₦airaland Forum

Beebah2000:
that is why women offer only sex, because u guys show them that sex is what you want.
You guys are turning women into sex objects.
What a shame

which object them wan be again, make them use you do spoon? nekwanu!

MzBertty:
What happened to this babe......I was a fan of her songs then.....another wasted talent!!!!!

Instead of spitting into the mic, she been spitting inside kitten oiling it for a Love Machine. That's what happened

Treasure17:
On paper, the squad is formidable. They must win the champions league.

Chelsea go break them

Carricatures

RZArecta:
So called "diplomat" carried his useless, terrorist behaviour to another man's country thinking they have Kyari police officers like Nigeria dem no even press that him ostrich neck very well.

It's sad that thousands of Nigerians even with valid documents go through hell with foreign immigration officials every year without any effort from the Nigerian government but they could take prompt action against Indonesia because it affected their arrogant diplomat directly. I have no pity for the fóol at all walahi

Only a buhari diplomat. Yamayama everywhere

BadRadio:
Hustle o ! Cos it aint gonnabbe easy. U need millions to facilitate your movement out of Nigeria.

Trust me if you work hard and move abroad, your life will be much better and easier as a young or old single person with useful skills and ideas.

A good number of Nigerian couples are languishing in absolute regret right now... raising babies in harsh economic and weather conditions. Changing diapers upandan and buying baby food 5x in 3 days


When you finally enter the promise land, feel free to marry anything that moves when I say "anything" I mean 50 yrs, 80 yrs, 100yrs 35, 40, just make sure they are citizens of that country. Eg. AUS, CAD, USA, NORWAY, U.K ETC.

Mark my word !!! I will never pick a spouse from Africa. I'll rather remain single than marry from Africa.


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Cubana and him wife be oyibo abi. My friend go and make money and stop complaining.

Rozcol:
Any man that talks too much is irresponsible

Na stress dey make man talk too much. Buhari is stressing everyone like a bad wife.

Queenplum:
Who is Liz Benson?

Smh...you no know persin. Every teenagers crush in the 80s.

Why was he bleating like a cow....they were only trying to press the drugs out of his neck he must have swallowed as a typical Nigeria.

Nothing like having a good wife by your side as a man. I know she would have encouraged him and told him he still has the fire in him. You will how 34year old messi will take that encouragement play hard in PSG. i pity the day he meets Barcelona again, na 3 solo goals them go collect. Thank God is not a Nigerian woman he married. Tueh!!!!!

Hulaballon:
Midget prefer farmer's league

All the best to him

There's no way he will outshine Mbappe except there is clear cut instructions from the Coach to every players to pass the ball to him all the time

That is the only way he outshone Ronaldinho, Ibrahimovic, Henry few years back

He is not my GOAT except he score 42 goals in a season in England

At 30 where do you want him to go. go break leg. This was just a perfect choice for him, and wait till they meet any team in the UCL, them go wear whin

As as confused as your brothers wife. If na me sha I go call my brother ask am wetin dey sup?

Tell her to remain in her FG job. All that glitters is not gold. A word is enough.

Candidlady:
As a lady I still find it hard not to do kwaya (drugs). Bad influence I guess or maybe because I saw my dad and his cliques doing it so it rub off on me

Been to rehab couple of times, currently taking a counseling class although I haven't attended for like a week...

I find myself doing it although deep down I don't wanna, but it is something I can't help

Please if anyone is going through this phase or has passed and overcome kindly share your experience to help conquer this war against drugs and alcohol

Thanks


Addiction is real and deadly

Give me your number. Ikea81@aol.com

hybrid11:
when ik ogbonna wife dumped him, did she left her son behind? The girl just want custody of her kids ,they're very tender to be left out of their mom care
No just come online the talk trash

No, she does not want her kids.. she wants 3million naira monthly for child support

Wahala no be like anything. Wahala na buhari

Baboons on heat.just one week balls don dey full, men think they are in love. Oga you for call down just 3more days when the ladies too will reach their peak of resistances and climb into her bed, hump without having to embarrass yourself like this.

