₦airaland Forum

8 times ke?!
Not way. Iya sikira to the left has a daughter.
I'll pray for you again the spirit of patorankiness so people don't think you have AIDS. Run! Sex 8 times a day everyday doesn't sound healthy.

danbrowndmf:
lols...are you the wife to make me look like patoranking? Are u sure u are fit for the job. 8times per day o.

Lololol

danbrowndmf:
please where can i find such wife? 8times per day. am chubby like wandecoal,with such woman i should be looking like Patorkanking in the next 2months

biko ask these nairaland people for me. . Don't be offended. I'm sure you'll figure her out and rise to the occasion. No pun intended...

BeazyBee:

Picture of what do you want me to post, is it when we were having the sex or the picture of me and my wife?

Ah!!!

Moana:
Get a buff 25year old house boy

I just said a prayer for you. God bless you plenty.

balash:
We should get serious on cases like this, I can't understand why Nigerian men are turning into beast eachday.

They should be a bill that when you slap your wife you would be jailed for months and when you beat her up you would spend 5years in prison. Like seriously this is a case of insanity. If you don't love her anymore leave her alone she won't die because you leave her. I will blame Nigerian girls that beleive I must be married compulsorily, if you not destined to me married you won't force it.

You can be a single mother and raise great and loving kids, and be successful as well, why live under the same roof with an animal because he is your husband. I don't promote this a husband beat up his wife and she moves out and they send husband relatives to plead that he made a mistake and he won't do it again bla bla bla! That's craziness!

If you marry my daughter, the day you raise your hands on her, please find another wife because she will move out, and I will make sure I deal with you extensively.

Ladies please you were having a great lifestyle while living with your parents, they raised you into a loving daughter that prompted him seeing you as a wife material, don't dare allow a man beat u up, stop the notion that without a man you can't live happily ever after, they are folds of single mothers wealthy, comfortable and living fine. Am not promoting single mothers but for now we should stop allowing Nigerian men treat you like a piece of crap because you got married to them until Parent start Adding 'result of mental disorder test' in bride price lists in Nigeria..



Folds of animals in human skin.. Some Nigerian guys. Mhen it's disheartening and sad, why raise hand on ladies like seriously you are more powerful than her so what muscle are u actually flexing...

Incase some idiots will start asking me if am married and know how ladies frustrate men at home? Well all through the years I lived with my parents I never for once saw my father hitting my mom so I don't know what it feels like to do that, I think barbarians only does that! My religion doesn't permit it, my ethics doesn't support it, my belief doesn't smile at it. My stands are clearly against it. No ladies can frustrate you when you care and love her truthful. They are the most tender specie on earth.


#SayNoToNigerianHusbandInAnimalSkin... idiat Fellows! like seriously if am the president if you beat your wife I will get you castrated immediately!! Bastards!! #angry

people like you give me hope in this country.

Lololol

timawoku:
Very nice but some questions come to mind:

1) Can it stand the test of time? I.e weather?
2) How solid is the foundation?
3)Is the plastic bottle beneficial to the structure of the building or simply for design?
4) Is the mud heated or just plain mould?
5) Am I an architect or government abi which one be my own sef?
6)Una never tire to read? Oya click on like for nothing

My dear brother see the irony... Smh

STFUareyouGod:
RIP....... And the stupid boy that impregnated her lives on

lol

You are on point. I have so much faith in this generation of 30-40 year Olds. We need to know and believe that we have the solution and innovative ideas that can move the nation forward. We need to stop giving these recycled tried tested and failed politicians our votes.

kixo:
The change we need comes next year, I have been informing my friends about the need to ensure that Oshiomhole does not impose his protégé on us come 2016, it's not about APC or PDP, we need to collectively come out and ensure that Oshiomhole and his APC government is kicked out next year else, we will witness another 4 years of tyranny and dictatorship!

That is simply the truth. My cousin's husband in Lagos practically quarrelled with me about the state of affairs in Benin. I asked him when last he was in benin and he said that is not the issue. That the governor is the best. I was so irritated because I live and work in Benin and I was telling him that Benin is going from bad to worse and he was almost insulting me. My dear I believe that one day positive change will happen in Edo state.

kixo:
what do you expect? that SLS should slander the Governor for non performance? I am happy that most Edolites even those who are APC members are now seeing the real Oshiomhole, those who are outside the state thinks Oshiomhole is performing, it takes a true Edo man who is on ground and is monitoring what's happening in the state. Truth be told, Comrade Adams Aliu Eric Oshiomhole has failed Edo people!

And yet people prefer to remain blind when the evidence of his failure is all around for everyone to see.

Too bad. So sad.

kixo:
Oshiomhole has failed every Edo man/woman, after his first tenure, he has done nothing than impose taxes on Edo people, increase in school fees of Ambrose Alli University, Ekpoma, impassable roads, no employment done from his inauguration till date, numerous strikes and so on. He has failed us!!!

Biko ask him o. Maybe it's the few hours he spent going around the streets of Benin. Or his eyes are a little confused. Isok.

orobs93:
Sanusi who tell u
Hw u take knw from kano empire

lol

MrCork:
...sweery I leave the kinda life u will onlyvdream about..am pekam london base but right now,am in times square new york hotel recepttion waitin for my order. I hav pounds an dollar!.

lol

darmys:
na joke o...

When you find out that your ex boyfriend that dumped you after relocating to London is among the 500 deported today.



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God bless you. Beta pikin.

