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While a drug addict musicians and other sub-standard beings might tell you everyone is criminal or of bad character, you still meet good people out there when you go out.
Same applies to VIRGINS, with the number covert prostitutes, repentant and unrepentant veterans roaming about the streets, you's think no girl might be a VIRGIN.

But lose hope not, there are still quite a number girls who's decided to be Alan Sharer.
The problem is you're less likely to see them roaming about advertising their goods.
I've personally met 10 or so in the last 3 - 5 years, so it's not as bad as you think. And they're the majority in my list.
In fact I've met more of them than the used ones.
You just need to be deliberate with your search and NOT just wishing to be LUCKY.

Perks (from experience):
- Since they're mostly marriage minded they're focused, It's you and you only, until you mess things up.
- They're not much of a financial burden because,
- They come from stable home with caring father or brother or other family member doing the financial and emotional provision.
- They're LESS likely to be 'ACTING', then show you fire after marriage.
- Since you're their only ticket to Romance, prepared to be destroyed like 9000 times a day.
- Easy for them to move on when things don't work out.
... list is endless.

Disadvantages:
- Nothing to see here.

Zonefree:
Where will one see a virgin Nigerian girl for marriage? The last virgin girl died in 1969, we're left with siofra, candidlady, magnoliaa and other demons.

I've met at least 10 VIRGINS in the last 3 years.

Super story. You people dey lie just to make women look bad.

I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.

This is the life of a SIMPle man. This happens to you when you don't know your worth.
A woman is disturbing ur life while some people have four with no issues.

What a failure! Too bad it will take years to reprogram you out of the Matrix.

Zonefree:


That's good. I endorse your tears.

Weeping and sorrow are what makes a man amazingly SIMPle.

Comrade, I sight you oo.

When you go black, you never go back.

Worst is they will get married to someone who didn't know that they were selling their body in the name of hook-up & runs.

Another free advert for VIRGINS.

They use coded language, leg chain & crypted WhatsApp status/Update.

Oh oh oh. have you checked their Instagram too? That's where they do the prostitution contracts.
Future wife might just be just flown to Abuja as we speak.

Marry Virgins or stay single. Don't negotiate with TERRORISTS.

Samantha123:
I don't know how to cook Nigerian food.

I got you baby:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SisiJemimahsRecipes/videos

I can buy you lunch for a whole month.

Translation: I hope you're not broke ?
Answer: Ofc, I'm NOT. And you'll have to cook, if you can't - time to learn.

Samantha123:
I don't know the last one, but already I can feel it in my bones that I'm a whole lot better than her.

Well, well, that's looking debatable. You're already evading cooking.

Samantha123:
I don't mind doing the chasing, investing, and doing the marriage vows as long as the man wouldn't feel intimidated.

In fact, I can start chasing you now..

Well, you wouldn't be the first to chase. I just hope you're prettier and smarter than the last.

This post can be made in brief and less disjointed way.

Samantha123:
And why do you expect women not to talk about being extorted, exploited, deceived, and manipulated by you men too?

YOu can always make a post na, I'm very sure the Mods didn't restrict you.

Women are the ones who suffer the most in relationships

Not really, you're looking at the less than 10% of men who has the option to do as they like, while forgetting most men will be thankful to get just one woman in their lives.
Men have to do a lot to even get a small percentage of women to reply him, and you dare say women lose what ?

, but they choose to be silent while most of you men would nag and play victims over an issue that you started but failing to finish

Maybe when women start doing the chasing, investing, marriage vows etc then we can talk.

The Op is making a decent point, albeit is in a disjointed way. But the base is valid.
Now you go make valid post and see what happens.

If you work on yourself and keep upgrading yourself you will make it better in foreign land with prayer.

So you won't make in Nigeria if you do these ? Olodo oshi. IF you're a failure in Nigeria. you're more than likely be a failure elsewhere.

Stay in Nigeria dey confuse people.

Nigeria with low or no taxes VS Oyinbo collecting almost all your money in taxes then you still dey shit on the ground.
Now who dey confuse ? Later u go dey shout oyinbo racism. Abeg stay there ooo

Ignore her, she will find person.

She is not beautiful, she is just average but she is good!

Of course she's NOT beautiful. Beautiful girls for don get a lot of other options na.

But I am not really into her like she is into me.

She's not beautiful so... no surprises.

This girl calls me almost everyday!!! It is as if I had her kidney..
Sometimes I ignore her calls and I don't even call her at all but she keeps doing her calling like it is her job.

I was hoping she would read the message I was passing to her but she was not..

What made me think so is the fact that recently, she told me that she turned down someone because she likes me..

Don't worry, she go get tired. They always do.

