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Please how did you know your husband was the "one" did you have a tingy feeling in your heart or did you pray and God told you he's "the one"
I would love to know as well as the main qualities one should look out for before saying "I do"

@ poster I must say that I'm very disappointed in the girl It's hard to find guys who will stay without s*x for as long as you did (if you're honest anyway) Now she's pregnant and she waits for that long to tell you

You know what I think, maybe the guy she did it with denied it and she wants to pin it on you
But since you've had unprotected s*x wiv her, it could be yours too

I pray when the baby is born it's not yours cos you don't deserve her and if it's yours then you have to look for a way to work things out

It's well wiv you

patani:
In short! every thing about girls na lie, From their hair(Fixed hair), their nails, their eye lashes, their bosoms(Paded with foam bra), their yarsh(Tightly squized in tight trousers for us to believe its bigder), thier smile(A girl can smile soo good for you to spend any amount on her. however she can be the worse devil uve ever seen), thier skin etc, infact I the list goes on, [/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]

Na you know which is a lie and which is true, aproko

Ebonyeyes:
-Im not Married
-You are the "take home to mama kinda girl"
-I love you
-It wouldnt make a difference if I sleep with you because you are definitely the one
-Your the best I ever had
-No you are definitely not fat
-Iv got money in the bank
-Im a christian

infact 95% of what comes out of their mouth are lies sometimes when they say good afternoon you check your watch to be sure it's the right time of the day

@ poster you're really really confused, you don't have any reason to be a He-Goat

You need deliverance

chiozor:
can someone clearly read male and female response in this
@poster
just calm down and watch closely, you will definitely catch her if she is cheating. to the female whining it is her sis wedding, what if the man in similar case feel buzy without paying attention to you i hope it will be well with you.

@poster, from experience, what you said is one of the minor features of a cheating lady.

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and what did he say that is the minor features of a cheating lady
It's her sister's wedding and I'm sure she was part of the bridal train or aso ebi, she didn't completely ignore him she was just doing her duties

It's not enough reason to suspect she's cheating on him unless he has his own skeleton in the cupboard and feels the girl is doing the same
That's the way guys act when they're the one's cheating, INSECURE

70x7 times my girl, you too need forgiveness at times

@ poster age is but a number, but love conquers all

So if you both love each other and you're sure she's the one, then go ahead

peace jona:
girl why are you trying to console your self, and since you said you know what to do and you are ok why did you open the tread, hmm some people sometimes hmm always looking for what to say and what people will say, why don't you go about jumping from one guy to another to fined the one that loves you, am sure is still your attitude towards him that made him to feel reluctant about the relationship, hmm be careful.

What's your own now, I didn't open the tread today, It was opened when I didn't know what to do but now I've read people's opinion and it has helped me in a way
I'm not jumping from one guy to the other I only have one guy and the other guy was coming after me not the other way round

Moreover, I don't have any attitude in my relationship that made my guy feel the way he did, it was a misunderstanding on my part and it has been resolved So I'm cool now

@ poster even in your home with your siblings sometimes you tend to argue nothing wrong in that.

In relationships disagreements can occur cos both of you are not perfect You both have differences so you have disagreements and then you still end up somewhere whether in favor of one partner or you meet in between

Faher:
Tell her to elope
It's time for africans to dump this silly mentality of obeying parents when they're wrong and will probably be dead half way through the marriage anyway.

If she doesn't see her parents, will she die?
At least her real love is enough for her.

But you know it's important to receive blessings from your parents You can never do without them, no matter what, they're still your parents

So I've told her to call her guy and together they talk to her parents and let them know how serious and committed they are in their relationship

As for the other guy, he can wait all he can or go look for someone else, kabish

Before a man can add another person to his life (till death do them part) he has to be emotionally, financially, physically, spiritually ready

Or it could be that he's not sure if she's the one for him

Let them sort things out themselves cos they both know better

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@ poster "When someone hurt you, they take power from you and if you don't forgive them, it hunts you for life. But when you forgive them, it gets away like the wind

So you've moved on, let the guy be and don't do anything to jeopardize your marriage.

Onchedu:
Neat.

Thanx

what is riches physical evidence of your wealth and wealth is the abundance of anything

it's important he has a good means of income and has a positive vision in life

He doesn't need to own the whole world as long as he's comfortable and can afford the basic needs in life I'm cool

@ poster

are you trying to brag that you're a player
when your were looking for holes to put your rod in you never knew the consequences
you're a confused person who doesn't have a vision for his life Mccccccccccccccchew!

You got yourself into this mess so get yourself out you don't need naira landers' advice,kabish!

A patient dog eats the fattest bone so guy just wait for your time it will happen without stress when the time is right

VHorizon:
i just found out that all women are the same no matter how they come in different shapes and classes, who believes that,
if u don't, tell me which gal is impossible to attract and i will tell u how to do it

Mr Know all, it will shock you to know that women are not the way you think, ever gotten into their minds
You'll only get yourself more confused

@ poster because you are a virgin at this age doesn't give you the right to say that women who express their love in the way they want are cheap

Congrats on your virginity, we give you NL award for that

Remember the choice is ours to make, cos virginity is not written on the face and it's not a determinant of a successful marriage