₦airaland Forum

Ethiodime:
Women shouldn't pursue a man becos that will make them a bit desperate. Chasing is a man's job, but she has to appreciate his steps towards her n all the little thing that he do.
If she don't like the guy she has to signal him a sign that portraits the picture and vice versa.

Ethiodime:
I'm also against that over statement, we have both beautiful n ugly people.

amefi:
I didnt see dat!!!

obowunmi:
Inked Nerd is the best thing to happen to me. ***muah***

obowunmi:
Baby girl, how old are you ?

koolchicco:
^^

PMSL

ogugua88:
Lol Madame it's the truth. I'm 5'11. I can't do much if he's below that

lastpage:
No matter what, a spouse that would "Cheat" would still do so even if you "Cut your head and use it to serve Wine" to that spouse!

Looking at it, both spouses do it BUT wait:

It seems men cheat more! or at least, more men get caught cheating, than women!
What the heck, most men dont even bother to hide the fact they are cheating!
Some even just go ahead and marry the "lady" they are cheating with, insisting "You cant be cheating, if she is your wife"!
They kind of "legalize" it!
And you know, Nigerian men have this air of arrogance about them, thinking they can do whatever they like!


On the other hand, Women also cheat (No Brainer, from this Video )
BUT wait for it:
Women dont like to be accused of cheating at all (or at least, women think they should never be caught, hence the "Ohh my God,,,,he actually caught me,,,damn! ) because we "profess love" at every second in a relationship!
Women though, cannot "legalize" their cheating except they "break-up' their marriage, they make-up for this by developing "the Art of Cheating"! Its like 'Fine Art', you just have to have the "skills" or not.
You can hardly catch a cheating wife or G.Friend!

*First, a woman will put the man's mind at ease and "earn" his complete trust.
*When done, she now perfects how to cheat and some will even go on the offensive, by accusing the man first, so as to deflect attention from themselves!
*Even then, it is considered as a sign of "Weakness/Idleness" for a man to TRY TO catch his wife that is cheating!
Its easier to just "let her go" after all, nothing you do will make a cheating woman TO STOP, she can only go on "temporary leave" till things cool down!

Trouble is when the woman gets pregnant, as a result of "cheating" (men cant! ) and the pregnancy will NOT abort, no mater what she does (Damn, stubborn fetus!), then, everything gets really messy!

Either way, l guess anyone that values his/her mental stability, MUST ACCEPT that in this world of "[color=#000099]Social Networking and Mobile Phones", Cheating by spouses has become the norm of life!
Sad though, but that is the REALITY![/color]
Go on any of those Social Network sites and see what "cheating" means The advert for free sex is so brazen!

Everywhere you go, you could hear someone just entering an Hotel with a "secret lover" saying to his/her spouse, "Dear, traffic is really bad on this road today o" OR "dear, you have to help me get another job, this my Boss just gave me three hefty files when l was about closing, and l have to finish them"! (Meanwhile, like our woman in the video, she might just be doing 'torch-your-toe' with the same Boss, at that moment!

As far as INFIDELITY AMONG SPOUSES IS CONCERNED: Get over it or Get a Heart-Attack! The Choice is yours

Nuf said joo!

chidoggy:
At least women are ashamed when they are caught. But men, they just say it's in the genetic make-up!

amefi:

denony:
I wonder if parents still give away their children for house help in this modern world.
If you u need a helper employ your junior ones.

moremi2008:
Male house helps are very dangerous. I really can't believe people are still naive enough to hire them. They not only molest your children (yes, they'll molest both your sons and daughters), they also organize armed robbers to come vandalize your house for a share of the loot. I have heard HORRIFIC stories about families that have live-in houseboys. Don't do it to yourself oh! The only thing you should be hiring a man for in your home is for driving, gardening and security and make sure they are NEVER come into your home and stay outside in the compound.

Female house helps vary. Some steal, some become neighborhood dogs (we had one house girl that would have all the bricklayers in the project next door take turns on her in the uncompleted building and another one ran away with our neighbour's driver!), some have evil spirits, some are slovenly (one house girl we had years ago would take a shower until my Mum threatened to beat her with a stick!!!! She just hated taking baths for some reason!), some will try to seduce your husband/ older son and some of them are just wonderful. We have had a few house girls in our house (one was Togo and the other was Hausa) that would come visit us regularly even after they got married and had their own kids! My Mum still can't shut-up about the wonders of Auntie Maria (an house girl we had in the late eighties when we were kids)! I remember the day she left us after 12yrs! My mum packed her bag full of brand new pots, plates, silver ware, blender, clothes, shoes and bags!!! It was so ridiculous that she came back to keep some of the stuff with us because there was no space in the car that would take her back to Togo! She came back to get them a year later with her new husband and my mum bought her even more stuff!

Odunharry:
inked_nerd

koolchicco:
You what!

adagz 01:
simplify.

yuzedo:
Fellis, thanksabunch jare! Dont mind mzdarkie,  She should be worried about job loss crisis cos there aint no jobs originally in jamaica, imagine how e go come be 4 them now wey global recession dey,   
,  Twas nice of u to transcribe,  Mucho gracias!
@ inked: i was gonna yab u for what u posted till i saw it was u that posted it,  Who send d silly woman? Abeggy, she got served! She for even commit d suicide na? Or she for go kill d boss sef! 

ogugua88:
Yes, as long as he's no shorter than 5'8

Nothing under that as I'm not willing to suffer back pains to give kisses.

paris10:
Oh, what would that job be? Simple,  to hammer you when your partner/husband is not around abi! I'm talking about the male housemaid.

hescool:
^^^call a spade a spade not a shovel, she looks atrociuos

Kx:
little wonder they dont win any of the international beauty competitions