₦airaland Forum

centD:
CentD is now the most popular guy on nairaland because almost everybody on nairaland romance:
1. has viewed his profile
2. knows his name
3. knows his face
e.t.c

Specialist900:
my bad. How does 'their western ideology' 'cos you're not part of them.

How sure are you that they don't submit to each other. The submission here doesn't mean you always bow down and worship him like a king.

Mobo don show.

kITA TITA:
Marriage is partnership. It is not employment or slavery; submissiveness should not apply either to the husband or the wife.

kITA TITA:
I am a full blooded black African man and I don't believe in submissiveness in marriage. Does the above comment also apply to me?

Specialist900:
Inked.

Your western ideology doesn't work in africa. Nigeria is a different ball game, being submissive is part of a marriage.

Ikedonn:
I believe a woman should be submissive to her husband.Without submissiveness the marriage will crumble .You can see that there is no peace in their  marriage now because of misunderstanding.If the wife is not ready for amendment they should split.I can't die of heart attack because of a stubborn wife.

rokiatu:
Same way some guys used women for sex only some women only want money. Now do not ask me why? as I am not among them.
There are good and bad women all around the world. If you are unlucky to have hit on the wrong woman, move on to another one or deal
with it and stop causing noise in our ears pls.

jaygetta:
Lol. "Knocked out"!lemme not guess!so, u back from Jersey?

jaygetta:
Go on YIM

jaygetta:
Inked, where are you?

ada24:
i am so fed up with this belief that kids brought up in nigeria are somehow better - sorry but its not where u bring up your kids its how. if the upbringing is so wonderful back home why is the society there just something else.

abeg if u can't instill morals in your kids in the west i doubt your going to do it where they will see all sorts of social ills back home. abi all the girls doing prostitution back home were shipped in from the UK and America right.

my dear poster as a soon to be mother - i would personally not allow it myself and i'm sorry even my own village that is considered a town is not the same as america, village life is a whole 360 degrees different from life in the west.

Freewilly:
I trust you I'm sure bobos are lining up for to pick, I wish I had your abilities

chinedumo:
am trying to translate my thoughts to Terminologies too LOL

dont try to fool me

A relationship that starts Platonic may end romantic
"Just friends" may end up "only friends(with themselves)"

friendship between opposite gender can lead to something
How do u determine that the guys relationship with the other girl is a romantic one?
is it copulation?
what makes relationship between a man and a woman in the eyes of a woman romantic?
what makes relationship between a man and a woman romantic in the eyes of a man?

Toasting is a about being nice
I can toast without being sexually explicit

Marriage experts advice that relationship with the opposite gender should start platonic
so make friends with more than one
b4 u start going intimate with one(u and i alone relationship)

Akinagirl:
Reading some threads on NL, I cant help but be astonished at how ignorant some people can really be.   As some one has stated before. Stretch marks are the STRETCHING of skin. It can occur when people grow too fast. Happens to men and women. Slim or fat.

chinedumo:
@Inked_Nerd
of course u can ask if u dont understand there is no offense there

i dont support or subscribe to cheating in any way but
the thing i am trying to point out is
A man plays the role of approaching
while the woman plays the role of accommodating

the guy u are dating approached u for friendship(requested friendship)
while u accommodated him as a friend(accepted friendship request)

so after he has approached u and he approaches another while the first deal is on
it is some how

u who accommodated him
while u were still accommodating him and the dating was in progress
did u/will u accommodate another (accept another friendship request)


notice your exact words
to you it is just friends an nothing more

this is the same thing that boys tell u when they see another girl
we are not married yet just dating
that is to say the relationship is not serious enough

just like u may be trying to say
that making friends with another guy as just friends and nothing more should not be a problem

ochungal:
I see that they're recycling the old scams from the 80s. A woman/man who falls for this is just plain brainless. Why would a rich man/woman request that you pay half the air fare Only thing a rich person would do is fly into town and keep you away from their residence and request a simple meet and greet at a restaurant. You'll know if he/she is crediable if they invite you to a function where people pay them attention and not them going out of their way to meet and great others. If they have a guest list issue at the door then you know the jig is up. Millionares don't beg, borrow or split the tab