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AgentGoat:
Not all higher institutions in nigeria. It doesn't happen in the north.

North get higher institution? Then how come Buhari, El Rufai,patami, malami think the way they do? �

You don't need to lie to get any woman once you have money and big gbola. I am about to kpensh the lady I will make my third wife by January after two wives and 5kids...... Thank God for his endowments .

obsession.

He who marries a beautiful woman should be ready to die young. Old proverb......you think wise men are stupid to marry ugly women abi.. continue. Fine girls are to be bleeped and dumped

Fair and white! If you don't gerrit, na you sabi

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts. M
My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little
What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family

Please don't insult me. I am in a relationship though very young relationship. I'm just human admiring someone else.

You are not human, if not you won't nurse this olosho idea

With this your grammer, I am surprised she was even friends with you

misterme:
And I am very very angry. Gas I used to buy 2800, then 3k, 4k, and 5k. Suddenly it jumped to 7500 and now (today) 9250 in Port Harcourt. I am very very angry. Let no one here disturb me with nonsense news about Buhari and his nonsense South Africa Trade fair and nonsense. No cross me today o. I fit beat person

The gas finished yesterday. I told my wife that yesterday that I will buy the gas today because I needed to get to work and somehow raise money to augment what I have to be able to buy the gas. I told her to use the kerosene stove that yesterday and this morning. Guess her reply? She said she can't use kerosene even for a day. That even her Mum in the village does not use kerosene stove. She said a few other unprintable things.
For the sake of my 3 children I still had to buy the gas today.

I had not eaten in my house for a month now. The reason is that she said that they money I gave her for upkeep in October was not enough (I give her 62.5% of my monthly salary every month for our home upkeep). As a result she refused to give me food from around the middle of the month when she said the money had finished. She cooked for herself and the children (possibly from her own salary). When I gave her upkeep money for this month I told her not bother keeping food for me so that the money will go far enough. That's where we are till now. I have no intention of ever eating her food until she acknowledges that she was wrong and apologizes.

Now I know this WON'T happen. She will rather die than admit she's wrong or apologize. This is why I know that the mistake of a marriage is heading for the rocks and I am ready for it. Nonsense and ingredients. I have endured this nonsense for 15 years. I am done. Anything whe won happen tomorrow, make e happen today.

Bros calm down. i understand your frustration, its everywhere not just your side o. Buhari dey turn everybody wife/babe to winch and husband to monkeys. just manage the sun will shine soon, 15years marriage, there must have been something real good happenng to last that long. these days 5years marriage na luck, yours have gone even far and beyond. keep it going. kudos

Skoonheid:
Recall that the Debt Management Office recently ranked Akwa Ibom as the third-highest debtor state with N239.2 billion while Lagos and Rivers states were ranked first and second respectively.

Ibom air managed by Akwa Ibom state, aircrafts provided by private individuals. Waiting for the year this airline will declare profits to the state. Frauds.

Give them their VAT. It's the fed govt that owing them instead by stealing from them.

tobechi20:
Bring kids into the picture, and often, one’s sex drive takes a nose dive. Especially for mothers.

Low libido is a very common issue for new mothers as they are healing from childbirth, grappling with fluctuating hormones and extreme sleep deprivation.

While we know adjusting to a new baby can profoundly impact a couple’s life (including sexual intimacy), we, as a society, act like it shouldn’t. We act like there’s something wrong with a new mother needing a timeout from sex.

New mothers who admit to having less sex drive are often met with people urging, “Just do it anyway,” and “You’ll get in the mood.”

But what if you don’t get in the mood, even when you take this advice? What then?

Why aren’t the feelings of the woman valid? Shouldn’t she be listening to her body? Her mind?

I’m not sure where we got this idea that a husband owns his wife’s vagina. Or that he is entitled to intercourse, MouthAction, handling, or groping. I’m pretty sure I didn’t see that covenant in the paperwork. But I have an inkling that this entitlement is very much based in misogyny and male privilege.

Men are led to believe, often since they are young boys, that women should have sex with them when they want it. Even when their wives are not “in the mood.” Because sex is the way he feels intimate. Sex is the way he connects. Because putting your husband’s sexual desires first is supposedly the best way to avoid divorce.

These antiquated and sexist designs for marriage are damaging to women.

When a married mom doesn’t put out, she’s called “cold” and “selfish” and the dreaded “bitch.” She’s told she must have “something else going on” mentally. Outsiders to the marriage, and maybe even therapists, will question if the wife was ever sexually assaulted. Does she have a history of trauma? They’ll try to make connections that aren’t there. Because how could a wife possibly not want to have sex with her husband?

It is sickening and horrific to think of a woman having sex against her will, married or not. It’s disgusting that we automatically assume something must be “wrong” with a woman who is having a gap in her groove. Beyond all that, it’s dangerous.

Suggesting that married women and mothers should just “do it anyway” is sexual bullying and coercion. If a husband acts on the “just do it anyway” cliché and forces it — that’s called rape.

When we attack married mothers for not putting out, we’re reaffirming once again what’s important in this society.

A man’s needs, not a woman’s. A man’s voice, not a woman’s voice.

