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xhosachoc:
I am not probably the best to comment on this issue,due to my own inadequacies,what the heck,i will comment anyway.

We have been brought up to believe that a relationship is a guarantee of enduring love,great sex,parenting etc  but the reality is usually very far from the expectation. Unfortunately the culture of cheating has pervaded our society ,the whole dysneyfication of relationships make me shudder.Unfortunately for us women,no matter how much we try to the ignore the fact,its a mans world.Men cheat all the time and if we did the same we get judged severely.I met my partner at a vulnerable young age and he told me he was single only for the opposite to emerge after having been in a relationship for months on end.

If my man had an emotionless fling i would probably forgive him whereas  a long term emotional affair would be a different issue all together.

r231:
gat you

but nothing comes easy in life

yeah anything can happen at anytime if she keep watching and listening to her friends

kaygenx123:
@Inknerd: people make mistakes in life. Some minor some grave ones. Our heavenly father has tot us 2 forgive one anoda. If i fil betrayed by a girl and she cums bk 2 sik forgiveness, i would 4give her nd even continue bt she wil lose my trust. we are all made of flesh and blood. As they say,d spirit is wilin bt d flesh is nt. We all make mistakes, nd its left 2 us 2 4gve each oder.

r231:
what happend to trust and understanding?

if she feels that he is going to leave her,

then she don't have no business getting married to him

Specialist900:
no, i was only trying to envision the scenario, it would be fun. Don't you think so?

Specialist900:
you wouldn't know when it will cloud your judgement cos you might have been held spell bound by his supposed love.

Specialist900:
this will be so sweet that i'll be getting laid daily by different women and she by different men when we come home we'll now narrate our individual experiences.

Freewilly:
I'm way ahead of you sis, I have a couple of very nice Igbo brothers that I used to work with that moved up North to your neck of the woods. I'll give em a call some time this weekend and see if they still single. You know how it's hard to keep them white girls of our Igbo brothers

Sagamite:
Thank God I am not on your list. Please can we have sexx now?

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-510390.32.html#msg6835356

jaygetta:
Just got home from the city. Gonna head out to the after party in a lil bit, If I can get my lazy butt up.go on YIM

gem70:
I knw. U ar not bashing us. I am just tryn to tell u its a genetic problem. Believe me, Personally i tink d solution is to have open relationships. Dat way i can come home n tell my babe, Men i got laid by one chick. Today can u match her? She wil reply ok lets see!