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CultureRe: Describe Yoruba Culture In One Word by InkedNerd(f): 5:06pm On Nov 18, 2010
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CultureRe: Kegites Club? by InkedNerd(f): 5:02pm On Nov 18, 2010
Are you guys talking about a palm wine club?
FamilyRe: What Position Are You In Your Family? by InkedNerd(f): 5:00pm On Nov 18, 2010
[quote author=baby.me link=topic=548943.msg7169064#msg7169064 date=1290095552]Yeah,especially when u add all the grandchildren and great grand pikins cheesy
I hated it when i was younger,but im cool with it now[/quote]Ok, never mind I made a mistake. Your parents made a whole town!!! I don't know how I'd deal with all those siblings like that.
FamilyRe: Popular Home Remedies by InkedNerd(f): 4:41pm On Nov 18, 2010
Cool thread. I've been doing some of these recipes since I was a teenager. The yoga part is cool as well. Been doing yoga since I was 10. I love it.
FamilyRe: What Position Are You In Your Family? by InkedNerd(f): 4:32pm On Nov 18, 2010
[quote author=baby.me link=topic=548943.msg7168229#msg7168229 date=1290089917]My Pa has 15 children and im no 13 shocked shocked My mum has 8 and im no 6 shocked shocked

Not funny being in such a large family,but my parent makes each and every one of us feel special kiss[/quote]Hehehe, your parents made their own village.
FashionRe: The Natural Mixtress--Natural Remedies And Solutions by InkedNerd(op): 4:28pm On Nov 18, 2010
Ejadamen:
Ah I see. I only know dudu osun. Never seen black soap sold in containers but then I'm not a market person.  I think I'll stick to my shampoo though I've been considering switching to baking soda or apple cider vinegar.  But I am interested in natural conditioners so recipes please.
Actually, I'm not sure if they see it in containers. My mother went to Nigeria and brought back some black soap in two identical containers so I kinda assumed that they were sold in containers. . . Hehehe, silly me. I've only tried baking soda and soap. As much as I like the healing properties of Apple cider vinegar, I'm too scared to put it in my hair. I know that there's a commercial brand of dudu osun but I've never bought it or used it before.

If you're looking for natural recipes, try some of these:

Chamomile Tea Shampoo
Ingredients:
4 bags of Chamomile tea
4 tablespoons pure soap flakes
1 1/2 tablespoons glycerin

Directions:
Steep the tea bags in 1 1/2 cups of boiled water for 20 minutes. Remove the tea bags and discard. Add the soap flakes to the tea and let stand until the soap softens. Stir in glycerin until well blended. Keep in a dark, cool place in a sealed bottle.Warning: Should be avoided by those with ragweed and pollen allergies.

Cleansing Rinse
Cleansing rinses are excellent for removing shampoo residue, which can weigh down your hair and make it lifeless. Combine 1 cup of vinegar and 2 tbsp. of dried rosemary in a glass or microwaveable bowl. Put the mixture into the microwave for 1 minute and 30 seconds. Next, use a spoon to crush the rosemary on the side of the glass bowl to release the fragrance. Strain the mixture and let it cool before using. Apply to hair after shampooing, leave on for 2 minutes, then rinse out with cool water. It sounds like more work than it is.

Wonder of the Desert Shampoo for Dry Hair
Ingredients:
1/4 cup liquid castile soap
1/4 cup organic aloe vera gel
1 teaspoon pure vegetable glycerin
1/4 teaspoon organic avocado oil or other light organic vegetable oil

Directions
Mix together all the ingredients. Store in a bottle and always shake well before using. Apply to hair and allow to sit for a few minutes. Rinse well with cool water.

If you want some more, please let me know wink
FashionRe: ***Hair For African Women*** by InkedNerd(f): 4:00pm On Nov 18, 2010
SA Goddess:
Hey ladies,

My hair is growing so nicely, thick and gorgeous, I love it! cheesy Still not long enough to braid but I am now patient with it, taking it a day at a time!

How is everyone doing?
Hehehe, everything is good on my end. Nice to see that your hair is growing nicely.

