₦airaland Forum

raumdeuter:
Of the trolls on this forum I think fstranger must be the biggest
He will just pick on anyone and start trolling the poster
Isalegan are you still in touch with him?

:. Whaaaaatttttttt?! Are you trying to reactivate my PTSD? .

See you around, bros. Thread has "evolved."
::waves::

elyte89:
Dis ppu sha one make bbnaija trend sha,even if miracle go pupu,dem go talk am


Am giving u guys till June 15 when world cup start ,everything go stop

They better stop by start of Ramadan. We can't wait till world cup.

Mehn! Nairaland is a vidalia onion. Too many layers.

Gboliwe:
I sent her a mail sometime early this year, she never replied. Very unlike her. She has even pulled down her Facebook account. Another sister I miss so much

So Odunnu was a real person? I thought she was someone's alter ego.

Lagbaja01:
Even if these people are seen in public, it would be very difficult to recognise them due to very poor graphics.

It's not the general public that will recognize them. It's people who already know them. They will get word to others that they're wanted for armed robbery and multiple murders.

Jarus:
You always gave me hard knock nah. You know I be gentleman.

Sorry about that.

Dyt:
Chai
You want them to go do juju for me?

Its Idayat BTW

The "tu" makes it totally Yoruba. Own it nau.

oyb:
Who can forget my main man suraj range rover scandal. That babe chop his money no be small

No way Jarus was involved in any scandal. That must have been before my time sha. There are oldies, and there are Oldy Oldies.

In all seriousness, Jarus is living the dream. More grease to your elbow, my aboki aburo. . Best to your family. You made it all happen, bro. Send me my Ramadan refreshments or something!

Jarus:
This thread is a Nairaland oldies reunion o.

Seeing comments from those I didn't even know still remember theit Nairaland passwords

[b]Isalegan (my nemesis/b] ), dayo, oyb, blank, gboliwe, idayatu, r231et al I hail o

Whaaatttt?? Abdul-Surajudeen my ol' pal from Muslim section!

When did we become nemesitized?!

I be Isale-Gangan native o. You this Kwara boy!

P.S. True true I didn't remember my nairaland password. I think I had to change my email at one time just to get back in.

Dyt:
He's definitely enjoying his married life
Maybe
Who knows

I dunno. I liked the guy even though his posting style was angry belligerent guy. He was smart.

Too bad the love affair didn't work out for the girl. Thanks for clearing that up.

Good luck to them.

Gotta jet now!

Dyt:
He wasn't sorry
He was even flexing muscles
And anyone against him
He was threatening and digging out stories

Oh?

Dyt:
He's definitely enjoying his married life
Maybe
Who knows

Atoned is what I wrote o! Thank God I caught it.

Dyt:
Inked nerd stopped coming a long time before then lol

Well
She said he was into fraud
He loaned money from her and didn't return
She got caught up inbtwn the debts and all

CC fraud thingy

Not inkednerd
Some self proclaimed feminist
Shrugs

O ga o! Well, he shouldn't have done that if he wasn't going to marry her. Yes I am that old school!
Hope she's doing well. And he's atoned for that.

P.S.
Doggone android text autocorrect: ATONED not stoned!

Dyt:
It was about the money lol

He deflowered her
Girl was hurt

He's married to one of those on that thread
Moved to the states

Gettheheckouttahere!

So did the scamming accusations start when he took up with the new girl? Was it inked nerd he married? Just remembered one of the names.

Gboliwe:
My friend OAM4J is still standing, Jarus too is standing. I respect these ones.

Coogar broke my heart with that his scandal. I felt really wounded

Oam4j is a good guy. I believe he is scandal free o. But I don't know what he's been up to lately. Someone will probably tell us how he's been laundering opec money in 4 continents.

As for Cooger, or is it Cougar? I didn't like how he was run out of NL. I read the scammer threads, maybe not all. All I got was a "he-said she-said" situation where he and a girl fell in love and when it cooled, the girl in the relationship did not want to break up, going so far as to pledge a willingness to abort any of their fetus that carried a inherited disease. Who wouldn't run? Wonlasewonimi and others who know more may choose to differ sha. I read many posts and looked for something to hang Cougar on but didn't see a way to indict or convict him. But I will stand corrected as I may have missed the nuggets. I'm not trying to re-litigate that issue.

kullozone:
Someone cannor keep money in his apartment again?

See blocks mehn! Damnn... I love money

Someone has 8.5 million greenbacks and they couldn't afford a home safe? . They stuff paper money in a cupboard? What if there'd been a fire? I'm sure there's standard safes for $850. That's like a fraction of one percent of his 8.5 mil. Now he's in deep doodoo and will probably lose it all. Not to talk of possible jail time if the investigation pushes all angles. . ..

