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Binarytimes:
I Cheated On My girlfriend, note, girlfriend.. she's honest and committed and the said lady knows her, infact when the said lady called me, my girl allowed me to go see her because she trusts me.


One thing led to another and we Fu*ked. Not even as sweet or tight as my girl. I disvirgined my girl and we have been together since then.


My conscience is eating me up because she does not deserves this. I can't tell her because she would be hurt and that could turn to fever or health issues... She's very soft and i don't want anything that will hurt her and make her to cry...


The other lady is even in love with me.....

LikeAking:
Putin!

Yenefer:
Every problem. Buhari Buhari. PDP ruled over this country for 16 years. Just because Buhari is from the North. They try so hard to make it look like he is not working to take us to the promised land. Buhari is the best president Nigeria ever had

175:


Na so


The over zealousness by security agents in this country ehn. . . Nawa!

Besides you said your security details fired into the air. And person come die put

The vendor was probably flying like a bird in the sky.

Make una dey talk true ooo

blessingchinny:
There's this friend of mine that helped me get when I was emotionally traumatized in my relationship. He was there for me at such period. Though we stay in different states. But became close pals, always chatting and calling. At s point, I began to grow feelings for him. initially, I thought the feelings was the same cos a times he will come with some kind of green lights. He once shared a business idea with me when i sought for an advise from him. Telling me that we can partner in the business, he promised to assist me with a little money and then at the end of the month, I will send him whatever I can out of the proceed. Then after that he made a statement. That if he comes marry me, we' ll expand it to other business venture. I jokingly mentioned our name, but in bold letters he wrote a name which he expects it to be. So all these made me think he had feelings for me, but maybe shy to open up. When I couldn't take it anymore, I decided to open up. What I've never done in my life. But I was disappointed. At first, it sounded like , he was glad I did. But at a point, he blatantly told me that he's not ready for any relationship now as he fixed his wedding last year but his then girl disappointed her. I felt embarrassed and humiliated. At some other days, he will apologize for hurting my feelings and telling me that it was because he's in the phase of his life that everything seems confusing to him. That it was no longer what his reasoning can handle that I should join him in prayers. I don't understand what ye meant by that, but Am just emotionally down. No matter how I try to get him off my mind, I just can't. is obvious he doesn't feel the same way or what do you think? I need to get over him.

Kobojunkie:
Why? Because dem make you judge, jury and executioner as far as what your next-door neighbour can or cannot do with his own life and time?

NGpatriot:
Your problem is Kolomentality?

The same whites and CNN first told us 38 people died with no facts or evidence, so what happened to their story about 38 dead protesters?

So you want to now throw out fact because of an unconfirmed report at the time that needed to be reported because it was trending. Your malami said they were touts in army uniform. Mumu

jaytii:
You're a mental slave
Free yourself.

DarkJeddi:
You think she is interested in sharing a life of suffering?

NGpatriot:
Don't you mean as she shares her lies and fake news?

Just imagine, she's going everywhere with her lies and fake rubbish, bet she won't go to the judiciary panel with her story, obviously, she
s dodging hard question under oath.

Why is it that most of the people peddling these fake rumors are ipobs.?


Nigeria is bigger than you lying bigots and enemies of Nigeria.


God Bless Nigeria

Pacecar:
I don't know where to start. But I want to be very brief. I hate long articles.
So there is this girl I met in my lodge and we had a great convo the first day we met. I just moved in. I felt the vibe and I thought we would just be talk buddies. Truth is, I don't usually envisage romance with a female. It just happens. Fast forward from all the convo we had the day we met and afterwards. She came to my room one night at around 11pm just before midnight and told me she was hungry. She was lucky I had a left over bread I didn't finish. She did eat hastly; she was indeed hungry. After eating she laid on my foam and slept off. I slept off too. Deep into the night, I woke up and I was Hot. She was just there sleeping beautifully. I tried to touch her but she refused me lightly. She wasn't seriously defensive. I laid back, intending to subdue my feelings. I couldn't; I did try again and she became responsive. My left hand caressed down her ass and I discovered she wasn't wearing any panties. She was wearing a short gown that only terminated on her very beautiful fair laps without pants. We had sex that night. It was good. We didn't say anything about it the next morning. We acted so cool. I thought it wasn't going to happen again. I wasn't making a move on her again; I thought. To my surprise, she initiated the next sexual spree. To cut the story short, she has been coming almost everyday for sex. Some I initiated, others she did. I must confess, she is alright in bed. But her boldness grew as we had it. I believe I am hitting it right too. She is a good girl; very caring and fun to be with. My fear is, she might have fallen in love with me and I aint ready for an affair now. If I was ready, I would give it a try but I ain't financially ready at the moment. I don't want to hurt her feelings and I don't want to stop hitting. What should I do if she makes the first move towards clarifying what we doing together. For now, I am just fine like this!

DSoj:
Very weak watery lazy rap. Clout chaser

SatisfyOG:
This is becoming irritating, for crying out loud.

When I go visiting a family or old neighbours. They'll be asking questions like:

Why are you not married yet?

You are getting old oo!

Time is going, do fast!

And many other words like these...

I mean, will they be there to feed my family when I'm into the marriage? I don't know why Africa is so obsessed with marriage of a thing.

For crying out loud, I'll be just 29.

The numbers of married men disturbing me for financial assistance daily ehn. That's a turn off to get married soon.

Your opinion please.

