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Who said that there are more virgin guys than girls. I don't believe so, because for guys you can't easily know if he's a virgin or not

Guys are naturally polygamous, most find it difficult to hold it till marriage cos they are moved by sight

But a lady can make up her mind to remain a virgin till marriage but the guys

xteve:
Beauty woman, is another man's slave.

bayoolu:
Interesting question, but I will tend to say that its the girls that are to blame, here is a story i think many guys have experienced

A young guy with some little cash meets a fine babe, eventually they fall in love, the guy shows her all the love in the world. pls note that the girl is also on love with the guy.
This couple remains together until one guy who is equally handsome and with MORE CASH appears on the scene. Eventually she succumbs to the new guy after he has taken to places where in her wildest dreams she could never enter, and buys her expensive stuff which her own boyfriend could not afford, after some time she dumps the current boyfriend and follows the new guy, At this juncture the dumped boyfriend has 2 options

A. Look at it as a lesson, ask GOD to forgive her and for GOD's grace to move on.

B. Vow that he will never give his heart to any girl , and to also make sure he breaks as many girl's hearts as possible.

many guys pick option B

From your story above it's the girls fault but there are also cases where after dating a girl for more than 2years the guy just calls it quits without any reason

Don't put the blame on ladies alone, cos guys to have their own share of the blame

deniyor:
ITGurlie
I will just say face your current relationship and ignore the other guy. You already said you don't see him the way he sees you or a long term relationship with him. In life we always wonder what could hv been. What makes you think if you date the second guy, one yr into the relationship he will still treat you right. Now he is still trying to get you and convince you. That's when we men are at our best.

You can just do like an average guy. Except it is totally bad, why bother moving on to another woman when you know you will hv to go thru the same excreta all over with the next one.

Work out whatever issues you have with your current guy. If you move on to the next 'mr right' and you have issues again ( esp with your compatibility issues) wetin go happen?

This is exactly what I've decided to do, and I just got to know better. The issue is that the second guy has refused to let me be even when I told him I was in love with someone and don't see my future with another. I've decided to ignore him and focus on my love

Thanx

"Had I known" always comes when it's too late,

He broke up with her and now she has honey he wants to come and eat out of it, nah it doesn't work that way. Let him face his wedding plans and let the girl move on, kabish

@ poster let them talk they'll will get tired

The problem is most of the time we listen to what people say about us, it's not easy to keep a deaf ear but one thing I know is that "there's time for everything"

If you want to please everyone (Parents, friends, etc) you could make a wrong choice and end up displeasing yourself

When the time comes, it will work out cos that's a lesson I've learnt

Enjoy your singleness and ignore him, maybe he doesn't know what he wants yet

It's so sad but he has to let you go cos you're too good to be with such a person.

He's the possessive type that easily get jealous, it's who he is and you're better off without him

cold:
This issue has been discussed at length here on several occasions.It's the same as a guy beating up his g/frnd,it is wrong on so many levels but then again there are occassions when a guy/man is justified in his actions.

Pls note,i am not advocating violence,far be it from me,i just tend to look at the bigger picture most times.

Why would a man ever lay his hand on a woman, I don't support disrespect but no matter what a real man will never beat his woman

It all depends,God has different plans for everyone and he alone can see the end of a thing from it's beginning.

I was just concerned cos it was sorta' fast

stephnina0:
Matters of the heart are really complicated. i dated this guy and i think i loved him more than he loved me and that wasn't healthy for me so i had to take a bow before story go change. There was this other guy that has been asking me out even when i was in a relationship with my x so i decided to date him not out of love but i guess i was lonely and needed someone. this guy loved me and he showed it in every way and i tried so hard to feel same but it wasn't just there. I felt bad about every thing so i had to let him go and seriously i wish him the best of love cos he deserves it from the right lady which wasn't me. i'm single now and taking my time. Tho been single can be lonely most times, it allows you define yourself and what you really want out of life

It's only when one enjoys singleness and loves oneself can one be able to love another. It's really complicated, but I believe with patience and sincerity one will find the imperfect person to love perfectly.Cheers

teenluv:
Plz, just take your time to know what who want for yourself, do not start what u can not finish, I strongly believe there is a perfect partner for everyone on earth, it only depends on how u go about it. Relationship is the time for u to talk about issues and individual differences. Follow your heart and don't let anyone waste your time and be sincere to yourself when choosing the right partner. LOVE ANSWERETH ALL THINGS, always put that at the back of your mind.