Ejadamen:
It's been 2 weeks since I braided my hair and I miss my hair. I can't wash the hair and my hair is missing water. When I do take the braids off I wonder when next I'll braid again. I wonder if I'll miraculously go from ear length to neck length tongue I doubt.
lol, at least you can braid yours. I wish I could braid mine right now grin.
FashionRe: The Natural Mixtress--Natural Remedies And Solutions by InkedNerd(op): 3:06pm On Nov 18, 2010
Ejadamen:
This black soap,is it black castille soap or dudu osun?
The black soap I'm referring to is just regular black soap. There's no such product [that I've heard of] called 'black castile soap'. Black soap and castile soap are two different types of soaps. Black soap [also known as dudu osun in some places] is made from the ash of locally harvested plants and barks such a plantain, cocoa pods, palm tree leaves, and shea tree bark. Castile soap is a soap made with fat of purely vegetable origin, rather than animal fats such as tallow. This type of soap has historically been highly prized and viewed as a high quality soap which is gentle on the skin and useful for a range of other applications. Many stores sell castile soap, and this soap is a specialty of several regions in Europe, where it is made with various traditional ingredients. Also, the type of black soap I was referring to is the non-commercial kind--as in the type you can buy in the market in containers.

Has anyone ever tried Morrocan black soap? I've been wanting I to try that type as well. I might go to the Arab neighborhood near my house and pay a visit to some of the stores and see if I can find some.
FashionRe: I Love Ugo Osmunds by InkedNerd(f): 3:24am On Nov 18, 2010
Trendqueen:
@Inked_Nerd

David is from Togo,  People keep thinking he's Nigerian,   (At list) At list this boy Ugo is half Nigeria And To me he is a lot cuter than David. Sorry  cheesy


@ragdollz I just found another pic of him on google image (He reminds me of our Brian)
You know, I've heard people say that as well. I just don't know what to believe. Hehehe, I hope I run into him again next season. I saw him but didn't speak to him cry. I don't care where he's from, the dude is luscious. Makes me appreciate my African men even more. Hehehe, its so nice to have connections to events. Hey, who knows we might run into each other next season grin.
FamilyRe: Ladies Who Hold On To Their Father's Surname In Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 11:49pm On Nov 17, 2010
[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=13428.msg7164705#msg7164705 date=1290033831]yeah its mutual, only that you cannot have two masters in a boat so someone has to be the head, and in this case its the man[/quote]Lmao, that is a straight up joke. Rule by any means necessary eh? This is just a excuse used by men in order to exercise power over women.
FamilyRe: Ladies Who Hold On To Their Father's Surname In Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 11:42pm On Nov 17, 2010
[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=13428.msg7164692#msg7164692 date=1290033594]but of course it does it does, the man owns the wife and has a certificate to the effect[/quote]
Oh really
? So then I suppose the woman owns the man as well? They're both property to one another eh?
FamilyRe: Ladies Who Hold On To Their Father's Surname In Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 11:39pm On Nov 17, 2010
[quote author=bk.babe97y link=topic=13428.msg7164679#msg7164679 date=1290033447]U know I was talking bout my book collection, right? tongue
lol[/quote]Lmao, oh really? And what kind of books do you have in your collection?
FamilyRe: Ladies Who Hold On To Their Father's Surname In Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 11:36pm On Nov 17, 2010
[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=13428.msg7164627#msg7164627 date=1290032912]so the couple are one if the woman is still bearing the name of her father? she might as well remain in her parents home,[/quote]And how does bearing only the husbands name signify unity? If they both retained the names they have then that is a common bond, which can still signify their unity. And there's always the options of hyphenating. How can you really be "one" when your hear speaking of the bride to be as though she is property? She is a human being as well. You marrying her doesn't mean you own her.
FamilyRe: Ladies Who Hold On To Their Father's Surname In Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 11:21pm On Nov 17, 2010
[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=13428.msg7164532#msg7164532 date=1290031818]because men are the ones who go and ask for the girl's hand in marriage, men are the ones who pay a bride price, men are the ones who make a vow to take care of the girl. in a nutshell the man brings the woman into his life/home, he "acquires" her for want of a better word[/quote]So what if you pay some s.tupid bride pride, ask for her hand and "take care of the girl"?  Did you suddenly forget that its not just the man making a vow as well? Women are not pieces of property you can just buy, or in your words, "acquire". If you paying some ridiculous bride price seems to mean that you suddenly own her then I suggest you rethink you views on marriage. As I said before, you've described it the manner of a business transaction rather than a marriage. You don't own her and she doesn't own you. How can you be "one"/ "unified" when the name is one sided?
FamilyRe: Is It Possible For Someone To Get Pregnant After Abortion ? by InkedNerd(f): 11:12pm On Nov 17, 2010
@OP: If the procedure was done correctly, then yes, the person getting the abortion can still have children later on. Despite the scare tactics used in African countries to discourage the practice of abortions, if done correctly there should be no problems afterwards, but like kokoye said practice safe sex.
FamilyRe: Ladies Who Hold On To Their Father's Surname In Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 11:08pm On Nov 17, 2010
[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=13428.msg7164500#msg7164500 date=1290031539]how is surrendering one's father's name and taking up your husband's a biz transaction?
the fact is the father has handed her over, she has nothing left in her father;s house so why hold on to the name?[/quote]Why shouldn't she? The husband to be is leaving his family's house as well so why is it only her that is changing names?
FamilyRe: Ladies Who Hold On To Their Father's Surname In Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 11:03pm On Nov 17, 2010
[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=13428.msg7164471#msg7164471 date=1290031172]rubbish! once you decide to marry the guy and yur father hands you over to him, then am sorry that name has to go. The one that really gets me is the women who keep their ex husband's name after divorce[/quote]So, we're property eh? Sounds more like a business transaction rather than a marriage.
FashionRe: ***Hair For African Women*** by InkedNerd(f): 10:52pm On Nov 17, 2010
No problem wink
FamilyRe: Ladies Who Hold On To Their Father's Surname In Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 10:04pm On Nov 17, 2010
[quote author=bk.babe97y link=topic=13428.msg7163852#msg7163852 date=1290024098]I'm the biggest oddball u interacted with on here? lmfao!!!

