₦airaland Forum

htajz:
hi pls whats the difference between the igbo chicks from south east and delta and those from rivers state, i get along with the ones from rivers but am thinking of dating this chick from enugu state and i heard south east igbo girls have a different approach to relationships than the ones from rivers.

emofine:
Inked Nerd I tink say e be obvious by now
chai surely I cannot be the only Non-Yoruba/Igbo/Hausa person floating here nau   

emofine:
Inked Nerd you too have time I'm afraid that stupidity has no cure. abeg leavam it's just his debut at comedy just pity am small and laugh at with him

pleep:
^^ Rgp92 is probably bilingual, so the fact that he can speak his maternal tounge and passable written english is impressive on its own.

DaRapture:
A lot of you fools on this site seriously need to take some ESL classes, because your English is atrocious to say the least. I mean, you seriously have the nerve to attempt to make fun of someone, while speaking in the manner in which you do? REALLY,  really?   

Rgp92:
If they're racist, just be racist back Somaila worser than most west African country

Jiah011:
@ isale_gan2: I agree with what you said and I see your point. Sometimes, I just feel like the general trend is so unfavorable. But I guess those that are close to you and sincerely care will always tell you the truth and consider the natural you most beautiful. There seems to be a difference between women that men will marry and those they'll date. I just don't like the finger pointing and calling women fake when they are doing what men respond to most. The older generation does seem to value true beauty more, but its difficult to find among the younger group and my peers. One must do a lot of sifting to find genuine people these days, both men and women. But it seems that men will pick the flashy looking women over the more reserved ones more often, even when it comes to marriage.

Calling women that wear weaves fake doesn't solve the problem. There has to be a general change in perception by black/ Nigerian men. As a Nigerian myself, I think we can do more to promote healthier interactions between men and women. It's funny because in the U.S. there seems to be a growing number of women wearing their natural hair. Blacks there often assume that African women are natural, thus Nigerians in Nigeria as well. That is a great misconception and it's laughable too, but that is a whole different debate.

But men, if no extensions/ attachments/ weaves, what do you want black women to do and how will you work to accept their change? At the end of the day, every woman wants to look and feel beautiful and she wants the men in her life to acknowledge that.

Sweetnecta:
both of them are friends. good people.

i used to live in that part.

if you are going along with the traffic, and you just cross atlantic on bedford heading to fulton, when you just pass herkimer on your right, the first islamic shop you will see is own by a hausa man.

thats before you get to the bargain hunters on the same side. the mosque is just right there if you turn towards facing franklin.

now, bronx is a great reservoir of hausas. they have at least two mosques.

of course the diplomats are in manhattan.

chinedumo:
it is not ignorance to seek for answers

if u are the enlightened one
enlighten me
not mock me

chinedumo:
killing them?

should we kill the rest of all sinners?

ifele:
Gay dudes in Nigeria are of 2 main types those that violation and those that get violated. Some Nigerian gays start despoiling other boys from

grabbing each others secondary school age. I went to secondary school is Yaba, Lagos and there are some homosexual games that the
boys used to play like grabbing each other manlinesses, hard slapping each others butts even groping other boys buttocks. Some of Lagos

men are seriously ON THE DOWN LO they are married to women but look to having sex with teen boys and younger men. When a

Nigerian gay or down lo wants to have sex with a dude he sneaks up behind the dude to poke or caress the unsuspecting dudes

buttocks. We gotta stop homosexuals by killing them thats the solution to this problem.

chinedumo:
I want to find out about something

i am wondering,
With the recent spread of homosexuality in our society today
would I have to be bothered and scared of being violated by my fellow man
just as women are scared of being violated by men
would certain cloths or poses i make, serve as an invitation(seen to be seductive and attractive) to be violated by a gay male?

Donlittle:
maturity at the lowest level is criminilazing you, yes abi now? wetin man go do, than enjoy life>>>
ewoooo, nlanders will no kill me with english, let me check my dictionary am coming

your english is so epitomizing that i began hitting the wall, please rephrase your last statement oooo
n how i noticed how you conveniently ignored the fact that i ask if your a witch?? cuz i give witches and wizard respect o,

dont derail this thread o

Donlittle:
nope, i wont
because i knw craze is crasing you
u need mad to be mading you not craze
cuz craze will kill you oooo, your bf is suppose to be poking you now, but u see u no get one, u dey nland dey gossip

rem, let mad to mad you o, not crase
n wait are you a witch? cuz i dnt talk  with witch ooo, cuz dey kill ppl
tell me if you are one, so make i they run o 

