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Life2020:
Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.

The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.

The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.

Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.

Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.

I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.

Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.

Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids

Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy
little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.

I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos
honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.

madam you married a narcissist.simple and short.hes not just a narcissist but selfish.such characters are dangerous to have as friends talkless of a spouse because no matter how much emotions and finances you invest in him he will always be a destroyer and devourer

Secondly it's clear he's using you to fund his lifestyle and kid outside marriage

Thirdly he wants you to have more kids so that you Will be busy mothering them and you won't have time to notice his sexcapades

Fourthly if you don't leave such situationship his side hoes will encourage him to kill you just to have him and sit on all your properties or he wrecks you financially.leave to live

Absuchat:
As long as there's no "sugar" in the daddy...kosi wahala

lmaooo you yourself know the answer

When him Mama dey follow am up and down at his age you nor know say he be Mummy's Boy?

If she could even put Burna inside her handbag wherever she goes I sure say she go don do am

Moreover it is obvious that anybody who wants to marry Burna boy will marry his mom first and that's not a life I envy.infact I pity the woman because she will need a trolley load of patience, emotional intelligence, maturity and emotional stamina because even though Burna is successful in his career he lacks wisdom and maturity.hes lousy talks anywhere and anyhow without minding the environment he says some of the Shii he says

Aside that his mother has been in his music career from day 1 and she's been into his financial life and all of his buisness so she won't back off for any woman.as a Matter of fact I suspect Burna is narcissistic considering his engagement in violence anywhere he goes.a woman. Said no to him at the club and because of that he started displaying tantrums and violence and that's a clear sign of narcissism with his mother being his enabler

Absuchat:

Ara gi ipuo n'uzo.
Burna don burn this one.

Meanwhile, when did being mom's boy become a crime?

when did daddy's girl become a crime?

Streetdreamx:
Much haters online, happy birthday to her.

Nigerians are bitter for obvious reasons

Their hatred is because they want what they see but they can't have it so the best way to ease their pain to to release bile all over the place

Streetdreamx:
Much haters online, happy birthday to her.

Nigerians are bitter for obvious reasons

Their hatred is because they want what they see but they can't have it so the best way to ease their pain to to release bile all over the place

jeromestarks:
Finally, Cuppy is expired.

Even with her money, she could not get a man to marry her. Shame on her.

Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman.

na you expire her?

See as painment wan woindjure you as if it is a crime to add another year to your age

You wey work from January to November you don rent yatch? Pepper body oshi

Jeamillz2020:
You will later sign up for baby mama post

see another embittered soul.person no fit celebrate her birthday again?

She celebrated it with her family you still get problem.no let envy kill you o.envy na disease of the mind

SpecialAdviser:
Nonesense! Listen Nigerians, stop voting based on tribalism if you want your country to turn better. Do you hear me? Ok thanks

na people wey dey collect one bottle of groundnut and Ankara in exchange for their votes na who you dey follow talk?

Oluwaseunomo:
Jokers

are you one of the bandits or terrorists who gain abnormal joy from the sadness of others?

Oluwaseunomo:
Jokers

are you one of the bandits or terrorists who gain abnormal joy from the sadness of others?

Bubus children and Politicians have made nigeria unconducive and toxic ft Every one.na them dey sponsor financial terrorism,domestic terrorism,banditry etc.

People cannot even travel or exercise in peace again

Smh

Everytime it becomes election season,crime begins to skyrocket.no thanks to Politicians.

This morning now I was watching News reviews on arise news where they said some hooligans burnt INEC office in Ogun state destroying over 600k PVCs and it's pretty obvious that Politico are behind it because they see people are waking up from their Political apathy and are committed to getting their PVCs and voting because if PVC is not important why did they set it ablaze? It's clear that it is not a domestic or electrical problem

Anybody selling Zobo now will bear the consequences.there will be a spike in reduction of Zobo sales because we don't know who is who

Even me wey like Zobo SEF I will rather buy other drinks.women and men are beginning to get desperately and unreasonably wicked abeg

Imagine a satanist telling you what you should know as a christian.shame on you.lazy fool

beerfraud:
why can't they handover them to the police for prosecution?

because even the police don't have integrity when it comes to money

You're a pedophile

Gubioma:
Dan Borno.....(Kanuri Boy)
Speak to urself maga



Shikenan nagode

Richy4:
I don't have time for a troll.. try another person that got your time Good day