How can you remove money and sex. Then where is the relationship?

Miyetti Allah dey smoke cow dung,?

Hahahaha, 3.5M from a Nigerian man. Who wan pass the judgement. The judge get am. I think fani must have met this thiekwendu from Dubai or Us. Madam in naija separation na 20k monthly when the man get. Better go hustle else where o.

El Rufai truly go school for real?

Will you keep kwayet!

Them don kpuff the guy with beating...the guy have been deleted.

NwaNimo1:
6 Years of his life wasted for nothing......

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Aswear, Bubu na bastard

Why was the money there? No bank? Na the employees thief am

Every Nigerian is a thief.....just know that , including me and you. Na opportunity we never get

A case of give us barnabas and kill Jesus. welldone

Fool, hi I'm don smoke weed with the intention to scatter the woman kpekus that day but unfortunately the already frustrated woman was tired of him using her with daily peanuts that wasn't solving any of her major problems. Oga come miss way with the intention of killing her instead of losing the puna.

Priceless007:
Hello Nairalanders,

It's a long story, but I'll try to keep it short and to the vital points. Please endure the length.

There's a girl i met at a theological college in where I was studying to become a clergyman and also learning a skill under the civil engineering department of the college. She was my junior in the course, as I was a year away from graduating from my first course, while she was just a fresher. She was always having issues getting through her courses and projects and would always ask for my assistance since I was the course rep in that department. It was forbidden to have any intimate relationship with your course mate or anyone in the college for that matter, the penalty would be expulsion. But unfortunately for me, out of sheer lust and seduction on her part, and gross indiscipline and lack of self control on my part, I got intimate with her and we ended up committing fornication during one of our semester vacations. And it just happened once, of which out of deep regret and remorse I confessed the matter to the college Admin when the next semester resumed. We were panelled, after which I was suspended, while she was expelled.

During this time I was learning a skill sponsored by the college, of which I use to get paid some weekly stipend. After I was suspended I was also stopped from continuing my apprenticeship, because I was not to associate with any of the students or lecturers in the school while my suspension lasted. So I was without a job and without a source of income since I wasn't yet mastered on the skill. The condition that was given to me to resume my studies and apprenticeship was that I should go and get married before I could come back to college, so as not to be tempted to repeat my error. But I wasn't ready for marriage whether financially or any other wise for that matter. So while I was contemplating my next move, this girl came to me that she was pregnant, that she needed us to go and see her parents. I told her I had no money neither was I ready to father a child at this point in my life. I pleaded she should give me time to think about what next to do. Two weeks passed, and I called her to enquire about her welfare but her number wasn't reachable, I decided to go to her place, but I was told she had travelled a week ago to go see her family. A week later, I received a call from a woman telling me she was the girl's mother, that her daughter came home with a pregnancy, and she asked me if I was responsible for the pregnancy, I answered her in the affirmative. She then asked when I was coming to see her family. I told her I wasn't sure about coming to see them that I needed to speak to the girl first. She said okay, then later that day the girl called me, and I told her to come back for us to talk deliberate on the way forward. When she came she told me her parents (who are by the way divorced) will not accept her nor the pregnancy without me coming to see them for marriage arrangements.

