM
he laugh am off but one day one day he go see.

Na God wan save the dude be that, abeg leave my guy alone ooooooooo lol

@ op
No,i won't go for a lady far taller than me, i see it as complete mismatch.
i rather prefer a girl of my height or little bit shorter than me.

PHEMOUR:
Put Kondo inside drink for her, then u can get her loots

Tondo + bad advice = disaster.

iceblue:
well whatever it is that you do, you should bottle it. call it OTONDO juice or something.

classic

lol
his name is enough disaster already, please watch out how you advice this guy.

D.baby:
HELLO NL,

I have noticed that Men when usually going through some trying times tend to go into their caves by withdrawing from his partner!

Ladies, how do you take it when your man withdraws from you? what can u do to support him? and Gentlemen what usually goes through your mind at this point in time and what do you expect your woman to do or how do you expect her to react seeing that you really can't give her attention at this point in time that you seem depressed?

please post in your views.

Thanks

You have the answer with you, giving your partner attention she needs is a stress coupled with financial difficulty or whatever'.

sexyLeamon:
not only men, even women a time comes when you need alone time. I think it better to ask the person and find out
why is the problem. if the person really want to be alone, I wouldn't disbur because I think it is extremely important to have alone time. With so many distractions around us all the time, we need some alone time, the best thinking is always done in solitude

exactly.ride on!!

dibolic:
as i seen in horror movies vampire suck blood form man and leave the empty body .
I realis that lagos babe not all like 70% of them have this tendency for man . Bloob sucker.

you are on your own!!

@Tondo
You asked for correction in the other thread, but here you are again talking of comfusing a virgin.
Wonders shall never end
how old is this virgin? why child abuse na.

Opslag:
hey!c'mon gurl,aint gat no hyps,just kipin my game real.sup with u?u dnt seem familiar.

how many ids do u have mahn

expect these after telling your man
1. he might confront d baga.
2.he might not say anything but surely keep eye on him for every slightest opportunity to descend his anger on him.
3.he might also restrict you from going to that your neighbor all alone.
gd night

sistawoman:
I agree. . . . You can't make someone love you by force.

neither will you embark in the business of deceitful thinking you will get away with it.
some people can't just stand deceitful.

michelin89:
You nor understand? him mama get radar wey she take dey detect my presence and before I know it *dling dlong* she don arrive!

i cant help the lafta lol
That means the mom is really doing a nice job taking care of her son.
i know she will change as soon you guys say i do at the alter

this topic interesting no be small.
the way u dey blow pigin here, i doubt you re not naija.

back to the topic,
why not be inviting him to your house,with this you can send your families out or better still  visit him ordinary day and make love as much as you want.

i doubt the mother is always available in his place.Some guys are in their fathers house and still have their girl friend by them. you people can always have quality time out there,,,in the beach,,parks etc.
i guess you asked him for more than he can offer. he 'd loved it you get along with his family and friends.thats Nigerian culture

Sisi Jinx:
Oh no! Michelin you never ask a guy to choose between you and anyone or anything else because they will always choose anyone and anything else. Honestly, ask a guy to choose between you and jumping in a lake of fire and make it sound like an ultimatum and he would be jumping into that lake of fire with a smile on his face, saying “Hmmm, that feels so darn good!“ It’s the nature of the beast to try to prove their manhood. https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/29.gif

I don't ask him to put himself in my shoes. . . that's too abstract for guys. What I do instead is PUT HIM THERE MYSELF - tit for tat, I know some (guys) will find it this appalling but whatever. Anyway, I stop making him think our being together is important to me. . . This is what they feed own, the idea that you think without them your life is meaningless. Go do your own thing, hang with you friends, read a book, watch TV. . . Anything. If he truly loves you, he will miss you and soon he’ll be the one making the effort to make your time together QUALITY TIME.

And if he doesn't. . . well you are better off ain't ya? Who wants to be with a guy who can't make time for her?

that should be the best way to handle the situation.

Woman for sure consumes man's time like no man's business.

kaysy:
@igwe 1
arh! no, no, no see am much more capable in getting sm1 else, see am a very hot guy oh! forget all this 1 am saying i kno how to trick & track a woman to d core, even right now as some others said in the house, some girls out there are riLY wishin & that i culd be there man somdaY, some even wish and hope i culd jst say Hai to them somHow' but u kno what? if u had watch the last soap opera on AIT "Second Chance" u kno how that miss Anthonette loved Ghuadalupe, that's how i do' if i don love a girl i don love am be that, my love no de fade Just lik Romeo to Juliet

but if u doubt me jst try me wit ur girl, all i will need is her number then prepare to countdown ur relatnshp status wit her, shae u gree?

you got it all twisted there.

kaysy:
@ Ujujoan
baby see i kno but u know what? i wish u culd just see & kno how i look like, Iswear i look so hot & cute that any girl i toasts today hardly believes i dnt have a girlfriend, they all tinks am a player that i wana play games on them.
infact there is this current 1 now, she likes me, sHs even d1 telling me "kaysy u'r too handsome, i dnt wana take no for an answer that u dnt have a girlfrnd"
so what do u think, how do i handle this, U wont believe what am saying, am riLY in tROUbLe Oh!

Come to think of it, follow your heart, be the backup , the patient dog in case her man jilts her ,you can take care of the left overs.
may be you ve not been man enough to satisfy her inmost desires.

@TONDO
such a nice name.

since you are here to learn.
is good you present a decent post rather than those annoying posts.