Weirdcamila:
A wise man avoids women.
Two is a crowd.

A wise man have at least two stable women in order boost competition.

Ogbeni, this one is cheating ADULTERY. That's why you're afraid.
This happens because:
1. You're scared of your wife
2. Wife is better in some ways than the side chick.
3. You've never told your wife you'd fornicating or have another woman.

All in all, these are the traits of a weakling. The rest of us just tell our wife, madam, no be only you ooo!

Can u show us where the homeless dey ? Where dem match shit on top ground ? Oya sow us na.
Keep deceiving people about the crap cities.

MasterJayJay:
Biden 79 years old is seen riding a movable bicycle with one hand.

You forgot the version where Biden fell down:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5QFpPIx7rXo
They're both the similar in this. At least Tinubu get sense and dey do am in doors.

All Clichés

ObamaMessi:
Women are all useless regardless of their origin.

This is evidently untrue, historically inaccurate and factually incorrect.
If woman don scam or cheat on you, use am learn, NOT every women are like you Nairaland female thugs.

She said no sex till marriage, mean while she isn't a vergin

So, the fourth day, sex happened but I discovered dt, her pussy was too wide, I didn't enjoy it

That's the definition of a vergin, this guy don't know anything.

I called her n informed her dt, her pussy was too wide n she wasn't happy . She blocked me n stopped taking calls

Man look like he don dey get sense

After some days , she picked n I begged her cuz, she is a lovely person.

Alas, vagina was stronger.

But I dnt know if I can g t married to her

Wetin, u go marry dis one oo. In fact she don get belle

D day I met her, she informed me dt she dated her guy for 6years, I want to believe dt, d long years relationship would v contributed to d wide pussy so, it's not her fault .

How old are you ? 22 ?
Have you checked her phone ? Her Instagram ?

Pls dis gal is young and hard working but, I want advice. Shd I take her serious , since it's obvious dt, her 6years relationship might v led to d pussy been dt wide?
Is always threatening me wit taken my name to her church alter if I shd leave her.....she isn't demanding.....24years old lady

You no get sense, GO FIND A VIRGIN, THIS IS NOT YOUR WIFE!

Olodo oshi, na fornication wan destroy you life like this ?
No be today, dem plenty outside. Let guess, you're NOT a broke guy ?

Many of these men will not bother with a mature and independent lady because they know these type of ladies will see them for the coward and failure that they are

Correct, why bother old car when you can get new one for less price (sometimes even Indomie or table water).

A 35yrs old woman is mature enough to know what she wants, but no, they won't go for her

You're a 35 yo and you're far from mature like Buhari is far from his 2015 promises.

They will rather be disturbing Young girls in their prime and be looking for virgin up and down

I mean... it's a free market.

MITCHELL96:
Nigerian ladies will choose the one that can knack well as they don't have sense na.

Women don't care if a man can cook or not.

If you open their head na different type of DICK and timetable for DICK APPOINTMENT full their head.

It's your problem if all you attract is prostitutes.

These simps are the most dangerous to women. Wish they'd both listen.
Simps can't just help themselves in the sight of half-pretty women, let alone sth more.

Assuming all these are actually true and NOT some fake outrage.

This is definitely a post made by a woman - on her period. It lacks substance, riddled with inconsistencies and using exceptions as rules everywhere.
This is what they do when they're in similar situation and needs a cope. Madam, you don reach 30 and no husband, shit happens. No need to be normalizing an obvious cope.

Simping till old age. This is why you don't listen to ALL elders.

It's not only the monetary part tho, boys need a masculine presence in the home so they don't turn criminals and girls so they don't turn hoes.

Eagle07:
You are right bro. No matter how she wants to pretend I will definitely find out.

So people wey dey divorce today no date, sorry I mean lust for months or years ?
Dey there dey deceive una selves

Kobojunkie:
There is no ruler as far as what makes all men or all woman happy. Know this and you come closer to knowing wisdom.

Just declare to us you like guys smashing your wife while you're watching, heck even filming them and helping with publishing.

That one man is not happy with an open relationship does not mean all men are not happy with it. Know this and you come closer to wisdom in life.

Yea, we have a name for this: CUCK.

Girls are not stupid in this game.

1. She's no longer a virgin, she might as well sell to every and anybody willing to meet her price tag.
2. It's not as if there's a binding commitment under dating, it's just a lustful endeavor.
3. Expecting a girl to commit to you under the guise of dating will lead you into tears.

Make your intentions known: Sex buddies or Marriage ?
At least OP understand female nature to some extent.

The only orgasm that ever mattered.

VeryWickedGoat:
Tell her you love girls on gorimapa

Fatality!