Pells:

You didn't date her before marrying her?
Why do men make mistake like this
I can easily tell if any of my gf is a wife material

This is the second most stupid thinking ever, even more stupid is typing it.
Haven't you seen that divorces and shit marriages started right around when "DATING" begins haha.
You people just white doing shit, and you just press "YES" to all of it.

Dating is one thing, marriage is another. If it was any good, divorce will decrease after it, but nah.

Bunch of ignoramuses.

Moniya4Real:
As a matter of facts and to be truthful, my ex-wife did possess All……

And that's why she's ex, no ?

incogni2o:

You have to let her know, If she Loves you, She'll improve

Bullshit and non answer of the century

Someone is looking for validation to cheat haha.

AishaDant:


Unlike the females in your family, I don't need adverts to get attention from males.

Oh and if you were the only male on planet earth, I'd turn lesbian in a heartbeat.

Go and bore someone else with your existence!

Exactly how they behave before naming their price.

Strangely, my exes still wish for me to be in their lives, you're here crying over one ?
Who raised this weakling ?

AishaDant:
My boobs are firm but I am not interested.

Nice advert, the only thing now is who's stupid enough to follow through.

Sheistoopretty:



Nothing is beyond her control dear, she only saw someone who more wealthy than yourself. She's keeping close tabs on u because u are her second option (I'm sorry to say this) when the other guy is done with her, she will come back to u..

It's better it happend now than later in your marriage.. Take heart and Just move on dear

The funny thing is that the ignorant man is too unaware to understand what happened then goes to beg haha - one thing women hate at that point.

She's keeping close tabs on u because u are her second option (I'm sorry to say this) when the other guy is done with her, she will come back to u..

... and she'll cook up some stories which the ignorant man will believe, take her back and cycle continues until all his 3 - 5 kids are not his 20 years later.

she told me both of us can no longer work out due to somethings beyond her contro

Better offer came, ofc it's beyond her control.

I beg her to stay but she just couldn't heed to my plea

One you never did, it's to beg a bitch!

it wasn't easy at first but with the help of God and close friends I was able to move on

Na, you've not. Else you won't be crying on Nairaland nor asking "Please How Do I Move On Completely".
She got you on lock. You might've even washed her panties.

though she still check on me sometimes but I noticed that anytime I see her with the guy she is Currently dating I feel bad and pained and sometimes I just feel downcast and may not be able to work that day.

You deserve to 100x raised to power 10. There are 10 tens of million of marriage age girls in Nigeria, you just have to mess up your life with one ?

Note that she said I didn't do anything wrong to her because several times I asked her why she left she told me it's beyond her control

1. That's womanese, it's the equivalent of saying: you're a slowpoke, a bum, I want a man. Perhaps she finally got a man.
2. You whole write up till this point shows why she left, you did 9099 things wrong.

Please I don't like sinking into depression

People are struggling to eat in this country and you're "depressed" over a COMMON COMMODITY ? You absolutely deserve it.

and I don't like see myself wallowing over a lady that decided to leave me on her terms, please how do I move on without having to feel bad whenever I see her with her current guy.

Visit the hospital and grave yard, maybe you'll realize how much you've blessed.

Mod I would appreciate if you can move this to FP.

Move wetin ?

Thank you
Good evening

Thank for weting ? And what's good about the evening, you just spoilt mine.

go 3 round should do so that his baby won't be chopping outside?

If you're fornicating with her, chances her someone else is doing it with her also. Was that ever hard to comprehend ?

Wordsfrombimpe:
But you are the same person that disvirgin women

What a hypocrite lol!

0. It's deflower, not disvirgin.
1.You forgot you the woman have to agree to fornication before it can take place, so who's to blame here ?
2. Now who's the hypocrite ?
3. When you were deflowered, didn't you agree for the man to hump you ? Ofc you did.

This is why govt don't want to give anything to ASUU, you're one of their end product and it's NOT looking good.

Wordsfrombimpe:
Like say you be virgins

I'm a man of God, what do you expect ?

Male virginity is not as valuable as female virginity, so your point is invalid. Try again.
Since day 1 on this earth, no one ever asked about male virginity before marriage.

detectivejones:
Your mother didnt flush you, please dont flush the fetus.

How did u know her mother didn't try to flush her ?

Putin is old,

That's not how to spell Biden/Trump.

It's like this guy is living in Germany or UK ? Don't worry, he'll only turn the gas off for few months na. Since you're a Nigerian, u don suffer pass that one, u go survive.

Wordsfrombimpe:
Then explore it with other women who can please them that's why men of this days don't give shit about virginity

This is because most men:
- Don't know their value/worth in sexual market place, so they almost always under-price themselves which leads to the used market.
- Don't even think they can get virgins in the first place, not knowing not every girl is humping here and there.

As for we Top G, we seek out the virgins and tell everyone else to do so.
We're intentional in our actions.

Hollybratt:
Did i just hear you say Femi ni sim?

You dey crase sir! More kunu for you

Sweetplum:

Men should sha be doing well to be treated well

Of course men should be doing well. But not everyone who does well get similar treatment in response.
Sometimes the man is shit, sometimes the woman is crap. The difference is women knows the game more than men, we are only giving men the tools to level the playing field.

Sweetplum:

That's your own definition. A man that wants a woman ll do anything for her. Treat a woman well and get goodness. Treat a woman bad and get sour life.

