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Family / Re: If As A Girl Ur Above 30 Not Yet Married Blame Urself by inioluwajoe(f): 6:40pm On Dec 16, 2019
jakandeola:
we know marriage is sweet and most wish that after university at 24 25 dey got married but above 30 no hubby.
prideness is no 1 reason why most are not married.if u think u are most beautiful anoda girl is dear more beautiful Dan u. if u think ur wise and speak good English anoda is better than u.
ode

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Business / How Can I Autopost On Telegram Channel by inioluwajoe(f): 7:23pm On Nov 18, 2019
please house can anyone teach me how to auto post on telegram. I have tried but the online tutorial did not work. thank you
Family / Re: Help Save My Marriage by inioluwajoe(f): 5:33pm On Jul 04, 2019
let her try blending coconut, tigernut(yellow ones) and dates(dabino) together. she should tale it a few hours to sex. This will help her juices flow and energize her for action. I have friends who experience such. na Small tin bro.

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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by inioluwajoe(f): 2:41am On Apr 13, 2019
comtem2011:
Go and take scent leaf water. Squeeze it with shikini salt and drink..

Or u squeeze guava leaf and drink the water.

Or Take gaari or golden morn. Not with water though.

When you are okay, he will be okay too.

Continue with the zinc and include ors.
comtem2011:
Go and take scent leaf water. Squeeze it with shikini salt and drink..

Or u squeeze guava leaf and drink the water.

Or Take gaari or golden morn. Not with water though.

When you are okay, he will be okay too.

Continue with the zinc and include ors.
[quote author=comtem2011 post=77474808]Go and take scent leaf water. Squeeze it with shikini salt and drink..

Or u squeeze guava leaf and drink the water.

Or Take gaari or golden morn. Not with water though.

When you are okay, he will be okay too.

Continue with the zinc and include orsuote]thank you ma, will get the scent leaves
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by inioluwajoe(f): 2:37am On Apr 13, 2019
comtem2011:
Go and take scent leaf water. Squeeze it with shikini salt and drink..

Or u squeeze guava leaf and drink the water.

Or Take gaari or golden morn. Not with water though.

When you are okay, he will be okay too.

Continue with the zinc and include ors.
thank you ma,will do that.
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by inioluwajoe(f): 8:58am On Apr 12, 2019
sabi mamas in the house, I greet you all
please help me chook mouth for this matter.
last week I took my 3month old baby to the hospital because he was stooling. the Dr prescribed flagyl for babies and zinc tablets. I started to administer the drugs and after two days the stool stopped. The problem now is that day before yesterday I ate vegetable soup and since then my baby and I have been stooling. I starting giving him flagyl, ors and zinc tablets, and yesterday I started using flagyl.
He is still passing out little qty of stool after each sucks the breast. my stomach set dey do wan kain,
pls mamas what can I do to make my breast milk safe for him,and what can I give him to stop the stool apart from flagyl. e se gan
Properties / Re: Many Pupils Dead, Over 100 Trapped As School Building Collapses In Lagos by inioluwajoe(f): 2:07pm On Mar 13, 2019
razy75:
I hope they are all af..ja
Devil punish you there, useless child.
Family / Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by inioluwajoe(f): 10:14am On Jan 10, 2019
Ishilove:
Can a man just change overnight?

Madam let us hear his side of the story
no he did not. I admit that the story is one-sided . I have my faults too. you are a wise woman and I like you for the way you answered

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Family / Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by inioluwajoe(f): 10:11am On Jan 10, 2019
FreshBoss007:
does he have diabetes?
no sir
Family / Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by inioluwajoe(f): 10:10am On Jan 10, 2019
do not move this topic to front page. please mods take note. would like it to remain in the family section because here they have wise and mature folks. thank you

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Family / Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by inioluwajoe(f): 10:00am On Jan 10, 2019
Acidosis:
Women who want to raise shoulders and compete with the man usually end up in this manner. During your years of dating, you must have shown tendencies of independence (trying to be at par with your man on bills related issues). Some of you even go as far as saying you want to split the bills on Nairaland just to appear "attractive".