DonPiiko:
I haven't checked instagram all day, The woman was just a gold digger, to think that I promised myself I was going to have multiple wives. One woman is now enough for me.

Scared straight into monogamy.

jaxxy:
Imagine she threatened u and called to notify everyone possible then still slept with her in same room and same bed I don't understand this really.

Who know maybe she drugged him. The blood test or autopsy would show that.

Gasa84:
Thanks all for ur concern, though I know d solution.... I still want someone else to say it.
Someone asked for the full details.
When I found his drinking, beating and insults.. I told my aunt who told me to get close to his family that they might talk to him... I tried but he forbid it... So since d elder brother and the wife are living in same state with us I resulted confide in the wife... I told her my frustration , everything he does to me and to himself, but I remember she never suggested anyway to sort things out... She only calls to ask if we re still quarrelling... Then when he got sick d first time she called me and said I should marry him right away that it's obvious he can never be fit and he needs help, I told her that his sickness doesn't cover d fact that we still have issues.... When I got a job as a customer care representative she was d one that told my man that my job is like professional prostitution which made him threaten me to resign. She was on a way the person Who made me resign from my job to take care of him when he was sick. At a point I started feeling that she n d husband always listen when she calls me... So I stopped confiding in her.
That's when I started experiencing the hatred... The husband kept telling everyone that I said nasty thing abt his brother, that I don't allow him spend his money that he opened a shop for me and bought a land with my name... These are in no ways true... They say am way too exposed for him and that I used charm on him.. This also was false.
When he was sick they call me and thank me and beg me to look after him.... When he got better they rejected me.. When he was sick again they saw me with him at the hospital and left only checking on him via phone till he went for the surgery. I stay in his house more than I stay in mine and they know..
The sister begged me to always be with him, but when I traveled with him to the village (barely 2months after his surgery) this same sister asked me to go that it's slotty of me to travel with a man that haven't payed my bride price. The one thing they now say I did was not sleeping over at the hospital when he had surgery... and that was because I was afraid to since it was barely 3weeks after d brother pushed me out of his house.
I know the easy answer. .. But pls house is there something else am not seeing, is this guy going to be safe if I leave? They never talk abt him getting married.... They just want him to send me away...
I keep feeling it's deeper than am seeing that really y am confused... Since I met him he s been better neater, wiser and more refined, I affected him positively, I am 32, I work, I paint, I sing and I read E/E
Please house what's there to hate abt me. I ve never had any encounter with them most of them don't even know my lifestyle... What am I missing in this puzzle?

I'm very sorry they took advantage of you.

They wanted you to care for him in the hospital, but when you travelled with him they complained you were too familiar with him because you weren't yet married.

They wanted you to be productive and money generation but they thought a customer service job was like prostitution? Was it at a hotel?

It's like the popular old song, "Eniyan bi aparo l'omo araiye n fe o." If you do, you wrong, if you don't, you're still wrong. Can't please them. That's why some just please themselves.

I'm really sorry for your trouble. I don't even know what so say now about the way forward. Just know that many have been similarly victimised by others in this world - it may take many forms - and they overcome. Don't lose hope in yourself. You'll be surprised there'll be better days for you yet.

dominique:
31 years is too old to be a single lady in Nigeria. Such lady starts feeling the pressure to settle down and ends up settling for just anybody all in the name of being a Mrs.

You are right. And I do understand that. And it's not just Nigeria, but worldwide. The pressure to marry in your 20s is even more severe than in Nigeria where at least it takes a long time to be gainfully employed enough to be able to afford your own home. In many countries where you're finished with university by 25 and a job is waiting for you, you're expected to have found your mate before you graduate. That's why many middle and upper class Oyinbos are very particular where their children go to school because they want them to meet the right kind of man. For example, Jewish American people who have a high inter-religious marriage stastic push their daughters to go to schools like Columbia in New York which has a historically higher number of Jewish enrollment. And the ones that go to schools with few Jews are pushed to join Jewish students club and any fraternity and organisations where they will meet others like them. Just giving one example to emphasise that the pressure is not just one tribe or just African people syndrome.

But ultimately being single at 32 or older won't kill the OP. If she gets away from this situation she'll have learnt a huge lesson that will help her to make a better choice.

But yeah, a 15 or 20 year old girl doesn't have dreams of being single when she's 31.

kramfonos:
Shameless, pain jilted side chick!