JeffreyJamez:
You made the best and wisest decision... considering the fact that you're the one taking care of your younger ones and parents. You weren't being selfish. Marriage is not by force.... and to think he said he will open a pharmacy AFTER the marriage?.... Dude is evil..if he really wanted you to quit,he would make the provisions available before talking trash. That's how he will marry you now and turn you to baby-making machine. Pharmacy you no go see, money for chop go be war, money to give your parents and cater for your younger ones go turn issue... abeg he should move on....you too move on, a better and more reasonable guy would come your way, trust me.

Fair enough. Thanks for accepting. And explaining.

gabinogem:
Alright apology accepted... A family of 4(husband, wife & two kids) should be able to handle their household issues without external helper as long as the husband is understanding & cooperative since culture makes him the head of the home.

it's never easy to live a life, talk more of having & taking care of a family that's why we need planning inorder to adjust to such situation... there are selfless sacrifice one has to pay to raise his or her kids without househelp.

Timing is always essential in this aspect. E.g u are a working class lady and ur child of 2years have started going to school, there must be a way u will squeeze ur time to pickup the child from school everyday & tend to his needs accordingly with the support of ur husband. Both parents will have to play their role in order to take care of their kids It's never a onesided thing.

Except u are a single parent, then I can advocate for a househelp. Not just any house-help but the one that is related to u one way or the other.... there must always be solution to every domestic problem that's why it's essential to plan(forward thinking), critically measuring the odds to life.

True talk. How unfortunate.

missKiffy:
This is bad, starting life over must be difficult, this one that Nigeria is not smiling at the moment

I don't mean to argue. His comments are his. Can't I ask for a deeper explanation? I like to know how people get to make living without help work for them even with family planning. Help from family is still help. Maybe you can share how it worked out so well for you. I would definitely like to know because living with some helps can be a nightmare.

shndy:
To each his own, I don't see what gabinogem wrote that is so out of d ordinary. That's his own view which u don't have to accept.
When we were about marrying, my hubby told me he doesn't want a maid in our home, I couldn't agree less cos I don't want one too.
Am a working mom, my husband works and we've bn coping pretty well. I know loads of working couples who don't have a maid and they are surviving. It's all in planning u see!
Having/Not having a maid is strictly ur choice.

I apologize. I didn't mean to give the impression of wanting an argument. I like a good discussion once in a while.

gabinogem:
please I have no time to start arguing trivially here, I believe we are mostly adults here & we have our priorities, we should learn to put them in order... nagging doesn't solve problems only critical & positive thinking. Have a nice night.

My brother these days I don't know what to believe.

9jatatafo:
I was trying to ask if you think the housemaid jazzed the husband with vegetable soup to make the man to rent a 3 bedroom flat for the young woman and therefore leaving his wife

wait. I'm trying to understand the question?

9jatatafo:
Are you one of those that believes in vegetable soup?

So sad. Im sorry for your loss.

lolaxavier:
Eh yah...i don dey pity dis woman now. I can imagine what she's going through. Of course, I want her to pay back what she stole but on humanitarian level, I feel pity for her. I lost my brother to cancer and I wouldn't wish that to anyone.

Maybe it's IVF they used to conceive. [quote author=edygistvilla post=31056294][/quote]

Yeah. The illustration is hilarious

dljbd1:
So in other words the man cheated...wht an illustration

wait. I'm not done.

Brandnew2:
There's a Theoretical explanation for this.
The hubbie shagged his wife right after shagging a woman who has just been shagged by a white man, thereby carrying aa residue of the white man's sperm and impregnated his wife with it.

No pun intended.
There you have it @Jacksparrow1207
www.gidilink..com/2014/01/scientific-explanation-on-how-miracle.html

Please calculate and show us how to plan a home or do family planning where you can have kids and work without help from somewhere or someone?

gabinogem:
House help are always not helpful. They even add more stress to the already stressful life at home... that's why I always advice folks to engage in family planning. If ur home was well planned, such a situation wouldn't have occurred. Good spacing is healthy for breeding.

Please what process and products do you use to stretch your hair? I have unruly and thick natural hair.

ahnie:
She shudnt have cut the hair,she wud hav simply stretched it.my hair is longer n fullier than hers,i had to stretch it.

I believe you biko. If your wife if playing blues outside, hope the same premise applies? You must bear the bitter truth then o. By force by fire.

9jatatafo:
OP the girl you calling a maid knows how to play blues with your husband in bed more than you. You man just found what you lack. The truth is always bitter

indeed. A cheerful giver.

xynerise:
He is just being generous

My dear, I did not suggest that women should not change their names. Please read my comments again. I only shared what I had read as the facts of name change. I also explained that I changed my name. That does not mean that whoever decides not to is doing anything wrong legally. I only shared knowledge. A little information never killed anyone.

Back to the matter, does that now mean because of marriage all your previously acquired assets should be changed to bear your marital name?

erico2k2:
Can U practice what you just preached??even the people who I trounced legality in marriage changed their names and adopt their husband's name.ie the English??

In actuality a woman is not REQUIRED to change her name. But it is the norm to do so. Which is not bad. All this property nonsense and the unpredictability of marriage makes using maiden names sometimes an unfortunate thing women must do.

erico2k2:
When U get married your names is forgotten U bear his name in all official documents. .passport bank account etc

If you believe what you are suggesting, Why bother asking?

If she wants to fine. Personally I won't. Anything I buy after the marriage, I can consider using my marital name.

peeparty:
why won't you ask her to?



Really she's your wife oo remember.