Cool!

I got a "Biggest" something else I'd like u to check out! lol
[/quote]Oh really? cheesy
FashionRe: ***Hair For African Women*** by InkedNerd(f): 9:41pm On Nov 17, 2010
Ejadamen:
Could you please post the link here? I couldn't find the thread.
Ok, here it is >>> https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-551500.0.html
FashionRe: I Love Ugo Osmunds by InkedNerd(f): 9:36pm On Nov 17, 2010
[quote author=bk.babe97y link=topic=552585.msg7163650#msg7163650 date=1290021808]Lets go together. . . . .

Then after the nite is ova. . . . . [/quote]Then what? tongue

[quote author=bk.babe97y link=topic=552585.msg7163788#msg7163788 date=1290023571]Used to think he was computer generated.[/quote]So, you've actually heard of him?

@everyone on this thread:
If you wanna see a real hottie [no offense to Ugo or Trendqueen], then check out David Agbodji. Good Lord, the dude looks even hotter in person. Check him out http://bossip.com/206787/good-gracious-of-life-now-thats-fine-david-agbodji/
FashionRe: I Love Ugo Osmunds by InkedNerd(f): 5:34pm On Nov 17, 2010
Trendqueen:
Yah the last Fashion Week was great,  I went to all the shows at Lincoln Center. Coz I also worked as a make-up artist,  It was the best FNO so far. (To me)
I didn't go to Fashion Night Out this year. Wasn't really feelin' it and I was feelin' a bit lazy and didn't feel like leavin' my house. I kinda regretted it later on since my sister's friend's grandfather got my sister and I access to some of the behind the scene stuff. My sister went there to cover a story for a website she works for. Oh well, there's always next year.
FashionRe: I Love Ugo Osmunds by InkedNerd(f): 5:20pm On Nov 17, 2010
Trendqueen:
I don't think Ugo is new to the fashion world but to our NY's yes I think he is,
Ummmm. . . Ok. Oh so your from New York? Well, if he new to the NY scene then perhaps I'll see him when Fashion Week rolls around. I went to some shows from the season that just pasted and the collections I saw from different shows were pretty good.
FashionRe: Ladies With Skirts Clap For Yourselves by InkedNerd(f): 5:02pm On Nov 17, 2010
@OP: It's obvious that you've mind is full of nonsense. Your sittin' here tellin' us you like skirt because of sexual accessibility--Smh, do us a favor and go jump off a roof. There are quite a few things that men wear that we women find either repulsive or unflattering. You don't see us complaining. I'm sure the same accessibility you decided i the same accessibility that other men have in mind when they walk in the street and see your mother, sister, and perhaps in the future, your daughter. Go find something productive to do instead of chasing skirts.
FashionRe: I Love Ugo Osmunds by InkedNerd(f): 4:55pm On Nov 17, 2010
Trendqueen:
I don't think the boy is a New York model, coz he's frm Chicago, and I think he just came to NY. A lot of African models are with Red models, but I think Ugo is with newWave or Avenirs from Paris not sure but one of those, coz they're French agencies.
I don't necessarily think lot of the African models are with Red, but I do know that they have one the largest number of male models of color. I've met a couple of them and they seem pretty cool. There's something that seems a bit off about him [Ugo]. I'm usually familiar with the foreign agencies like Storm, D Management, City Models Management, etc. but I've never heard of the ones you've mentioned. Are they legit agencies? I'll ask my sister's friend. She'd have a better idea since she mingles with a lot of the European models in her agency. Is he a new model or something? huh
