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1. Before you take in for a guy who never mentioned marriage to you, then you should be double ready for single parenting on the child.

2. Having a child or even a thousand children does not equal successful marriage.

3. She should think about a looming major disaster, and that is being married out of pity.

4. If she eventually tastes this marriage with this guy, she will most likely go for Thanksgiving after running out with her mind intact. And that's after a lot of her life and time has been lost in the process.

5. She should give the child a name, setup herself to properly take care of that child as if the guy does not exist, cos halfway down the line...such a guy might be nowhere to be found to perform his rightful parental duties.

6. Thank me in the future after you have done no. 5.

And I have to be very frank with you in summary, there is no easy way out of such situation.

Just find your peace in prayer. And the rest will be handled.

Most importantly, you should be ready to accept God's will on the situation...its for a lasting good.

Have a great night.

Yeaaa...am back with another very true one...

2011!

She was madly in love with me I could feel it in my every pulse - or she made me believe

But as her way no just pure...and I am too busy to start digging into a woman's closet. But for my future kids, it became necessary.

Then, I had to conclude if it was her for life or was I in for a real bad lifetime if I dare...

So I played a fast one...wrong though, but necessary.

I bought a lovely ring and left in in my bedroom drawer...cos am sure she searches my room for condoms all the time so she will stumble on this

After a couple of months when I am sure she must have seen it and now expecting...

I told her I would have loved to take us to another level BUT my late dad keeps appearing in my dreams to warn me not to dare.....God forgive this my lie shaa.

Told her I have prayed but no way...

So we both searched the ends of the world to find a reason why the spirits won't let me propose to her...

We prayed, fasted, everything...until I came up with the final game plan.

I told her my pastor said we should confess each other sins to ourselves, in that way we will be approaching God with our case in spirit and in truth...and also our spirits will be blameless even in the spiritual realm..Oh

Maybe it was how serious my face looked while I was saying this - she bought the idea...

...that was the day my left ear stopped functioning. Cos I got more than I bargained for.

Cos by the time she was halfway talking what she did behind me, I realized I needed to register my self immediately @ LUTH critical HIV test center.

I even needed a mask to go out cos some of my pals have also...

Chai!! cold caught me under the sun - but as man i be i decided to act mature and listen attentively.

When she was done - I Shared the Grace asap.

And consoled myself afterwards with one bottle of my most faithful and holy Lager Beer!!

blessingenyo:
we broke up since late last year n he still very fresh in my hrt, it was a very bad one he had issue of trust am a sincere person wen its comes to relationship, but he refused to note that. If I make call with any guy am in trouble there was a day he even slapped me for receiving call from a client. We lasted for a year n broke up twice already he is here again for reconciliation please some one should help me out with a reasonable advice.

If he could slap u for taking calls from a client, then he can punch you for taking your father's calls at night...

It's either u no wan talk true wetin u de do, or that he needs help...

donaldking10:
I was so madly in love with her, and for two years she lied to me that she was a virgin, and i foolishly believed her. Each time i tried to go down there, she would scream and tell me she's saving it till we get married.

So, one fateful day i went hanging'out with my friends, we started talking about our girlfriends, and i mentioned her name. One of the guys there described her to me, told me she used'to be his girlfriend, and that he had fvcked her in the past.
I was so shocked, i even found it hard believing. I was even arguing with the guy that it was a lie, and he just calmly told me that if i doubt him, that i should go ask her myself.

So, that weekend i invited her over to my lodge and decided not to ask her first, but play along as usual.
As i tried to go down there like before, she still gave me the same stupid excuse. That was when i decided to ask her.

Immediately i asked her, she started crying. I was so angry i didn't even send her tears, I just put'on my condom and fvcked the hell out of her.
My original plan was to break'up with her immediately after fvcking her, but she cried and begged'me, plus the pvssy was so sweet i couldn't. That was the biggest mistake i made, because few months later, she started acting'up, demanding for money a lot, and she started cheating on me with another guy, and finally broke'up with me without giving me any reasonable reason.
Though i later found out it was due to one Yahoo boy called George.

I cried for weeks when it happened.
It was so painful, heart'breaking and annoying, that a girl i forgave due to the fact i loved her, and did a lot of things for would do such a thing to me. I regretted not breaking'up with her when i first had the chance.

Blessing Nkeiruka Nwamgbe God will punish you wherever you are.

Though i've finally moved'on, and currently have a wonderful, lovely, beautiful and loving real virgin in my life, whom i dis-virgined not long ago because i no longer take chances.

Agu nwayo kwa!!

jmaxjohn:
Abeg reply my pm. Lol

Bro, cudnt find d message...
Plz use ikevictor@msn.com

jmaxjohn:
bros abeg na lagos you dey?

Yes boss.

Mine is gory...

We dated for over 9 years, though a lil break up and make up in between the times...

She was my first and I believe I was hers too cos we both deflowered ourselves...

Long story short, when I don hustle make money come propose to her, Her character changed.

She begins to scream at me at the slightest provocation. Something she would not dare for all the years we have known. Me i tire o...but I love her shaa.

Finally, she gave me a condition to agree to before the wedding can proceed....that I must join JW.

She was born a witness and me a Catholic. Mogbe

It started as a joke, but matter no be here. Promised her heaven and earth, whosai!!

In fact the most painful is that she said in.plain terms that "it is all about religion"...and me i thought the goal was love and companionship. At least I no wan open church, na marriage I de find.

