₦airaland Forum

No 4 is not silly

Op,

Marry a woman who you love, and who loves and trust you enough to discuss everything with you.

And since she trusted you enough to tell you, that's a good sign to build on...cos that's how they will raise your kids around you.

I tell you this cos virtually every woman you meet has a dark side...and they will never tell you but paint a picture they want you to see especially if they smell marriage proposal.

Try not be caught in marriage with with people, cos the trauma comes in different shades and never end.

I will comment when I read his own version of the story...

Cos everything I see in this version says "she is an angel" while "he is a demon"...with nothing good about him mentioned.

I am sure that even demons have good sides...at least the pursuit of Satan drives us towards God...

GeneralOjukwu:
I can see several men here who find sexual harassment funny.

Very sad and an indication of poor upbringing.

You have sisters, wives, daughters and if you have none of these, you at least have a MOTHER.

Would you be happy if a stranger starts to put his fingers in her crotch?

Learn to respect ladies...even if she is "indecently" dressed, it is none of your business, your harassment isn't correction

Please help the world and low minds by dressing appropriately. ..

If my sister dresses such indecently, I would not be mad at anyone fingering them.

vicfuntop:
You didn't insult me: sorry for insulting you. Well I know you are not a lady but the fact that the man had the audacity to do that in public, do you know what he does in private? Trust me, it's a choking feeling to be harassed by a man. I will encourage the beating. You should act right and when you don't be ready to pay the price. I would even suggest they push him out of the moving bus

Pushing him out of the moving bus and fingering which one is a more grievous crime?

Rolly83:
Shut yourfucking mouth. That man is a fool to have done that In public. You Nigerians keep condoning rubbish.Thats sexual harassment fool. What will be your reaction if it happened to your sister!
Nigerians always looking for ways to vent their frustrations on another human.

Well, all humans are not wired the same way...that's why we have law enforcement agencies.

But for national peace, please dress decently to reduce such crap...

falconey:



Sophisticated perv!
Disgracing the best of us.

You should be watched too then

Greenbullet:
I live in a house with three flats and in one flat I have this couple who are my friends, the man is fairly educated and his wife is an illiterate. The both of them quarrel regularly and since I am not a busybody , I do not interfere , all I do is listen but something has got me worried when listening to their quarrel, the woman always use the child's paternity to insult the man, some of the insults go like this
"Idiot man"
"Lazy man"
"Okobo"
"Leave my children, nor be you get them, I go carry them go meet who born them"
"Nor touch my children ooo,leave them for their papa"
Surely this insults infuriate the man and his sometimes beat his wife, I myself who is more reasonable think his three children are not really his, The wife is a trader and comes home at irregular times which also lead to quarrels , the children also do not have some facial characteristics of the said man.

I want to advise the man to do a DNA test ( only God knows if he knows what it means), but do you guys think this man is really the father or the wife is saying these things to spite him ?

I am wondering what your concern here is...is the husband in doubt of her wife's statements?

Does he look like he needs help with the childrens paternity?

Did he complain to you?

What if he knows the paternity info already?

I think you should allow the peculiarities of their marriage be to them...until they contact you for advise or you sense an endangering situation.

Else please keep your aproko to yourself.

Akposb:
This generation has placed money and sex above all else in marriage. The reality can be different if we recognize our peculiarity. No money is enough especially at the beginning, two financially strong partners can get far no matter how little. Marriage built on financial credibility can still fail.

So on point. Misplaced priorities and values.

NwaAmaikpe:


They are Abikus

This guy, your matter don tire me. I am sure you need help.

Afam4eva:
It's not about not being able to do without it but about people being ungrateful and not keeping to their word. If i give you one naira, i expect it back and if you don't oblige, i'm ready to spend 1 million naira to get back that 1 naira and you can be rest assured that i'll deal with you in the process. So, it's not about the money but the attitude.

Trust me, if you borrow money to the wrong person even Interpol cannot help you get all the money back.

Reality is...borrow what you can let go.

ADENIKETINA2015:
Yes now. I read an article about his suspension from UI some time back. For somebody with such history you'd expect him to avoid unnecessary attention to himself. This is Nigeria. He didn't play his cards well. I'm sure those he fought for in UI are done with their service and the ones in law school he just finished "fighting for " will be graduating next month while he ends up causing his family pain and regret. He's not smart at all. Our parents sent/ send us to better our future not to be some kind of Martin Luther King.
It may seem cowardice but I can't be caught fighting for a cause that will backfire at me while the people I fight for go about with a clean sheet. Na skool my Mama send me go. I can not coman give her headache.

