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Good question.

May God bless Chinua Achebe, may we learn more from his fountain of wisdom. Nigeria has failed clearly, what do we do now? Let us find a way to divide this country peacefully now!

She gat a job? Then she needs a second job!

Bullfeases!

What will be his punishment if nobody is killed by a lion? Whoever started this should be locked up.

Pay a million naira into my account and you will be supplied 10 virgins aged between 35-39!

Does your being a graduate make you more of a human being? If I love her I can marry her and send her to school and even find a work for her. Except you are still not financially capable to carry her weight. Her not going to school doesn't make her less of a human being!

Thank you e9teen, school hostel is very profitable in Enugu town, but the cost of the land is my major concern. Lands very near to the school in Enugu must be within Independence L/out, New layout or Uwani. Those areas are expensive but am looking for something around behind timber shed, near ind/layout and have a plot in mind for N2m. It will be enough to give me 24 units of 1 room self contain at N120k per annum.

Cost of building will be in the region of N10-12m. With the little maths I made it will roll in 2.4m per year, that's like 20% per year. I can live with that.

God will bless you lawyer!

One day, bomb will explode in a thread like this.

Find another 11 and continue the bleeping! When I was year age I had 45. Bleeper.

That your user name sef, you dey do yourself?

What is that 'quite lovely' phase doing there? Abi he suppose search for the 'very ugly' ones as a meek man of God?

What should we expect, most of these guys we have in our SUG/NANS are cultists who terrorized their ways into the union, they are more at home demanding for their self gratification than fighting for the future of students. Have they fought the ills in their various schools? They think alike, SUG and politicians, both mediocres.

What are the prices for the winner?

Are we not in a civil war already? No light, water, fuel, housing, security, hope, president? Is it when a bullet strikes you that you know we are already in a civil war?

Raw cash all the way, every other option is a big risk not worth taking.

Na wao!

Stanley Okoro is not less than 34 years, these Benin guys will just expose him, where is that other U17, Olufemi abi na Adefemi of 2005?

@oddy4real, how much did Yakubu pay you? You are just showing how poor a fan you are, you no sabi play ball and you no sabi watch ball, abeg cool down and learn.

What are the specific reasons why they don't like him/ her? What type of person you are, and can you seperate your affairs from that of your family?

I won't spend up to N100k to marry anyone.

They will win, let them just ask for blessings from TB. Joshua.

Na wao! Our school teachers should be put in jail?

I think its important to say it that the type of money you shell out goes a long way to define your character before your wife. Some start to show extravagance quite early in the marriage. These same set of people will start to complain that the wife is spending too freely very soon. Its all about a plan, the same way people plan their buildings, career, business is the same way you plan your marriage, starting from the wedding. Its always better to start lowly, then continue to build up your incomes, then improve your lifestyles as your finance grows. Such way, you will enjoy an easier life with your lovely wife and family after 50 years of marriage. I won't place a good life over satisfying a few friends for a two day event while I have another 50+ years ahead.

@OP, it all depends on the wife you choose, some ladies are difficult to please, very outgoing and have loads of friends. Some women are home makers that will disregard the excitement of the wedding day to plan her home and reap bountifully ever after. Besides that expensive marriage is a destabilizing factor that is not needed, a guy slapped his bride on the trad wedding cause of money.

The marriage proper is more important than the wedding.