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D main thing is loss of freedom. My husb on one side, my kids on the other side. Dont seem to have time 4 myself anymore

True. They are sooo tribalistic.

What is your point?

Indecent dressing is immoral no matter how you feel about it.

PERIOD!

Its like your tribalism has made u blind.
So all those threads on Mrs Jonathan's bad grammar escaped ur notice.
PELE O

know a man who married his wife's younger sis. MIL supported despite d huge age diff.
now after 5 kids she's back home

I feel ur mum has influenced ur judgement. are u sure she's not d architect of her misfortune.
NO OFFENCE.

@ poster
That is true. They are everywhere esp togo. Very soon, those immigrants will take over what is left of naija.

@ mutter
You spoke my mind
@ poster
Check yourself & change any attitude that wil worsen ur man's situation.

Exodus 20:14 says 'thou shall not commit adultery'. i pity d girl who falls for a married man for any reason whatsoever

Indispensable faith builder

ole

Pple are beginning to realize that christmas is anti-christian.

Why not go find her?

Literally, it means "leave me alone"

@ vindy.Or else what? If you are really a policeman, i pray God to have mercy on your wretched soul.

@poster.
I am a married woman and i understand your plight. You know your wife more than any other person. If she wont understand your honest explanation them stand by your NO. She'll get over it after a few days. Men need to be a bit firm in dealing wit their wives cos she'll blame you when things go wrong. Dont mind these single Nls. You cant give a dog a born to guard. Man is very unpredictable. Dont fall 4 any blackmail. Try n help her with the chores as much as you can.

Who said tinubu had no money at his disposal for 8 yrs? Only PART OF THE MONEY was witheld. Besides, bulk of lagos money is derived from tax payers

Pls where are d 3 million trees planted by banire?
If we are to judge by his performance in lastma, then he is more corrupt than 'ou bi jay' considering what his boys are doing to motorists on lagos road. Tinubu should just leave fash alone to do one more term. God dey

Na wa o. Something must be done about this bride price thing

A neighbor passed but her relatives refused her being buried.
REASON
Her HUSBAND of 16yrs did not pay her bride price.

Many women spend their money on family _ spouse(except u dont treat her well), children, parents, siblings & herself

I love this season. Its a bit cold just that i dont the sweaty palms & feet

Why do pple opt for court weddings these days and thereby boycott the traditional weddings,keeping d relatives in dark

What about federal government establishments like unity schools

Beauty is in d eyes of d 1 who beholds.No matter d lks we re al made in d image of God.Lets try cultivate d inner beauty

In as much as I am not a fan of BBC, this story might have some elements of truth in it consideriny the way Yakubu missed WITHOUT ANY REMORSE and Kaita's behaviour as well as every other miss.

what are you talking about

who said anything about disrespecting MIL

what do you mean by these

Be assertive and enforce boundaries as needed. If you don't like it when your mother-in-law shows up uninvited, calls 24/7, and criticizes the way you raise your kids, then it’s better to draw boundaries than to grow resentful toward her. For example, let’s say you ask your mother-in-law to call first rather than drop by unexpectedly. (Some daughters-in-law don’t mind if their in-laws show up unexpectedly, so don’t assume your mother-in-law knows your preferences.) You can’t change your mother-in-law's behavior, but you can change your own by not answering the door. (It’s not any more rude for you to ignore the doorbell than it is for her to drop by unexpectedly after you’ve made it clear you want her to call first.) Eventually she will realize it’s best to call before stopping by, and then you won’t resent her for ignoring your needs. Ideally you and your husband should be united as a couple in drawing boundaries; however, it may be necessary for you to do it alone until you have gained his loyalty. Keep in mind that you can’t control his behavior; don’t be surprised when he answers the door for his uninvited mother even after you’ve drawn a boundary with her. You can only control your own behavior.

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and this

However, if you have a dominant, controlling mother-in-law, then calling her “Mom” or “Mrs. ______” may put you in an inferior position

In Africa both are disrespectful behaviours. If you were a woman (with sons) you will understand better

Most girls go into marriage being defensive and ready to engage their mother in law already.

Give the woman the same respect you would give your own mom.

If you respect your husband, then you should respect his mother much more.

Most time if you decide to have peace and are ready to, You would


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@poster
Your advise is totally off the point.
Will you allowed yourself to be so treated by your son's wife?

Your mother in law is not your mate to start with, she may even be older than your own mum who i suppose you respect so much .

Treat your mother in law the way you treat your own mum and most especially your own daughter in laws to be

Lest i forget, it is not easy for a woman to forget or detatch herslf away completely from any of her children esp when she feels her daughter in law is not respectful or caring enough.

since so many people are supporting this ban, I can't wait for FIFA to ban nigeria for the next 40yrs


What does it benefit us if they are left to continue playing but continues their recession.
We will get tired of them all sooner or later

Many people watched the Nigerian matches INDIFFERENTLY . At least so that they can stay alive to watch other matches