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THIS EQUALITY BULLSHIT AGAIN!

I was trying to know her thought on accountability and if she can be fair in reciprocating energy especially in finances ..

This is false, women are to be taken care of financially. There's no reciprocation - it's for the broke and irresponsible.

We had to stop dating and I accepted caused I respects her decisions if money is all she desires as a woman and at the this particular time she needs someone that can spend as much as he wants on her without contributing anything to him ..

Again, a woman has no financial obligation to you as a man, no one ever told you that ?
Don't fall for this useless, backward idea.
You want them to work, still blame them for sucking their boss' or customer's dick ? Pick one.
Again, they'll work and still take care of the house ? C'mon.

Guys make money before you love cause this generations of girls wants to be pampered and worshipped whereas some aren’t working or doing things to better their life without being dependent on a man ..

You be weyrey olodo I swear.
- Every girl wants to be pampered, even agbero's wife. But "big mouth" is what we are against.
- Women should be dependent on a man, there's nothing wrong with that. There's a reason God gave men muscle and emotional stability.
- Remember: Her money is her money. She has right to ask for your money

I pray things get better and for those that has good and true women with a positive intentions for you better hold them tight ..

Financial stability is a requirement for a man in marriage. Same way you wouldn't want to marry a hoe or veteran.

But what ruined it is that she won’t stop talking about money , I want this , I want that

In less than a week ? Have u fornicated with her already ? If yes, she probably wanna get paid for the service.
If not, then she sees you as nothing but ATM.

.. As a guy I was looking forward to love and someone I can build with although I am doing well for myself to some extent

Repeat after me:

You don't build with a WOMAN.
NEVER "build" with a WOMAN.

but she on the other hand has nothing and

Good broke women are the best when they're NOT entitled brat.

she believes any guy she accepts into her life has to contribute something to support her with which I am not against ..

Yea, assuming she's not a dullard.

But what broke the camel back is a question I asked her that if I gave her 100k and request 50k to be sent back to me if I needed it urgently she refused to it and saw it as not being the right thing to do on her own part I was surprised even when the money belonged to me at the first place …

Ok, she's a useless brokey. This one cannot be a wife.

She's mad.
There are millions of her tho. She's not that special. You dodged a missile.

She said she's no longer a virgin as I thought she was. She said reason why she broke up was because she fell into temptation & slept with a guy but she was ashamed because she knew she was wrong.

Na lie.

She no be virgin before, she saw your mumu and pressed you button since most men are stupid when it comes to getting their weewee wet.
She did some thing called Cat-fishing*

There are virgins of 25 years old ,why don't they fall for "Random" guys and ashamed.
Used good are only meant for fornicationship, which is what I think you want - NOT marriage.

Women are opportunists, she already got with the "bad boy" then it's the turn of you SIMPle men to eat the left-over.
If God want to add to your punishment, make you come marry her join. Na so she go dey ask for forgiveness every week.


Catfishing:

Catfishing is a deceptive activity where a person creates a fictional persona or fake identity on a social networking service, usually targeting a specific victim. The practice may be used for financial gain, to compromise a victim in some way, as a way to intentionally upset a victim, or for wish fulfillment

Fake or not, Oyinbo no dey last. Don't plan on replacing my black queens with one fading whitey

Karleb:
This is 2022.

Definition of woman, female, gender etc. has changed.

Yea, to the mentally unstable. Go tell you mama that one, that a woman can now have penis and a man can now get pregnant.

Olodo oshi!

mariahAngel:
Looks promising.
Keep working on it until (almost) perfection.
Don't forget to add food section.
Competition is good for growth.

FFO detected.

It's no longer a competition if that guy sorts out major issues. Nairaland will die a death like BBM* .

@bolded, I've suggested it more than once to seun, but...

Tried reporting him to madam ?

* BlackBerry Messenger.

Fourpockets:
Calling women "females" all the time sound uncomfortable in my ears

Female: opposite of male; girl, women.

Perhaps you need to start from Elementary school. So that's you take away from everything I wrote: Nothing.

Natbrowny:
Why would a sane person wear makeup to sleep?

Why should a sane person wear make-up

airsaylongcome:
Lol! You make a ton of very sweeping statements that are very laughable. How many guys have I trained? I don't need to go into the breakdown. But here on NL, I know how many guys I have spent my money to download Udemy courses, put them on a flash drive I bought and couriered it to them. Not one, not two, not ten. Downloaded 80GB content, bought 128gb flash drive and sent the materials of to them. And they don't know me, they don't have my phone number and have absolutely no way of returning the favour. I'm currently training a handful of male folks on the tech stack I work with. At absolutely NO COST to them. And sourcing proxy remote roles for them. But this isn't about me or what I have done to empower tech bros.

