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Must a woman get married and have children? If they are content with their life like that then that is up to them.

Thank you 

Dafemo:
@inked nerd you have a great sense of judgement, but if you don,t mind how old are you and can you date a nigerian, no offence

Thank you, I'm 21 yrs old and yes I can date a Nigerian. LOL, why do you ask? Is it because I mentioned the Belgium man?

Dafemo:
@inked nerd can u date a 30year old if you were 25

Yes, I can. I have been asked out by older guys before and its not a big deal. I've been asked out by younger guys before and its not a big deal either. As a matter of fact, a handsome Belgium man in his 40's asked me out on a date a few months ago and I didn't think of it as a big deal. As long as you are both consenting adults, there shouldn't be an issue.

Dafemo:
@inked nerd stop being a critic

Ummm newsflash, everyone is a critic. Everyone in society judges, its just a matter of whether or not its a good or bad judgment. Are you not critiquing this subject matter? Does that not make you a critic? The whole point of a forum is to discuss various topics and exchange ideas. Perhaps if you had explained yourself properly or given actual valid reasons and explanations then maybe I could agree with you or at least see where you are coming from. As for your 25 year old guy dating a 30 year old woman example, there is still nothing wrong with that. They are both consenting adults.

Dafemo:
@madlady so it is okay by you ryt it just like a 15 year old guy dating a 20 year old girl

This is bad reasoning because your trying to use extremes to get your point across and so far your doing a bad job at it.

Turn ons: Easy going, laid back, smart, compassionate, head strong, goal driven, witty, athletic [just to name a few because I could go on and on]

Turn off: Obnoxious, dumb, lazy, lacks manners [just to name a few because I could go on and on]

Dafemo:
@ omolola that is the point it is sooo wrong

You didn't even make a point. You're just agreeing with her. Agreeing with someone is not making a point.

Dafemo:
@inked nerd where are you

I am in Brooklyn, New York [whoop whoop ٩(-̮̮̃•̃)۶ ]

R.ape in general is under reported. Its a global issue. I had a very close friend who was r.aped by a group of boys she used to go to school with and she never told anyone until she met me, but by this time she was already 18yrs old. It pissed the hell out of me when people blame the victim. No one ever asks to be r.aped.

phemmy88:
Mr capable indeed!
I heard of a situation where the armed bandit really went nasty by demanding that their son who struggle wit them(robbers) sleep with his mother !
The guy blatantly refused and was shot on the right chest but fortunately didn't die,
If you were in the guy shoe what will you do!

Something like that happened in Florida. The robbers tried to set the mother and son on fire after they made the boy have sex with his mom.

Agibecky:
You are wasting your talent on Nairaland.
We need people like you to write for Nollywood.
Your sense of humour is HMMM-HMMM!

Talent eh? LMAO

Mr Cork1:
actually i prefa older womens like SA Goddess, Omolola, innk nerd, 190, Queen eve  becoz  they love annnaal nyanshing  

Inked_Nerd who? You don't even know how old I am. Abeg, wipe that thought out of your mind.

Dafemo:
so @inked nerd can u date a guy u are older than

Yes I can and I have  .

Pafuri:
@Inked-Nerd: Yes, we can agree to disagree. It is the the first requirement for intelligent and respectful conversation. This seems to be quite rare around here.

Yupp, usually no one around here wants to agree to disagree.

How are you not spiritually compatible?

Odunnu:
Contrary 2popular opinion,me thnks u shd move ths thread to the jokes section,i'm stil laffing!

LMAO

Dafemo:
the top rated religions in the believe men came first so what is the point, who came first the mother or the baby

Top rated religion? Oh I'm sorry, was there a popularity contest that I was unaware of? And I didn't ask you about the "top rated religions". Even if you are talking about the major religions of the world, that's still not a reason for your explanation. Anyway, back to the original topic, there's nothing wrong with a woman dating or marrying a younger guy. Since you're trying to link this with the "top rated religions" explanation that your giving, even in Islam, Khadijah who was married to the Prophet Muhammad was older than him.

Pafuri:
@Inked_Nerd: And that, lady, is the puzzle of a gazillion light years. I guess the seemingly intractable nature of the puzzle is why a short-cut was conveniently discovered: the Garden of Eden. Yet, humans still haven't found that location. Lets just agree that the ova (eggs) existed; waiting, in the inner recesses of a Female, to be discovered by a Male's spermatozoa. This will therefore point to a simultaneous existence waiting for a mutual discovery. That discovery could be the 'Big Bang': expulsion or release ( as in 'I'm coming', or 'did you come?', or 'come'). That is the overt process of procreation. The inner process is the piercing of the egg by the conveniently conical shape of the spermatozoid's head. Isn't life and its creation quite interesting?!

Or we can agree to disagree. Whichever one works for you

Dafemo:
@madlady there won,t be respect because the lady will not only have the upper hand but also control the relationship

And how did you come to this conclusion? Is this about age or power? And so what if she had the upper hand? If a hand had the upper hand its ok, but not a woman?

I think she's playing games. Sounds like you need a new girl, this one as some major attitude problem. Move on.

Creamish:
watz d source of dis story?

ttp://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/religion/7956186/Homosexual-priest-to-marry-Nigerian-male-model.html

LMAO, before I read the articles I saw the two links and I thought to myself "Oh wow, mumu MOBO444 has finally provided evidence for the nonesense he spews",  Then I read the rubbish he wrote. Foolish me. How could I have thought such a thing. Hahaha.

Pafuri:
I personally have never dated a woman yunger than myself. Its a question of prnciple and honor.

@Inked_Nerd: Actually life started with the MAN's spermatozoa. Or, if you want, when HIS spermatozoa met the woman's ova (eggs). It was a voluntary act. So, you could say that the MAN chose to start life. Thus, life started with HIM. Pure science, not myth nor legend as are found in the various scriptures. Respect to the mothers though.

So did man just magically pop out of the air and exist? That isn't any proof that life started with men. Its like saying "which one came first, the chicken or the egg?"

Dafemo:
the point is it is not right to date someone older than u since the beginning of time

Using the Bible as his reference isn't enough. There are places all over the world were people believe life started from a woman before Christianity. Are you going to tell me that you anymore credible then they are?

Oya, everyone una want popcorn make you come take so we can watch this fight o. Tosinville lets sell tickets together and split the profit 

lol lol lol, chai, let the fighting begin ::ding::ding::

So you mean to tell me everything listed there is full proof?