Krak:


She never disguised to my knowledge. Can you please show us proof?

Rest Madam

Krak:


Kobjunkie never claimed to be a man. She has been on Nairaland for probably a decade or more and we all know she is a woman based in one of these western countries.

They are lots of people here that mistakes her for a man. I can show you over 10 posts of guys tagging her a man. All thanks to her disguise

Rayban25:


How is this news? Everyone here knows

Most people don't.

You will see guys quoting and calling her a simp bla bla 😂 cos they don't know it's a her supporting another her

If you like mistake him for a man. That's a woman with two holes under her legs disguising as a man on nairaland.
If you doubt go check her posts.

You don't have to be pissed when you see her commenting. She's just doing her women supporting women BS like they do.
The only problem is why disguise as a man. That's cowardly and stupid tho

phorget:
Hmmmmmm!
But Hakim wife filled for divorce so how would they remain one when they tend to go separate ways after divorce?

You dey mind the werey

Animegirl:
Was it last week a lady was cursed on Twitter for not sharing 35million naira with her spouse, which was given to her by her Father. Now today, Hakimi is celebrated for putting all is fortune in his mother's name.

Truth be said, I honestly don't know what men want now? If you want to marry, good but also remember the lady left her family to build a home with you. If you must marry, be ready to give your ALL to your wife, since you trusted her enough to tie the knot with her. For it is written, once married you become one.

When old age comes, some of you men will carry your burdens and place it on one small woman to carry for you. Then you start to wonder, why children love there mothers more.

Anyone who applauds what Hakimi did, does not deserve any respect, just bunch of weaklings.

How does @bolded correlate with what Hakimi did?
Do you think with your pussy or what?
Cos I'm not sure it's brains you use.

Anyways whether you like or not great Hakimi just changed the world. So you free to either celebrate like a woman who wouldn't want her son used would do, or you cry more.

Persephone1:
Nigerian men's definition of woman of virtue isn't exactly something i look forward to. So I'd reject this.

I am a fair person with a balance view, I'm just that..

Be like one dude don smash this one well today. See how reasonable she been sounding all over the thread. Omo fear woman but fear good gbola too

Kobojunkie:
Her asking for 50% doesn't necessarily mean she will end up with 50% at the end, so she didn't do wrong by asking that.

This fool again.
Stupid ass biixh disguising as a man. No go find work ode

Tears everywhere

yusfatedeeprof:
Don't be surprised if the wife wants "things to work out" at this point 🤣

I won't be 😂

Made2Last:
Watch how the laws will carve out something for her...

Oyinbo no get time for Africans, they will not allow Africans to take advantage of their own laws..

He should be ready to shit out money for her

Shit out money from where?
Deh play 😂

Wait I have a question..why Nigerian police dem no dey ever fine

Aaaaarghmed:
you are wise,yankee ladies like tall guys.Am 6ft on the dot

They have this chronic fantasy of getting fvcked by a tall huge guy. Plus most of them have this notion that tall guys have bigger rods

alert01:
My story and I choose to share it on an anonymous forum to heal.

Shortly before COVID, I went to Canada on a student Visa for an Ms program. After my degree, I decided to stay. And here is my dating story

From 2019 to 2021, I wasn't in a serious relationship with anyone since I was a student and still trying to get my finances in order. My province, in fact, my school didn't really have Nigerians like that. BC seem to have decent concentration of Nigerians tho. However, within that year, I asked two ladies out who I know were also looking for serious relationship, but rejected me. One was Rwanda, and the other one from Eritrea. They were both working class ladies that time. I just recently only get to know I was rejected base on look and height.

Okay, last year I got a job and I seemed to be doing decently fairly. But I still didn't find a woman yet to date me. I put myself on Tinder, but didn't get match. The only match I got, she ghost me after our second meeting. I wasn't her taste and standard. She was looking for a 6ft ,good looking and heavily built guy.

I tried linking up with few Nigerian guys who introduced me to their circles. Somehow, I got to meet women. I met oyinbo women too. The two I told about love interests also didn't show interest.

Another Nigerian, just got here last year on a student Visa, also couldn't date me.

But the one that really pained me most was an Eritrean lady I got in contact with recently. She is a citizen already. She ghost me after seeing my pictures 😭.

I'm only a little around 5ft 3in. On the side of big, but not that overweight and I've been going to gym now trying to get a slim body. I'm not where I need to be financially but I'm not doing too bad.

since you not talk you should be going on Asian ladies. Women hardly date men that are short. Especially when you same height or she's taller

folake4u:



Hahahahaha Perse. 😂😂😂😂

What killed my feelings for a guy is that he was too stingy. A stingy man is worse than an infidel.

Only beggers and broke bitches tag people who refuse to do what their parants can't do for them as stingy. You one of them
You don't have to answer I already know the answer

Lokojaman:
Realised she is some kind of unofficial sex worker codedly and semi codedly doing her job with bad men, while pretending to be a decent and religious girl

But denying you pussy in the name of I'm saving myself for my husband. I don help you complete the part you skipped

jesmond3945:
she is snapping bro. because she is exhausted and to her wits end. Try and do the assignment I gave you. Stay with the kids for 1 month, cook, add hustle to it, add church to it. Then come back and give report. Her church activites is an avenue for her to let off steam. Finally, women see action more than sitting down to talk. Even if you sit down with woman talk finish na that thing wey dey her mind she go do. Anything wey you know wey good and wey go better the family just do am.