You knew he was still married yet you started a relationship with him, flaunted it, hoping you'd ride off into the sunset and live forever happily ever with your married lover.

You are pained he 'drove' your 'Mercedes 190' beyond speed limit, wrecked 'your' engine, and dumped you for a 'Ferrari', right? You thought yourself the best 'car' amongst his fleet of 'cars', no?

You had the nerve to contact and 'befriend' a woman whose home you played your part in wrecking! You had the nerve to call up a woman who you and your ilk still make shed tears.

You served your purpose; you were just a tumble in the hay. Know your place, over-driven, discarded Mercedes!

Why's he rewarding these actors?

Is it his family's land that he can just gift it away like that?

Is this fake news?

IAmMercedes:
We were on the phone once and I heard his first daughter say "dad, Sachi got stung by a bee". Know what Almighty Siena said? "Can't you see I'm on the phone? What do you want me to do about it?" I snapped at him to get off the phone, attend to her, then call me back.

This guy is unbelievable! I've have seen a 7-year old after he got stung by a bee. Ter-ri-ble.

Really callous individual.

LivingFree:
Sister, ex side chick... you have done your part and I think you should slip away quietly

This isn't your moment to shine

I'm glad she shed some light sha. How would we know how bad he is? People will always shock you.

oyb:
I think this thread proves conclusively that yorubas have nothing on delta boys where demon business is concerned. Based on the logistics

( Delta, ehn? Just curious about the culture. I'm a culturologist )

His own is not funny o jare. Fukking up a car so the driver would lose control; slamming door on someone's leg that ended up amputated; ignoring a bee-stung child; manipulating and abusing your children's mother; proposing to all and sundry; etc etc etc.


Even if the OP is the wife, it matters not. It's the facts that matter. He's got his advocates on here too.

The thread will get the kill switch eventually.

jacyhelen:
you are from IMO STATE,there is no need!!!..He will never marry u....people despise IMO wella.

Why?

Afam4eva is from Enugu. He should come and tell us o. Where will your bride come from?

CsRockefeller:
What did we Imo people do to you?

Berem is also from Imo. Yeah, what's the whole Anambra/Imo/Enugu stuff?

I doubt it's that serous sha. A cousin told me her hypocritical father from Abeokuta berated her for bringing a guy from Ondo to marry, even though they lived in Ondo and the mother wasn't from the same place as the dad Now they're happily married, with four kids. It's just a few people who will forbid it outright.

I sometimes thought it would be nice to marry only Yoruba from Lagos like me, so all the extended family would be nearby so the kids can go to greet and hang out all the time at each others homes. Lol. But it's not really that important in the long run.


The OP should run, not walk, away! Bad irredeemable situation.

ToyinDipo:
Lool, there can be overtaking

Yoruba demon!

dominique:
Correct. I know of a lady that walked away from a toxic relationship at age 31 despite people around her discouraging her because of her age. She went on to meet a cool-headed guy who proposed to her and married her in less than a year. They have two kids now. It's so sad to see ladies desperately holding on to unhealthy relationships because age is not on their side.

31 is actually not old. But you don't know that when you're 29. Most of us walk through life very limited in knowledge and insight. (Guilty.) There is no way to change it. You can't teach life! It can only be lived.

It's hard to stab yourself to death. Murder suicide usually involves more than a knife. It happens a lot in USA.

fourhayz:
Nigerians full of Bad attitude and irresponsible acts...Blames everything on Devil.

If is not that the devil is so foolish and delusional,How can loads of lies be lodge against you without retaliation.

A wise man do say when you blame things on Devil then you are also a Devil.

The MoFo is not Nigerian.

But most of those fakers are same regardless of country sha. I can remember at least 5 female American gospel singers and ministers in the last decade who admitted to committing adultery.

KehnnyCares:
Imagine this one. I don't really understand how FFK play his own politics at all.

Is he now supporting the man he once called slowpoke for decamping to APC?

"The enemy of my enemy is my friend" = FFK politics 101.

Education award ke?

Abagworo will hear this!

LivingFree:
Don't try too hard

#K.I.S.S

naijagypsy:
Even the emails he sent to social saying he was going to work in Uganda... All the lies...

What kind of Naija name is Gbudge? No offense. Sure he's not Ugandan sef.

LivingFree:
Paranoid, much... I have no stories to tell so don't worry about me

Ok then. Didn't care for the pejorative. It's cool.

Deleted.

Be blessed, sister/brother. Amin!

Dyt:
Lol
The previous women heard same from him

Superstar!

Ehn ehn! I see. Itumo iyen ni wi'pe she is the latest of the iyawos.