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Trust Nigerians, nobody dey interested again in their kidnapping.
After realizing that there was no outburst, they felt disappointed and decided to discard the liabilities

fubbyy: only 3 likes after all this energy you spent cooking up this none sense, that shows you this is a crap and am sure this my post will generate likes more than this kindergarten note book

Bad belle.

Don't worry, you will be mentioned next time

Thank God dem no extend the conference again, e for reach 2,000 pages.
Let me skim through it.
I will only go through it in depth when the NA is on it

They were all suspects and moving to a test centre.
Sitting arrangements were coordinated to minimize body contact.

And you are blaming Nigerian government. Do you understand anything about governance?
What is your local government chairman doing in his council in regards to Ebola

If you have two encounters with snakes and you didn't kill or help to kill one, then you must be a big coward.
How are you going to protect your girl or family if snakes and cockcroaches scares you

Obiagelli: fighting corruption his punishing corrupt individuals, even if we need special courts for it.

Punishing corrupt individuals is cosmetic, the root cause must be dealt with. If not you won't even have anybody to punish the guilty

Danhumprey: Una do anything for night as una dey together?

Me: No, we just pray and sleep, rabbish

egift: -

For me I still scare the conference less than 50% because Corruption was not tackled.

Once true federalism is established , corruption will decline on its own.
Corruption only strive in Nigeria because we feel it is our turn to chop the oil money.
When states reduce dependence on the center, they will be more accountable for their finances.
Fighting corruption is bigger than making laws to arrest corrupt officials

ledafaze: Another surest method is to practice Karezza. Using that, you will know the untimate goal is not to arrive but will still enjoy your lovemaking and even last longer .

Which one come be Karezza, una don come again.
I just googled that up, that thing na suffer abeg

Tor has been very useful for me for a long time.

Gwazah: Abstinence is the key.

Abstinence in marriage? Are you this silly or you just rush to comment without reading.

Withdrawal should be used only if you have mastered the Control of your pelvic muscle, could be natural or through exercises.
If you are through with child bearing, you can take the pills and damn the consequences. If not, use a condom

Basket mouth don come again e o o o o

neyur: Please if you gonna correct me, do it simple..na beg i dey beg una...nairaland english students.

At least you suppose also help us nah.
@your heading, I would prefer 'tells' to 'told' and 'he is' is different from 'his', short form of 'he is' is 'he's'
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No course is inferior if you have the passion for it, but for you, Agriculture is not even a passion and that is a problem.
A Music graduate can achieve more than a doctor if only music is his passion

And the bad guys lives on
What a world

Agybabe: Well, I stay alone and I have a job. I pay my bills (a better part of it).

Yes, there's freedom. But messing up or keeping yourself depends on the home training you were given and the people you conform/mix-up with and also your drive in life.

That's why even the bible said, a child should be trained in the way he should go and when he is old, he won't depart from it.

Even at my free estate, there are things I can never do because of the way I was brought up especially under my mum's tutelage.

In my case, I'm the first child of my parents (they stay in Ondo state) and I live in Calabar. I've got younger ones and even my whole family is looking up to me. I dare not fail them else I'll break their hearts especially my mama's heart for she has gone to lengths to see me through to where I am today.

So whatever I do out here, I carry them at the fore of my mind and I'm like "lay good examples young lady and don't dash the hopes they have in you".

@op I don't see a bad thing in it. You just need to know what you're doing.

Afterall, we are adults!

In case you didn't know
That's Ma Lady speaking
Lovely

LoveDecay: Many guys make this same mistake every time.

Ignore the good girl cos she's good and start searching for modern girl (bad n experienced).

Who tell u sey 18 name young girl. When 15 yr don grow nya.sh and tittiez like Kim kardashian , and dey memorize Kamasutra.

No girl ever regrets marrying or dating a man if she is well cared for. At this age, u can start by the time she's 19 - 20 , you can pay the bride price.

I assure 97% of the girls u have not met are not better than this one.

The overage singles wey full nairaland go soon pounce on you spitting fire saying you are going after a child instead of to come to dem.
[s]FYI, any girl, 1 to 5 yrs younger than me is overage[/s]

You are not saying anything

The mother
No upbringing is more precious than under a responsible mother.
Even if the father is as brilliant as ITbomb, if the wife is a dunce, the children will be dunces

Agybabe take note

For me, unless you have a regular job, it is not good

akpur1: What ur mum did is the best. U get married to girl who would be respectful because of age gap 2. After child birth she would not be as old 3. Dont miss this chance because you may marry a virgin. Sorry abi na girls wen after child birth then they look like your mother then look for girls ur senior with seven years below. Marry her and love her age gap is nothing.

Brother

Tallesty1: how do you reply the guys when they try to chat with you? Some gals do not know how to keep a conversation lively, both online and offline. how do you reply someone who asked you "how are you" with "kk" and expect him to talk to you again?

Hmm incisive
I use to think all girls are kk girls until I met one Gemini on nairaland

babygirlfl: @ bolded, this is very true. Most mature Nigerian married men are too busy to come online to answer such questions. Thanks Aisha2 for the bolded.

Someone is getting scared, thanks Aisha for the consolidation.
@bukatyne, you are getting me wrong, I'm not that restrictive or narrow-minded, we have our dreams but we also have our wide ranges of tolerance

Godmystrength: Very good.

chemistry teacher in the making abi?

[s]chemistry lecturer in the making according to bukatyne [/s]

Godmystrength: It is a good thing to look for a partner that already fits into your plans than look for a partner that you will have to make to fit into your plans

That has already been taken into consideration.

[s] she is reading Chem Edu [/s]

Godmystrength: It will be so unfair marrying someone with passion for tailoring and then forcing her to be a hair stylist after she gets married to you because that is what you want.
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Duly noted.

I still believe it was wiser to make my expectations known before someone says (in marriage) that I'm forcing her to do what she didn't want to do

bukatyne: So she should become a teacher with B.Eng Chem Eng when she doesn't want to because she wants to become a Mrs. ITbomb?

That babe's heads is screwed on her shoulders. She knows what she wants and where she's going to.

If you want to marry a teacher, go to primary & secondary schools to look for a single teacher.

Teaching is in general terms, she could be a lecturer for chrissake.
But what I really mean is that she should have a job that is from 8am to latest 4pm or good shift .
For that particular girl, I even arrange for a job in a food packaging company but she wanted oil company

Moderation is the key word
Your wife must work but not working herself out.
There should be a good job near home and closes in good time.

Remember she should be working for passion not killing herself for money.

A working mother builds the best home - ITbomb, 1998

Pls Mod don't take this to front page or I don die.

Disclaimer : Any quote without this disclaimer does not represent my opinion

Tell your friend to cut all communication with her and get himself another female even if not necessarily a gf. This will make her yearn for him.

She ask why the change of behaviour, tell her that you have feelings but since she doesn't reciprocate it, you have to find someone who will appreciate it.
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After a month or two, you call her and ask her out, if she agrees, you are in, if not move on