Until everyone returns to the core ethics of marriage, we will never get it right.

If your man do not see himself as the sole provider in your courtship days, nothing will change when you're married. The core word is here is courtship not boyfriend/girlfriend relationship though.

As regards the sex, I am speechless reason being that fat/chubby (reasonable fat), for me, is sexy and attractive. I would never understand why some men dislike that.

Frankly speaking, I think you should be more worried about what your marriage has become (from love to hate affair). How a man would boldly say to his wife such condescending words is beyond my understanding. I would never even say such to an annoying ex, an annoying fellow or enemy. I'm always very careful with how I describe people based on looks and appearances.

In sum, I think your hubby has some (more) underlying issues such as lousiness and arrogance (these issues are most likely innate, which you've, over the years, ignored).

Deal with the aforementioned issues ma'am, and sex (should be the least of your worries now) would come naturally.
thank you will work on my fault which is pride and arrogance. I guess I needed a Man's view on this issue. we cannot know it all. grateful for your words of wisdom

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Family / Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by inioluwajoe(f): 9:56am On Jan 10, 2019
PstJohn:
Give me a moment.
Five things make a husabnd resent his wife to the extent of shaming her bodily.

1. Arrogant display by his wife. Have you become pompous in recent times? You talked about sharing bills fifty-fifty. A woman who brags about sharing bills is arrogance personified.

2. Power tussle. What decisions are you refusing to let your husband have his way on? Men progressively develop resentment towards women who threaten their decision-making position within the family.

3. Financial fights. Do you constantly fight over money to the extent that you remind him of how you "fed" him when he had nothing? You seem to acknowledge it your write-up that money is part of the issue.

4. Your personal hygiene. Sex dies with the death of body management. What has changed about the way you take care of your body? We can blame him for not "loving" your body anymore. However we must acknowledge his human sensitivity which is very natural. Your hygiene should not die because you have "secured" a man on a permanent basis especially in this age where marital sanctity means little to many.

5. Respect. Do you still respect him? Did your regard for him wane drastically after you both got married? Familiarity should never erase respectfulness. Retain your respect for your husband, and he will retain his love for you.

All said and done, find the devil that has crept into either of or both of you and kick it out now. Your home isn't lost yet. Pray, involve a counsellor that he respects, and pray more. JESUS wants your marriage to flourish! Shalom!
thank u sir am guilty of fighting with him over money,as well as disrespect, thanks for pointing out those faults to me. I have not really seen it from that perspective. will work on this. God bless you sir

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Family / Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by inioluwajoe(f): 9:42am On Jan 10, 2019
dingbang:
My fear is that he shouldnt turn into a wife batterer. Please try to avoid situations that will spark his furiousness, just stay strong until you give birth to your bundle of joy. Its well with your marriage.
thank sir will just concentrate on putting to bed first and get my life together afterwards
Family / Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by inioluwajoe(f): 11:04pm On Jan 09, 2019
my husband and I have been together for six years now , married for just nine months. But the past 4 months my husband has not touched me, the last time we tried to get intimate he could not even get it up.
All he does now is complain about how he regrets marrying me,how fat I look(am pregnant), how I should go out and look for money( I work as a teacher), but due to my condition I stopped doing extra lessons so I just depend on my salary.
whenever I ask him what I did he won't be able to come up with anything meaningful. He will just tell me that am a liability to him and not helping him. This is a man that I split the bill 50/ 50 with. I used to work extra hours and come at night as at the time I was 4 months pregnant. it just.
A lot of things are happening but what is annoying me most is that he says he will frustrate me until I will pack up and leave the house..
I just want to rid myself of any attachment I have to him. put to bed and get out of his life . I can't be begging for intimacy from my husband.
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by inioluwajoe(f): 2:36pm On Jan 04, 2019
Besea:
January is finally here! We are so grateful that this journey that began in April/may is finally running to an end and it shall end in praises for all of us.

