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bukatyne:
Hahahahahaha!

Abeg leave me.

For what it is wortg, Dangote has been divorced three times.

He must really be a terrible person to live with.

slyfox35:
Eya... Please refrain from drugs ,it's not good on you
I think you need help
I can call someone for you if you want

slyfox35:
Lol, which one is one woman
Na ur mama
Why are you ashamed of your mother,bad child
Kikikiki...So your mother bites people's gbola of
Heheheh...awon vampires diary

slyfox35:
Lol...really enjoyed the trolling,but in all these ,you never called my parents out (respect that) ,Las Las ,Na internet be this
Respect bro
Your mama raise you well
One love

slyfox35:
For your info ,I like older women,send me your mom's number,Amma bang her till she screams your name "Ah irunoko" "Ahhhh iru iru irunokkko"

slyfox35:
Still waiting for your mom's number to show you your dad is not my mate,she will tell you after i am done with her

slyfox35:
Lol...son of a pedophile
You hit no nerve
Am here laughing and you there thinking of your dad's failure in life
Sorry bro
Next time come from a better family

slyfox35:
Mumu,everyone is not as stupid as you!
your mama and papa na ozuo,giving birth to a stupid slowpoke like you,I bet idiots like you are the ones sleeping with 10 years old alas the guilty conscience in calling me out,in 3 years time she will be an adult ,what’s wrong with a boy of 17 18 waiting to befriend her then
Because by then he will be 20 or 21
Mumu like you go look sentence begin Dey talk like fool,nor Dey understand wetin person Dey talk,fowl,nobody ever said she’s old enough now,only said she will mature soon,I nor know why e pain you
Or was your father a pedophile?
I guess he raped your mom's at 14 and gave birth to you
"Quote me if I am wrong"

Beautykate:
I am writing to ask if you can help me to persuade my husband to do less around the house. I am worried that he is going to make himself ill from exhaustion. Also, and it is hard for me to say this to him without being hurtful, I married him for his fun personality not his work ethic and I fear I am losing him to domestic drudgery. I want an equal partner, not a slave.

We have a toddler and a baby, born few months ago. During the pregnancy, I was quite tired and run down and my darling, supportive husband started to do more and more around the house and with our son (and despite a full-time, responsible job, he has always done more than his fair share of housework). I am now breastfeeding the baby, which is tough because he barely stops feeding and won't really nap anywhere except in my arms.

So this leaves my husband doing the shopping, tidying, washing and cooking. He gets up at 6am every morning to get our toddler ready for nursery, with a packed lunch, and he drops him off before he can get himself off to work. Meanwhile, I just sit around feeding the baby!

I feel permanently guilty and as if the only way I will get my husband to do less is if I do more. The thing is that I can walk away from mess and he can't.

I hugely appreciate him helping, but, beyond the basics, would rather see him sleeping or even cuddling me on the sofa rather than trying to be on top of everything. I love my husband – he is truly the sweetest, most loving, most wonderful lover and father, but I find myself resenting the fact that I barely see his fun side these days because he is so tired that he is essentially ill – and I can't help thinking it is at least partly self-inflicted

slyfox35:
Your papa na be Oniranu,I say she don Dey ripe ,I nor talk say she don ripe,your mama na be pedophile

vanida6:
She's already lost everybody knowns dat

slyfox35:
She don dey ripe for plucking
Boys at alert

MrBrownJay1:
yes bringing someone that can take over the marital duties that this above wifey cannot fulfill... as we all know that expecting a man to have LESS sex is a waste of time. we (men) wake up with a tiger between our legs and every morning that tiger uncontrollably is raging... and if you think that any man with such raging tiger in his pant WITH a sexy wife sleeping next to him, should just go take a cold shower, then you are clearly missing the point.



i cannot assume/speculate on other issues that aint related to this discussion... that would be the same as me telling you that other men beat their wives therefore this woman should be quiet and be happy. makes no sense, right?!
so lets stay on the subject and understand that a 2nd will solve the issue at hand... which is: wifey cannot satisfy the sexual demands of her husband.