This is why we have a lot of unemployed graduates...mediocrity.

Hian!

NwaAmaikpe:


It is biblical..
The wages of sin is death

Why were they cohabiting when they are yet to be legally married?
The woman was even pregnant.

I wonder how they'd face God on the judgement day because they died in iniquity.

I am shocked at your specie of human...You should live in the zoo!!

Guys, this thread is to blow off some steam from our secret desires....without minding!

For me, I wish that secret calculation of bills accumulated could get off my mind while on a date...

madridguy:
So having fetish things at your disposal is a crime in calabar? [b][/b]

I tire o

DabLord:
Did you even know maybe the wife deny him sex or her va.gina is smell or she doesnt look sexy always tieing wrappers

And so...

Was he not licking it with the smell before proposing to her??

Mtcheeew

Never underestimate the power of abuse.

I will begin investigations from the husband...

With these thoughts in mind...

1. Why would kidnappers keep you and your wife in different places in same bush?

2. And your wife was challenging multiple criminals with guns that they continued to beat her till death? No rape, nothing. Women that are usually fearful in such situations?

3. What part of the car engine was hit that made a firing engine in reverse stop abruptly, proper forensics needed here? They were shooting at the car engine, not you, or tyres?

4. On what conditions did they finally release you?

Hate me but my investigation will begin thus if be eke

0b10010011:
Your uncles is a threat to wildlife

Am definitely sure he doesn't even have a fishing permit.

Abia!!

Who fishing permit eep

It's obviously a lie...

But once it's to the glory of God and soul lifting for humankind....I will believe the story and don't care.

Go and investigate buhari's health since you be FBI

In reality, how can you subject human beings to such psycho torture and still expect them to "effectively " protect citizens?

These are humans, please!!

deepwater:
As if now, there are three topics on FP about baby mama "sheets" and "piece"
This is very wrong, just the way our communities have settled down with with the fact of Yahoo yahoo guys as normal thing, same way the media is subliminally pushing the ideas of "babymamaism" to young girls.

In the next ten years bastards go fullby Nigeria o .


Kai
This bbitches are way too cheap
Dayum!

Collecting sperms up and down like it's blood tonic

Does being a bastard make one less human

But I tobale for this guy jare...

Such a streamlined fraud.

He could have used all this sense to establish a legitimate business nah!!

selflessmaya:
i dont ever want to have a traditional marriage, too many unfamiliar ppl that i'm expected to shine teeth with and i refuse to have to pretend on my day to be so thrilled to see ppl idgaf about. so there...
i dont want a white wedding either cos it's very unnecessary in my opinion, i just dont get it.
my ideal wedding is a small court marriage with immediate family and very close friends present maximum 7 from both sides, total of 14, after the papers are signed, we'll have the reception at sunset till dawn at a private beach(with prior reservation of course), nothing tacky, very classy setting, good wine, good weed, good indie music, beautiful tall cake(this, i'm very particular about, my wedding cake must be outright stunning), we'll toast to life, get high, dance, make small talk and just enjoy ourselves. in the morning, we part ways with the guests and leave for our honeymoon. no extravagant gifts expected from my guests, we're just gonna make very good memories and let them be happy for us.

Sounds good. But I can smell the bill associated with this...

This is why I bought a carton of bar soap...

Lamba 1. She is not okay and needs medical attention asap.

Lamba 2. This could be hyper psychological caused by the weight of your desire for her to have another child for you.

Lamba 3. PLEASE stop mounting pressure on her for another child, after all she is not God. If you wanted another child so bad you for no travel in the first place.

Lambs 4. Let me get out of here!!

Its obvious yabbing no de affect dis girl...cos she go always bring yeye matter for internet to upset mua

Let me save my yab jareh

*walks away*

Its obvious yabbing no de affect dis girl...cos she go always bring yeye matter for internet to upset mua

Let me save my yab jareh

Its obvious yabbing no de affect dis girl...cos she go always bring yeye matter for internet.

Let me save my yab jareh

Doubleagent008:
Funny shii mehn! Left ear stopped functioning. Wow

Mehn...that's why confession is better to God alone.

luminouz:
Ur crazy I swear!!!!

Lol...I got served, bro.