E pain an

Alabosi oshi

Richy4:
I don't play race or gender cards..I am way too old for that.

lmaooo yinmu

After exposing your smelling hypocrisy and double standards

Desperation for Xmas doing don send them to their brutal death.i have no pity for criminals because they're merciless

Ireportlive:
This aunty no dey use man play... All these Nollywood actress be forming Miss Independent online while they are desperately seeking men ofline

nkechi rest.you too zuwanike

LesbianBoy:
Hushpuppi would go down in history o. The funny thing is, he is not the best at it or should I say he didn't scam the most money. There are guys that have made more than him in this scamming business and are still making yet dem never catch them.

But I think the way he flexed his stolen money was legendary.

he put too much attention on himself that's why the west saw him as a target

Gubioma:
Dan Borno.....(Kanuri Boy)
You most go back where u come from
Nyamiri Nnamdi Obihoe Ojukwu flat head biafulo blood sucker.




Shikenan Nagode

lmaooo

Onyeiberibe

Gubioma:
Dan Borno......(Kanuri Boy)
I don't want to hear ur dirty odour mouth Nyamiri Cownu Nna Obiosholo flat head.
The reason why we saint Nigerian reject Igbos is that,.If an Igbo become president of this country they most be a lot of drugs pushers, human trafficking, Terrorist, cultism.... Ect

Vote #City Boy Jagaban
Vote#Golden Boy Shettima



Shikenan Nagode

lol the distance between aboki and sense is like the distance between heaven and earth.so terrorist no full una slaughter slab where una dey kill yourselves for Allah/ Mohammed (destruction be upon him)

Yamiriflathead:
She has lost her only Son now because she doesn't want to lose davido to his other baby mamas that are in competition with her. The kids of the other babymamas she's competing with are still alive, her own child is dead because she sacrificed his life on the altars of pleasing Davido.
I thought women have MANIPULATIVE tendencies? She suddenly lost the ability to manipulate davido into letting her care for their SON, good for her

if she had said no she wants to stay back and care for her son and that gist manage to get to social media,you guys will tag her as proud and arrogant, not submissive, she's not supportive,who does she think she is.is she the only baby mama etc.

Are you guys not insatiable like this? Do you think if she said no to his offer to always be with him other baby mamas Will not jump at the offer? Let's give this babe some credit.i might not like her raunchy dress sense but she still carries ifeanyi around if she has to follow him and it's not like she can be with the child 24/7

Sirmuel1:
I’m the rightful heir to that throne, I don’t know what I’m still doing in Lagos

if na nigeria them throw egg on a traditional rulers car or a governors car them fit shoot am dead on the spot

Yamiriflathead:
Let her still follow davido everywhere as she doesn't have sense.
Women in polygamous settings should learn to remain low-key and stop exposing themselves and their kids to danger

ok so if Davido requested that chioma should follow her she should have said no? When she knows she's also in competition with other baby mamas.she knows Davido has plenty of options so she has to continually be in his good books so she can receive favours from him

Deborah200299:
Good morning everyone, I want to report my mum for abusing my 12 years old step sister both physical, verbal and emotional and I don't like it because she didn't ask to be born from a married man. My dad caused it and she should abuse him not her.

I don't even know why she is treating the dog who cheated on her nicely while the innocent girl is suffering for his mistakes. My younger brothers 13 and 15 are also copying her and they have started to abuse her too.

Tears has become her foods and I am tired of my mum abusing the innocent girl. Yesterday, she strangled her just because she didn't wash my younger brother white jeans properly and I lost respect for her. I have insulted her for the first time in my life even though she hit me but I don't care I have to save my sister. She is my birth mother but I will not support her. I don't care if she rots in jail because she doesn't deserve the title mum.

If you know any human rights in Uyo please let me know.

please contact this foundation ASAP.if that girl dies in your family.all of you will pay the pricey so it's better to contact Mirabel centre so they can rescue and rehabilitate the girl

Richy4:
The legal age of consent in Nigeria is 18....So it is believed that an 18yr old is capable of making an informed decision right?...

When she saw him for the first time, didn't it ever occur to her that they were not mates? or does any of her mates look like him?

Sometimes I just wish that adultery be considered a crime

because it's a woman that commited adultery it should become a crime.when men have been commiting adultery why didn't you propose that it should be a criminal offence?