Like you said, I'll wear the "simping" badge. You are completely right bro.

Personally, I'm done with airing my views about this here on NL or anywhere. I wish all prospective tech folks the best as they pivot into the the field. Theres enough space for everyone of us to fly

Oga please Just answer my questions.

I've asked simple question:
- How many females are in Linux, FreeBSD, Kernel Dev?
- How many females are in C, C++, Java, Language development ?
- How many females are in TSMC, Samsung, GloFlo, SMIC, making chips to be used by Apple, AMD, Qualcomm etc.
- In ASML? Making Photo-lithography machines
- How many females engineers in Intel, AMD, NVIDIA, Apple making processors ? Remember these are in California, HQ of "girl power".

What's stopping them. Or better go research it.
Or just leave our women alone, they don't like tech. SIMPLE

argaret Hamilton.
Lleader of the team that developed the flight software for the agency's Apollo missions, has been granted a NASA Exceptional Space Act Award for her scientific and technical contributions.

https://www.hq.nasa.gov/alsj/a11/a11Hamilton.html

LISA SU, CEO of AMD, Worked at IBM too. EE engineer

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lisa_Su

Who's saying women can't do shit, we are saying only few of them want to/can.

airsaylongcome:
Lol! He said male simping. Comic relief. Yes females are not competent. And should not be in tech

Feelings! feelings! How many females have u tried training ?

I've asked simple quesion:
- How many females are in Linux, FreeBSD, Kernel Dev?
- How many females are in C, C++, Java, Language development ?
- How many females are in TSMC, Samsung, GloFlo, SMIC, making chips to be used by Apple, AMD, Qualcomm etc.
- In ASML? Making Photo-lithography machines
- How many females engineers in Intel, AMD, NVIDIA, Apple making processors ? Remember these are in California, HQ of "girl power"

And what's stopping them from going into these industries in US, Europe. Or are these also MISOGYNIST ?

Get me wrong if you like, but no one is saying they can't do it but:
- but the thing is most of them don't want to because they don't like it
- the little they do gets blown outta proportion.

Your 1993 is becoming a disgrace at this point. You should never have gone there.
Yes, stop simping for women. Maybe try training them first.

Agbebakun22:
Thank you for your invaluable support. I really appreciate your time.

Any language is NOT okay.

Never start with Java. Although that's the lingua franca of most backend guys in Nigeria.

Continue your C, it's not that much.
Pick up the "Snake Lang" a.k.a Python.

After that, I'll suggest Go.

Also learn about: Computer Hardware (CPU, RAM, etc), Programming Lang: Algo & DS, Computer Networking, Cloud, Understand Cryptography etc
It's not just programming.

https://www.youtube.com/c/PowerCertAnimatedVideos/videos

airsaylongcome:
The bolded is exactly what I am talking about.

I already presumed you're a male simping for females duh!

When women got into medicine and surgery the same insults were hurled at them that they were weak and incompetent and would never match a man. Years down the line I'm sure all of that has changed.

No, everywhere they go things get water down to their level or thinking. And for some reason you think Med is the hardest haha.
Med is for average people tho.

FYI I'm a male and I have been in tech since 1993 coding in BASIC and saving text-based RPGs on a radio cassette tape.

I presumed you're male duh! Females are in family, celebrity gossip section etc.

Please who's stopping females in 1993 to code ? Who ?

I have been in this field long enough to know the animosity towards females in tech. But yeah, you are right, I'm a weakling

Female in tech is like a male teacher in Kindergarten or Nursing. We only hear cries when it doesn't benefit female.
This is what happens when u make women your mental point of origin.

I've also tried training men and women, they're not as resilient as men. More men tried, more failed. Few women tried almost all failed.
That's the angle you're NOT looking at.

Science & Tech is historically a male-space, women should come and see if they fit in NOT we advertising them to come in, because they're not needed.
They'll just mess up the space like everything else.

Again in 2022, what's stopping the? With all these gynocentric nonsense: Girl code, Girls this Girl That that doesn't do more than Python anyways.
When will you root for boys who are the majority of willing participant tho ?

While he's paying right ?

You're addressed as you present yourself. You advertise like a prostitute and want to be addressed as a wife.

Christianity is a total joke, no guidance, no left or right, no good or bad anymore - just revisions and latest versions. As Paul intended.

airsaylongcome:
It's not hard. There are loads of them. And very competent. But the misogyny in the field has compelled them to camouflage. Loads of them on online forums disguise as male so they don't get discriminated against

Where's the evidence ? A lot of men fail in the industry and you'll think (who are lazy by default) will do better ? Do longer hours ? Able to deal with stress ?

