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[color=#9900ff]I hope with family and what's left of the various communities - people who didn't go home. Not sure if my brothers are working that day. But we'll be at home or pick someone's house [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Cinema
Book cafe
Game house
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[color=#9900ff]Was going through trailers and not even a blimp on the heart rate .

I'm not even that excited about 'Jack the Giant Killer' even though i grew up with that.

Can you blame me? After the travesty of Clash of the Titans, i'm leery of these classic remakes

Ahhh ok one looks promising. The Guy Pearce's 'MS one'. A lot of quips in the trailer, so that should be interesting. . .the dialogue that is.

Sasha Baron's 'The Dictator' seems corny, from the trailer that is. Kinda like those Steve Carrell exaggerated scenes. One part was funny though. When Megan Fox says 'Is this ruby? What am I? A Kardashian?' And the dictator says 'No, of course not, you're much less hairy' lol[/color]

[color=#9900ff]There's nothing wrong in copying them if the story makes sense in an African setting.
Not as if people are known or encouraged for their individuality in say Nigeria. It's march one way, all march one way. All this bluffer is just chasing tails.

Anyway i love epics. I would love to see something set in the north. Something with horses or camels and sheikhs and deserts and war, etc. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Male swimmers.  That lithe body, those broad broad shoulders, that flat tummy, those trim hips and the stamina [/color]

[color=#9900ff]The L and T words.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Not for me. Yea if i'm hurt, i deal with it at that moment and that's all there is to it. Don't have enough memory space or emotion to hold on to one thing for years. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Yes it's normal for most people especially womanoids.[/color]

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[color=#9900ff]Laydee ajad go buy the orange rose[/color]

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[color=#9900ff]Once. Don't carry wallets anyway.
I once had my bag slashed. Person prolly thought i had valuables in the big. It only had my sweater and books. My bags when i carry them are only to lug around my umbrella, sweater and whatever pastry i buy. You won't find phone or money in it.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]What do you mean you're brief?
BTW this is a question for the ages. You will never get a unanimous answer and may get even more confused in the process.[/color]

Freesia:
Why some women continue to date a man after discovering that he has a wife or has a girlfriend is beyond me.

[color=#9900ff]anonymous posted a thread on mistresses.
Some women just need someone to handle their stuff. Married or not, if you fit the bill, no need for long tori.
Some women hope that a man would leave his wife for them.
Some women believe that the man isn't getting everything at home, so they provide what the man lacks.[/color]

Freesia:
I have seen this happen a few times where some people keep staying in a r/ship (not a Marriage ) and they claim they are unhappy. Why not just walk away instead of making someone tag along with you .Could it be the comfort? As for the other lady why would she want to settle as the other woman,knowing he will be going home to his girlfriend.Women are each other's worst enemies sometimes

[color=#9900ff]Some women are no good on their own nor can they be on their own. Believe they aren't complete without a partner or that it isn't right by a big part of society to be single, so they hold on regardless of unhappiness or violence or whatever.
Some women yes settle in, the comfort and believing they've gotten the best they can from what is available in their eyes.
Some women aren't so concerned so long as the man provides what she needs him to provide. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]To fly. Literally with wings. [/color]

Cyberfreak:
Good morning o, my fellow nairalanders.
Abeg eh, I have a serious problem that I need help for and that is why I came here.
In my school, there is this guy who I was really close friends with before we went on holiday.
The boy, or should I say young man, because he is quite grown; he is 24, the young man is the type of person who finds it difficult to get girl friends because of certain shortcomings he has, one of them being that he is poor, very poor.
And he is very introverted, hardly has a social life.
But aside from these shortcomings, the guy was well behaved and polite, but in spite of this, girls in class avoid getting close to him/talking to him so often because of the shortcomings I mentioned.
Anyway, me, being the nice girl I am and being naturally sympathetic towards people society rejects, I decided to be nice to the guy and be friends with him, poor guy or not.
I wasn’t even looking for a relationship with him, I was just trying to be nice by being a friend.
After some time, I started noticing that the guy was getting rather clingy with me.
He started developing the habit of following me every-freaking-where I went to, if he saw me on the road heading somewhere, he would just abandon his own destination and start following me instead, thereby making it virtually impossible for me to do anything private. He was even stalking my damn facebook page and calling/flashing like, everytime.
I told my friends about what he was doing because it was a bother to me , I mean, even if we were actually dating, which we weren’t, the way he was always around me was just too much, and they(friends) said leave him completely i.e. cut the friendship off, don’t explain anything.
But I am scared of that dude. The way he takes his anger out on people he is angry with makes me dread doing anything to offend him.
For the brief period we were friends, he said somethings that made me realize that he is a vengeful person
So when we went on the end of session holidays, which was about three weeks ago, I just made a resolution to avoid him completely, everything about him, messages, facebook, calls etc.
He has been trying to contact me but I just ignore him, don’t pick his calls and don’t reply his messages on phone and FB.
The thing  need help with now is this; what do I do when I have to inevitably face him when session resumes?I need help on how to end the whole thing completely, I don’t even want to be friends with him anymore because the guy clearly does not know how to stop at being just friends.
I’m not even sure I want an acquaintance relationship.
How do I get rid of a creepy-creepo without hurting anyone’s feelings?
Tl;dr, help me get rid of this creepy stalker without him taking out his crazy anger revenge on me.
Please ask any questions about any part you don’t understand, I really need help.

[color=#9900ff]Na wa for people and confusion.
'The way he takes out his anger on people scares me'
'Help me get rid of this creepy stalker without him taking his anger revenge on me'
'But despite his short coming he's polite and well behaved'

'He's very poor'
'Society rejects', 'Despite his shortcomings of being poor'
'Decided to be friends with the society reject'


Anyway, get a male relative to warn him off.
If none, a male friend.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]I love American Horror Story but I'm an HBO fan, so I'll go with Game of Thrones.

Jessica Lange for American Horror Story. Bigoted nutjob

I'm partial to Episodes too. Dry wit!

Madeleine Stow for Revenge.

Just to throw a wrench, Jeremy Irons for Borgais. Blasphemous overachiever

Lead female is tight.

Weird Melancholia isn't nominated but then I read, the director can alienate people [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Beyond ~ Matthew Mayer[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Beyond ~ Matthew Mayer. _{I love, i love!}[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Yes. It's called delusions.

However your case seems not to be so. She's a mess. Mentally and emotionally.
One of you has to be aleast sound to make anyway in this relationship.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Sorry. I have no clue.

But you seem to have a method? Care to elaborate?[/color]

michelin89:
Iice stalkers dont just "dislike" but they won't let the person be. Always following them around to let them know they "dislike" them.

[color=#9900ff]Like sauer said, nothing better to do. [/color]

michelin89:
I bet you ignore people you dislike and don't waste time trying to challenge them ALL THE TIME. Same thing I do!

[color=#9900ff]Just as i ignore people i like. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Sorry but if i dislike someone, i dislike.  There is not turning that around.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Jeez, na so pikin cloth expensive?[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Took people long enough.

Anyway, people always assume not as if half of them connect with reality.
'I do my best to satisfy him', 'I did everything to satisfy her', 'I gave him all my love', 'I did everything to make her happy'. You ask the person? You just do and assume the person is like you and will be satisfied.


NB: If you ask, make sure you are on the same page or you'll hear what you want to hear not what is.[/color]