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Such a question,
i guess is not common in my area.
It is more of spiritual than simple attraction.

kaysy:
i really love what Ujujoan, chika98 & so on has said in the house but do u kno what am scared of? if eventually i left her & finds sm1 else den alone the line her guy finally breaks-up wit her whila am now in another serious relatnshp, if she comes back to me the truth is that i'll still accept her that is why i dnt wana resume any serious relatnshp now because i dnt wana break somebody's heart, am scared

My man, you are not breaking anybody's heart here. if you wish to end up miserable then go ahead.
there is also probability of her ex coming back to her.
i just noticed you re incapable of finding another girl as to stoop low like this.

2she:
There is this girl.she iz a cutie indid & i thnk i like ha if nt luving.but the pblm is that ha mvmnts r rstrcd @ ha home.she once tld me that if goes out of da house ha step mum acuse ha of walkng wth boyz & evin tel ha bt ha ded mum.most of da time she jst sleap @ home in fear of trabo.so should i or not remains a qustion!

what are you proposing for?
whats your financial status?
i know 4 sure you have not finished your education, you can still maintain your friendship with her but only on academic basis.

190:
it matas alot why can't u people just see reasons wit me, @ guys would u love ur girls 2 be club freaks or hang out wher u deeply don't fancy them hangin out, please stop decieving urselfs

There is a great diff b/w a girl being a club freak and seeing a girl in a club.perhaps you have enough time to study your girl's like and dislike.
If both of you like clubbing ,,,thats good.

Now, after going through your profile i can tell that you really need help in English.
But your question here  needs no answers for now.
communication is important in every relationship.i wonder how you can cope with Nigerian girls without good communication skills.
my advice is to face your  grammar  first.

@ Sisi Jinx
altleast i dont need to pay for interpreter in order to be understood.
Now you re beginning to type like him.
let him come and make himself clear b/4 any help can be given 2 him.

Cristalz:
LOL

And if her husband is unavailable at that point in time?

Is understandable, if she succeeds, i will praise her, if she fails i will console her. at least she would 'd told me if not my absence.

Sisi Jinx:
Advice now, you guys should help a brother out!

help who, if he can't write well how could he understand our writing.
better find another client

Cristalz:
Seems you're not getting my point here. Read my very first post.  .  .its not about being independent of the relationship, its about a woman being self-reliant.

We've already established an independent lady is desired by most men. The issue now is when to draw the line on her independence.  .  .when would she be over-doing it?

When she takes risk in any form without asking for the husband's opinion first.

doncaster:
Ahurum gi ifunanya

you can't be kidding me?

let get the fact right, there re somethings you would want to do even if you know your way around it or  have enough finance, you must tell your parents or elder brothers/sisters before hand.
For example , you want to buy a car, you should discuss it first with your spouse and get his/her support
.the issue here is not only taking care of some responsibilities but she should always try to involve the husband in everything she does.
that a lady is buoyant enough does not make her a man,neither will poverty change a man's position in a family.

~Sauron~:
She has to use her common sense.
A woman should step back when she sees the willingness of her husband to take charge of things.
When a man says LET ME HANDLE THIS. . . . .A woman should step back and let the man take control.

God bless your soul!!

doncaster:
Which one be gberu again? where them dey sell am abeg.
which day them give u murder[/b]ator [b]oloshi.
Nana no mind am as u dey profer solution.

i can see your intention here.

I hate it when someone can't use his/her brain. if you have case related to this section no problem but for this bros you got me irritated.
please carry your wahala go where you can find a solution.
I sincerely believe you still have some respect left in you.
if you wish it as joke not here either.

Shame on you for being a nuisance.
Go to Health section and you re here messing around , shame,shame,shame on you!!!!!!!

health section dude

@poster

Let get into business.

Make some female friends first, study them and decide on who suits your tolerance level & get intimate with her,
Believe me, she will give u an idea of what to expect when she becomes your life partner.
NB
one man's meat could be another man's poison.

mehn, for the fact she has a boy friend is ok to turn you off .
Don't belittle yourself by seeking for a left over.
Go and find your missing rib out there. 
Pele!!!!

