₦airaland Forum

PRINCEJV2:
That's great!!! I like people that are not always slack with their feelings. But what if this guy you feeling for ain got nufin for you What you gon do

Brownteeth:
Oh please you know what am talking about. Theres no need to ask for proof.

Brownteeth:
Sorry I had to generalize because 90% women think like Uche. No much difference.

Olami099:
I wasn't refering to u,u ve been a gud person so far.I was talking to d poster and is collegues saying -ve tins about Nigerians especially ladies.

Olami099:
Ok,inke_nerd.Watz up?I dont know why Nigerians abroad keeps talking thrash about deir brothers&sisters?Why cant u say +ve things 4 once.

sistawoman:
We have two girls. One in Uni, first year, and one a pre teen. And we have been up front and honest with both of them regarding sex. The one in Uni allowed her doctor to verify with us that her hymen is still intact. Being upfront and honset takes the secrecy and deceit out of sex.

Plus they dont learn mis-information from thier peers. . . they learn the truth from us.

dobodobo:
Any girls demanding anyhow from me, I always rush-bleeped them and send them packing without second thought,

dobodobo:
By the time her beauty depreciate and she is around 35- 40, when all guys don't bleep her toto finished leave her, she will be searching for the poorest on earth to take as his man and she might not even see one or he will probably be marry to Jesus,

sistawoman:
I believe it is the parents responsibility to give their children and true comprehensive lesson on sex.  I believe it is also equally important to have an open line of com muncation with your children so that they will tell you when they are ready or feel comfortable telling you which base they have arrived at.

My son is a teenager now. . . they sex talk was had with him years ago and has gotten more detailed as he has grown. . . he is so comfortable with me that I was the first to know when he saw real live bosoms for the first time. . . I keep condoms in the house, in a spot that hubby, him and I only know about and he knows how to put the on because we practiced with a cucumber and I sent him to his room to practice on himself.  My children all know that they can come to me about anything and i will not fly off the handle but will treat it as a learning experience.

honesty and open communication are key to sex ed with your kids.

if you keep telling a child something is forbidden w/o going into to detail it will be something they will need to try.

skillero:
tHE OUT OF NL DEAL

chelseabmw:
@Inked_Nerd
  how r u today?

koolhunk:
**peeps into thread**
Soooo many wimps in 9ja
**shakes head furiously and walks out of thread**

ElRazur:
As for your post about heaven, sorry I do not believe in fairy tales and harry potter.

ElRazur:
The most interesting bit to me is the part in bold.  I think this is the problem and why some cultural aspect will hamper our moving forward. Gender roles are almost reversal these days and the distinct lines are blurred and border crossed.

The earlier we moved from "perceived ideas" and actually doing what is practical we may have less of the filth posted in the OP to read about. I mean, what is wrong for a woman to be able to work and look after herself. Gosh, things like hairdo are basic personal care, if you need another man in order to do that, then surely there is a problem with her mental reasoning.

Kudos to you for not having this Africanised perception of "let a man take care of you"

ElRazur:
I don't blame her. She grows up in an environment where they are taught that men is supposed to look after THEIR needs, as opposed to them standing on their own damnnnn feet and be somebody and something in life.

I have also noticed, that the trend is common within Americans of African origin (This is my observation) and I think it is just wrong.

No man in this day and age wants a woman to be dependent on him - well, I speak for myself. It is not an ideal thing. No wonder some men demand they want their women to be submissive in return.