It's time to shake body, dance, take that long walk and start popping out our babies.

Congratulations to Cutewifey and foreveryoung1515 on the arrival of the little ones.

December porters
Giddyperson
Spakuls
Chanbaby
Foreveryoung1515... Delivered...1/1/2019... Princess

Team January

1. besea... 11/1/2019...

2. Joilin... 13/1 /2019... XY...

3. Ejika48...30/1/2019... XX.

4. cutewifey...10/1/2019...XY... Delivered... 31/12/2018... Prince

5. Melly245…26/1/2019... XX...

6. AmJane… 28/1/2019... XX..

7. Fibett…? /1/2019...

8. Okeoghene4real… 4/1/2019... XX...

9. Iffffffy...20/1/2019...

10. Honeydoc... 25/1/2019...

11. BarrONLS... 25/1/2019..... XY...

12. Sanyem... 18/1/2019...

13. adamsoghene... 25/1/2019...

14. evamum... 7/1/2019...XY... Delivered... 27/12/2018...Prince

15. Glimpse... 25/1/2019... XY...

16. helen4... 3/1/2019.... XX... Delivered. 26/12/2019... Princess

17. Chithejoyfulmom... 6/1/2019...?

18. Inioluwajoe... 17/1 /2019 ... XY...

19. jflobaby... 21/1/2019... XY...

20. obinnanelson4…?/1/2019... Delivered... 29/12/2018...princess

21. ftmum... 25/1/2019... XX.

22. Onaswu... 21/1/2019...?

23. Ijesuloba... 17/1/2019... XX


#THERESHALLBENOLOSS
#Teamsupernaturaldelivery
#Teamnewyearbabies
congratulations to all the mamas that have delivered their LOs. The rest of us will join you soonest by the grace of God. we shall all meet our angels in Jesus name. Happy new year to us all

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by inioluwajoe(f): 11:06pm On Dec 16, 2018
Sanyem:
[/quote]me and the baby are doing fine ma, I hope all our Jan teamies are getting ready. supernatural birth to us all. thanks for checking up on us smiley[quote author=Sanyem post=73841223]
me and the baby are doing fine ma, I hope all our Jan teamies are getting ready. supernatural birth to us all. thanks for checking up on us

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by inioluwajoe(f): 6:16pm On Dec 02, 2018
rabluk:

Please take water...lots of it. Follow all doctor's instructions. By the way, are you team February or January?
thank you ma'am. I am team January. have started taking water and will repeat the test next week. appreciate you

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by inioluwajoe(f): 6:13pm On Dec 02, 2018
samieea28:

I was tested positive two weeks ago too, but I was told by mamas here to increase my water intake which I did. And yesterday I was tested negative. So, start taking water, Water, water.
just seeing your reply. thank you ma'am. will do just that. appreciate you
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by inioluwajoe(f): 5:59pm On Dec 02, 2018
Besea:
Please answer roll call.

If you have checked sex please update.

December is here and we cannot be more grateful. This is the month for some of us, for the rest of us it's a step close to the finish line. It will end in praise for us all. Amen.

Are you doing your nipple cleaning, light exercise, taking routine drugs and eating healthy?

Please indicate your edd and name if not mentioned.
1. besea... 11/1/2019

2. Joilin... 13/1 /2019... XY

3. Ejika48...30/1/2019

4. cutewifey...10/1/2019...XY

5. Melly245…26/1/2019... XX

6. AmJane… 28/1/2019... XX

7. Fibett…? /1/2019

8. Okeoghene4real… 4/1/2019... XX

9. Iffffffy...20/1/2019

10. Honeydoc... 25/1/2019

11. BarrONLS... 25/1/2019..... XY

12. Sanyem... 18/1/2019

13. adamsoghene... 25/1/2019

14. evamum... 7/1/2019...XY

15. Glimpse... 25/1/2019... XY

16. helen4... 3/1/2019.... XX

17. Chithejoyfulmom... 6/1/2019...?

18. Inioluwajoe...?/1 /2019

#THERESHALLBENOLOSS
#Teamsupernaturaldelivery
#Teamnewyearbabies
thanks ma'am for checking on us,baby and I are doing great. sex is xy,edd 21st Jan 2019