Did u miss the part where I wrote this ?

Simp: it means a guy that is overly desperate for women, especially if she is a bad person, or has expressed her disinterest in him whom which he continues to obsess over.

More definitions here: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Simp

Sweetplum:

That's your own definition. A man that wants a woman ll do anything for her. Treat a woman well and get goodness. Treat a woman bad and get sour life.

What you want is a savvy man who will take care of you and the children, not a simp.
A simp is open to attack from other women outside, a simp can't control himself in the presence of pretty let alone gorgeous. You'll be relegated to last in no time. It's like you people don't know what a Simp is.

Treat a woman well and get goodness.

Yea, like the guys who are fainting because DNA results came out wrong ? Most of them are rich and took good care of the wife.

Treat a woman bad and get sour life.

Like the guys who keep impregnating girls left and right and committing to none of them ?

- You refused to marry a virgin
- Didn't go for medicals
- And probably thinks this girl is the epitome of niceness, goodness, dignity and chastity.

What are you ? slowpoke! We pity not such guys.

Sweetplum:
True. You v to be a foo l to love. That's why I keep telling me here that being[b] a simp doesn't mean you are foolish.[/b] We love being pampered. Pamper us, simp 4 us and see if you won't live long and enjoy lots of love.

Simp literally means stupid and foolish combined, and a half.

Simp: it means a guy that is overly desperate for women, especially if she is a bad person, or has expressed her disinterest in him whom which he continues to obsess over.

A woman can be highly secretive... Most times when they prove hard to men, they go to their closet and friends to cry.

Making her cry in front you takes skill, only few us reached that stage.

All women Love to be begged. men often miss out on this........

No they don't. This is auditioning for "how to be simp".

If she loves you she can do everything you ask of her as far as it makes you happy, so never force her to love you.

The latter former the latter.

If a woman truely loves you,even to ask money from you she will be shy and most especially if she loves you she can never leave you to spend unnecessarily!...that's what makes them special....

True dat.

Zonefree:
Let's be frank to ourselves, it's mostly non virgin broke and wretched Nigerian evening newspapers that exhibit these characters you mentioned.

Siofra, Jennyclay, RozRoss etc, will attest to what I just said.

Buhari should draft non virgin Nigerian girls into the Army to help fight insurgency. That's the only way they can be useful to the society.


#Teamvirgin.
God bless all slim virgin Nigerian girls.

Used goods are desperate to advertise themselves. Men are finally having standards and it's biting hard.

Uhm, replace her with humble, not arrogant virgin.

BigYash:
Its the fansy clothes they wear,and body spray that covers the many many rubbish. Worst part be say,the gender go still dey form ontop.

Guy, u no get joy. Na true you talk sha

At least for the idiots who refers to girls as "angels" or "goddess", you can now see your life, these are the undies of the one you vehemently worship.
You need no one to tell you your mother wasted 9 months.

Obligatory, every two months.

Johnmatuc2:

I haven’t fvcked her yet so she has been having sex that’s what you think?

Chai! You're still asking ?
Do you want to visit a brothel and compare ?

The fact that she'll allow you to have sex with her outside marriage means she'll allow other men too.
Just in case in the future when you marry someone who calls herself a virgin (or you so you thought) , one finger just don't enter virgins like that. Na lies.

The elders have spoken.

Mr. Fornicator,

1. One finger, you didn't meet a virgin, just lightly used.
2. Three fingers, she's already veteran in few months.
3. She's not wife na, you're still analyzing what to fornicate ?

The elders have spoken.

This is why you learn about female nature, especially when you have money. Money alone won't save you, you have to understand woman and womanesse.

What a stupid or lying man - pick one. How will u be giving your wife 500K per month and you don't know or verify if its actually reaching the children ? Stupid!

On this day Mr Eze Discovered his wife had been cheating on him with his long-time best friend and this had been happening for quite a while. You can imagine how demoralizing that must have been for Mr.

Ehya, sorry ehn. Man never knew women, he must've been heartbroken hahaha.
This is why you don't allow men with your wife in seclusion or allow interaction with your "friends" .

He got really bothered by the latest discovery and one part of him was considering overlooking it but his emotions couldn't just permit him.

The SIMP couldn't let go, man is so rich yet he's so down bad. Olodo oshi.
God had made it that any man that takes in a cheating woman will be forever be punished emotionally, u can't escape it.

Such feeling is really justified, knowing how much he loved and cherished his wife, and the good times and emotions they have both shared over time.

Awww. Just too dumb.

He proceeded to confront her about her affair with his best friend.

Ehya, what a weakling!

At first, she blatantly denied but after much persuasion and undeniable evidence,

Like they always do.

she confessed to actually cheating on her husband, Mr Eze, with his best friend, Mr Desmond Maduka.

Isn't that glaring, Mr. ignoramus ?!

All in all, this is what happens to SIMP who keeps calling us names here. Continue, this your future wife.
And women you're supporting too are planning on doing this to you, that's why they don't want you to learn anything.

YOU CAN'T BE RICH AND BE STUPID WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN, YOU'LL GET PUNISHED BY BEING CUCKED!
Ask Will Smith (King of Cucks)
Ask Kanye West
Ask Prince Harry

Women are sex objects. They are NOT for sex-only objects.
The problem is when you mix up bimbos and non bimbos in the same category just because they both have breasts and vagina.

bimbo: an attractive but unintelligent or frivolous young woman.