MrBrownJay1:
if you buy a new car then YES you will drive/flaunt it every time you desire to DRIVE



the above comes down to COMMUNICATION... but if wifey says nothing, then no wonder hubby will keep mounting her daily.



the reality is that whether they have sex ONCE a month or daily, "belle" could happen regardless... so MODERATION is in the eye of the beholder.

here are the important questions here:
- does hubby knows that wifey is turned off by sex?
- does hubby knows what turns wifey on?
- does wifey really want to have a sexually frustrated man leave the house every morning?
- if wifey cant handle such a "sexually powerful man", shouldnt they find a sexual assistant (aka 2nd wife) instead of trying to tame such man?
- how can they find happiness if either is unhappy? if they cant see eye to eye on this issue, ultimately they should just divorce

MrBrownJay1:
are you claiming that sex once a day is considered too much for this newlywed couple of 2 yrs?! if you believe so then no wonder men and women dont understand each other.
BTW nymphomania for men is called SATYRIASIS/SATYROMANIA



see the problem here is that you believe that A) if a man likes sex more than you do, he is automatically suffering from Satyriasis and can never be satisfied... but the most important part is B) if you think thats who he is then the solution is to LEAVE this man, not try to fix him... BUT, if any man/woman foolishly think they can fix a Nympho, then until they are "cured" she/he needs to fukc that man as often as possible.



1st of all, if it isnt you who will satisfy your partner, then who will?! the neighbor? the maid? satisfying your partner's sexual needs is your marital duty!
2nd of all, belle every month?! is condom and contraception illegal where you live?



again, i would understand if a 10yr wifey think in such a way... but certainly not a newly wedded couple of 2years. that man still desire his wife, still enjoys her sexual company, what else do you guys want (especially when so many women are a turn off completely as soon as they have a few babies)?!!?



whats good for Jide cannot be enforced on Taiwo....so let them sit down and discuss the issue...if they cant see eye to eye on this issue AND this is too much for wifey, then can either divorce OR let husband get a 2nd wife (if he can afford it) OR let hubby find other women to satisfy him (with wifey's blessing, since she cant fulfill her marital duties).

MrBrownJay1:
fulfilling/satisfying sex is an important foundation of any union... and when in such union, everything you do is a reward for each other's action...so just like a woman will give herself fully to a great man acting right, she will equally refrain from being nice to this same man if he doesnt act right (and vice versa).... so as this man does everything RIGHT, there is no reason why he shouldnt expect sex everyday (unless they were sexually incompatible).



who is talking about forcing himself unto her?! here is a simple clue: if wifey has a problem with it, why doesnt she simply explain what she is feeling to this man and exactly why she doesnt want to have sex with him? is that so much to ask OR should this man read her damn mind?



come on sista, now you are trying to turn this into something else... there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with a woman being exhausted, but this is irrelevant to the issue at hand, unless you actually believe that the solution to this problem is for wifey to tell her husband everyday that she is tired....thus letting that sexually frustrated man go out in this "sexually dangerous" world. this lady 1st has to understand that unless she let this man knows that there is a problem, then chances are NOTHING will change...so she should sit down and discuss the issue with hubby. if she cant handle the sexual intensity placed upon her and her honeypot, then let husband get a 2nd wife to alleviate her sexual duties at home. if husband cant afford a 2nd wife then i see no other ways than to allow hubby to find sexual "helpers" (aka mistress, gf, oloshos etc)...et voila!



there are few important issues here:
- what kind of man are we talking about...? does he really NEED sex everyday or this is simply what he demands from the wife he has paid for.
- is it that this lady doesnt WANT sex or that she doesnt ENJOY sex with hubby?
- if they aint compatible then let them divorce as nobody should force anyone (men/women) to stay married to someone who cant fully satisfy them.
- i guess you have no clue of the animal you are dealing with so let me explain to you: a sexually frustrated married man/woman is a dangerous person... which is the reason why so many deluded men fukc their ugly nasty maid OR wives fukc their bastard drivers. some men/women out there need sex as a way to function properly, as a way to release life frustrations etc and therefore, there is no point trying to stop these people as they will ALWAYS achieve their aim (aka having sex whenever the desire it)

ilevic:
Lolzz not telling what time say just trying to tell you not to judge a book by its cover. It's a live prayer with million of people around the world. so it's not like the picture is from his private prayer session

ilevic:
Then shut up

MrBrownJay1:
you cant have your cake and eat it too... this man does not cheat and instead likes to get his groove on with his wife. you should be happy and find ways to reward him for his fidelity (as we all know many men out there cheat). actually, you should be undressed and ready to "receive" as soon as he comes home, as a thank you gesture for being a good man.... unless you would prefer he goes out sexually frustrated because his wife cant cope with sex daily?

SOLUTION: why dont you instead try to make this sex enjoyable for the both of you? open up to him, tell him what you like, tell him what you fantasize about, let him do the things that YOU like too.

LawyerLomo:
Well done, critic! :-(

playing 'Mind your business' by Simi