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by inioluwajoe(f): 4:34pm On Nov 30, 2018
Hello wonderful mamas, am a silent reader of this thread. Am 32 weeks pregnant ,and just this afternoon I went for my antenatal appointment. After urinalysis test was done,it was discovered that I have protein in my urine though my blood pressure is normal.
I am really worried because ve lost a baby before due to this same issue. what can be done to remedy this situation. would really appreciate all your inputs
Family / Re: Please I Need Help.. Am Going Crazy. by inioluwajoe(f): 8:35pm On Oct 13, 2018
this ifyalways is always forming detective. ode woman. if you can't help then leave the lady alone. everyone is a scammer to her .mumu oshi

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Family / Re: Different Used Toys For Your Kids 08029753141 by inioluwajoe(f): 6:23pm On Oct 11, 2018
how much is the baby walker
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by inioluwajoe(f): 1:04pm On Aug 25, 2018
hello mamas in the house. u guys are doing a great job. I have a question for doctors or experienced mothers in the house. is femur length of 2.4cm at 16weeks normal. awaiting your replies.
Celebrities / Re: Toke Makinwa, Toolz, Kemi Adetiba And More React To Cee-c Verbally Abusing Tobi by inioluwajoe(f): 4:46pm On Apr 18, 2018
Akshow:
When have they reacted to bad government ? Poor infrastructure? Poor health care? High cost of living etc. But they can take to internet to shout about a poorly brought up, very arrogant, toxic bitter leaf Cynthia who has no home training. Nonsense. Plus big brother, plus tools, plus toke, plus bitter leaf Cynthia, plus Tobi, they are all mad
they are not jobless, these women are accomplished media personalities. can't someone unwind again.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 2017 Npower N-tax Applicant That Have Successfully​ Written There Test by inioluwajoe(f): 1:25pm On Sep 14, 2017
futuremoma34:



no they not disqualified. but did they tell u to be chkin ur mails for invite?
no the lady just said the will get back to me
Jobs/Vacancies / Are Pregnant And Nursing Mothers Disqualified From Npower Tax Program by inioluwajoe(f): 12:10pm On Sep 14, 2017
I got a call today from Npower and I was asked two questions. The first question was if I have nysc discharge certificate. The second was if am w nursing mother or pregnant woman. my answer was yes to both questions. which makes me wonder if this line of questioning is to screen some candidates out.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 2017 Npower N-tax Applicant That Have Successfully​ Written There Test by inioluwajoe(f): 11:15am On Sep 14, 2017
I got a call from Npower and was asked if am pregnant, I answered yes.the caller then said she will get back to me. Are pregnant and nursing mothers disqualified. undecided
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Npower VAIDS/TAX Applicants 2017, by inioluwajoe(f): 3:16pm On Jul 02, 2017
I have been trying to take the test, but keep getting the invalid login response. has anyone taken the test without receiving the SMS.
Events / Re: My Sister's Traditional And White Wedding Pictures by inioluwajoe(f): 10:57pm On Oct 23, 2016
Rilwayne001:
Old couple sad
pele o, young couple. everyone deserves to be happy irrespective of their age.

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Technology Market / Re: California(Los Angeles),pickup services..Online purchase..(Ebay/Amazon,walmart) by inioluwajoe(f): 6:09pm On Oct 03, 2016
hi milky angel, I need to buy to purchase an item from Amazon.how can I reach you?

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Family / Re: My Late Mum by inioluwajoe(f): 3:00pm On Aug 21, 2016
The power of a praying mum. may she continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord Jesus Christ. God will grant you your heart desires as well.

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