HR.hotness:
independence is not only about being able to buy yourself stuff, its also about being able to do things for yourself. . . not needing a man to change a light bulb, a fuse or a tire, being able to handle business negotiatons for yourself, being able to fight ur own battles

You can say that again,
No body likes disturbance, Is joy all through for the man to offer his helping hand freely without nagging or what have u.
Lest i forgot the man has to be up and doing too.
this kind of relationship can simple be termed Hakuna matata
jolly dey go.

But riches also cry

fustina:
That song by Ne-Yo is exactly how i am, when my boyfriend(he's well to do with financially) heard it, he downloaded it for me and brought it to my house for me to watch!!I am not too rich and i am not too poor but i have a job and i am satisfied, i really don't like a lot of gifts but i have a thing for cards, don't ask me what it is, i don't know!!
My sister on the other hand loves gifts, not anyhow gift, i mean expensive ones and she always complains that she does not get enough. I on the other hand complain i get too much!!!!
[i]CONCLUSION[/i]
I discovered that if u don't ask the guys for gifts, they give u so much but if u ask, u get less!!!This is because guys love to prove that they can take care of u, its an "ego-thing". I know this is rude but when they give u gifts, whether u like it or not, pretend as if u can get that gift whenever u like, don't behave as if u have just seen heaven, but don't forget to always say "thank u" , and tell them not to buy u gifts again that u two, i repetite u two (i did not say he , i said u two)cannot afford to spend money like that!!!!

I STUDIED PSYCOLOGY!!!

I don't agree with you in that line.
If i gave u and u did not show enough appreciation.I wont be happy to get anything 4 u next time, in short will simple mark you insatiable only b/c you can afford it.
pure arrogance not even rude.

Busy_body:
Mr Sanitization Officer, google is your friend You are doing a good job around here Abeg, wey that your comrade Ziontrade sef, abi them don ro-ro am by mistake with the car

you ve not been bizzy on nl these days, have u gotten yourself another user name.
I can't recall knowing any ziontrade.

Your friend is complete mugu,
That was a wonderful opportunity for u but you blew it ,
my advice was to play along since you knew what it was all about. is all game of smartness.
Since your brain is not as smart as hers, you did what yo u were supposed to do.
Thnx for being sincere with yourself  once in ur life

Nevertheless i got similar mail from chick called herself mercy long time ago from auto section but  never bothered to reply the mail for the fact it was scam.

Sisi Jinx:
Chei! Who would have thunk a man thanking another man for a job well done will bring this much. . . 

Auto section is too rigid jare, I think it is time to bring some fun into this section. Like the Sanitizers, I too have taken it upon myself to make this section better. 

So guys relax. . . take a load off and let’s have us some fun!

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Again. . . FUN, remember because If I get  it won't be funny.

Character

@POSTER
Are you ready to father a child? if the answer is 'yes' then sing falling in love by d`banj for her.
Else , Rush  to 1 corinthians chapter 6 verse 13 or 18,it will help you a lot ,it d gotta some stuffs on 'do not mess with your body is d temple of God'
At least this will assist in building the platonic relationship you should be needing for now.

cheyi:
@igwe
ANYWAY,THIS IS ALL about FIRE ON D MOUNTAIN, RUN!RUN!!RUN!!!its nt about jackpot but if u r interestd,dn huk up.its a free world

before u reply d first mail did u tell us, now u c  pix wey pass you. you begin dey raise alarm.

nollywood

Cristalz:
If you don't take the ugly independent ones, who will?

Anybody, probably not me,people might think is all about her money.

*Morenike:
No, Old, greedy, and ugly Mr. Nigerian

lol
you ve not answered my question girl.

It really does not matter based on the fact that you meet him/her where she/he meets you.
birds of the same feathers flock together.lol

i pray day and night for my lady to be independent, at least it gives me  confidence that she can represent me well in my absence nd my kids even if am gone beyond God forbid,
I mean it will give me joy and gives her confidence.
Our female folks lack confidence in life based on the level of their dependency.