That's when I packed my load and decided that Boko Haram should not be blamed, anyway.

But I am hurt shaa, cos she for tell me all this religious crap all along make I go find even Ogboni girl marry.

I love TBoss...

She be decent Olo-$-h-o

I may not be a big lover of biafran agitation, but if a government think they can quiet such an assembly of young men with such passion as I see in this video , then that government is clearly clueless.

I think its about time federal government dialogue in proper terms with these guys, else the damage will be unquantifiable.

This is why sex education is necessary at young age for females especially, Male idiots everywhere with itching joysticks.

Sunday took advantage of her naivety and girlish emotions, perused her weakness, put her in perpetual psycho stress, instead of masturbating his frustration away.

In my next life, I would appreciate an environment where women are at least treated as fellow humans...so sad.

Eeeyaah! So sad we wrongfully denied you one source of companionship in this lonely place.

On behalf of mankind once again , we're sorry.

This is not possible...even if the keys and seat adjustments are the same, how about the smell which is mostly unique to the owner?

Teaching JSS1 students on sex education is not wrong.
In fact that's the right age or even before.

Secondly, masturbation as a means of sexual satisfaction is far more preferred than sleeping with multiple partners.

And if my daughter or son has a high sex drive - I will advise masturbation than unwanted pregnancy, STDS or messing up their reputation as sex freaks.

That's my parenting idea on this - You are free to choose yours!

I think it's about time we quit these religious crap and deal with issues squarely.

Mtcheeew...

Well I knew she was always high on weed then...never paid attention to her fickle praises.

jhudit:
Is the thread by a lady? Or you need to look again?

My bad.

Jumped into conclusion without full detail, just as the poster

I wonder how showing her more love means you're cheating.

Umu nwanyi sef!

Ike gwuru!

drtee247:
So her relatives can buy her expensive hand bags and shoes and wunt help her out with her school fees

So sad we could think women are worth nothing except a man gives them...or they must must sleep with men in order to afford a handbag.

Very very sad we treat fellow humans with such disregard. Please attach some value, bro.

yinkslinks:
I disagree with you. The lady isn't ready but after material things.

Don't conclude yet bro. We just read one version of the story here.

And do not be quick to call her a money monger cos the poster never said she perturbed him for money.

Maybe you should try being her mother, and listen to only her own side of the story as a woman.

Don't be all man about this kind of situations man.

Maybe when you have a daughter you love, you can advise her to date a man for 4 years of her ripe age with no commitment but just free fvck and long stories. And then wish her to continue with such a loser.

Points raised here are not totally true except no. 2

If you guys have an unresolved issue, he can avoid your meal...and many other reasons

Locking his phone could mean he is protecting some sensitive data, maybe not from you but from people that can easily glance through his phone especially if he is the careless kind.

Coming home late could mean he met some new "wrong" friends who mostly hang out after work. Or might be working on a new project that is more demanding...possible.

It will be better to discuss with your hubby and find out what changed exactly not generalizing like a housewife.

My one cent though

See bro,

I feel your pain but here is the bitter truth,

Every woman's time is passing!

Meaning that dating a woman for 4 years with no commitment at all is simply not fair.

If for this long period you were still unsure if she is your wife, then let her go find her knight.

Don't be selfish, bro!

If you still think she is your wife, then get on something more serious than these lover boy stories.

My one cent though!

So sad to b part of the generation that treat women like this...so so sad!!!

100% true for me.

Eiyaaah!!

Women are very good hearted o.

alBHAGDADI:
Like your poor English.

lalasticlala

Lmao...ogbuo ya mma.

Dear poster, from the way you feel I can clearly say you won't try such again.

Now here is the thing...confess to him, he will punish you severely for it over time. But he will eventually forgive and love you again. After this time, ensure NOTHING that seems like such happen again.

How long this process will take, I don't know.

That's when you can PRAY for a revival in your matrimonial love.

You can't really pray and move on if you do not tell him.

People's accusations are far less important than the joy of good repentance. Note.

ikp120:
If she tell you her past you go run. She don already sense am. So just forget it and face her present and future because she no go tell you, at least not now.

Well yea...I cud do without her past tales, but the key concern is that history helps u define the future, especially when u still sense weird behaviors...

I got along with her.
I.like her a lot.
..But she would rather not say a thing about her past. I feel like I do not even know as she always avoids questions that tells a thing about her past.
Should I go on and marry her and just believe all is cool, or should I get to the root of why such is happening incase am heading for a shockING news while in marriage?

My experience as a first time parent with my daughter...

1. Having to settle her disputes all the time even after a long stressful day...
2. does not like to sleep in her room but mine and wees on my bed always.
3. Cries when I lock my room door and won't allow you relax once she's in.
4. She makes me watch cartoon all weekend cos I can't change the channel for peace sake.
5. I constantly monitor her movement cos whenever she is quiet, she is probably spilling my cream or committing something critical.
6. Follows me everywhere which can sometimes be disturbing.
7. Wants to follow me once she sees me dressing up...even for work. Especially when she is on holidays...
8. Demanding for tea at ridiculously odd hours, else no peace.
E plenty o. But kids can really make you a truly better person trust me.

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I honestly feel you should properly manage emotions in your home. I cannot judge here cos i do not know what you did, and what your husband requires you do to appease. (Apology, Proper Explanation and/or Promise not to repeat). In short, you know what to do as this is not a nairaland thing.

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