FashionRe: I Love Ugo Osmunds by InkedNerd(f): 4:21pm On Nov 17, 2010
Trendqueen:
HAHA He's sure is, He was on FTV and also on FNO - Fashion Night Out. 2010 NY
Hmmm, I've seen a lot of the African male models here in NY when Fashion Week rolls around, but I've never seen him before. What agency is he signed to? Whoever edited these photos was a bit too heavy handed when they touched it up on Photoshop. The photos look very unnatural. Using the healing brush tool in that manner makes the photo look way too soft.
CultureRe: The Burial by InkedNerd(f): 2:02pm On Nov 17, 2010
Eh ya, ndo. My condolences cry.
FamilyRe: Who Should Give Out A Woman In Marriage? by InkedNerd(f): 1:54pm On Nov 17, 2010
Sagamite:
What is culture and tradition?

The processes, ways and mentality someone years/decades/centuries ago set as the right one?

Why should I follow such religiously? My own brain is empty?

My ONLY culture and tradition is MAKING SENSE!!!

My family knows that if something makes sense I will do it, if it does not I wouldn't. I will not sit my arse down and be saying I have to do something because it is our "culture". Culture, in my humble and insightful opinion, can kiss where the sun don't shine if I find it senseless, inhibitive and irrelevant to a goal I have found optimally ideal.
Hmmmm, interesting.
FamilyRe: What Position Are You In Your Family? by InkedNerd(f): 1:52pm On Nov 17, 2010
Beync:
^^ No doubt, u are endowed with great qaulities cheesy
Hehehe, thanks. Honestly, I feel really blessed that I was both the first child and first daughter. I remember talking to my papa about when I was born and he was telling me about how he feels about me being his first child and first daughter and I teared up a bit [which I don't normally do]. I'm not a perfect daughter so to hear him talk about me in such an endearing manner, it really warmed my heart cry.
FamilyRe: Ladies Who Hold On To Their Father's Surname In Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 11:39am On Nov 17, 2010
denzel2009:
No. Once you exchange marital vows, you become one unit.

But,if the guy marries a sado masochist it could be disrespectful to the woman.
So, if I am one unit why am I taking his last name rather than him? That doesn't seem to show unity. It comes across a very one sided. There is no actual justification for so an issue. Most men use it as a means of asserting their perceived authority/dominance that they seem to think they are entitled to by society.

[quote author=bk.babe97y link=topic=13428.msg7159677#msg7159677 date=1289976775]You friend is either gay or deranged. . . . or both!

Where the hell u stay getting all these funny folks from?[/quote]Oh Lord, you again?!?! Your like an annoying mosquito or something. MYOB, where I get my friends from is none of your business. Guess your one of those "funny folks" because your the biggest oddball that I've interacted with here on NL.   
FamilyRe: What Position Are You In Your Family? by InkedNerd(f): 11:34am On Nov 17, 2010
@OP: In my family, I am the first child and first daughter cheesy.

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