For me , I want to love and be loved in return, with the right person with so much sincerity and faithfulness. When u are in love, you will discover so much peace in your heart  cos love is a good thing to experience.

Love sure answereth all things, mine has been answered by His grace,

@ lallafati thanx a lot,

@ blankees I'm still shocked before then he had talked about getting married before the end of the year but he hadn't found the right person. I told him it's important to know your partner before marriage cos marriage is a commitment to love only one person till death do you part.

So I get this call and I was like but he seemed happy and excited, I just pray he has actually found his missing rib or there would be big trouble in paradise. It's just too fast for me

stillwater:
You realize they all act this way when they when they are trying to woo you.

really, but the wooing is over

Odetayoz:
Not ideal but in some circumstances

If it involves life or death

I pray so, I didn't even ask him if he prayed about it or he just jumped in because of age. cos desperation can block our views and cause us to lose focus

I hope it works out,

Ralvy:
Idiot!

Achiles:
if be idiot wetin u be?
incorigible slowpoke?
U dull!

no cursing guys

A friend of mine just called me and told me that he would be getting married before the end of this month and I was like

You see he just met this girl about 2months ago and already popped the question, she agreed and voila they're getting married. I told him congrats but deep down I was wondering how well they know each other

I agree you can't completely know someone even in a lifetime, but isn't it important to at least court for about 6months before saying I do

I was just wondering

what will be will be, cheer up

Whether for a married or single woman ABORTION is not ideal. From the day of conception that seed has become life so anyone who aborts is destroying a life, destiny and a generation,

Either you abstain or you use contraceptives,

Love O love so divine, passionate only can be felt by those who truly love and believe in it

I pray we grow old together, cos you're all I ever want

My dear before you commit, ask yourself this "DO YOU REALLY LOVE HIM?" if yes, then why not

I don't mind, i can do it,

My dear you're very normal, guys just believe that's their right but it isn't. The truth is why would you check my phone, some people who play away games just want to be sure their girl isn't doing the same

Love

Lust

Obsession

or Destiny

Just search your heart, was the relationship defined initially?

May the good Lord direct you to do the right thing

*giggling, *

It's really funny LMHO, 

It actually depends cos a lot things can cause a break up.

It could be unfaithfulness, lack of trust, dishonesty, etc,

Damysa:
What's all this talk about 'scared of committment' I wonder what's wrong with guys/girls of these days,
I dont see a matured minded guy being sacred of committment if you havent given him a reason to, only a lilly-livered man will be afraid to take up challenges and stand up for what he beleive in. Ladies these days do not listen to their hearts even when there are clear signals of trouble, be wise

ITgurlie and Lebee you girls need re-evaluate your relationship with these guys cos I smell a rat. To me only a man who is not sure about his girl will be scared to be committed totally.

Okay,

When I say love doesn't have a price tag, I mean all the negative thots guys and ladies tag it.

To love is to give and to give is sacrifice
People just believe they should always be on the receiving end that's why I said no price tag cos love is invaluable. It's a two way thing, I give you receive and you give I receive, nobody is supposed to be the giver alone and the other the receiver.

When a guy says "I love you" to a lady, the lady thinks he wants to get into her skirt

When a lady says "I love you" to a guy, the guy thinks she wants to get into his pockets

Why do people believe that there's a price tag attached to love cos one thing I know is that LOVE DON'T COST A THING

So if you truly love someone and mean it hold his/her hands and look into his/her eyes and say it from the bottom of your heart cos true love is rare and has no price tags on it, Cheers