How many of them in Sysadmin ?
Why are they also few in number US, Canada,Sweden,etc compared to men ? Nothing is preventing them.
How many of them are in Linux kernel development ? C and C++ ISO Committee ? Java Language ? Python Lang Dev ?

Just go sit down little weak thing. This is industry is competence based, you don't get by - MOST OF THE TIME - having a vagine.

Stop believing shit you see online. Until you interview people personally or review their work, stop being lowly.

Plus if you know anything at all, you'll see he's just putting highly unrelated things together. So, he dumb or just fake.

What is blackout ?

OF course he's not a fatso.
Lots of end-time prophecies coming into play

But can we verify this tho ?

This is more of an advanced Nairaland than Reddit.

- There's no concept of SubReddit. They're predefined like in Nairaland
- Mods ?
- Cross-posting ?
- Rich text support ? Plans for Markdown at least ?

- Support for Direct messages ?
- Notifications ? Tho I will have to make another account to test this.
- I also like how you can select target country when making a new post, instead of "Afroic", wouldn't "All" or something similar be more descriptive ?
- Each Sub forum should have a "Submit" button that automatically selects for that forum.

...

I've tested, this looking great. The fact we can actually have a proper comment thread is a win.

- Please include dark-themes. The most IMPORTANT THING. Even tho it doesn't look bad with Dark Reader Addon.
- Again, people with high resolutions like 1440p, 4K etc will have huge space. Look at the attachment.
- Settings is still basic, but this will probably get better with time.

Still exploring.

There's nothing preventing the guy from taking another wife as long he can take care of them.
Yes, she's most likely a side chick that will likely get promoted to wife status.

TONYE001:
In medicine, psychiatry particularly, suicide attempts where the individual makes a suicide note is actually considered a very serious threat.

Many have said what you wrote up there only to realize that the person was actually serious; but, of course, too late.

Every threat of suicide should be taken seriously and consultations with a professional should be considered.

Women takes photo about it, men just do it. Bet your life savings/asset she's not faking.

Attention seeking only. I bet my left butt it's fake.

Enitanmii:
You should find your way back to school, retrieve if possible all money spent and try buy some brain. Jeon is smart, I don't know if she'll be kind enough to borrow you some sense cos you're so witless you don't know a pupil is also a student.

That said, your sense of understanding need to be queried as an adult. If a simple and plausible phrase as such need to be demystified before it becomes comprehensible to you, you don't deserve a second of my time. Don't be too pained MF. I know you expect your dopey comments to get to me

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Jeon:
You know the answer why do you still asked?


How about you ask your leader his personal life.

Like one of the self claimed redpill foreigner who cheated on his girlfriend that foot his bills, living under her roof with a cheap commodity as he's.

Gayism don destroy the little brain power u had left.

Enitanmii:
If your words are to go by, isn't it embarrassing to chase a primary school student?

You lots are just shameless. You claim alpha in public and simp in private. No lady on here should be getting PM with the rate you come for us with your verbal attack.

Show us the username of tho have PM'd you let us see.
Or else, you're a raging liar.

If your words are to go by, isn't it embarrassing to chase a primary school student?

1. It's pupil
2. Language and consequently understanding was never one of your strong suit.
3. No one said you're a primary school "student". Olodo oshi

Finally, as long as a woman advertises herself, she'll definitely see customers and intending buyers - until she's 30+ when the markets starts drying up.

Now Show the world how I send you PM.

Jeon:
Pls respect the word Simp

Stop using then on those so-called men hiding under alpha and Redpill wannabe to have free pussy.

Get paid for it, call them prostitutes.
Give it for free, blame them again.

How do you suggest they fornicate ?

Don't get it twisted, boys just want to get their Instruments wet and you happen to have a vagine.
It's not as if they find anything inherently valuable in you other than the advert you made (i.e profile pic), which in itself looks like something taken at your Primary school graduation.

Nah, we good. We'll just enjoy our money and go retire in some ranch in our home town.
We'll leave this nonsense to you. I don't want to look 89yo when I'm 49.

Yes.

IF you're valuable enough, she'll give you access to everything - yes, everything.
If she's hiding or locking it, she's the school and you're only a candidate looking for admission

But na fornicationship u dey na, why you wan prevent another from fornicating ? Because u fear the Lord ?
U never marry her, abeg go sit down.

Kingcalls:
Marry who?? She will still marry another Tyrone while the simp will keep on salivating

God no go shame us!