He should cook for one month? Abi I no dey read well ni.

OK they will say I'm not married so bla bla bla. OK o
But don't forget if this is how you behave around your woman just to be cool with her then I am afraid your own case go worst pass op o. Continue cooking. Good husband

ravensckar:
Dale Carnegie once said; 'He who cannot reason is a FOOL, he who will not reason is a BIGOT, he who dare not reason is a SLAVE'.

Unless you were born with an inherent stupidity, there's no way that my explanation of 'thumbscrew' wouldn't suffice. Perhaps, it's because you're so bigoted that you merely argue for argument sake. Hence there's no basis for this unwarranted back & forth cherry picking of words. A person shared his problem, you offered your 'textbook advice' freely. I offered mine which was borne out of experience. Whilst I didn't attack yours, you jumped on my mentions like a rabid dog to start spewing gibberish. In case you have forgotten, I don't owe you the responsibility of enlightening you. That was your parents' duty and since they failed at it, then, I guess you'll remain an insufferable moro.n for life!

Besides, it seems like an armchair critic like you with itchy fingers actually derive pleasure in combating people's opinion. A typical feature of Internet trolls. Let me warn you again for the second time this morning, I don't do well with trolls. I can be decorous for as long as I can maintain my resolve. Do not test me!

It has become crystal clear that being cynical is your speciality. However, I'm a little busy at the moment and I don't have the luxury of time to bandy words with an Internet troll. I'll leave you with the Biblical verse that says; 'Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself'. Proverbs 26 verse 4.


Get Lost!

Don't mind that bastard. She's a lady disguising as a man on NL. Go check her posts and mentions for confirmation.
You just dey waste your time indulging her

labake1:
Majority of the people advising the OP to divorced his wife are not married.

Dear OP, let divorce should be the last option, it's not an easy thing, the children are there to think about. Try out other options first, try having a private discussion with her by letting her know your feelings and the implications. Once some of my gender is earning more, they won't see the need of a man. Fear career women, ask if she still want the relationship. Your mental health is important, if you die tomorrow, she will move on with her life after two days mourning.

Some people doesn't know the value of what they have until they lose it

So when the wife said they should dissolve the marriage the kids weren't there then right?
Another werey

EriMma1:
Settle it on your knees in prayers. At least you should be grateful you didn't marry an olosho.

If possible, you both should visit a marriage counselor. There's still room for adjustments and amendment.

You be olosho na.. Na why everytime you come thread you must type whatever nonsense to support your counterparts.
Werey

tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
[b]
Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.

@bolded is enough for any sane man who loves himself to know that he’s married to himself.
I love it when weak men like this come online to wail.
I need more of this on the front page.
No advise for weak men 2023

DeJoeee:
My gf just developed this recent habit of going to the kitchen with only her panties and shower cap leaving her breast bare.

Sometimes she will wear my polo(which is long on her cos I'm much taller) with no panties
This is a girl who is naked shy as recent as december last year.

I'm not supposed to suspect her cos she's from a very responsible home and possibly my wife to be but the experience of others have thought me to suspect any new move of the other gender no matter how innocent.

Do I need to worry about this?

Please mods help push to front page for more mature advise . This issue is of big concern to me

I disvirgined my current gf. She was shy asf from the start but now she goes around the house naked like werey. She no dey even sleep with clothes on if she with me. And me dey always sleep with my boxers on.
So chill bro nothing to be scared she's just free with you and prolly be fantasizing about getting smashed in the kitchen. From another angle

brain54:
As I recall…

The head butt was during a game…

How can zidane offer his jersey during a match?

This head butt story has so many versions to it with both players saying different things.

Abegi!

Me sef I wondered. Thankfully I'm not the only one wondering. They want to whine their dads

I want to buy a car for bolt business.
To be honest my budget is around 1.5m.

My fellow car dealers in the house kindly suggest any tokunbo car i can get for that amount that won't give me ish in the long run.
Thanks

I want to buy a car for bolt business.
To be honest my budget is around 1.5m.

My fellow car dealers in the house kindly suggest any tokunbo car i can get for that amount that won't give me ish in the long run.
Thanks

Quest7777:
The person I pity most na that bus driver wey resemble Buhari. Till today, Buhari no reason am & he still de hussle wella for Mushin.

Shey you dey whine me ni

Ceenachi:
Shey my eye Dey pain me
Where is the look alike

Be like your eye dey pain you true true

African parants with their primitive mentality. Oyinbo wey dey drop out of school to chase career.. Dem Mark Zuckerberg sef dropped out of school to Chase their dreams but one local African man go Just dey okay with their average life and still want their kids to follow same path.
See talent just dey waste cos Dad is as shallow asf

b0rn2fuck:
Na so one woman try snatch me then, I knack her toto, cum inside her tire, fire her toto from 2013 to 2016,, dumb her sorry ass and return to my woman

JasonScoolari:
Take it easy man, you have made your point known, no need to be aggressive.

You dey mind dem hypocrites with their African backwards mentality. Small mistake like this they will be quick to remind you with their "shey i talk am" bulsshit.
They type shit online for likes but in reality the werey fit get btc account or fit dey do piggy investment.