Abasman007:
I want to stop.. but I can't ... My bills are like any other students bills... transport, books, gas, light and water,food... Eats up about 13,000 a month... And thats cause I manage to the tiniest bit...but most times it's tears before I can get even 10k to survive... Am tired....
It's the depression..

Abasman007:
Hello... I had to get another account to put this up. Some people might still guess who it is though... I'll go straight to the point...

I lost my mom when I was a month away from 2 years(NOV 2000) and since then I have had to live with my dad as a single parent, my senior cousin (male, soldier now) came (2001) and took up taking care of me.. my dad later got married (2003) to a younger woman (21 years younger) I was 5 then, and I can still remember clearly the marriage and everything that happened around that time.
in 2000 My dad was among 6 people choosen from the six geopolitical zones to got Germany on an advance course on digital transmitters by NTA(which he worked for till 2016 when he retired) and were supposed to move to either Lagos or Abuja upon their return. Few days after he came back my mom died(mom worked as a senior caterer with shell, and was on maternity leave as at the time she died). Daddy refused to leave me behind to go Abuja as he was meant to, despite his mom's, and my maternal aunties plea that he should take the chance and go that i''ll be fine, instead he insisted to stay back and took the option to be put in charge of maintaining transmitters in the whole South south(meaning he travelled a lot). The faint knowledge I have About the time when it was just me, my dad and my cousin is that I enjoyed and never lacked anything, I was always by my dad's side... Untill 2002 when I was 4, I remember a younger woman from church (I tought was mom)always coming to visit dad, we got close and in 2003 they got married and I was joyous feeling mom was back from were ever she went a soon as she was married hell broke loose!! Worst when she gave birth to her own child 2004 Nov.. I was put behind and my dad became a monster, he made me believe I was being trained in God's way.. I was beaten for the slightest thing as talking to a neighbors kid, playing, I was put indoors and this alone is a major instrument to my being shy.. I noticed that my brother wasn't treated that way, but as small as I was I convinced myself that maybe am stubborn as they say I am.. the next kid (a girl) came 2006, my step mum became something worst than what she was before, I was starved, abused physically, was stopped from taking lunch to school.. and irrespective of the fact that I was 8 and had to attend lessons till 3, I was hooked on the meal I ate since morning (that was most atimes few slices of bread..) till about 4 when I came back home.
it was on a day like this that I came back home and found no one. Dead hungry as I was, went and picked up tho biscuits from the carton of biscuits meant for only my step Brother who would be picked up one while I stayed behind for lessons. I innocently was eating the biscuits when my step mum came back with my dad, saw me eating the buscuits and descended on me. the duo beat me till my cousin who was there since 2001 came back and was begging them to atleast least allow me eat, but the beatings kept coming till my dad pick up his wife's heel shoes and broke by head with it. I lay there feeling nothing but only seeing hands descending on me. My cousin seeing me in blood pushed my dad away and took me outside, poured water on me before I came back to myself.. there was a big cut on my head that needed stiches, but my dad refused to stich it and I ended up carrying the wound for months in pains before it finally healed(till today i still have occasional boils like 2 times a year on that spot). My step mum has broken my head too because I was playing with my dad's old working stick. I have been taken to our pastor not knowing what's wrong, only to be asked were our coven is, my own father calling me a witch.. Wit time I start convincing myself this woman couldn't be my mum.. in 2007 my dad was transferred to Enugu Zonal center. And I could at least breath as the Bible carrying monster was far away. But my step mum became worse and more determined in maltreating me, the starving was uncountable and as a 9 year old I have slept outside the house because as usual I came back from school, found no one and we t to wait in my neighbors place, my step mum came back and I ran home to finally eat since morning but was told to go back, the gate was locked and only unlocked for my cousin when he came back.. by cousin had to pass his little food out of the window for me to eat ..my neighbors had gone for tarry night and I ended up crying myself to sleep in our car as my ever careless step mum had left it unlocked.. waking up and finding myself in the dark Alone by 4am, I was scared, ran out and yelled for the gate to be opened, my cousin on hearing my voice took the keys and opened the gate for me. since then my cousin who more or less had been treated like me was made to leave home and I was defenceless against my stepmom and the unlucky times my dad came home
I have been pushed emotionally since I was little, sent to a Fedral government college without provisions, while my siblings get the best of everything... My dad was instrumental to my dropping out of my first university.. he kept telling me how he isn't my dad and how my mom forced herself on him, and how I am the cause of his troubles, of how am like the badluck in his life, he's tied me up and beaten me for sometimes things I haven't done or slight things like loosing my pen..he sees me as being good for nothing.. for that reason he seldoms gets me clothes, shoes or anything...
I have endured it for since 2003.. and now am 21 in another university that I have to suffer to survive...he's 60 years now and has threatened to stop my fees.. by any means we(him) are not poor at all.. I have decided that enough is enough I am not taking it anymore..
I have decided that either we get into an agreement about school or he settles me and I leave or I am going to spill out everything that has been happening since i have been little to people, starting from the church council, to the branch church the both are senior pastors in, to his siblings who know nothing about this, to people who would strip to him of his duties if they get to hear it... I have served this people as a slave,I have been loyal and have kept mum about my pains while my three younger siblings get the best of everything..... I need advice on what to , my step mum just turned 41 and there is no sign that they'll change... I take marijuana to help calm the urge not to commit suscide an tired of it..i can' keep smoking.
Please advise me on what to do.. thank you