I explained to her I wasn't ready for any such thing, that I have a calling to answer and a course to finish, that what happened between us was just a stupid and careless mistake that has been as a setback for me to achieve my goal, and that I was ready to overcome the trials and get back on track, and I explained to her that before then I had neither dated nor been intimate with anyone for over seven years, and so any kind of relationship or marriage was not even in my nearest future plans, and besides, I didn't even have a job, not to mention having enough money to embark on a marriage plan. She said she would never accept such excuse, that I should look for whatever means to make sure I come see her parents before her pregnancy becomes obvious. She also said that she needed money to move her belongings back to Imo state where her family resides. I agreed to raise some money for her. I went to do some menial jobs and raised some money, about ₦20k, which I gave to her and she traveled back to Owerri. From then on her parents kept calling and pressuring me to come and see them for marriage arrangements. I told them I was going to come, but just to introduce myself to them as the person responsible for their daughter's pregnancy not for any marriage arrangements. But they disagreed, that if I wasn't ready to come for marriage that I shouldn't bother coming. I pleaded with them to give me enough time to look for money to come and see them, but they instead started threatening me with court cases and arrests, at one time they brought the girl and some soldiers to my family house and harassed my family members including my mother.

So I later traveled to Benin city to go look for money. After one week of my arrival in Benin, I lost my phone and I couldn't retrieve my number. I lost connection with them until I got back to Uyo where I got her phone number from a friend of hers. At this time, I was told that they came to my house several times with police officers claiming I raped their daughter and impregnated her then absconded. At this, I established contact with the girl again and she told me that I should not bother her that she wasn't in the mood to talk to me, I kept calling her but she often ended up abusing me or we often times ended up in quarrels, so I left her alone for sometime.

Two weeks ago I related the matter to one of my distant uncles, who advised me to gather some money and go see her, I called her and told her I wanted to come and see her before she puts to bed, which is expected to be sometime next month (August). But she told me that she still stands by what her parents had said, if it's not for the marriage issue that I should not come, that I should rather send her the money I would use in coming so she can use it to buy the baby clothing and buy some hospital requirements before she puts to bed. I called her parents and they told me the same thing, and said if I don't come for the marriage agreement before she puts to bed, that after she's delivered of the baby I should forget ever coming, and should never mention that I have a child anywhere not to mention coming to claim it ever in the future. And that I should just forget about her and the child.

The issue now is this, I am a bit frustrated because I seem to have lost everything at the moment because of this issue; my calling, the skill I was learning is gone, I have no job aside the menial jobs I do at construction sites which isn't available regularly. Now the little I have saved so far, I am contemplating on whether to use the money to pay for my skills training and continue with it and start my life afresh and forget about her, the child, and her parents, or use the money to support her in her hospital requirements for her delivery. Because I don't want to be seen as abandoning her when she is in this condition, and I also don't want to give up on the child, though I'm not capable of taking care of the girl and the baby right now, and probably, I might end up getting married but not under my present circumstances. I know I've made a grave mistake and this is the consequences for not being true to myself and my calling, and I deeply regret it, and I've suffered for it in any way I can possibly imagine, but I also need to put my life back in order, because right now I'm so devastated that I'm contemplating terrible alternatives to survive the storm, I'm at a very critical moment of my life and I just feel like giving up on life altogether. Please I need your help and advice on this issue. Thanks.

PS. Please if anyone is willing to teach me any skill, I would be very grateful and willing to learn.

When I got to the part that mentioned Owerri babe....I just weak. Oga I believe you were seduced, infact the devil went to HQ Owerri to pick the one that will destroy you. Are you even sure the child is yours.

Anyway let me advice you, igbo tradition is an insult to impregnate girl while still in the father's house, must be the 2nd reason they hustling you to come pay. Once the child is born in the house it belongs to her father ......for the now. So better you forgwt about the girl and face your future for now. When you balance and make some ego you can bounce into that house, the man will break kola with you once you galant. Ibo respect money and will forgive you for doing well and by then you not still even obligated to marry the babe , that's if she has not had another unwanter baby for someone else sef. Na Owerri style.

We need 6 regions, 6 governors, 6 regional houses of assembly of not more than 25, persons each, 1 federal house of representative of 24 senators. 1 president, devolution of powers to empower the regions and you will see people dying to move to Nigeria in next 20years. Aswear.

Buhari is a failure for life (FFF)