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DejiYesufu:
Nice thread.
Lets face the fact: more women will be earning more than there hubbies in the years to come. Girls go to school as much as boys these days. And considering temperament girls tend to do better than boys in career and education.
The situation should have first been judged well in courtship. Later in marriage, money issues should be worked at and solved. If not there will be unhappiness and maybe divorce.
I think it really doesn't matter who makes more. But if the wife does, it will be a test of her ability to submit and a test of the man's ability to manage his ego. I only pray we pass the test: as anyone can find his/herself in that situation.

chinedumo:
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ochungal:
Yes I had to go there    While I'm at it, I can't stand the new Strawberry Shortcake Techno cartoons sucks big time (thanks to pokeman and yugi oh   ).  Your an ad student! cool. I've never heard of clutch. Thanks. I'll browse it before shut down for the morning.

martyns303:
Inked Nerd, hw about u get job as a counsellor? your post always sound matured and professional.

ochungal:
I can't stand Miley Cyrus and her stage love-vendor papa, same thing I think the Smiths are doing to their children. I lived to wake up on Saturday mornings to watch super friends on abc back in the 80s with a big bowl of cornflakes  .  My brothers and I use to fight after school to watch tom & jerry, woody woodpecker, He-man & Shera. 5 pm sharp, was Wonder Woman. Then it was time for homework, dinner, dishes, bath and bed. I doubt the kids of today can remember what they did the day before. I firmly believe in letting children be children regardless of what decade we live in.

*Ink, there's a channel called qubo that shows He-man & Shera. started last week and I don't sleep until 1:30am just to catch it, " great childhood memories are the pinnacle of life"

IyaBasira:
Can we focus on the main problem here which is "NIGERIAN MEN who cheat"and not "WESTERN WOMEN who marry and divorce as many times as they like".

IyaBasira:
Inked - Nerd ; Thanks. I'm trying not to let it affect me. But its extremely hard. I know its bad to feel that way, especially if the guy was faithful. If he was then I feel sorry for him, but most of the time I'm just glad that there is one less guy to say "African Men, not women are programmed to spread their seed and so it is acceptable when a man cheats but abominable when a woman does."

ochungal:
Glad yu see it. Cartoon Network is a No go for the kids. I just got my niece off the Hanna Montana hype, Miley is beyond Disney now a days. Although, I can't stand Disney its the safe for the kids. Nickelodeon doesn't make sense any more. Ravine Simone is the only one who stays along the lines of children friendly contents. The only song willow could do that would be kid friendly, Jay-z made his name off of, "its a hard knock life" from Little Orphan Annie.

ochungal:
Nine years old should be busy reading and writing and hanging with other nine year old CHILDREN. A say bad parenting (no special treatment because of parents and record label). I'm sure the craddle-robbers of the world will enjoy this. She should be singing a remix to Barney and Sesame Street.

adagz 01:
@inked,
from your comments so far i have come to see that you are (or will be) an extreme feminist,which i think will not be good for you because whether you like it or not almost ALL nigerian men cheat and they will continue to, besides men are the rockers.And by going with your statement that you will just kick everyman away that cheats on you then i guess u'll really have alot of heartbreak to deal with except you are dealing with the yankees.
I dont also think we should copy word for word the western ways.