Dizzyyish:
What this woman wrote is the same reason you'll barely see a female comment on that FP thread.

Deep down, they don't care about the guy's circumstances they simply see it as an L on the woman's part and hope she'll rip what she didn't sow..

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virginprincess:
One of the reasons why i can never get married to a mummy's boy.

Billgatessecond:



This is why I will train my daughter's to always work and get the best for themselves had it been she was well Todo or ok she won't be running after someone child wealth...

virginprincess:
I'm sure a simp is far better than a mummy's boy,atleast a man i can control is far better than a man his mother controls his home.

Queendera:
Lols.

No one deserves to loose 50% of their wealth simply because they fell in love.

I thought love is free?

If you divorce, simply move on with what you have and maybe make arrangements for the kids. If this type of women and laws don't exist, he won't be taking this extreme measures to protect himself.

Golddiggers are not lovers and do not deserve pity

Yes. I said what I said

Kobojunkie:
Her asking for 50% doesn't necessarily mean she will end up with 50% at the end, so she didn't do wrong by asking that.

Persephone1:
Nigerian men's definition of woman of virtue isn't exactly something i look forward to. So I'd reject this.

I am a fair person with a balance view, I'm just that..

saintbillion:

God4bit. The difference between a mother love and wife love. Anything your mother does for you, is for your survival, Anything your wife does for you is for Her survival. I can never love my wife more than my mother.

randymirrors:


Pray you marry a good wife. There's no reason for you to love your mother than your wife. When a man marries a bad woman, it is his fault and responsibility. Or how would you feel if your father loved his mother than your own mum, his wife? The responsibility of a man to marry a good woman is his. Some women will die for their husbands.

Connected1:

I think you should recommend Good Wives for men since them dae write am 4 forehead.
😒

Kobojunkie:
Her asking for 50% doesn't necessarily mean she will end up with 50% at the end, so she didn't do wrong by asking that.

Persephone1:
She did wrong by asking. I definitely won't be smiling if someone ask for 50% of my labour and sweat. I won't.

That's milking!

randymirrors:


Pray you marry a good wife. There's no reason for you to love your mother than your wife. When a man marries a bad woman, it is his fault and responsibility. Or how would you feel if your father loved his mother than your own mum, his wife? The responsibility of a man to marry a good woman is his. Some women will die for their husbands.

Image123:
Whose life is this one coaching bayi, poultry life or plant life? Because it should not be human life.

Connected1:

I think you should recommend Good Wives for men since them dae write am 4 forehead.
😒

otomatic:
His mother is not controlling him. Just like how a tax shelter operates, his mother is his wealth shelter which has saved him on this occasion.
Afterall, there's no ex-mother, but ex-wife, ex-gf, etc.

shantti:


Aunty rest abeg
Must u women ask for a man's wealth
What is then the essence of your education
What is then the essence of your carrier
Why must a man loose part of his fortune just he fell in love
Collect collect collect all the time, u gender rarely give. Tufiawa!!!!
If hakimis wife were my sister or daughter, I would still very be happy for hakimi

Men please learn from hakimi
No one can love u like ur mum

saintbillion:

So u can allow ur own brother to love his wife more than ur mother? Na una type dey go fight una brother wife, saying she's a bad woman. If Hakimi was ur brother I know what would have been ur reaction towards his wife

randymirrors:


It's certainly not written on the forehead. It takes wisdom and discernment to be able to sieve the wifeables from their opposite counterparts. But you men chase after frivolities rather than good morals.

virginprincess:
A man whose mother controls his home is far worse than a mumu,that is why i said i prefer a simp to that kind of man.

randymirrors:


Yes. Cos his wife is his wife not his mother. Thing is most of you are sick. You grew up in dysfunctional homes. The toxicity of your father's relationship with your mum is what you see while growing up and what you'll pass on to your nuclear family. Your father never loved or treated your mum with respect. It's what you grew up with and how you'd raise your family.

randymirrors:


Yes. Cos his wife is his wife not his mother. Thing is most of you are sick. You grew up in dysfunctional homes. The toxicity of your father's relationship with your mum is what you see while growing up and what you'll pass on to your nuclear family. Your father never loved or treated your mum with respect. It's what you grew up with and how you'd raise your family.

saintbillion:

Lol. You sound funny and gibberish. Since I was born, I've never in a day seen my dad having a quarrel with my mom, or beat up my mom. There was a day I raise up my voice at my mom, my dad almost finished me. He was like, have I ever seen him talking rudely to his wife or beat up his wife? It was not a small issue to resolve, I was only a teen then. My dad said any day our wife will call him and complain to him that we raise our hands and beat any of them, that day he will show us that he is still our father and can still beat us even in our houses. But dear the greater love I've for my mom can never be pass down to any woman on earth. I can never ever and will never ever love another woman like mom. I can love my wife, but not same angle or incident of love like that of my mom. The day my wife talks ill about my mom, or any of my family members that day she becomes an enemy and seized to be my wife and a family member. I've seen some wife talking rudely to their mother in law in present of their husband, they will even ask their husband not to assist his brothers or relatives. Omo no be me and you. I won't beat u cause of the I watch my mom and dad. But u will park ur Kaya and go