Low libido, low libido. Then why is she giving the neighbour when the husband goes to work. Abeg wives owe husband's sex o, three times daily , seven days weekly. Don't take any excuse men cos m on the loose o...if I catch iyabeji unsatisfied . Na you know o

Myexdisturbs:
With your tiny diick my diiick is bigger than yours and your father combined

You are the problem jor .stop complaining to us abeg. You see solution now you dodge. No need comparing dicks jor, just give me her number and if she calls you then you know you right .

Myexdisturbs:
Hello house. This is my own story and not a friend.
I broke up with this ex of mine some months before I got married. I definitely told her I was not going to marry her bc it wouldn't work between us and we accepted that. Now more than a year after my marriage she still doesn't want me to rest.
Now you will say I should block her in all communication channels, yes I have blocked her allover medium to communicate but she still doesn't give up, she will use other numbers and as soon as I block them she gets new ones. I definitely asked her to get a boyfriend and she did get one but was still unable to flow with the guy citing that I'm always in her mind and she can't flow with any guy. It's been more than a year and she is getting me exhausted. She tricked me one day on the basis of coming to see her sister in the same town that I live without knowing she wanted to pass the night in my place. Of course I didn't agree to that.
Funny thing is that she's been offering me lots of money, that we should use it and travel out but this infuriated me and I blocked her in all channels again.

Why do some ladies find it this difficult to just move on despite knowing I'm now married. She has been tempting me to have sex with her but I'm married is that I'm married and my heart is completely with my wife. Infact I don't even see what is special in sex that will warrant me doing that with any other woman.
I have finally blocked her again and no way this time will I ever speak with her again.

She needs a longer and firmer dick than yours. Give me her number. Your problems are over.

Oga calm down..you married well. Economy no dey smile again..at least if you lose your job or source of income tomorrow you have capable in-laws that can feed you o. No dey do big boy marry poor people these days o. Be warned

They know who they are, where they chill. They only went on a retaliatory mission gangster cult style.

Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders.

I will not call the name of my church for some reasons, but my church is that type that dosn't have a parmanent pastor.

So, we always have a new pastor almost every four or five years.

Recently, a new pastor was transfered to us, this my new pastor is very good when it comes to preaching the word of God, and things that helps in the development of a church.. infact, so many good things have been going 'on' in my church since his arrival.

But the problem is that, he is that kind of pastor with swag, He goes to beer parlour to drink, he can go to gathering to play draft, (imaging the kind of people u see in a beer parlour of draft gathering), and because of this things he does, some people (expecially other churches) use it against us the members..

People we be like, una pastor wey dey drink beer.. And we don't even know how we can deffend him or ourself when we are being attacked by these people..

We are currently loosing members on a daily basis, and i'm not happy with it.

It's not what goes into a man that makes him unclean, rather what comes out....from your write up you said good things have been happening which means he is bearing good fruits. Allow him sip his alcohol, so he will not do bad things no more, so he will not go back the way his from, let nobody stress him....jojo

Well she is holding up fine...let her just take more precautionary measures when dealing with the said boy. One day all.gonset and ground go level for you to move her out..till then no pull her out only to suffer more abeg

Go ahead and be a.broke vegetable at 50..go ahead.

Your brother...abeg tell am.rubbish. you want to continue knackinf his wife in future abi

rame18:
That's Tinea versicolor and can be treated with tea tree oil, rub it mostly at night and you'll see the difference after 1 week.

Bro how sure are you. I know someone with this.

I just created this account to post this.
I'm really Disturbed.

My wedding is approaching and I'm so excited about it.
Before I met my husband to be, there's this married man I know. Right from day one he told me who was married but his family based in a different state. I told him I'm single and I can't marry a married man nor date a married man. We both laughed about it.

Years passed, he became so close to my family and everybody around me. He comes to my house, gist with my mum, siblings and my family members are very accommodating.
I had my boyfriend whom everyone knows, that I have nothing with this man.
he support me financially some times. I have been helpful as well in my own ways. most times, I helped him out with cooking, even followed him to supper market to pick beautiful clothes (wears) for his wife and children. I have known this man for about 4 yrs now, but never have I had intimat.e relationship with him. He's like a big brother to me although he deeply loved me and have asked me out severally, but i have never involved myself with him s.exuallly.

This man have been so good to me, but now, I want to get married and he's so angry with me, he appears so hurt and heartbroken. He's behaving as if I betray his love. He's acting as if nothing mean anything to him any more. He almost lost his job last week due to lack of concentration. He takes his job carelessly now,

How can I help him heal emotionally, without distracting my own marriage?

Is ignoring him at this point the best option?


How should I handle this? Pls advice

You knack am jor...Gbagbe. well for advice, juts move on with your life. Block him and focus on your marriage. He will be fine las las

Who the groom go report to when she misbehaves tomorrow when father in-law and mother inlaw be drunks...19cartons and 4 cartons..anyway NL counselors we still dey here to solve an marital wahala

Simdyofficial:
21 after youth service.. Crazy

Why crazy? You did well to hold up till the right time

Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude. I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one altitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something. She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us. Please kindly advice me on what to do.

Oga why don't you desperately want your wife around? What's the real issue..going to the east with a pregnancy for masters...why? Ahmadu bello offers convenient distant learning master abeg. Also find out her strength and what she can do and support her..don't create that distance you crave. You not used to being a family man already

This na bannies fight. One trying to eliminate competition from their sugar daddies

Seems APC eats your brain when you become a member

Divorce her papa. Nonsense

Be like the OP na Mr Sabinus. Sorry though.