Donlittle:
were we are talking bout naija ppl, you are talking about new yorkers?? who are just yorking their life on the go? 
and do you have a life, job, and shiiit to do, cuz all you bleeping do is reply to every mufuckingggg post every day
damn, like get a life inked nerddd, your a nerd truly, get a job and stuff to do, damn,
wit your little abcd, you type on the fucccking screen, and you need to get a husband too seriously, better still a wife so u culd be fucccking instead of nairalanding everytime

kandiikane:
Sodomy has been about for thousands and thousand of years all around the world. The reason why they have gay marriages is because people have asked for their rights, I do not see anything wrong with that and we Africans should accept it instead of killing gay couples in Africa. We are still living in the stones ages. There is culture and there is ignorance. Many Africans have interpreted their cultures into ignorance. If the Africans are truly inferior to the Western world like you say it is not because of what the western world has achieved but because of our ignorances in such matters. Instead of doing much better than what the western world has done we are in our little holes practicing Juju. Instead of congratulating our Africans brother for achieving something we are in our holes praying for their demise. If we are still doing what we are doing we are not going to go anywhere. We can have our cultures but still strive to do better than the western world instead saying they are superior because we do what they do. No, it is because of our ignorance and greed that is why they are superior.

kandiikane:
African hair is the healthiest of hairs but it is fragile(not weak)

me I just wonder why God gave us this kain strong stiff hair

10cirenoh:
Because i'm her boyfriend, not just her boyfriend, someone who's planning on spending the rest of his life with her. if she's "making" her hair because others are making it that way, then that does not serve any purpose, there should be a very VALID reason why you do something, but her reason is not "valid" enough and since i'm her fiancé, i have the right to let her know what i don't appreciate in her, Now tell me, who the hell am i not to tell her what i don't fancy?

When she went through primary and secondary schools without making her hair, did she die? did her hair grow short? i feel most African women are just too lazy to groom and take care of their normal hair, hence the need for artificial/fake hair.

Same goes with the bra, pants, lip gloss, eye lashes, fake nails, fingers, fake fake fake stuffs everywhere you turn, WHY NOT BE YOU and let those who actually want you for you approach you?

I hope you know our parents never had all these rubbish yet they still recognized and appreciated real and raw beauty?

If any woman truly wants to be appreciated for who she's truly is, she should LEARN to be herself at all times, stop disappointing men with your fake ish~

ThiefOfHearts:
It's ignorant threads like this that reminds me Nigerians still have a long way to go.

10cirenoh:
I am going to stop my girl from using chemicals on her hair, its either she takes my advise or she loses the admirations she constantly gets from me.

Why do girls want to look the same way like every other girl? why can't you just be salient? different from others?

kandiikane:
Yes African hair is fragile but it does not mean it cannot grow. Hair in its natural form(off your scalp) with all the chemicals will stagnate the growth. I personally know African hair can grow because I have family members(pure Africans) back home who have naturally long hair. And I can also speak for my own hair(pure Africa) which grows but I have been cutting it and shaved it off completely not too long ago. Some of my white friends are even shocked to how  quickly it grew in length.

Those images on google whether weave or no weave shows the natural hair(from scalp). I have been to many hair shows and I know African hair does not just consist of "nappy, matted" hair even if you are not "fulani, east African or mixed". There are different variation of kinky hair"nappy" not every African has matted, pepper grain/corn, wiry hair or hard to do anything with hair.
If  African natural hair(off scalp) cannot grow why is it that men's hair when left can grow to many lengths or men and women that dreadlocks? It is because they do not use all these chemicals.

If you want your natural hair to grow know how to treat it. Leave the hot irons and chemicals alone. The growth of the African hair  can be done.

Yeah, I shaved it off not too london ago but it has grown.

kandiikane:
Yes African hair is fragile but it does not mean it cannot grow. Hair in its natural form(off your scalp) with all the chemicals will stagnate the growth. I personally know African hair can grow because I have family members(pure Africans) back home who have naturally long hair. And I can also speak for my own hair(pure Africa) which grows but I have been cutting it and shaved it off completely not too long ago. Some of my white friends are even shocked to how  quickly it grew in length.

Those images on google whether weave or no weave shows the natural hair(from scalp). I have been to many hair shows and I know African hair does not just consist of "nappy, matted" hair even if you are not "fulani, east African or mixed". There are different variation of kinky hair"nappy" not every African has matted, pepper grain/corn, wiry hair or hard to do anything with hair.
If  African natural hair(off scalp) cannot grow why is it that men's hair when left can grow to many lengths or men and women that dreadlocks? It is because they do not use all these chemicals.

Sweetnecta:
@inked nerd; go to fulton and rogers turning to bedford. ask for sheikh yusuf, sheikh ilyas for starter.

Seun:
If this issue affects lots of men, then one of those men should post his true story.